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Daniel Cady Obituary

Cady, Daniel James

Race # 731

Age 26, born May 9th, 1988. Passed away peacefully August 27, 2014 surrounded by his loving family. He is survived by his mother, Denise (Knapp) Cady, and his father, Anthony (Ruth Kittle) Cady; his siblings, Desiree (Anthony Lopenzo) Cady, Justin Judson Cady, Jordan Judson Cady, Patrick Judson, and Rebecca Judson; his grandparents, Donna (Dave) Wilcox and Sandra Knapp; great-great grandmother Winona Winters, aunts and uncles, Art (Christina) Cady Jr., Raye (Ed) Seisinger, Kaye Vedder, and Darcy (Doug) Allen, Karen (Robert) Coats, and Tom Knapp Jr.; niece, Olivia (Livers) Lopenzo; and numerous cousins. He was predeceased by his grandfathers, Art Cady Sr. and Thomas Knapp Sr. He graduated from Southside High School in 2006. He graduated from Corning Community College with an Associates degree in 2008 and then from Brockport College with a Bachelors degree in 2010. He was employed by Fox Pizza in Campbell, NY. Daniel had a passion for Motor Cross Racing and enjoyed fishing, hunting, and life. Funeral services honoring his life will be held at Olthof Funeral Home, Inc. 1050 Pennsylvania Ave. on Tuesday, September 2nd, 2014. Calling hours will be held there from 4 PM to 7 PM followed by a Memorial service at 7:00 PM. Father John DeSocio will be officiating. In lieu of flowers please donate to St. Jude's Children's Hospital, 505 North Parkway, Box 3704, Memphis, TN 38105 or the charity of one's choice. Guestbook may be signed in obituaries at www.olthof.com.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Aug. 30 to Sep. 1, 2014.

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Deb and Keith Purdue

September 15, 2014

Denise and Family,
Deb and I only discovered your loss yesterday. We are so very sorry that you all have to suffer this tradegy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

BRYCE STROBRIDGE

September 10, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

September 6, 2014

Im sending lots of prayers to you Tony and Denise, I pray he gives you both strength to get through this nightmare, and to give you compfort knowing he is in Gods hands now, Danny has amazingly blessed you with the wonderful memories he shared with each and everyone of you, he will continue to live through all that he knew, never forgotten. My deepest symphathy Chrissy Wilson

Jenny Barrows

September 4, 2014

May the huge ache you have in your heart become smaller with all the sweet memories you hold of son. Bless your weary heart Denise.

Steph

September 4, 2014

My condolences go out to the Cady family. May God, the Hearer of Prayer, bring comfort to family and friends (Psalms 65: 2).
Please accept sympathy with love,

Alicia Kurcoba

September 3, 2014

Denise, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

gloria kunzman

September 3, 2014

(denise) there are no words.....you have my love n prayers god bless gloria k

Jerome & Cathy Domineske

September 2, 2014

Denise and family....so very sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.....

Elyse Fusare-Morgan

September 2, 2014

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Dan. We went to high school together and we randomly ran into each other at the Dandy throughout the years. You always had a huge smile on your face. I send my heartfelt condolences to your family as I can't imagine the pain they are going through. Rest in peace.

Barbara and Brandon Mold

September 2, 2014

Denise: We are so very sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

Bill and Terri Seymour

September 2, 2014

Denise and family. So sorry for your loss. May you find peace with all the wonderful memories

Jim and Gena Benedict

September 2, 2014

Tony, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Corlene (York) Edwards

September 2, 2014

Tony, it has been years since I have seen you...remember all of you kids and smile. But now, my heart is sad for you and your family, thoughts and prayers are with ya'all.

Linda Roppo

September 2, 2014

Denise and family,
I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you are able to find some peace in all of the good memories that you have.

Keith & Axieann Knowlden

September 2, 2014

Denise & family......We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

September 2, 2014

Tony and family: We are so saddened by your loss. Our prayers are with you.
Pat and Carol Fallon

Bill ABrunzo

September 2, 2014

Denise and family, many thoughts and prayers. remember the smiles and the laughs.

September 1, 2014

We are so sorry for your loss! Dan was one of the nicest people we have ever met. He had a way of making your darkest days light up when he came into a room. His smile and sense of humor will be forever missed. He was not only a friend to me and my husband, but to my boys as well. R.I.P Dan, you will be greatly missed. Tim, Stephanie, Keegan, Karter, Kaden & Kooper

Chris Burns

September 1, 2014

RIP Dan you will be missed! When my girlfriend asked who you were, I just simply summed it up was he was one of a kind! Fly high my friend!!!

Nancy Riesbeck

September 1, 2014

Denise--and all those who loved Daniel--I am usually not at a loss for words, but your loss has no words that can heal your hearts. My prayers for healing are with you all.

Rachel Wyman

September 1, 2014

May you rest peacefully in heaven, my condolences to your entire family, friends, & loved ones! ??????

Alice Crissy

September 1, 2014

I'm so very sorry for your loss! You raised a wonderful young man! I had the pleasure of teaching him Global History and then having him in my advisement class for 2 years. He had such a contagious smile and wonderful outlook on life that he could boost your spirits on the worst day! I will miss our Facebook messages and his smiling face! He was well loved by all who met him and will be sorely missed. My thoughts and payers are with all of you now and always!

Bobbie Buelow/Greene

September 1, 2014

So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you & your family. Stay strong.

Olan Rose

September 1, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Words cannot express the sadness I feel for the loss of a great kid.

Ed and Tammy Rose

September 1, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. We are at loss for words, can't imagine the pain your going through .God Bless.

Carmella Allegretto-Baker

September 1, 2014

Christina,

I'm very sorry for your loss, honey. Many prayers being said for you, Dan and all of his family. May Dan RIP.

With deepest sympathy & love.

Mallory Rose

September 1, 2014

Just want to say sorry for your loss. you guys raised a great kid and he will forever be missed. RIP Danny fly high

Jolynn & Zack Curren

September 1, 2014

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Sending lots of love your way.

Larena Blasingim

September 1, 2014

My thoughts and prayers to the whole family, so sorry for your loss! RIP Danny

sheree dildine magera

August 31, 2014

denise,, im at a loss for words and completely heartbroken for u and ur entire family. no mother should ever have to suffer the pain of loss of ur child... may god bring u strength to cope now and always by cherishing the memories u created together. i can tell u he touched many lives, including my sons..from what ive heard through great stories , he lived life to the fullest.. and was and will always remain a part of so many he connected with. all my love and prayers go out to u.....surround urself with those u need to help u thru each day... god bless and carry u through ...

dan strong

August 31, 2014

so sorry about your son denise

JoAnn Habeck Swan

August 31, 2014

Denise and Tony, I'm so sorry to learn of the passing of your son. You're in my thoughts.

Barb & Mike Judson

August 31, 2014

To All of Dan's Family: Praying you find peace and comfort knowing that the brightness of Dan's life will always continue to shine. God Bless and Keep You.

Jamie Witkowski

August 31, 2014

Denise and Family, I'm so sorry for your loss..I will remember Dan by his sarcastic sense of humor and his witty banter / personality... He will be missed by many.

Annie Williams

August 31, 2014

I cannot even imagine the pain your family is feeling. My heart goes out to every family member and friend involved. God bless

Joanne Vadnais

August 31, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with you Denise and the whole family <3

August 31, 2014

Danny was such a wonderful boy - always a smile to share. My deepest condolences to his parents, Desiree, and family.
Marguerite Grieco, retired Pine City School

Lori Knapp / Roupp

August 31, 2014

Denise Sandy Karen and Tom jr, I am so sorry for your loss. I did not know Danny but I have met all of you last August 2013 at the 1st "KNapp" family Reunion...It does ease the pain. That Danny is now with his Grandfather Tom SR. In heaven together in the arms of our Lord so now wee have Two Beautiful Angels in Heaven watching over all of us and now they are Havering their "Knapp/Cady Reunion...my thoughts and prayers are with you and your Faniles...May God Bless You All...

Jillane Brown (Dixon)

August 31, 2014

Denise and family
My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.

August 31, 2014

Family of Dan
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you have to bear, just know t you are very close in every thought and prayer. Ann McG

Karen Storm

August 31, 2014

Denise, I am so sorry to hear this. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers. My heart breaks for you.

Lydia (Tengstrand) Brennan

August 31, 2014

So sorry for your loss. Healing thoughts and prayers to all.

Susan Benjamin

August 31, 2014

Denise, Tony and all the family. I'm very sorry for your loss. Danny was a wonderful person and always put a smile on our faces. He'll be miss by all of us. My thoughts and prayers will always be with all of you. Love you.

Joy Storch

August 31, 2014

To the Knapp and Cady family I'm so sorry for your loss. My family has known Dan since he was 5, I remember his smile and sense of humor. We will miss him. Dan and all of you are in my prayers. May you find comfort and peace.

August 31, 2014

Denise, I am so sorry to hear this! Prayers and your in my thoughts. Ginny Ellis

Ken, Chris and Alex Caward

August 31, 2014

You've given us some great times to remember, on and off the track. Until we meet again....To Dan's family, our prayers are with you.

Beth Barnes (Jacobus)

August 31, 2014

Denise and family, My heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

DAVID WILCOX

August 31, 2014

I AM DEEPLY SADDENED BY THIS TRAGEDY....YOU ARE ALL IN MY HEART.

Dawn Tillinghast

August 31, 2014

Denise and Tony,
So sorry for your loss. May Danny be at peace!!!

Betsy Bowman

August 30, 2014

Tony, Denise and Dan's Family - We are so sorry for your loss. Dan was a great kid and a great friend who will be missed by all. You are all in our thoughts and prayers today and always. Betsy Bowman, Matt & Meghan McGonigal

Gary Patelunas

August 30, 2014

Denise I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers !! Stay strong and may God Bless you.

Rick Altilio

August 30, 2014

Prayers are with you Denise.

Kenneth Forsyth

August 30, 2014

Dan is an awesome friend and person, he will be missed.

Kenneth Forsyth

August 30, 2014

I'm sorry for your loss, Dan was a good friend, awesome to hang out with, he put the sunshine in people's life.

Prutsman's

August 30, 2014

We are so sorry to hear about Danny. He will be missed by us all. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May god bless you all at this time.

Suzie Cooklin

August 30, 2014

Denise, I am so sorry for your loss. May God help you get through this.

Kimberly Spallone

August 30, 2014

I will miss your contagious smile and positive attitude. You were a great person, genuine and kind hearted, I can't wrap my head around you being gone :/

charlene (cady) Vannoy

August 30, 2014

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Bob Guzman

August 30, 2014

Dear Denise and family,
I deeply regret your terrible loss. You have all been in my prayers and will continue to be. I wish there was a way to ease your pain or be of some help.
Sincerely,
Bob Guzman, Elmira

Cory Vedder

August 30, 2014

Danny you will be missed!! We love you!! You are in the arms of the Lord now

Murph and Nancy

August 30, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so sorry to learn of Dan's passing, but are confident he is safe with loved ones in Heaven.

The Dunn's

August 30, 2014

So sorry to hear of your loss Denise you are in our thoughts.

bruce thiel

August 30, 2014

We weren't close friends in school but I remember the havoc you created up and down those halls don't rest in peace Cuz I know that wasn't u R.I.P give em he'll Danny boy!!

Michelle, Patrick, Haileigh and Sydney Hildreth

August 30, 2014

Words cannot express how sorry we are for the loss of Danny. May some peace consume your heart knowing he is with Uncle Tom now. Love you Denise more than you could ever imagine and sending prayers and tonnnsss of love and hugs

Kayla Haner

August 30, 2014

Doesn't seem real. I still read texts from you, go to send a snapchat and see your badge and know you'll never see it and I'll beer get one from you again. I guess god needed you more than we did. Fly high! You'll be greatly missed!

Regina Sterling

August 30, 2014

Tony & Denise,
My thoughts & prayers are with you both & your family.
Love, Gina Sterling

Stephen H

August 30, 2014

Dan,

I think all of your graduating classmates will forever remember the smiles and laughs you provided us throughout those years! RIP!

Diana Knapp

August 30, 2014

Denise, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts are with you and the rest of the family. My heart goes out to all!

August 30, 2014

Tony and Denice
We want you to know how much we love Dan. We're so Thankful for the years we shared with him. We now have a lifetime of memories. He makes us smile his beautiful face and his crazy personality. We have never known anyone who lived everyday to the fullest. Our hearts are aching for you and we know Dan is wrapped in Gods arms. No more pain our Love! See you soon! We Love You! Jenny Boyd Cindy Kelly Matt Hunt

mary updike

August 30, 2014

Dear Cady family, How sorry we are to hear this...Even though we were briefly a part of this family we want you to know that we thought o lot of Danny...He was a sweet child who grew to be a man just as sweet....We will miss you Danny...Our hearts are with you all in your time of sorrow...know that Danny is now in the loving care of God..Please accept out deepest sympathy....Ray & Mary Updike

Ashley Colegrove

August 30, 2014

To Dan's Family:

I'm am so sorry for your loss. I am so lucky I had the opportunity to meet Dan. He was always in the best mood smiling and trying to make others laugh. In fact this is what I will miss the most ( his generous caring soul). He truly knew how to lift anyone's spirits. I will miss all the messages and pictures he used to send me to make me laugh or cheer my day up.

Sending my thoughts and prayers.

Rena Gilbert White

August 30, 2014

Sorry for your loss, Daniel was an amazing person

Carrie Cady

August 30, 2014

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

August 30, 2014

Tony, Denise & Families,
We are so very sorry for your loss.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Kevin, Marcie & EmmaLee Buckland-May

ken christy hughes

August 30, 2014

We were very sorry to hear aboit dans passing. We will always remember dan for his crazy antics and his big smile rest in peace buddy

John Wade

August 30, 2014

Denise I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers go out to you and your family.

Dennis and Judith Rice

August 30, 2014

Words cannot express our sorrow over your loss. Danny was a great kid who will be sorely missed.

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