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Kellie Martinez
March 21, 2025
Love you my Doll and forever Angel!
Jason Ventre
January 19, 2024
Darling,
16 years feels like an eternity, but I remember your passing like it was yesterday.
Your thought of and missed everyday.
Please visit me. Show me that you´re still looking over us.
-Jase-
Jason Ventre
March 21, 2023
Darling,
You're missed more and more every day.
We love you so much!
Jase
Joanne Lockwood
May 20, 2019
I miss and love you so much Mer. I have a conversation with you every night. Hope you hear me. Til we meet again Sis❤❤ Happy Birthday.
Jason Ventre
May 19, 2019
Darling,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
I'm enjoying a bowl of clam chowder and a refreshing beverages at a restaurant over-looking the water in Bradenton. It's gorgeous out here and it makes me think of you!
We miss you Dar!
Happy Birthday. I love you.
Jase
ray jnterlandi
December 24, 2018
Merry Christmas Darling I.ts going on eleven years miss you honey
ray interlandi
September 16, 2018
Happy anniversary Darling imiss you sd much. Ray has been taking care of me he trally is on top of everything. I have a wonderful Dr.at the Bennet center she is Dr.Angivine i take 21 pills for21 days a monyh.so far they are working. I have a nurse come to the house 3 days a week to drain me. Anthony Loglisci has been a gem to me also. thank God for him and RAY. WELL HON I'M A LITTLE tired so i;ll say so long for now i love you your darling husband Ray.
Jason Ventre
July 4, 2018
Darling,
Happy 4th of July!
It's been a long time since we've chatted, but I wanted to make sure you knew how incredibly missed you are!
July 4th has always been a bitter sweet holiday for me. On one hand, it's a date that marks so many memories we all shared with you and Pop at the shore. On the other hand, it also reminds me of the last time I saw you.
Regardless, this day is my favorite holiday. I always feel the closest to you while looking up at the fireworks remembering sitting next to you watching them together!
I love you!
Jase
Joanne Raino
May 20, 2018
Happy 39th Sis. Love and miss you soooo much.
ray interlandi
May 19, 2018
Happy Birthday Darling i hope you are with family in Heaven on your special day. I miss you Mer more than you could ever know love always your darling husband Ray
ray interlandi
December 31, 2017
Happy New Year Darling miss you
Jason Ventre
April 16, 2017
Happy Easter Darling. In Georgia at my father's house with Diane.
Missing you every day.
I wear my St. Anthony pendant for you. It's a reminder every day how much I love and miss you.
Someday I'll find you.
Love you Darling
rayinterlandi
April 15, 2017
Hi Hon Happy Easter Wish you were here Ray is in Kansas so J'm alone bot that's okay I have been having problems with my breathing lately i think it might pills i take for diabetes Junuvia same ones you used to take. Miss you Babe Well again Happy Easter hope you are with family love always Ray
Jason Ventre
January 24, 2017
Miss you darling.
I got a chance to talk to pop a couple days ago and we shared a few laughs. I feel you the most during moments like that.
We reminisced about the good ol days. All the times the three of us spent together and the memories that we built. Beautiful memories.
Love you and miss you always.
Jase
ray interlandi
January 21, 2017
Hi Hon well It's 9 years since you are have passed. I miss you Darling i miss you not going in my pocket while i sleep, the way you could always get me to do what i really didn't want to do just to see you happy, the way you always worried about the kids. My live is not the same money can't buy happiness. I love looking at your pictures my Bride. well i'll say goodnight for now till death do us part Ray
Ray Interlandi
December 24, 2016
Hi Hon I was sitting thinking and
these words just came to me about Christmas hope you like it. I am all alone on Christmas There's no one here but me,I'm all alone on Christmas there will be no Christmas tree, No Mistletoe or Holly no presents do i see I'm all alone on Christmas and that's okay with me Because i have my memories of what it used to be, Singing Christmas carols and dancing all around, children opening presents and jumping up and down,I'm all alone on Christmas and that's really sad, especially because i really bad, And tho i have my memories along with my pride I'm all alone on Christmas because you're not by my side. Hope you like it. It's going on 9 years since you're gone I miss you soooooooooooooooooooooo much love Ray
May 19, 2016
Hi mer;
I know you never liked to hear another year has gone by. Just to let you know I didn't forget your birthday.
We all miss you so much.
Love sister lucille
Ray Interlandi
May 18, 2016
Hi Hon Happy Birthday Well you now 40 you were stuck 0n 39 for a while well it looks like new Jersey will be out of my hands this Tue. 24th of may.Ray moved to Kansas City Mo was promoted to field directors job.So i am alone again Jillian calls me a couple times a week Ray is having a house built in Kansas. I'm buying his house in Danbury should work out OK I have a good tenant there.and God willing i.ll sell it in a year. Of course Ray wants me out there he is looking for a place for my sister will see what happens. I miss you very much and i hope you are happy with my decisions. Happy Birthday my love. your darling husband Ray
Jason Ventre
May 8, 2016
Darling,
I just got off the phone after wishing my mother a Happy Mothers Day. It's crazy to think that after all these years, I still want to call and wish you a happy Mother's Day as well. Sadness and anger overcomes me. You were taken too early and I'm sorry for everything.
I love you and miss you everyday.
Jason
Ray Interlandi
February 14, 2016
Happy Valentines Day Sweat heart I miss you so much my love. I had some trouble hot water pipe it froze in our place in the back where my Sister Ann is staying. Roger Arnow passed away A few Days ago I tried to call Joann but she never called me back. I think Ray is going to take the Directors job at the Mall. I hope things work out for him, Well I'll say so long for now love always Ray
ray interlandi
January 21, 2016
Hi Sweetheart I can't believe it's 8 years since you were taken from me. It is so hard for me without you there are times when i pick up the phone to call you and than i realize i can't. You were my rock i may not have showed it but i really depended on you. I am still fighting with the insurance co. but i think things will work out. I made beef stew for Ray today not as good as yours though I spoke to your Brother Nick he is in Florida vacationing he is doing better.I still have my sister ANN LIVING IN THE BACK i have a nurse for her 3 day a week she dances with her and they are like girlfriends she is so happy with her. Well Darling i will say so long for now. i miss you and love you you're darling Husband Ray
Jason Ventre
January 1, 2016
Happy New Year!!!!
Hey Dar,
It's new years day and another year of missing you. Doesn't get easier that's for sure.
Tomorrow morning I fly to buffalo to watch the Jets take on the Bills. Wish us luck!!
Well that's all for now. We miss you and love you with all the love in the world.
Jason
ray interlandi
December 31, 2015
Happy New Year Sweetheart I was just sitting here thinking of all the years we had the holidays here and now it's just another day.It goes to show that without you everything comes to a halt.I miss you Mer you were always my rock and you had that way of getting me to do things. again Darling Happy New Year your darling husband Ray
Jason Ventre
December 25, 2015
Darling,
Merry Christmas!!!
Diane and I are celebrating our first Christmas in MN together with our little Meatball. It was really nice. Diane spoiled me with lots of food and gifts!
We miss you and love you dearly!
Jason and Diane
ray interlandi
December 24, 2015
Merry Christmas Darling Well here it is another holiday with out you. But you are always with me I have so many memories with especially our last years when it was just you and i.a lot of things have changed as you well know.I am not what i used to be i have to rely on other people and that hurts me because as you know i was always able to handle things myself.but now i pay to get things done. I guess it's a good thing i invested the right way an am able pay my way.Spoke to Jason a few days ago and you would be proud to know he is doing well and will break $100000.00for 2015. well {'ll say so long for now i miss you very much Mer i love you and again Merry Christmas your DARLING HUSBAND ray
Ray Interlandi
November 25, 2015
Hi Darling Happy Thanksgiving I miss you very much i am still in Stamford I made a lasagna will be sharing with my sister and Ray but he has to work from 4 noon till midnight.Every things about the same still fighting with the insurance co. over the shore house but i think things will work out.Be leave me it's hard taking care of my sister i don.t really have a life any more. but i made my bed so i have to make the best of it. Jason is happily married and i think he found the right one.Kellie 2 girls and a great a good man from what i see he is a great Dad.well Hon I'll say so long for now I love and miss you your darling Husband Ray
Ray
May 19, 2015
Happy Birthday Darling I hope you Are with the family. I love and miss you very much don't forget to invite Jock.Snoopy, Snowball and maggie to your party.hope you like the song i wrote for you. I love you Mer
Jason and Diane
May 10, 2015
Darling,
Happy Mothers Day!!
Diane and I are traveling back home from a long trip and were thinking about you.
I often share stories about you to Diane. Fond memories. Beautiful moments. She never grows tired of them. She's probably more tired about the incessant amount of details in the stories, but she always smiles at me while I tell them.
Her mother passed away about a year after you so do me a favor and reach out to her for us. Tell her that she's missed and loved.
We both love you very much!
ray interlandi
April 4, 2015
Happy Easter Darling I hope you are with mom&Dad and family. I am herer in Stamford &Ray has to go to the shore with a plumber from here .to see how much damage we have and try to fix the pipes.I made lasagna and some escarole pie some artichokes for my sister Ann. I think i bit off more than i can chrw it's tough trying to help her. Well hon i'll say solong for now i didn't sleep at all lastight really tired love and miss you sooooooooooo much your Darling Husband Ray
Jason Ventre
January 28, 2015
Darling,
Miss miss miss you!!
Diane got me a new St Anthony pendant. She knows I wear it for you and went above and beyond to get it. I see a lot of you and my mother in her.
Strong. Caring. Stubborn. She even asks me after I come out of the bathroom if I had washed my hands. Then she checks them!!
Work has been insane and I'm trying to juggle everything. It's tough, but when I get a spare moment to think about memories past and the times we shared, it helps to slow down my day. I love those moments. I love you.
Jase
ray interlandi
January 25, 2015
Hi Hon it's been 7 years since you have passed. Darling i miss you so much my life has been all downhill the day you left my side. I miss you miss the way it used to be I miss you being here with me miss the way we used to sit and chat some of this and a whole lot of that I miss you being by my side oh i miss my Bride they say as time goes on I'll find some body new but without you there isn't any new. I love you i have given you my heart i love i knew it from the start and every day i try to understand but without you there isn't any plan Without you my life is not the same without you just a losing game. goodnight my Darling your Darling Husband Ray
ray interlandi
December 24, 2014
Hi Hon Merry Christmas I am in Stamford Trying to get the apt. in the back ready for my sister Ann the place needs a lot of work buy we are getting there Ebeneezer is spending a lot of money back there. I'll be spending Christmas with my sister at the rehab center. Looks like i will be getting the house back in N J fortunately i have another buyer for it at a higher price.I miss you soooooooooooooooooooo much been back and forth to the Doctor. Ray will be going away for the New Year .Jason is doing great has a great girl who be his Wife in Oct 2015 By the way did you read his book? wish i could hear what you think of it Well as you know things are not the same as they used to be.always giving money was my downfall. well I'll say so long for now. I will always love you love Ray
Ray interlandi
November 27, 2014
Hi Hon Happy Thanksgiving I;m still New Jersey every thing is screwed up for the moment buyer having trouble coming up with the money but says he will get it. My Sister Ann fell down and i have her at long ridge where you were I have Power of attorney. Trying to get her in Vine Rd. so she does not have to climb 3 flights of stairs. Really hard to get her in there they have a waiting list. Maybe i'll get lucky. Hope you are with family for Thanksgiving. Love you and miss you love Ray
ray interlandi
August 16, 2014
Hi Hon Well I'm all done with one Doctor now i went for blood work waiting for results. I am in the process of selling the other 2 houses on the Jersey Shore just to much for me to handle alone I am giving the Morg. i really like it there but it's time.I just don't want to be on edge. no one uses the places any more and it's just wasting money with the taxes and all.Jillian has her makeup lic.so she is looking for a studio to work out of. well hon i'll say so long for now.love you forever Ray
ray interlandi
July 2, 2014
Hi Hon well i am still in Stamford won't be spending the 4th at the shore Doctor thinks i am healing well but it will take another month. a real bummer. I miss you hon. i want to wish you a happy 4th. i am real tired tonight i will write soon love Ray
ray interlandi
June 3, 2014
Hi Hon Well i went to the Doctor today and he said the wound looks like it is healing well. He is going to do the graft work on Fri. Ray has been great he has to change the bandages every day. He got the call today he got the job in Florida now we have a lot of work to get done so we can sell Barmore Drive and reside about New Jersey. I have stay in Stamford till my back is healed. 2 to 4 weeks. When Ray leaves i will stay here at least till the winter. I have been taking care of my Sister Ann. making sure she can stay in her Apt. what a mess good thing i had the Attorney protect her so she has lifetime residence at the same rent. a lot of things have changed since you have gone. I tried but it's all about money. well hon I'll say goodnight for now. i love you. Ray
Jason Ventre
May 20, 2014
Darling,
Happy Birthday!
It's amazing how much time flashes when you become self consumed.
So many things have changed, as I'm sure you know and I'm convinced that I'm where I'm at because of the angel over my shoulder. :)
I receive my confirmation June 1st. I expect that you'll be in attendance.
As far as the new move goes.....well.....Wisconsin is different and I'll officially make the move at the end of the month. Another chapter of my life. (This book is getting rather long.)
My new job is challenging. Lots to learn, but medical sales should be that way right? :)
I've been meeting with Doctors this week and the transition from construction to medical in terms if personality flow has been pretty easy to adapt to.
Well, another day, another city.
I love you and miss you everyday. I will work harder to show you that.
Jase
ray interlandi
May 18, 2014
Happy Birthday Darling Hope you are with Family. I say the same thing all the time. I miss you. Well Ray got back from Florida yesterday and he will know if he gets the job on the 3rd of june so it looks like we may be moving to Fla.Balm BEACH. he IS EXCITED. I have to get rid of a lot of things if this happens. I hope it works out. I am being paged so i will get back to you I love you. Ray
ray lnterlandi
April 20, 2014
Happy Easter Darling I hope you had a good day I was at the cemetery today i often wonder if you can hear me saying my rosary. came back to stamford to keep my doctors appointments looks like i need some work done because of my breathing. I miss you Hon kinda hard trying to keep my cool at times but as you know i always finish. as i told you in my last letter. i sold the Fla Naples property. Jillian keeps in touch with me and her Dad. she is doing very well. Her boyfriend is a great guy. he is right from Ireland and treats her like a princess.Ray is doing well except for aches and pains but he works through it. well Hon I.ll say so long for now love you always Ray
ray lnterlandi
February 15, 2014
Happy Valentines Day Darling. I miss you not a day goes by that i don't think of you. I sold our property in Naples Fla. Remember it was to be our dream home. Yes dear i took back the Mort.Ray and I are looking at some property on the west coast. He is going to fly out there on the 17th of Feb.It has 10 units on it and is on the water. A fore closer sale worth a look at. He wants to semi retire. Well Hon I'll say so long for now.love always Ray
January 23, 2014
Dar,
6 years. Feels a lot longer. You're missed and thought of everyday.
I'm in North Carolina now and trying to get things going. Slow right now, but hoping for the best.
I remember what it felt like 6 years ago. The feeling doesn't get any better. You were, are and will always be an inspiration. Never forgotten, never lost.
I love you.
Jase
January 22, 2014
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=46RrvOsfkDc Hi Hon it's been 6 years now since you have passed. I miss you so much without you around everything has changed, when the money stops everything else stops. I remember the good old days when we lived in the housing project We struggled along but we had to rely on each other,Life was so different than we appreciated all the things we were able to get,I honestly miss you Mer you were the reason i made money and was able to move to a better place. It some time makes me wonder whats better. Well Babe I'll say so long for now I will never forget you.your Darling Husband Ray
January 18, 2014
Hi Darline,
Can't tell you how much has changed in these years and I wish you could see for yourself. I wish I could remember all the card games you and pop used to teach me so maybe I'd actually win some money in the casinos (you were training me to be a pro!) and I so wish I paid more attention to your delicious iconic meatball recipe since I actually cook now (can you believe it?!). Love and miss you dearly. Tell Maggie I miss her too since I know when she's not still following Dad around she's hanging out keeping you company.
Love Always,
JBop
Ray Interlandi
December 31, 2013
Happy New Year Sweetheart Hope you are with family.oh yea don't forget Pa's coffee at 12 o'clock.Everything went well with Ray today with the procedure, but he has to check with Dr Schuster about his heart count. I have been taking it one day at a time out here trying to get the heat fixed i tell you hard to find an honest Hvc man out here. I feel like i am coming down with a cold time for alka seltzer and hot tea with lemon&honey wish you were here to make it for me like you used to. Well Darling i'll say so long for now Love you Your darling Husband Ray
ray interlandi
December 24, 2013
Merry Christmas Darling it is going on 6 years since you have past it gets harder every year. I am at the Shore Ray stopped by and spent a couple of days here with his Girlfriend. than the went to Maryland to spend Christmas with her brother Jase is spending it With Jamie In North Carolina I went to the store before and they had crab legs it brought back memories of the great parties we used to have those were the days No i did not buy the crab legs . Does Daddy still call you Nr:s Mrs Merchades I spelled like he used to say it. Iam fighting with a kidney stone never had one on the left side before.I took a pain pill and it is making me sleepy. I am woworking on a new song for you. Tittle is I miss you. I miss you more and more each day I miss you and there's so more to say miss the way we used to sit and chat some of this and a whole lot of that I need you standing here with me i need you like it used to be need to feel your touch my darling i love you so much. that's as far as i got well Hon hope you have a Merry Christmas In Heaven your Husband Ray
Jason Ventre
September 18, 2013
Darling,
Happy Anniversary!!!
I'm driving to work right now so I can't write too long. I saw Pops message to you and it reminded me of your anniversary. Thought I'd say hello.
I miss you and think of you daily. It's hard to live on the shore and not be able to. :)
Work is going good. Lots to learn so I'm pacing myself as best I can.
Send me a sign. I would love to hear from you.
-Jase-
September 17, 2013
Happy anniversary darling I miss you soooooooooooo much I am at the shore still waiting to get the house fixed.Jason is here with me.He is doing great. I am looking out at the ocean really beatiful Paul was right when he said it doesn't get any better than this, problem is your not here to share this with me. By the way you would love Jason's new job he calls on casinos you would be riding with that's for sure. Well Darling i'll say so long for now I love you my Bride your darling husband Ray.
Jason Ventre
May 20, 2013
Darling,
Happy belated birthday. I kept reminding myself to write to you yesterday and then I forgot to remind myself. :)
Another birthday gone by and the feelings of loneliness caused by your absence is just as strong as ever.
Wish you were with us. I miss you and love you very much.
Happy birthday
Jase
Jamie Ventre
May 20, 2013
Happy Birthday Mama Darling! We still miss you everyday. Things haven't been the same without you.
The whole family has started to come together for the wedding and we know you are here with us.
You are in our thoughts always.
Love,
Jamie
ray interlandi
May 19, 2013
Happy Birthday Darling I hope you are with family today. I miss you so much Hon. You were my rock. So now i am trying to get by. I miss my beautiful bride more and more everyday I will love you forever. love your husband Ray
Jase Ventre
May 13, 2013
Darling,
Happy Mothers Day!
Not too much to say, but you should know that you're always in my thoughts.
I love you
Jase
ray interlandi
May 12, 2013
Happy Mother Day Darling I hope you are with Ma on this day. I am at the shore with Jason. I sold the little house t a really good guy you would love the way is fixing it up. After the storm i just could not do the work anymore so i sold it but i am holding the note it really helps. I miss you very much. I go to the Doctor on the 22nd boy am i in for it because of my weight.I really hate going back to Stamford it is so nice out here. Wake up every day looking at the ocean, well hon I'll say so long for now love always Ray
ray interlandi
March 31, 2013
Happy Easter Sweetheart I hope the Easter Bunny was good to you. I am spending the day with Jason at the Shore. Ray is having dinner with Jillian . I have been at the shore trying to settle with the insurance co.It's amazing we did not get any water in any of our houses I am convinsed you were here directing the water away from our homes. I am in the process of selling the little house. i wppll be giving the mort. well Hon i'll say solong for now Imiss you Rose and i love you my beautiful BRIDE. Your darling Husband Ray
Jase Ventre
February 13, 2013
Our Darling,
Thought of you a lot today. More than normal so I thought I would tell you about it.
Life seems to be moving at a fast rate of speed. I feel like I'm learning. Growing. Almost as if I'm giving up on hate, hang ups.
With work becoming aggressive and challenging more and more along with my personal life taking me through twists and turns proving feelings of peace and desperation, I find myself looking for answers. Am I doing the right things? Making the right decisions? I feel that I am, but I have lived a life in which track records dispute whether my feelings are accurate or not.
I could really use a sign. Anything.
You are, were and will always be a guiding light. Shine some my way when you get a chance.
I love you.
Jase
Jason Ventre
February 1, 2013
My Bride
Five Years
Five years since I lost my best friend
Five years since the nights I thought would never end.
Many tears have fallen,
Crashed to the ground
Unrelenting heartache, screams cried
Deafening, but with no sound
I've been invisible to the world, lost to the tides
My love is gone. The pain won't subside.
Five years has gone since you were ripped from me
But the agony I face was worth it to have the first fifty.
I love you,
Ray
Jason Ventre
February 1, 2013
Darling,
Thinking of you a lot today. Just wanted you to know. I miss you.
Love,
Jase
ray interlandi
January 24, 2013
Hi Honey it's been 5 years since you have passed. I am still atb the shore trying to settle with the insurance co. so i can get these houses fixed up. the storm sandy did some damage but we were very lucky no water inside your house sandy was no chalange for you I know you were here watching over the properity. I miss you honey nothing is the same without you. I hope you know how much i always love you my beautiful bride. well i'' say solong for now your darling husband Ray
ray interlandi
January 1, 2013
Happy New year Sweetheart Well here it is 2013 I spent the holidays at the shore.You were with me in spirit Youre pics hanging on the wall for allto see as they pass your house. I miss you Mer i am so lonely without you. Jason was at the Waldorf astoria he really knows how to live .You would be so prowd of him.I hope you read his book and if you could get him to write the second part. Weii Darling i'll say solong for now. Love forever Ray
Jase Ventre
January 1, 2013
Darling,
Just woke up at the Waldorf Astoria in NYC after a night of celebrating the new year. Thought of you a lot because this hotel is very classy and you were all about class. Wish you could have seen it.
I love you. Happy New Year.
Jase
James Ventre
December 31, 2012
Happy new years Darling! We wish you were here and think of you often.
Love,
Jamie
December 24, 2012
Merry Christmas Darling I hope you are with Ma,Pa and family I miss you verry much . I am staying in the front house now We had vsome damage to the back house but it is being repaired. I have serious buyer for it which will be great i will be giving the mort. so if the deal goes through i will be in good shape. I miss you sooooooooooo much. It so good waking up in the morning and looking out at the ocean. such a great view from upstairs.well darling i'll say solong for now love Ray
ray qinterlandi
September 18, 2012
happy anniversary darling miss you and love you ray
Jase Ventre
August 17, 2012
My Darling,
At some point you had to have expected a letter from me. I write to you quite frequently so first and foremost, hi. :)
I've been traveling a lot on business and it's starting to grow a little tiring for me. I sometimes imagine you sitting right next to me as you used to when we would take a ride to CVS together. I think of the times that we spent together, whether it was something simple like shopping or going to catch a movie. Those times meant a lot to me for many reasons, but chief amoung them was because of the relationship it developed. I never had a mother-figure in my life that I can recall much of ANY one on one time together. You took that time and I can't thank you enough for the "Memories" in which it created. As you know, those memories are ones that we had wherever we went, not just the Jersey shore. The memories we've built are not territorial and assigned to one area, but universal because I remember them in multiple areas.
Do you remember when we used to wait in the Lincoln for Jamie and Kellie to get out of CCD and you would always bring a snack bag that ALWAY had pretzel sticks in them?? Well, I still like the pretzels. Funny that a memory as silly as that still holds a special place in my heart.......even though it was "only" in Stamford.
I spend a lot of time with Pop-Pop while I can. (Again I travel a lot) and he's doing well. We've grown exceptionally close and I can promise you that I won't let anything come between that. I think that was ALSO one of your wishes....
Well, I have to get back on the road and go make a successful living.
I miss you my Darling and think of you everyday.
Your Son,
Jase
Chach
August 14, 2012
Mommy,
It hasn't been long since I spoke with you, since I do so every day, but it has been awhile since I have written.
A very happy day was just celebrated, and that is when you are especially missed. This past weekend your princess, "Kellie" was given a baby shower. She looked amazing and I gave her that secret gift from you that you had put aside. I also wrote a note from you to her which made her cry with wonderful memories of you. Soon Kellie will have her little Esmee Rose. I will be with her in the delivery room and pray you watch over her. As if I even need to ask, right?!
The happy times don't end there. Early in September we will all gather in New Jersey to celebrate Jamie & Jenine's engagement. All but three of your grandchildren will be together at the shore you loved so much and where you created so many happy memories. Although they were deterred in their wish to be together in the one house there that they considered "Mama Darling's house," they didn't let it get them down. I am sure you are so proud of all of them, especially Jamie. He took the lead, rallied the troops, (all the sibs), and within a half hour had secured a place for them all. You always told them, "Stick together and help each other." Jamie, in his military fashion, is making sure that they always do.
You will be there in our hearts, and we will be sure to visit "your house" at least once while we at the shore, because we know it is what you would want.
Unfortunately, "Pop-pop" also will not be with us. Since your death, he always told me he listened for your voice to guide him on the right path. You should have spoken louder as his hearing obviously declined. Also, a compass might have been helpful, LOL, but we know you are with him. Even now, I imagine you both sitting together with you reciting the tale of "Ebenezer," one of his favorites. It helps me get through the loss of my father.
Always know that wherever my children and I are, you too are there. Love Always, Chach
Jamie Ventre
August 14, 2012
Darling,
I dont know where to begin. Regularly I ask myself what you would want me to do and have done my best to do that. I truly hope you haven't been watching.
It hurts to think of the magical memories we have of you and the other kids at the Shore. Those houses were special because of you and the times we shared. Not because of the location or architecture. When I go there in the future, I will look at that house and think of the great memories, the fun times and think only of you and nothing of the sadness that dwells there now.
I will continue to try and make you proud because I know you are watching over those that truly loved you. I think of you always and miss you more than words could ever describe.
I love you!
Jamie
Jase Ventre
May 20, 2012
My Darling,
Happy birthday!!
I'm sorry for the late message. No excuses.
I'm out in Arizona this weekend visiting Jennifer. (She says hello btw.) I wish you could have met her. You guys would have hit it off.
She reminds me of you in a lot of different ways. She's strong, loving, caring and unconditionally supportive. Sound familiar?
I miss you Dar. That's an understatement. But I do. Everyday.
I look for signs from you all the time. Sometimes I feel foolish doing it, but I guess it doesn't really matter. Drop by and say hello.
Until then......
Your Son,
Jase
ray interlandi
May 19, 2012
Happy Birthday Darling Hope you are with family on this special day. I miss you soooooooooooooooo much hon there is not a day that goes by that i don't think of you.I talked to Kellie today won't be long we will be great grand parents. She is having a girl so watch out lord&taylor. Well hon i will say so long for now heading out to the cemetary love always Ray
May 19, 2012
Happy Birthday Darling Hope you are with family on this special day. I miss you soooooooooooooooo much hon there is not a day that goes by that i don't think of you.I talked to Kellie today won't be long we will be great grand parents. She is having a girl so watch out lord&taylor. Well hon i will say so long for now heading out to the cemetary love always Ray
Ray Interlandi
April 8, 2012
Happy Easter Hon hope you are with the family. I picture you in your brown and white polka dot dress so beautiful that was my favorite. Just got off the phone with Jason and Jennifer his girlfriend they called to wish me a Happy Easter he is doing great you would be proud.I'm getting ready to go to the cemetery.I miss you so much they say time heals all wounds but it's not working for me.I'll say so long for now i love and miss you. your darling husband Ray
Ray Interlandi
February 14, 2012
Happy Valentines Day my darling. I am sitting here alone thinking about you wondering if you are with Ma,Pa and family eating your favorite candy. Kelly called today to wish me a happy Valentine she is doing well you would be proud and Jason is really doing good his book comes out next month can't wait for the reaction it gets. Do you still sing somewhere over the Rainbow? I am still watching Maggie during the day.well hon i'll say so long for now i love you and i will never stop loving you my beautiful bride your darling husband
Ray INTERLANDI
January 22, 2012
Hi Hon well here it is 4 years since you've passed, and it still doesn't gt any easier for me. Without you my life is empty eachday gets harder and harder. I try to do things the way you would want me to but it's very hard. You were my rock you were the reason i wanted to get ahead without you it's very hard. I love and miss you soooooooooooooooooooooooo much Your Darling husband Ray
Jason Ventre
January 22, 2012
My Darling,
Four years. It's difficult to imagine that the family was going through a time of shock, disbelief and sadness four years ago today. I say that because we're still going through that today as if it was recent. It's worth it. These painful memories come with it an opportunity to constantly remember the pleasurable ones.
I told you I wouldn't forget.
I'm in Vegaa on business and thinking about you.
I miss you everyday. That will never change.
I love you Darling.
Your Son,
Jase
Alicia Condito-Brandfellner
January 22, 2012
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ray interlandi
January 1, 2012
Happy New Year Darling I hope you made the coffee for 12 oclock . I could hear Pa asking for it.It was a quiet day for me iwas aloneate a sanwich and drank water not like it was when you were here we would have maybe 50 people here,those were the good old days. well babe i'lkl say solong for now, imiss you sooooooooooooooooooooooo much and i love you your darling husband
ray interlandi
December 25, 2011
my Darling well here it is Christmas 2011I hope you are with Mom and Dad and the rest of the family. I am sitting here alone again thinking of all the wonderfull parties we a;ways had but now that is all gone. I say the same thing to you everytime i write how i miss you sooooooooooooo much. I have been sending your pocketbooks to Chatch she really gets a kick out of it iput some money in each one so it seems like it's comming from you.It so strange waking up in the am and still have the same amount of money in my pockey. Yes Mer i sent the envelopes. I can't seem to lose the weight. this is the third Christmas i am without you. By the way i made Lagsagna 4 trays not anywhere as good as yours. say a prayer for your sister she has to have an operation on her leg after the hollidays.Kellie moved to SanDiago and is doing ok.Jake bought a house and Eli and ERin moved in. Erin and her boyfriend had a fight so she moved in with Jake.Well hon i guess that all for now except Ilove you Merry Christmas love Ray
joanne lockwood
December 13, 2011
Hi Sis,
It's been a long time since I wrote to ya
but that doesn't mean there is a day that
goes by that I don't think of something
stupid that we said to each other or did when we were together.
Well, the holidays are hear again and they seem to get worse every year. Not shopping for anyone this year including
Roger. ha-ha.
Trying to be funny, but Im just not smiling. Have to go back to work sis, but want to tell you how very much I miss you. I'll be thinking of you on
New Year's Eve. Get the sponges ready.
Love, Jo
ray interlandi
November 24, 2011
Happy Thanksgiving to you my darling.I hope you are with mom and dad I am herer at home thinking of you i miss you with all my heart. I remember how you would be making the lasange and it had to be just right I miss your chicken soup the best but what i miss most of all is the strenth you had fighting whatever illness you would say i will be ok i wish i could be half the person you were. I wish i could have done more.Istill feel you near me trying to help me make the right move. i love my bride moreeach and every day your darling husband ray
Jason Ventre
November 21, 2011
My Darling,
Haven't written to you in a while. (I usually start with that sentence so I apologize for the unoriginal opening. Hard to imagine that even I can't think of words to say.)
Right now I am 30,000 feet in the air onboard a Delta flight heading from Atlanta to Philly. I'm flying up to meet with a prospective customer that has the potential of drastically changing the level of business flow in the northeast market.
What does all that mean? Not much, I just liked how it sounded in my head. Real educated. Kind of like I made it a little farther in school. :)
The real reason I'm writting to you is because I figured that if heaven is somewhere up here, then I can't be too far away from you, right? I'm looking out the window thinking that at any minute I'm going to see you sitting on a cloud in front of a computer playing solitaire.
Lots of clouds, but no you.
I miss you. I know that's a bit generic, but I really do miss you. Sometimes I'm sad when I think about you being gone and sometimes I get downright angry. My heart starts to race and my eyes well up with tears.
I'm angry that you're not here. I'm angry with whatever person coined the phrase, "Time heals all wounds," because he lied. I get so angry that I forget about other perfectly awful things that I can be angry about.
Please let me know that you're doing okay. I really need that right now.
The holidays are coming up. I won't be able to spend them with Pop because I'm stuck in TN till the end of the year. Please make sure that you take care of him.
That's all for now.
Your Son,
Jase
September 18, 2011
Dolly! I'm downsizing again and couldn't b more excited... Cali here I come!!!! As I clean out my stuff I keep finding soo many trinkets and letters from u.... Makes me smile :) also Pop keeps complaining about his pockets being full... I keep trying to help him with this but he's not cooperating!!!!!! I love u xoxo million kisses from my heart!!!
RAY INTERLANDI
September 17, 2011
Hi Swetheart happy aniveristy. I MISS YOU SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH. i THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME MY LIFE IS NOTHING WITHOUT YOU.jASON HAS BEEN STAYING WITH ME AND HE HAS BEEN A GREAT HELP wHEN GOES TO THE CEMETARY WITH ME HE TRIMS THE GRASS.iAM BUSY TRYING TO GET RID OF TOOL AND STUFF AT THE SHOP BECAUSE I SOLD THE COVE WAS JUST TO MUCH FOR ME TO TAKE CARE OF. I LOVE YOU hON AND IT IS SO HARD WITHOUT YOU. MY POCKETS ALWAYS SEEM TO HAVE MONEY IN THEM.WELL HON I'LL SAY SOLONG FOR NOW YOUR DARLING HUSBAND RAY
Caitlin Stinneford
August 11, 2011
Darling,
I'm thinking about you today. I miss you terribly and wish you were still physically here. It's almost mom's birthday and I wish you were here to help me shop for her. I'm terrible on my own. Miss you and love you always. Love,
Caitlin
May 19, 2011
Happy Birthday Sweetheart I hope you are with family on your birthday and you have a special cake.I miss you honey miss you going in my pocket,going to Lord & taylor,buying your berkenstocks,hiding things you bought for the kids and leaving them in the car or have them sneak them in the house even with all this call me crazy but i still miss you. My Bride there is not a day that goes by that i don't think of you. Well Babe solong for now and again Happy Birthday. Ilove you your darling husband
Jase Ventre
May 19, 2011
My Darling,
Happy Birthday!!!
To celebrate your birthday, I'm going to buy myself a shirt from the Gap.
I remember that you taking us kids there was a special time for you.
You were always such a giver.
Well, I don't want to ramble on and on, especially on your birthday.
I love you.
Your Son,
Jase
Kellie Ventre
May 11, 2011
Love you Dolly
Jason Ventre
May 10, 2011
May 10, 2011
My Darling,
My last letter was pretty short, so I thought I would send this one to make up for it.
I'm actually at work right now which brings up my next point. What's better than spending time thinking of and writing to mamadarling? Anybody? Anybody?......getting paid while I do it is!
I went to see mommy for Mother’s Day. It was a nice little surprise for her. Brought her some Fry's Flowers...yeah yeah, classy!
So, 8 weeks till Pop and I start our adventure together. Can you believe it?? I'm really excited about it, but a little embarrassed that I didn't do it earlier.
The wagon is running pretty good. No real concerns so the drive should be okay, but just in case, I would really appreciate it if you can take it with me. Before you answer, just know that I will be singing at the top of my lungs for about 2600 miles. I'm not sure if that's a deal breaker, but just give it some thought. :)
What else? I've given up on taco bell and despite a minor setback, I am now a fan of the del taco. I hope I didn't embarrass you with the argument you witnessed between me and the taco guy, but Dar, I swear on your roommate that the taco guy deserved it.
(I know I shouldn't swear to God, I'm sorry.)
Well that's about it for now. If you need anything, just let me know. I'm there for you.
Your Son,
Jase
Jason Ventre
May 8, 2011
My Darling,
Happy Mothers Day.
Haven't talked to you in a while. How are things up there? Did St. Peter get the cigars I sent? Hey, you know me, always greasing the wheels.
All kidding aside, I just wanted to say Happy Mothers Day to a woman that was like a mother to us all.
I miss you Dar.
Pop was right, it doesn't get easier.
I'm sure you know by now that Pop and I will be together soon. I'm looking forward to it. I think we both need someone.
Well, I gotta get going for now. I promise I'll write to you more often.
Your Son,
Jase
ray interlandi
May 8, 2011
Hi Hon Happy Mothers Day I hope your with Ma and my Mother. I went to the cemetary and put Roses on Mas grave as you used to do and in a little while i am going to your grave for a visit and put flowers there. I miss you so much Mer.You were the little train that could.Ray was here yesterday he and Sue went to the cemetary. He looks great and i got to see Maggie haven't seen her in over a year and she looks great also Sue spoils her with love. Looking forward to Jason comming here I could use the company and also the help if things go right we will be a help for each other. I am trying to sell the Cove and he will help me to get rid of a lot of stuff big tag sale. Well Hon i'll say solong for now I love and miss you so mucg you are always on my mind, your darling husband Ray
Ray Interlandi
April 24, 2011
Hi Sweatheart Happy Easter I hope you are with Mom and Dad & my Mom & Dad.Pats mother passed away a week ago so I'm sure you will be seeing her.I miss you more and more everyday. I made 2 trays of lasagna not as good as yours of cource but i am trying gave 1 tray to Fra by the way he looks great. I now know how to make pasta fasoli and escarole and beans.no more Belltowne Pizza. well hon it's 2am so i'll say goodnight. Iloooooooooooooooove you your darling husband Ray
ray interlandi
February 14, 2011
Hi Sweetheart happy Valentines Day I miss you sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much my life without you is empty. I am in CT. NOW Danni came for a visit she looks great and seems very happy we had a nice visit. It's so hard without you. I have a lot of trouble making decisions and asking myself what you would want. well hon i'll say solong for now love ray
ray interlandi
January 22, 2011
Hi Hon well today it makes 3 years since youve passed. imiss yoyu more than ever.I am still at the shore and everyday i wait to hear you unlock the door and sit and have coffee with me .For some reason i feel closer to you. I spoke to Dani today and she said she is comming to ct. on the 9th itwill be good seeing her it's been a long time.Ispoke to Chatch today she and john were on their way to an olive vinyard she really loves olives. Italked to Jason a few days ago and told him i wanted to put your pic &write something in the advocate God Bless him he took care of everything. I have a Doctors appt. on the 31st so i have to go back to Stamford. Ialso have to try to sell the house or the shop if i want to keep the shore .Please try to give me a sighn on what to get rid of . Does Dad still call you Mrs. Mersedes ? well hon i'll say so long for now and like my poem said you are always by my side
January 22, 2011
My dear sweet beautiful Auntie Mer, you are missed more than you can ever imagine. I go over and over this day in my mind all the time and still cannot get it through my head. My heart aches to hear your voice and give me the advice and guidance that you were always so good at doing. Hugs and a million kisses until I one day see you again. I love you so much!!!!!!
Love,
Your Debbie
Jacob Grady
January 22, 2011
Miss and love you Darling.
Sherry
January 22, 2011
Hi Pop,
I hope your day is filled with beautiful memories, warm smiles, and loving music. You are so special, which is why such a special person loved you all her life.
Love,
Sherry
ray interlandi
January 20, 2011
Hi Hon yesterday was mamas birthday and i wrote but for some reason it did not go on. so please wish her Happy birthday for me and i hope you had a party. I miss you love ray
January 19, 2011
ray interlandi
January 19, 2011
Hi Hon Well here it is moms Birthday hope you have a party for her Please wish her happy birthday from me I miss you sweetie
joanne lockwood
January 12, 2011
Mer,well, the holidays are finally over and we're back to reality. How sad. Ray doesn't want to come home and I don't blame him. There's nothing here to make us laugh anymore. I miss you sis. I wish I could confide in someone else like I used to confide in you. Well I could write to you, but then everyone would know our business and we can't have that, could we. ha-ha. I talk to you always and hope you can hear me. Love you and miss ya. Love, Jo
ray interlandi
December 31, 2010
Hi hon Happy New Year I am still at the shore We had a lot of snow here. i shoveled a path to the fron't house your house. I am here alone but not really because i feel you here with me. I hope you are with Dad and mom and make sure you have the coffee ready at 12 pm or pa will be mad. I really miss you and it never gets easier. I love you Mer I hope you found some slot machines in Heaven love always Ray
Jason Ventre
December 28, 2010
My Darling,
Before you say anything, I already know what you're thinking and no, I didn't call Pop on Christmas.
There's no excuse.
I went to my mothers for Christmas and got to spend some quality time with everyone there. It was actually very nice. I believe with my whole heart that you had a lot to do with that.
I sat across from Mommy and had a really great conversation with her. I now know that a lot of what has gone on with her and I are my fault. It was really nice to look at her and just talk. I looked in her eyes and saw a lot of you! Compassion, love, sincerety and wisdom. Thank you. I feel like I have my mother back.
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I'm working as an inside rep for a tech company here in Arizona. (Funny that I feel a need to tell you what I'm up to knowing that you already know! But why stop there?)
I'm with a girl named Heather. Her and her family are from New York and treat me so well! It's hard though Dar because Heather's mother is so similiar to you. Heather and I go over there usually once a week and I have to fight back tears everytime.
They get me Darling. They understand. How can a family that I just met know what it's like to lose someone as amazing as you? The whole it causes. I still feel like your with us. I still to this day want to call you. I still wait for the next time I can hop on a flight and see you and Pop in Jersey sitting across from each other discussing the recent articles written in the Star and the National Enquirer.
And in case you haven't heard, there's no hope for Lindsey Lohan. Let's move on.
The kids are doing great! I'm so proud of them. Seems that they have all come into thier own. They know who they are and it's beautiful.
I'm still trying to make it. Find my niche. All I know right now is that I'm here and trying to make you happy. Send me a message somehow and let me know if I'm even in the ballpark. Your opinion of me and what I'm doing seemed to have always held the most water.
Heather invited me over to her house tomorrow for some quality time. You'd really like this one Dar. She makes me laugh. And not the kind of nervous laugh because I know it won't last so I enjoy the moment, but optomistic laughter. Her and her mother have your spirit. Family first. It's amazing. Oh and they can cook! Sweet heavens can they cook! I'm not saying that her mothers meatballs hold a candle to yours, but they are mmmm mmmm good!
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I'm sad my Darling. What happened?! Why did you stop punching? There has to be a reason. My Darling doesn't give up. That makes me angry. It just doesn't make any sense.
I've learned that everything happens for a reason, but this had none. Come home! We all miss you.
And for the LOVE OF......well the guy your next to, tell Pop to get rid of all the property. It doesn't make any sense. The houses keep with them beautiful memories, but they also keep with them painful one's. Memories carrying a void. Please talk to him for me. He's just like me...he doesn't listen.
Well I should probably get back to work. There are a lot of people out there in desperate need of a hydrogen sulfide analyzer. :)
If you need anything, let me know.
I love you more than anything.
Your son,
Jase
P.S.- I'm still waiting for that dream. You know what I'm talking about.
ray interlandi
December 25, 2010
Hi Hon Merry christmas I am still at the shore and waiting for you to come walking down the path. Imiss you so much and every day it gets harder. Chatch is having all her children at her house first time all 8 will be together in a long time isn't that great? Ray called to wish me Merry Christmas he is doing fine.I probly will stay here til after New Year than i have to try and see what to do with these houses because it is hard to take care of all of them. I miss you sooooooooooooooo much you were everything to me. love always Ray
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