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John Kotosky Obituary

John M. Kotosky
John Mathew Kotosky passed away peacefully on November 15, 2019 in Stamford at the age of 91. He was born in Fairfield to the late Alexander Kotosky and Josephine Savage Kotosky. Besides his parents, John was also predeceased by his brother, Paul Kotosky and his sister, Frances Murray.
John is survived by his wife, Dolores D'Arrigo Kotosky of Stamford, his son John Kotosky of Trumbull, and his daughter Barbara Caponetti and her husband Gerald Caponetti of Stamford. Also surviving are his grandchildren, Michael Kotosky and his wife Madelyn Kotosky, Brian Kotosky, Maria Caponetti, and Stephen Caponetti, as well as his great-grandson, Thomas Kotosky.
At Stamford High School, John played varsity football as the offensive and defensive tackle. In his senior year, he was co-captain of the team. John was named "Best Athlete, Class of 1946" and "Honorable Mention on the 1946 All State Team."
John actively participated in varsity track and field events. He ran the 100 yard dash, the 440, and the four man relay race. He also competed in the discus throwing and running broad jump events. John also played semi-professional football with the Norwalk Tigers from 1948-1950 and from 1952-1955. In 1996, John was honored for his athletic achievements by The Stamford Old Timers Association.
During the Korean war, John served in Germany with the 192nd Field Artillery, 43rd Division. He received an honorable discharge in 1952 as a Sergeant First Class.
For 33 years, John worked at the Stamford Fire Department. He retired in 1992 with the rank of Captain. John was a member of The Glenbrook A.C., Stamford Elks No. 899, and The American Legion. He enjoyed gardening, hunting, golf, and he was also an avid New York Giants and Yankees fan.
John's greatest treasure was his family. For more than 65 years, he was married to his one and only true love, "Dee." Together they raised their family in a home built upon love, faith, hard work, and kindness.
Respected and admired by family and friends, John was a courageous firefighter, outstanding athlete, devoted husband, loving father, grandfather and great-grandfather. A quiet hero that touched the lives of many, John will forever remain in the hearts of all who knew him.
Family and friends may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford on Tuesday, November 19, 2019 from 4:00-8:00 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, November 20, 2019 at the Church of St. Cecilia, 1184 Newfield Avenue, Stamford at 10:30 a.m. Interment will follow with full Military Honors at Fairfield Memorial Park, Oaklawn Avenue, Stamford.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made in John's memory to the Stamford Firefighters Local 786 Burn Foundation, https://www.stamfordfire.com/divisions/burn-foundation/, the American Cancer Society, https://www.cancer.org, or the American Heart Association, https://www.heart.org.
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Published by Stamford Advocate on Nov. 16, 2019.

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Al & Lois Goldstein

November 23, 2019

Our sincere condolences go out to the Kotosky family... will remember John fondly from the Springdale A/C and enjoying our weekly Football Pool - John always used to say how much he enjoyed playing although we're not sure if he ever WON. Sad to hear of his passing.

November 22, 2019

Sincere Condolences to the Kostosky and Caponetti family. May he rest in Peace.

The office of Dr. Glenn Ostriker

Ed` iacovo

November 19, 2019

Very sorry to hear of Johns'passing always a Gentleman.


Ed Iacovo Belltown Fire Dept.

Jean Haggerty

November 18, 2019

good bye old friend as you go to the big fire house in the sky you will be met by your old buddies Charley & Fred. God bless you & your family.

Mark Roche

November 17, 2019

One of the great ones. You will be missed. God bless you and may you rest in peace.

November 16, 2019

Thank you for serving our country. May you now rest in eternal peace with your brothers in arms.
A grateful American

The Barosky Family

November 16, 2019

Sincere sympathy to John's survivors. May he rest in peace.

November 16, 2019

God Bless You,John. Say Hello to Fred for me. Will miss having a beer with you at the Springdale A.C. or Elks. An old fireman friend , Rusty Wainwright, Sarasota, Fl.

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