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Steven P. Shaw, age 49, of Boston, formerly of Quincy, died Sept. 18, 2012. He was the loving son of the late William G. and Lillian J. (Lemieux) Shaw. Raised in Quincy, he graduated from Maynard High School in 1981, and attended the former North Adams State College. Steven was a selfless volunteer, giving freely of his time to HIV assistance programs, as well as helping to provide end-of-life care and support for friends and family. Steven worked as a counselor with the Boston Living Center, a non-profit community center helping HIV positive people and more recently, had worked with Boston Medical Center. His dedicated work was recognized by the Honorable Thomas M. Menino, Mayor of Boston, who appointed him to The Mayors Council on HIV Treatment. He was the loving brother of William W. Shaw and his wife Karleen of Grafton, Cheryl S. Brown and her husband Jeff of Ayer, Lisa J. Arnold and her husband Chris of Blue Point, NY. Cherished uncle of Elisabeth, Benjamin and Harrison Shaw, of Grafton, and Tyler and Jacob Brown of Ayer. He is also survived by extended family and many dear friends and colleagues. Memorial visiting hours will be held next Saturday, Oct. 27, 2012 from 3 | 6 p.m. at the Hamel, Wickens & Troupe Funeral Home, 26 Adams St., Quincy Center. Interment and service are private. Instead of sending flowers, the family has asked that contributions in Stevens memory be made to the Boston Living Center, 29 Stanhope St., Boston, MA 02116

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Published by The Patriot Ledger on Oct. 24, 2012.

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David Colombo

October 14, 2020

So hard to think 8 years flew by, without being able to talk to my best friend

Paula Millar

October 14, 2019

Remembering "Stevie" our childhood friend. We went to church, we camped, laughed, sang, and danced together. We rooler skated and performed "shows" in the basement for dear "Lil & Bill" Cheryl, "those were the days my friend, I thought they'd never end" - I hope your special memories have brought you peace. I think of you, Billy & Lisa and hold you all dear to my heart.

Dave Colombo

July 8, 2013

Steve was a fantastic person! I grew up with him since 8th grade. I remember his patriot Cheerleader days as well as getting in "trouble" during our college years. I spent the weekend before his death with him at the Rocks at Annisquam, swimming and having fun. He will live in my heart forever! Etienne N'est Pas! ...David

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March 30, 2013

R i p

November 1, 2012

Cheryl, Bill, Lisa and families - Steven left a huge impact on countless people - he touched, delighted, and supported others on a daily basis. I miss him and will keep him in my heart always. I was unable to attend your service but was there in spirit.
Betsy Kunkel

Paula (Christie) Millar

October 24, 2012

Cheryl, Billy, and Lisa...I was shocked to discover your loss. My heart goes out to you. You are all in the Christie family's thoughts and prayers. We have so many untouchable memories of camping, youth group and variety shows. I also have fond memories of sleepovers @ Babcock St performing downstairs for "Lil & Bill" singing "The Lion Sleeps Tonight". They got a great kick out of our high pitched singing, followed by roll-on-the-floor belly laughing. I will always remember "Stevie's" vibrant personality. May good friends and family help you through this difficult time. God bless all...

Judy Coletta

October 24, 2012

Cheryl, I am so sorry to hear about Steven. He was a sweet person. I have fond memories of us all as children. Love you.

Kevin Brady

October 21, 2012

Steve was a great guy. I will greatly miss seeing him at the BLC. We had great talks and he helped pick myself up when I was down. Will miss our coffee chats in the Boston Public library coffee shop.

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