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David Rapelje Obituary


RAPELJE,
David Gerald
(Age 62)

Born February 28, 1948 in Toppenish, WA. After a very short and brave battle with lung cancer, Dave went peacefully to be with his Lord and Savior. Dave is survived by his wife of 40 ½ years, Lyla; parents, Duane and Edna Rapelje; two children, Adam and wife Amy, daughter, Diana and husband Nathan Beach; grandchildren, Ella, Rosie, Hallie, Hazel, and Westin; brothers, Don and wife Susie, Pete and wife Michele, nieces and nephews, Matt, Isaac, Rachel, Jenny, Jonathon, Ashley, Connor, numerous relatives and friends.
Dave grew up on many military bases throughout the U.S. as his adoptive dad proudly served the Air Force. His family lived in California, Florida, Washington, South Carolina, Texas, Colorado, Nevada, and Idaho. Because of the constant transfers, Dave learned how to make friends quickly and be the entertainer. He and his brothers, Don and Pete, were very competitive with their fishing skills. Dave learned quickly where the best spots were for fishing and what bait to use. He thrived in the outdoors and in the mountains where he became a proficient fisherman and hunter. Graduating from Widefield H. S. in Colorado Springs, CO, he joined the U.S. Navy at 18 and was assigned to the U.S.S. Princeton, LPH 5, during the Vietnam War. He attained the rank of E5 in record speed. Dave, his two brothers and Dad served in the Navy, Air Force, Army, and Marines at the same time. Dave was a talented artist whose logo was chosen for the Apollo 10. In 1968, he met his wife, Lyla and married on June 27, 1970. Dave attended colleges in Santa Monica and Sacramento, CA. He started his working career as a salesman and continued in sales because of his wit and gift of gab. He became partners in the sporting goods store, Wild Sports, in Sacramento. In 1983, the Lord found Dave and encouraged him to move his family to Spokane, WA. He then purchased a wholesale bait business, naming it "Mr. Bait", from Greg McCowan who later became his best friend and hunting buddy. Buying Mr. Bait allowed Dave to develop strong relationships with family and friends. Because of his leadership and people skills, Dave entertained his fishing and hunting buddies constantly. He was actively involved in the Spokane Bird Dog Association and NAHRA. Learning how to train his hunting dogs Teak and Sage was a real challenge but rewarding as he hunted pheasants, ducks, geese, grouse, turkeys, deer, wild boar, and elk. He was a co-owner of a house in Hecela, SD where he went annually to hunt, cook, guide, and entertain his buddies. He was sorely missed this year during the pheasant hunt but was kept up-to-date with the hunting expeditions by phone. Dave was especially proud of his two children, Adam and Diana. Both graduated from Northwest Christian where he supported their pursuits in basketball and cheerleading. One of the proudest moments was when Adam was part of the winning State B Basketball Tournament in 1994. Dave was also proud of his children's diplomas from WSU and their chosen mates Amy and Nate. His five grandbabies will always love their dear PAPA! Dave was the ultimate family man-------both as dad, uncle, and grandpa. He was the family Patriarch who arranged reunions and documented family weddings and events with wonderful videos and pictures put to music.
The family would like to send a special thank you to the ENTIRE staff of Holy Family Hospital who was so supportive and caring. Words of gratitude especially go to Dr. Tommy Le of Group Health and Dr. Tiffany Hanf of Holy Family. A celebration of Dave's life will be held at Ball and Dodd this Friday at 1:30 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the ministry of Campus Crusade for Christ, www.cccigive.org, account #0513323.



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Published by Spokesman-Review from Dec. 1 to Dec. 2, 2010.

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Roger Marchant

March 5, 2016

May God bless your family in this time of remembrance.
I did not know David or his family but am a friend of his Mom and Dad.

Duane Rapelje

March 5, 2016

It's been 15 long years since we lost you David. We think of you so many times. You brought us happiness. We love you and will see you when God brings us home. Mom and Dad.

Linda Bundy-Martinez

August 22, 2012

David was my cousin and my buddy, he got me through the summer after my father passed away{Bill Bundy] I have never forgotten that summer and it will always be fond memories, my only regret is that we lost touch with the whole family . May he rest in peace even then as a young boy he was comforting and entertaining. Miss that side of my family very much. Would love to hear from them. Linda Bundy {June Rapelje-is my mother}May he rest in peace in Gods hands [I know he's swapping fishing and hunting stories with my father. RIP David

Lyla Rapelje

February 6, 2012

Thanks Dad for updating David's guestbook. You will have to tell me about Linda Bundy, David's cousin. Can't believe it has been over a year without David. He would have been 64 this month. Love, Lyla

Linda Bundy

October 15, 2011

I am deeply saddened that I did not have the opportunity to know David,[unless this is Duane's oldest son] if so he was my cousin which I spent endless hours with in the summer of 61' after my fathers passing. My heart goes out to all the family I think of all of you often and the fond memories of that summer.

Jennifer Peterson

January 6, 2011

One specific child hood memory I have involving Uncle David is during 4th of July one summer at Grandmas house. We were having a great time watching Uncle David light aluminum cans off with fireworks and anything else he could think of. It wasn't long until he talked some of the cousins into grabbing there slug sticks, and finding some slugs to participate in the fun. Although it sounds gross it was the most fun I have ever had on 4th of July.
The best memory of all that I have is how warm and caring Uncle David was. I could go years without seeing him, and whenever I did it was like it had only been yesterday. xoxoxo

December 23, 2010

Dear Lyla, Di, Adam and family. Too soon. My husband Bob and I were fortunate to get to see David on one of his last days, and we shared some tears, some memories, and some laughs.
For ten years, there were three neighborhood families clustered together on a little dead end street in Spokane. It was a magical time. Our daughters were best friends, and our families grew ever closer. Through those years we had so many very good times--playing baseball in the street, swimming with the kids at the community pool, banging pots and pans with the children on New Year's, sharing everyday life together. That meant all the ups and downs. David (and you Lyla and Di and Adam) were there for us during the happiest of times and the worst of times with losses to our family. Thanks for that, David.
David also helped preserve some of our happiest moments with composing a wonderful video of our oldest daughter's wedding. He and Adam were wonderful getting all the right pictures and videos. I treasure the gift and it will be even more special now.
Well, dear friend, I know you have a lot of friends with you including members of our family. Have fun with them, David. I know you all will be there for us one day down the road.
We'll all help Lyla and your family, as many of your friends will. Thanks, David, for being such a friend and example to all of us. See you. Love, Tessa McCray

Bob McCray

December 16, 2010

Family, Many, many great memories of my neighbor, but one fact was paramount. His hobby was fishing. One day Dave came to the front door and wanted to show me his new fishing boat, trailer and motor. I walked across the street, and oohed and aahed. Dave went back in the house. I ran next door and got Dave's neighbor and friend, John Geiselman, and we ran back to Dave's house. We grabbed the boat and trailer, hauled it next door to John's house and hid it in the backyard. We waited and soon Dave came out, did a double-take, came running over and said, "Where's my boat? Did you see what happened to it." I replied, "some guy just hooked up to it and drove away." Dave went ballistic, sprinted home, jumped in his truck and the chase was on. After about 20 minutes he returned, and was really upset. John and I could no longer continue with the joke. When we told him where his boat was, it was a great laugh for us all. As we rolled his boat home, he said, "Bob, I will get even." For the next two years, I found dead maggots in interesting places in my truck. You were one of kind Dave, father, husband, friend and a loving grandfather. I miss you. Bob McCray

Melaney Darr

December 16, 2010

Lyla, Di and Adam - We are so sorry for the loss of Dave, your husband, and father. Glenn and I will always be thankful to him for making one of the best days of our lives, our wedding day, so much more special because of his kindness in recording it for us. It will be a memory we will always cherish. Love to you all. Glenn and Melaney Darr

Tiffany Hanf

December 15, 2010

To the Rapelje Family:
I am greatly honored to have assisted in the medical care of David. He was a brave and patriotic man that reminded me so very much of my own father. You are an incredible family and although our lives entwined, for what in retrospect may only be a brief period, I have the deepest and most profound respect for David and for you. I will forever be changed by David's entrance and exit from my own life. I wish you all blessings in this difficult time and always.

John & Judy Geiselman

December 14, 2010

To our very dear friend Lyla and Adam & Amy, Di & Nate and all your beautiful little children, John and I are heartbroken over David's sudden death. We feel like we haven't had time to grieve yet but every time we think of him, we feel such sadness. I know that your faith is what is getting you through.
One of John's memories is going fishing with Dave on Liberty Lake. John went out and bought all this gear, a tube, hip waders and the whole lot and they got into the lake and there were water skiers nearby which caused a lot of waves. John got sea sick with all of the heaving and hoeing and going in circles and threw up in the lake. Dave thought that was so hilarious! He teased John over the years about that. They used the gear a few more times then John finally gave it all away. Dave could never understand the lack of passion John had for fishing but was very patient with him on all their trips. John really cherishes those times together with Dave. They spent many an hour together in Canada and the like fishing and sharing memories.
Having David and Lyla living next door to us for 10 years was some of the best years of our lives. David and John were real buddies and David taught John a lot about fishing and who knows what else. They had some good fishing trips and lots of laughs and we will never forget his wit and his humor and his kindness.
We feel honored to have called him our friend and we will miss him dearly for the rest of our lives.
Love to the entire Rapelje Family
John and Judy Geiselman

Duane Rapelje

December 11, 2010

It was nice to meet you DR. Lee David admired you and was proud ofyour service. Thanks for being there for him.

Tommy Le

December 10, 2010

It was an honor for me to have participated in Mr Rapelje's medical care.

Tommy Le

December 10, 2010

Lyla, Adam, Diana, Teak is adapting well in Sequim. We took her for a two mile hike to the beach today, and she really loved playing fetch in the saltwater. She enjoys the woods and is quickly adapting to her new environment. Love,Don

December 10, 2010

The Ladies and Gentlemen of the Washington State Veterans Cemetery extend our deepest sympathies to the family of David G. Rapelje for your loss, to honor his service to our country and our patriotic hero.

Linda Anne House, Founding Member

December 9, 2010

Dear Rapelje Family,
I am greatly saddened by the passing of David and at the same time I feel such joy in the celebration of his life and being able to spend time with the family knowing how David took such pleasure and joy in Lyla, Adam and Di, their wonderful spouses, his amazing grandbabies and his brothers and their families. Thank you for sharing your husband, father, brother and uncle with me and for sharing yourselves and your families. With love, Robin

Duane Rapelje

December 9, 2010

I guess the latest memories was when we took a trip to South Dakota. We got in a small snow storm and David was driving our new car. He was so nervous about wrecking in the snow. We were in a store that dressed you up in very old costumes. While David and I and Lyla and Mom were upstairs I let an awful fart and everyone started to laugh and Lyla was going downstairs and slipped and broke her arm. So we rushed her to a hospital. Later on we were coming out of a building and Lyla slipped and just about fell and David said " This was a trip from HELL" But it was fun and we talked about it while david was in the hospital

Jackie Bagnard

December 9, 2010

David had such a great love for the outdoors and enjoyed hunting and fishing to the max.
He was a dedicated family man and lived for Lyla, Di, Adam and his grandchildren.
Lyla was the love of his life and his devotion to her was obvious to all who saw them together.
David will be truly missed by those who were fortunate enough to have known him and
touched his life.

Jackie Bill Bagnard

Dan & Janette Hosford

December 8, 2010

Lyla,
We are so sorry for your loss, Dan & I just heard, we are sorry to have missed the funeral. Our thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.

Tom Joie Armstrong

December 8, 2010

December 08, 2010
Edna & Duane
Lila, Adam and Diana-
We Are so sorry to hear about David's passing. You Are All In Our Prayers Always May The Peace Of God Be With You All..
Much Love
Tom & Joie Armstrong

Judy Hanson

December 3, 2010

Lila,
My heart is so sad for you and your family.I will keep you in my thougths and prayers.

Ashey Rapelje-Ross

December 2, 2010

He will forever be in our hearts.

Ashley Rapelje-Ross

December 2, 2010

He will be forever in out hearts

Dave & Kathy Lumley

December 2, 2010

We are so sorry for your loss. We will be keeping your family in our prayers.

Denver Warner

December 1, 2010

Lila, Adam and Diana-
I'm so sorry to hear about David's passing. I will always remember him fondly and still tell people about our adventures hunting worms when I was a child. I miss all of you very much and hope everyone is well and enjoying their lives. Sending my love and condolonces from Portland, OR.

December 1, 2010

Lyla, Adam, and Diana,
So very very sorry to hear about your loss of David. I hope your many good memories will be of comfort to you. Please know you are all in my prayers.
Julie Warner

Karen Randazzo

December 1, 2010

So sorry for your loss.
Love Karen

Karen Randazzo

December 1, 2010

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

December 1, 2010

Dear Rapelje Family, So saddened by the loss of David. He had quick wit and humerous stories and will be remembered always. I pray God will comfort you during this time. Kathy (Elk Grove, CA)

Maureen

December 1, 2010

Lyla and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. May your many wonderful memories bring you comfort. Love and Hugs.

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