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1932

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2024

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Holy Cross Funeral and Cemetery Services

7200 N Wall Street

Spokane, Washington

Barbara COSTELLO Obituary

Barbara Lois Costello, 91, passed away peacefully in her home on December 23, 2023. She was born in Spokane to Albert and Blanche Deno on April 17, 1932. She was raised with eight of her siblings and valued their relationships throughout her life. She met her husband, Daniel R. Costello, at a square dance and married in 1949. They raised four children in a country home built by Dan. Barbara was a true homemaker, putting her family first. As a skilled seamstress, she outfitted her children and later sewed quilts for all her family members. Barbara let nothing go to waste and was known for her generosity. No one walked away from her home without garden vegetables or home-baked goods. Everyone who met Barbara became a friend and she loved hearing their stories. Barbara was an original member of the Catholic Church, Assumption of the BVM. She supported this beloved community for 66 years as a volunteer through both diocesan and parish organizations and supported the parish school. She was warm and inviting to all extended family members and kept in touch with them.

Barbara was preceded in death by her loving husband of 66 years and seven siblings. She is survived by her two sisters, Nancy Sherick and Rose Marie Roche; sons, Tom Costello (Bonni) and Gene Costello; daughters, Rita Henning (Terry) and Linda Petrie (Harold); 11 grandchildren; 16 great-grandchildren and 10 great-great-grandchildren; as well as numerous in-laws, nieces, and nephews.

A Rosary will be held at 7:00 PM, on Thursday, January 4, at Assumption of the BVM (3624 W. Indian Trail Rd). The funeral Mass will be at Assumption of the BVM on Friday, January 5, at 11:00 AM. Immediately followed by a reception in the parish hall. The burial will be at Holy Cross Cemetery (7200 N. Wall) at 2:00 PM. Donations can be sent to Assumption of the BVM.

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Published by Spokesman-Review on Jan. 3, 2024.

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Archie Brown

December 28, 2024

I miss talking to Barbara on the phone, as I live in Eugene, OR. My wife, Marion Cole, and Dan grew up together. Barb and I talked gardening, family, etc. Her positive conversations are indeed missed. I am sure her extended family misses her; however all have a great deal of memories to recall.

Bob Mitchell

January 5, 2024

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Archie B. Brown

January 4, 2024

A wonderful lady, always will be remembered. My deepest sympathy to the Costello Family.

Archie B. Brown-Eugene, Oregon

Vicki Costello

January 3, 2024

Barbara was a wonderful lady. She will be missed, not only for her kindness but also her wit.

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3624 W. Indian Trail Rd, WA

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Burial

2:00 p.m.

Holy Cross Cemetery

7200 N. Wall, WA

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