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Barbara Grabowski Obituary
Elmira Heights: Age 89, passed away peacefully, with her family by her side, on Monday, September 29, 2014 at the Arnot Ogden Medical Center. Barbara was born February 25, 1925, in Elmira, the daughter of Justus L. and Bertha (Hill) Shaw. She is predeceased by her brother Richard Shaw, sister Ellen Willett and daughter-in-law Sharon Grabowski. Barbara is survived by her husband of 64 years Joseph J. Grabowski; children, and their spouses, Pamela J. (Hoffman) and Kenneth Lewis of Elmira Heights, Carol J. and Stephen Cardamone of Ithaca, Thomas J. and Lisa Grabowski of Myrtle Beach SC; grandchildren, Kimberly (Bryan) Woodworth, David (Jamie) Lewis, Corey (Kim) Bourgeois, Michele (Gary) Southard, Kristi (Chad) Colligan, Stephen (Amy) Cardamone, Scott (Michelle) Cardamone, Kelly (James) Spivey, and David Walters; 23 great-grandchildren; 5 great-great grandchildren; brother and sister-in-law William and Eleanor Shaw of Elmira Heights; along with several nieces, nephews and close friends. Barbara was a good and kind person. She never had an unkind word to say about anybody and looked at the world through rose colored glasses. In the past few years she took great interest in sports and became an avid NY Yankee fan. Barbara's role in life was that of a caretaker, always looking out for other people. She was a wonderful wife, mother and grandmother who will be forever missed. Family and friends are invited to McInerny Funeral Home, 502 W. Water Street, Elmira, on Thursday, October 2, 2014 from 4:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. A funeral service will follow at 7:15 p.m. Interment will take place on Friday, October 3, 2014 at 10:00 a.m. in Woodlawn Cemetery. The Grabowski family would like to offer a special thank you to the 3C and 4B staffs at the Arnot Ogden Medical Center, Dr. Rizk, the Chemung County Nursing Facility and Stacy at Care First for the wonderful care provided to Barbara over the last two months. Donations in memory of Barbara may be directed to Care First, 11751 E. Corning Road, Corning NY 14830.
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Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Grabowski
Shelly
September 25, 2024
Can´t believe it´s been 10 years Gram. Time doesn´t make it any easier. You´ve got 2 new angels up there with you. I hope you´re showing them the ropes. Give my mama a big hug from me
January 6, 2015
Best grammy ever! love and miss you!
Love, Molly Bourgeois :)
October 29, 2014
Joseph,Pam,Carol,Tom and families
Fabulous and frivolous memories galore from our many wonder(ful) years next door to such an amazingly remarkable,
caring and sharing friend to all.
THANKYOU for sharing BARB with us and countless others.Rest in Peace Forever, our precious and inspirational Barbara !!!!!
Thee devoted Egnaczak family from near and far
mary lou makowiec
October 13, 2014
Years of memories came flooding back from growing up on Chapman Pl...and all were wonderful when Brab was present and prayers are with you..
October 6, 2014
To the entire Grabowski family
I am sorry for your loss I remember her at all the family functions as a warm and tender soul. She will be sorely missed and I know she is in heaven right now letting God know how proud she is of her family.
Ken Lewis
October 4, 2014
I have known Gram since I was 19 yrs old. She was always such a lady. Would stop what ever she was doing and sit and talk with me. She loved the Holidays when she could be the perfect hostess, waiting on everyone. Gram its time for you to sit and be waited on. RIP Gram.
October 4, 2014
Dear Joe, Carol, & family,
You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Barb was one of those special people who was beautiful inside and out. Our hearts go out to you.
Love,
the Hooblers
Shelly Southard
October 4, 2014
My beautiful Grammy!!! "Love and Sunshine" !! Rest in peace my angel!!!
Kendall and Courtney (Great grandaughters)
October 2, 2014
Grammy, you taught us so many lessons in life. Seeing you always brightened our days. You brought joy and smiles to everyone around you. We love you so much!
Dick and Joyce Blanchard
October 2, 2014
Dear Joe and family,
We are very sad to read of Barb's passing. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you at this very difficult time. Joe,please take care. We will remember Barb always right by your side.
With deepest condolences.
Jerry & Karen Terwilliger
October 2, 2014
To the Grabowski family, Our prayers and thoughts are with you. May God hold her in the palm of his hand.
Bill & Wendy Bailey
October 2, 2014
Cousin Tom And Kelly So sorry for the passing of Barb, Wendy and I always enjoyed Joe & Barb's company. Please give our condolences to all of the family. Cousin Bill & Wendy
Jim Piasecki
October 2, 2014
Pam & Ken, Very sorry for your loss.
Ashley Halbrook
October 2, 2014
Grammy, words can't express how lucky and blessed our family was to have such an amazing person. You were a true angel walking this earth. You taught each and every one of us the true meaning of family, love and patience. You will forever be in our hearts and forever be missed. Love you always
The DiBartolomeo family
October 1, 2014
So sad to hear of Barb's passing. She was a sweet lady and good neighbor for so many years. Our prayers and thoughts are with Joe and her family.
Kim Maurey- Stehm
October 1, 2014
It saddens me to say good bye to this wonderful woman. I grew up knowing her and her kind gentleness. My condolences are with her family and friends.
Rhonda & Warren Williams
October 1, 2014
I love to hear the stories of Barb and my grandma Yvonne spending their summers together as children. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family this week.
Rose Therit/Burns
October 1, 2014
So sorry to hear of you Mom's passing. My prayers are with you and your family.
Pam Quattrini
October 1, 2014
Barbara and Joe were very close friends of my parents and we saw them frequently while I was growing up. She was a sweet, sweet person! I know you will miss her. Celebrate her long life and her passage into peace. My thoughts are with you all. RIP, Barb!
Karen Hardy
October 1, 2014
What a wonderful lady. Joe and Barb have been very good friends of my parents for many many years. She would always call to see how my mother was doing when she was ill. I am sure my mother and her have a little card game going and are talking each others ears off!
Kimberly Amacher
October 1, 2014
My grandmother, Marie Hardy, can play cards with her friend again in heaven.
October 1, 2014
So sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Memories help, now she is at peace. Love, Mary Murdock
Linda & Frank Derr
October 1, 2014
She had a smile and a good word for everyone and she was a blessing to anyone who was honored to know her.
Pete & Jamie Mastrantonio
October 1, 2014
A prayer of peace for all of her family as they cope with their loss.
Alexis Speen-Bartsch
October 1, 2014
My heart goes out to the Grabowski family...what a lovely lady she was. I spoke with Mr. Grabowski after church Sunday and he was so upset that the love of his life was so ill. All's he kept saying was how blessed they were and how good they had it for 64 years. No words and comfort at a time like this, but know that many people share in your sorrow for your loss.
Carol ( Blonde)
October 1, 2014
Mom……You are my SUNSHINE AND LOVE!! RIP, My angel!!!
October 1, 2014
So lucky to have known such a wonderful, kind woman. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family. RIP Barb!
Jim, Lori, Sam & Quinton Kettell
Laura Andrus
October 1, 2014
I have all beautiful memories of Barb over many years now. Not one single negative experience with this amazing woman. How many people can we truly say this about? A woman of true excellence. Many lives have been touched, many tears now shed. Love you Barb. Until we meet again.
Bonnie Angulas
October 1, 2014
A wonderful soul who will be greatly missed. Thoughts and prayers to the entire family.
karen adami
October 1, 2014
You were such an amazing person who put everyone else first before your self. I will miss your sweet, caring smile & your soft gentle voice even when we knew we were in trouble, it was hard to tell by that caring voice. RIP Grammy Grabowski you will be so dearly missed! ~Hugs~
Pam and Ken
September 30, 2014
Mother: You fought a good battle for the last two months but now you are resting and at peace. Please watch down on all of your grandchildren, greatgrandchildren and great-greatgrandchildren. They are sorely missing you as the rest of us are. RIP!
Heather Higgins
September 30, 2014
Blessed to have known such a beautiful woman...sending thoughts of peace and love to comfort you all...<3
Pam Rugiero
September 30, 2014
I am so sorry for your family's loss and the heartache your going through at this time Kim. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you
Lenny & Michelle Stage
September 30, 2014
Such a loving and gracious lady, I will always remember her for her smile and her sweet ways. Rest in Peace Grandma Bowski..
Michelle Stage
September 30, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss!! She is one of the sweetest people I have ever met! Prayers and hugs from me!
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