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Katherine King Obituary

KATHERINE REBACK KING of Stamford, and Beverly Hills, California lost her fight with a rare form of cancer on May 24, 2010. A loving wife, loyal friend, talented writer and poet, gourmand, life-long Democrat, ardent Lakers fan and so much more, Katherine was predeceased by her father and mother, Daniel and Naomi(Joy) Reback, and sister, Jane Reback Stickney. She is survived by her husband of fifteen years, Sonny King; her nephews Jay and David Stickney; cousins Deborah and Jan Weingrad, Jimmy, Laura and Jonathan Kanter; step children Stacy, Sal and Stephen King; and beloved cat, Harry. Katherine also adored her great nieces and nephews Lydia, Elinor, Zachery and Noah Stickney and her granddaughter, Sophie King Nichols. Born August 12, 1950, Katherine grew up in Stamford, among her large, extended family. In her essay, "The Pomegranate," (www.oneforthetable.com) Katherine describes the warmth of her childhood home, her father's wit and wisdom, her mother's love, and her sister's laughter. The essay begins: My mother had a way of inventing traditions. 'It's Lizzie's birthday!' she'd proclaim periodically and everyone in the family would don a party hat and sing happy birthday to one of our English Springer Spaniels. The announcement of the dog's birth and subsequent celebration of it could occur at any time - on April 5, say, or December 12. It could happen twice a year or once every few years. But however haphazard, it became a tradition. Katherine graduated from Low Heywood School, moved to the big city (New York) and obtained her degree from Columbia University. While Katherine would later plant her roots firmly in California for a lengthy career writing movies and television, she always treasured her time, family and friends in Connecticut and New York. A longtime member of the Writers Guild of America, Katherine's professional career began in the office of Alan King in the mid 1970s and spanned decades. She wrote for such situation comedies as the The Line and One Day at a Time. In addition to her work in television, she also wrote for motion pictures. In the course of her work on projects for all the major studios, she wrote the production draft of Flashdance, as well as the original story and screenplay for Fools Rush In. Katherine also published poems and essays and wrote speeches. An active and dedicated Democrat, she served as a speechwriter for candidate Bill Clinton during his first presidential election campaign. Katherine had a terrific sense of humor and tremendous style. She never shied from a fight, and believed passionately about causes that were larger than herself. She supported myriad charities and served as board member of the Juvenile Diabetes Foundation. Services to remember Katherine will be held on Friday, May 28 at 11 a.m. at the Leo P. Gallagher & Son Funeral Home, 2900 Summer Street, Stamford. Separately, a memorial is being planned for the near future in Los Angeles, and details will follow. The family requests that, in lieu of flowers, donations be made to the Juvenile Diabetes Foundation.

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Published by The Advocate on May 26, 2010.

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David Gottsegen

March 24, 2012

Katherine was my mother's god daughter, and her parents were great friends of my parents. Her father, Dan, to his and many of my friend's regrets, taught me about a million jokes. Some of them are worth re-telling!

S McGee

March 23, 2012

thank you for "Fools Rush In>'

Iris Marden

June 9, 2010

We first met when we were 12 years old - crossing the Atlantic Ocean on a ship with our families. She was from Stamford and I was from the Bronx but it made no difference. We became fast friends while getting into mischief on the ship. Turned out we were sailing back on the same crossing.
Fast and eternal friends. Katherine knew me better than anyone. Although we could go months or even years without seeing each other we remained in each other's hearts.
I miss her!!

Nathan Kahane

May 29, 2010

So sad to hear of Katherine's passing. A generous and beautiful spirit. So generous with me in my early career. Your humor, warmth and joyful spirit will be missed.

May 28, 2010

I've known Katherne for 30 years as a neighbor and friend and I do miss her. We had so much fun together. I wish I could be at the service.

Jeffry Melnick (Los Angeles)

Mary McEleney Zabivnik

May 28, 2010

I did not know you but after reading the lovely article by Susan Estrich today I know you were a special person. I almost cried in the Metro on my way to work. Godspeed

May 28, 2010

Sonny, I cannot express my sadness at the news of Katherine's death. My deepest sympathies to you and Katherine's family. I will cherish my memories of her friendship forever. Karen Moore (Hamilton, MT)

Judy Hofflund

May 27, 2010

I'm so sad to hear of Katherine's passing. We knew each other for a long time and I have always had a special place for her in my heart. I would love to be at any LA service. Katherine had a unique ability to get below the surface of things. We could go years without seeing each other and catch up within minutes. I am so grateful to have had her in my life and am so sad, and so sorry for your loss.

Steve Haas

May 26, 2010

I never heard of Katherine, before, but Susan Estrich's article on her, today, made me cry. I have been through this, and can only reiterate that it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

Mark David Gottsegen

May 26, 2010

Sonny, you and Kathy's family have my deepest sympathies. I will be at Gallagher's on the 28th, and will send an actual handwritten note, too.

Love,
David Gottsegen

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