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Vincent Sharkey Obituary

VINCENT J. SHARKEY.SR., 66 , of Stamford passed away peacefully surrounded by his loving family on Sunday, November 6, 2011 at the New York Presbyterian Hospital, New York City. He was born in New Rochelle, NY on December 3, 1944 to the late John R. and Margaret Leonard Sharkey. He is survived by his loving wife, Rosemary Sharkey , three loving children, Brian D. Sharkey and his wife Tracy and their children Taylor and Brooke, Vincent J. Sharkey, Jr. and his wife Nicole and their child Riley, Kari Lynn S. Isidori and her husband Thomas and their children Kaisi-Paige and Taryn; his loving brothers, John R. Sharkey, Jr. and his wife Nancy and his children Colleen and Jason; Stephen L. Sharkey and his wife Jackie and his children Stacey, Kelli and Stefanie. Vincent was a graduate of Stamford Catholic High School, Class of 1963. A Police Officer for the City of Stamford for twenty five years ,also serving as a Detective for the Youth Bureau and as an Investigator for the Juvenile Courts. He volunteered as a Coach for the Youth Basketball in Stamford and he was also on the Board of Trustees as well as a P.A.L Organizer. He was one of Stamford's softball greats. A funeral procession will be leaving The Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, CT 06902 at 9:20 AM on Thursday, November 10, 2011 for a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 10:00 AM at St. Mary's RC Church, 566 Elm Street, Stamford. Interment will follow at St. John's Cemetery, Darien. Family and friends may call at the funeral home on Wednesday, November 9, 2011 from 3:00-8:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to P.A.L, c/o Stamford Police Association, 850 Bedford Street, Stamford, CT 06901 to continue his legacy of nurturing the youth of Stamford. We had the opportunity to see the love of life through his eyes, in his death he passed this gift. Now a fortunate recipient will have the opportunity to do the same. The Sharkey family would like to encourage all to become an organ donor , to make a difference in someone else's life. The Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory is honored to assist the Sharkey family with the arrangements. To leave online condolences, please visit www.cognetta.com

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Published by The Advocate on Nov. 8, 2011.

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Tom & Lisa Salley

November 14, 2011

To the Sharkey family our deepest sympathy to you Vinny was a great guy and will be missed by all.

Ellis Crawford Jr Spd Ret.

November 13, 2011

To the Family of Vinny Sharkey, Sr., I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Vinny and I go back to the east side as kids. We competed agianst each other in Basketball, and softball. And we worked together on the PD. Vinny, could always get the the job done, no matter what it was. We have lost a good one, rest in peace brother.

November 12, 2011

to the Sharkey family: Just got going with my computer again and was so sorry to read of Vincent's passing. While serving as Stamford's Recreation Superintendent, I took note of Vincent's leadership in helping Stamford to develop well-balanced outstanding youth programs. He and others, especially in the Basketball for Youth and Little League Baseball programs always saw to it that all boys were given an opportunity to play, and feel that they were a part of the team. Thousands over the years benefitted from his love for family, friends and community. May God grant him and his family special blessings. Bruno Giordano

Glenn & Peggy Coppola

November 11, 2011

To the Sharkey family,

We know words do not really help at this time but Vinny was a caring and compassion man who loved working with the city's youth. Vinny was a example for all of us and was truly admired by everyone who worked with him. Vinny will be missed for a very long time.

November 11, 2011

To all of the Sharkey Family,
We were truly saddened by the passing of Vinny. Anyone who had the privilege of knowing him was extremely fortunate. He was a role model for all of us to live our lives by. A kind, loving, caring man with a great sense of humor willing to help anyone and everyone. We are richer for having known him. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time for you.
Rick and Kathy Robustelli and Lucy Joyce

Skip & Carol Potts

November 11, 2011

To Rosemary and family: We are sorry to hear about Vinnie's passing. Our hearts are with you. He was a kind man. May god be with you in this time of sorrow.

Mildred Ritchie

November 10, 2011

To the Sharkey Family: Vinney worked with my son George in the field of sports with the youth of Stamford. I remember him mostly in Basketball. They both worked together to set many a young person on the right path for a good life. I worked with his mother Margaret in the Stamford Hospital. He was a good man. My prayers are with you in these trying days.

louis rich

November 10, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 10, 2011

Dear Sharkey Family,Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief.Danny,Candy Richter & Family

November 10, 2011

Dear Rosemary & Family,
My deepest condolences to you and your family. Having worked with Vin for the full 25 years of his career at SPD, I have great memories of a kind and funny gentleman, truly a Cops Cop. I pray for you, your family and Vinnie as you mourn your loss. I know he is at peace and resting in the heart of our Lord.
Steve DeVito, SPD (retired)

Louis Raduazzo

November 10, 2011

Rest in Peace,Vinny

Ernie Orgera

November 9, 2011

Dear Sharkey Family, My sincere condolences to your family. Vinney was a true gentlemam and friend. We were together in school and the PD. Stamford is a better place because of him. There will always be fond memories.

JoAnn and Ron Miller

November 9, 2011

Vinny was truly one of the greatest person we knew...he always had a smile on his face and kindness in his heart..he gave of himself to the Stamford community and was loved by all that knew him...Rest with the angels Vinny....

Paula Nelson Egan

November 9, 2011

Dear Sharkey Family: My deepest condolences and sympathies to your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers through your time of loss.

Lucille Dinella-Spera

November 9, 2011

Dear Rosemary & Family, I was saddened to hear of Vinny's passing. My deepest condolences and prayers for the family and Vinny. I have great memories of the Grade A Market Softball games when Vinny would slam it out of the park. He was a great friend to Donnie and myself. I know he is at peace and resting in the arms of our Lord.

Gubitose

November 9, 2011

Sharkey was deeply loved and has helped our family through some tough times. He will be deeply missed and will always be in our hearts. I know that he will continue to watch over all.

November 9, 2011

To All the Sharkey family: My deep sympathy, love and sorrow over your loss. Vinny was a beautiful soul. He touched so many lives including mine and my family. He will be remembered always in our hearts. We were blessed to have known him.
Your past neighbor: Diana (Beattie) Dieterich

Shelley Sikorsky

November 9, 2011

I have a picture of Mr. Sharkey in my mind. He is smiling and loving every moment with his family. The special dance at Vin and Nicole's wedding, the love for his wife, children, grandchildren, friends and even the dogs! I feel so honored to have known such a wonderful person. God has a new angel...

Larry & Ann Cece

November 9, 2011

To the Sharkey Family,

We offer our sincere condolences to you during this difficult time. Vinnie was a fine person. May he Rest in Peace.

Kim Palmer

November 9, 2011

I did not get to spend a lot of time with Mr Sharkey but each and everytime I saw him he embraced me like he knew me my whole life. I'm so sorry for your loss. To lose both of your Dads in a years time is heart breaking. I love you both Nic and Vin. With I could be there to hug you both.

Joanne Anzenberger

November 9, 2011

Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss. I had the honor of working with Vinnie for many years and will always remember him as kind, funny, and always a gentleman. Rest in peace and God bless you Vinnie.
Joanne Anzenberger, Ret. SPD

Kevin and Linda Malloy

November 8, 2011

We were deeply saddened when we read that Vinnie passed away. He was a wonderful person - funny, kind, generous, genuine. His smile warmed the heart. Please except our most heartfelt sympathy and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Christine Walkley

November 8, 2011

Rosmary, Brian, Vinny and Kari,
I cannot begin to tell you how sorry I am. Vinny was such an amazing person. Always made you feel safe, and comforted and loved. He was such an incredible soul, very few like him around. I was blessed to have known him. Since I was a little girl, I remember the smile on his face and the love in his hugs. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all now and always.. Love to you all

Ken&Shari Richards and Family

November 8, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

November 8, 2011

To The Sharkey Family
Words cannot express how very sorry we are for your loss. Having had the privilege to work with and to know Vinny, I clearly understand what an inspiration he was to your family and what an impact he made on all of your lives. His strength and power stood out in such a way that was truly unforgettable to me and my family. Please know in your hearts that he too was blessed by having an amazing family like yours. Vinny was such a kind soul, who will greatly be missed by all who knew him.
Cindy Boisfeuillet and family

John Lynch

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey Family,
Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of Vinnie. I worked with Vinnie for over 20 yrs and he was one of the best, and one of the finest gentlemen I have ever known. RIP my friend and God Bless.
John Lynch, Ret. SPD

Bob Latosh

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey Family;
Vinny was one of my first training officers. I was amazed that I could have so much fun and learn so much at the same time. He was a reassuring and confident person and just plain fun to be around. I am very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy.

Rob Trout

November 8, 2011

I knew Vinnie when we were teamates on the K of C in the Federal LL. Although he was tweleve and I ten, I recall how he treated the younger kids with encouragement and respect, which was a bit of a rarity back then. He was a great 'kid', who, based on the comments here, evidently became a great adult. My condolences to his family.

Ken Trout

November 8, 2011

So sorry to hear about the passing of Vinny, I remember him from the Early days of the federal little league at Cummings park, my condolences to the family.

Bob Braccia

November 8, 2011

Dear Ro and Family,
It saddened me to hear about Vinnie. I still remember the days that we worked together. Some of the best times of my career were with Vinnie. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this most difficult time. May he rest in peace, God Bless.

Nancy Skoumbros

November 8, 2011

To the Entire Sharkey Family,
We were so saddened to hear of Vinny's passing. He has been a friend and colleague for so many years. We seem to run into him all the time and no matter how he felt there was always a big smile on his face. He was very special and we will miss him. May your memories last you a lifetime. We should all follow in Vinny's footsteps and become donors. What a legacy that would be! Vinny may perpetual light shine upon you. Rest in peace.

Sincerely,
Mike & Nancy Skoumbros

November 8, 2011

Uncle Vinny was a wonderful person who will be deeply missed. He made the world a better place and I am so glad that I had the pleasure to know him.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Dawn Wood

Johnna Galiatsos

November 8, 2011

My sincere sympathy and condolences to the entire Sharkey Family. Through this sad time, I hope you can find comfort in his love for his family and the memories in which you all have shared with him. You are in my thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.

Keith Birch

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey Family, Vinny was not only a good cop he was also a good friend and he will be miss.May god bless you all

Kathy DelCarmine

November 8, 2011

Rosemary and Children,
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness I feel about Vinny's death. Vinny was a true gentleman and a wonderful friend. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Love and Remembrance,
Kathy DelCarmine

Barbara Schulze

November 8, 2011

Rosemary,
So sorry for your lose. Vinny was a special person and I am sure will be deeply missed. During this difficult time may you get your strength through your family and friends as you remember the wonderful life that he led and all the people that loved him.

Scott Miller

November 8, 2011

Deepest condolences to the entire Sharkey family. Vinny was a good man, who cared for his family and his community. I had the pleasure of working with him as a coach back in the Stamford Youth Basketball days. He will be missed.

Audra Jones

November 8, 2011

OMG, I am in complete shock. I check the obituary daily and when I saw Sharkey's name my heart skipped a beat. To the family I'm so sorry for your loss, you loss a great man.

Elyse Tamborino

November 8, 2011

Dear Rosemary and family,
We are deeply saddened by Vinny's passing. I could write and write about what a special person he was but everyone who knew him knows this. We hope you can take some comfort in knowing that he was loved by so many. His family was his everything. I myself, was fortunate to have worked with him at FPS and can still hear him joking, laughing and singing doo wop.
Our prayers are with you all.
Elyse & Frank (Chi Chi) Tamborino

tony shtufaj

November 8, 2011

I'll never forget the nights you brought over dinner for the guys at TRIZEC. You will be missed greatly.

Rich Priolo

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey family:
Vin was a great man. He alwas pointed out the lighter side of every situation. He brought his humor and understanding to everyone he contacted. He never failed to help anyone he could. His caring attitude and love of life must certainly live on through your family and will always live in the memory of those who knew him. He will be missed. God bless you all.

Kathleen Reilly

November 8, 2011

Rosemary, Brian, Kari & Vincent,

Words cannot express how truly saddened Rob & I are by the passing of Uncle Vinny as he was a truly amazing caring person and will always live on in all of your wonderful memories. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time and may you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you.

Rob & Kathi (DelCarmine) Reilly

Eddie & Jeanne Melfi

November 8, 2011

Dear Ro and family,
Vinny was a great man who touched many lives. We had the privilege of growing up with him, and working with him. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim Purcell

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey Family
I also had the pleasure of working with Vinny at both Bunker-Ramo and the Stamford PD. He was a true Gentleman with a great sense of humour. May he rest in Peace

Chuck Walkley

November 8, 2011

Dear Rosemary and family,
I am so saddened to hear that Vinny has passed away. He was one of my dearest friends I loved him like my own brother. Vinny was what any man would hope to be, a great friend,who brought laughter into almost any situation, a corageous and compasionate police officer,and dedicated family man. He made what was sometimes the deppresing job of police work seem like fun anytime you were near him. Few people in this life will ever match up with Vinny's great qualities. I know he will brighten The skies of heaven that's just the kind of guy Vinny was and will always be. Heaven is now a better place.I still laugh when I think of our LAke George trip many many years ago. My sincerest condolences.

Mike Yaggi

November 8, 2011

I remember Mr, Sharkey as one of my coaches in youth basketball, he left a strong impact on me about team play. I will always remember him. I'm sorry for his loss to his family.

Joanne Fusco

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey family: We are very sorry for your loose, he will be sadly missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

The Fusco Family

Tara Saumell

November 8, 2011

Kari Lynn and the entire Sharkey Family~
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. Cherish all the great times you had with your father. He will live on through all of you and his grand children.
If there is anything you need, I am here!
Love you my friend,
Tara Saumell

Chris Griffin

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey Family,
My sympathies on the passing of Mr. Sharkey. He was a great guy with such a kind and friendly disposition. My thoughts go out to all of you.

Janice Knapp Pielert

November 8, 2011

Dear Rosemary and Family:

My heart goes out to all of you at this very sad time. Vinny was truly a wonderful man, a loving, caring, dedicated husband and father. I will always remember him and the smile he had on his face every time I saw him. I am so, so sorry for your loss. May the beautiful memories you have as a family carry you through this very difficult time.

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey Family We offer our prayers and condolences. Vinny, was a good friend and and an excellent Police Officer. I had the opportunity to work with him a long time. He had a great sense of humor and the ability to deal with people. His attributes will be missed by all. God Bless him and the Sharkey family.

Joe and Flora Ligi

Nick Lucas

November 8, 2011

To all of the Sharkey family,
My heart goes out to you in your time of grief. I had the pleasure of working with Vinnie for many years, and he was a great guy.
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Eva Compo

November 8, 2011

Uncle Vinny was a great great man who will be missed and is loved dearly. He was a big teddy bear who made you feel safe just by being in the same room with him. My heart breaks for you all. I'm so sorry, I love you!!

Lisa May Melfi

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey Family, may God comfort you during this time and all the days ahead....

Duane Lovello

November 8, 2011

A very good man. My deepest condolences to the Sharkey family.

Gary Perna

November 8, 2011

My deepest sympathies to the Sharkey family . Vinny was a mentor when I first was hired by the Stamford Police Department in 1981. He taught me things about being a police officer that you don't learn in books in the police academy.
He was an ultimate professional and a great friend.

Gary Perna Sgt.(Ret) SPD

Sgt. Anthony Gambaro, SPD-RET

November 8, 2011

To the Sharkey Family,
I had the pleasure of working with Vinnie for many years with the Police Department. He was always a gentleman that had the gleam of a mischievous child in his eyes. I will miss him greatly.

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