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Barbara Cesarini Obituary

Cesarini, Barbara Ann

nee: Karney

Age 76 of Elmira, died Thursday, June 16, 2011. The most loving, caring Wife, Mother, Grandmother, Aunt, Sister, Sister-in-law, and Friend who saw in and brought the best out of all who know her. A peacemaker who once wrote: "Remember that love is better than being right". Blessed are the Peace Makers: For they are the children of God. Survived by beloved husband of 60 years Augustine John; sons, Robert James Cesarini (Nancy Fancher), Rochester, John Steven (Nancy Lea) Cesarini, Sparks, NV; grandchildren, Esabella Cesarini, Julia Sara Cesarini; brother, Robert (Theresa) Karney, Big Flats; several nieces, nephews and cousins including special nieces, Karen Marie Dibling, Mary Lou Stead & Cindy Sambroski; special great niece and nephew Barbara Ann Biroscak & Andrew Biroscak; pre-deceased by parents, Sara and Earl Karney Sr.; sister, Loretta Louise Karney; brother Earl Karney Jr. A communicant of Christ the Redeemer Parish and loved the beauty of nature, especially flowers. She was retired from Thatcher Glass after 20 years. Those wishing can make a donation in Barbara's name to Christ the Redeemer Parish (envelopes available at the Funeral Home). The family will receive relatives and friends at the Kalec Funeral Home Monday, June 20th from 3 to 6 p.m. followed immediately by her Funeral Service at 6 p.m. Rev. Scott Kubinski, officiating. Burial in Sts. Peter & Paul's Cemetery at the convenience of the family.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Jun. 19 to Jun. 20, 2011.

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Char Parker

June 21, 2011

When I am dead, my dearest

When I am dead, my dearest,
Sing no sad songs for me;
Plant thou no roses at my head,
Nor shady cypress tree:
Be the green grass above me
With showers and dewdrops wet;
And if thou wilt, remember,
And if thou wilt, forget.

I shall not see the shadows,
I shall not feel the rain;
I shall not hear the nightingale
Sing on, as if in pain:
And dreaming through the twilight
That doth not rise nor set,
Haply I may remember,
And haply may forget.

By Christina Rossetti
The Poetry Foundation

Rae Willette

June 21, 2011

Cindy&Family,
My oldest and dearest friend, over the years I have heard many wonderful things about your special Aunt Barb. I know she ment the world to all of you. I am so sorry I was unable to attend but my heart is with you. If there is anything I can do or if you just want an ear,I'm hear for you. Any time any day .Please call

Wes Stead

June 20, 2011

Our thoughts are with the New York branch of our family during these trying times. Love to all.

Wes Stead & Family

Tom and Jane Canali

June 20, 2011

John, please accept our sincerest condolences at this difficult time.
Dio Benedica.

Frank Nisco

June 19, 2011

John: My prayers go out to you and your family. God Bless Barbara. She was a wonderful person.

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