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David Phillips Obituary
Elmira: Age 65, passed away Thursday, October 2, 2014, at the Chemung County Nursing Facility. David was born August 26, 1949, in Elmira, a son of the late David T. and Nataline (Santucci) Phillips. In addition to his parents he is predeceased by daughter Jennifer Phillips and brother Duane Phillips. David is survived by his loving wife of 43 years Anita Pinelli Phillips; son David J. Phillips with Jennifer LaMarche, of Rochester; brothers and sisters-in-law, Edward and Sheila Phillips of Elmira, James Michael and Dorothy Phillips of Horseheads, Theodore and Patricia Phillips of Cicero NY; brother-in-law and sister-in-law Theodore L. and Judy Pinelli of Springville NY; along with several nieces, nephews and cousins. David was graduate of Elmira Free Academy. He then went on to earn degrees from both Corning Community and Elmira College. David was an outstanding wrestler competing at EFA, Corning Community College and East Carolina University. He was a State Correction Officer retiring after 25 years of service. Growing up David was active in Boy Scouts, attaining the rank of Eagle Scout. He enjoyed sports and was an avid NY Yankee fan. It was David's request that all services be kept private. Those wishing may remember David with a donation to the Chemung County SPCA, 2435 State Route 352, Elmira NY 14903. David's family extends a special thank you to CareFirst, and the staff at the Chemung County Nursing Facility for the wonderful care he received while there. Arrangements by McInerny Funeral Home.
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Peace
Clare McCuen
October 2, 2016
Dear Dave:
You are missed desperately by your wife, and children. Your bear family was blessed to have been a part of your like - and we too miss you. I would like to thank you both for sharing your journey - for we All learned A Lot - Especially Love. And... to not take life for granted, nor each other. You are Missed, but beyond loved. May you rest in Peace. Your wife sees only you in each sunrise and sunset - this I know.
With Love - Clare
Anita Phillips
October 2, 2016
Two years ago today, you left this world for a better place. I still feel your presence & I smell that wonderful scent of roses whenever you are around; I hear you whisper in my ear. I know that you will always be with me & that you will come & get me when my work here is done. Until then I'll see you in my dreams. You are & always will be the love of my life. Rest in Peace! Nita
Anita Phillips
October 2, 2015
It doesn't seem like you've been gone a year...seems like just yesterday I was holding you near. I feel your presence every day but unfortunately, you couldn't stay. You will always be in my heart, so we're never really apart. I will love you forever + a day! Until we're together again....Nita
Sue Macdonald
November 8, 2014
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am the diamond glints on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the Autumn gentle rain
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
I am the soft stars that shine at night
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
John Moffe
October 8, 2014
Rest in Peace buddy...
October 8, 2014
David and I had many talks together while at EFA and after graduation, and I always found him to be kind and a real gentleman. I remember is kind smile and ready laugh. He will be missed.
Bob Mehalick
October 8, 2014
Please accept my condolences. As another one of the E.F.A. family passes we are all saddened and pray that Dave's family is comforted in knowing that on that last great day, we will all be together with each other and our loving GOD. God bless you Dave.
Richard Stone
October 8, 2014
An All American kid. Your EFA classmates will miss you.
Mike Donovan
October 8, 2014
David was a great guy to grow up with and work with. He had that infectious smile. Rest in peace my brother. Till we see each other again. Mike D.
October 7, 2014
Anita
I am so sorry to hear this news. The Swarthout family sends our condolences and if you need anything please let us know. Enjoy your happy place David, you will be missed xoxo
Amy, Margo & Gary Swarthout
Cousin Matthew
October 6, 2014
I will never forget you, David. Rest in peace, my cousin.
Carmela & Denny Whitford
October 6, 2014
Anita and family, We are so very sorry to read of Dave's passing. We have vivid memories of Dave walking around at Camp Arey when you had your place here! Cherish all your happy memories that you made together and hopefully they will help you through this sad time. RIP IN PEACE, DAVE!!!
Mike,Anna, Brian,& Stacy Ellis
October 6, 2014
We are blessed to have known David as both a role model,and friends.You will always be in our prayers.Anita it was a blessing to see the 2 of you together 43 yrs A couple made in heaven.Thanks for keeping an eye on the cellar rats
Frank and Jeanne Kraft
October 6, 2014
Anita and family: Our sincerest sympathy and love to you at this difficult time. We will miss not seeing Dave take his daily walk at the lake. He is now resting in Heavenly Peace.
The Punzo Family
October 6, 2014
Someone so special can never be forgotten. We love you and are keeping you and DJ in our thoughts.
John Gray
October 6, 2014
To the Phillips family,So sorry to hear of David's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Joe OBrien
October 6, 2014
Anita and DJ sadden to hear of David's passing was a great man and father remember the good times it help to pass the bad times . In my prayers
Tony Greene
October 6, 2014
To the Phillips family, my prayers are for you during this time!! Great guy and family.
Rick Reagan
October 6, 2014
Dave was a great guy. He'll be missed by many. My condolences to the Phillips family.
Ellen Emith
October 5, 2014
My thoughts and Prayers of Comfort go out to Anita and Family. I Pray that the Memories of happier times will help to get them thru this time and for the years to come.
Michele Chartier
October 5, 2014
{{Anita}}My heartfelt sympathy on the loss of Dave. I share your grief at this very difficult time. xx
Kay Hebdon
October 5, 2014
RIP David...all the memories our families have shared will never be forgotten. Thoughts and prayers are with your family. God bless.
Maureen Shafer
October 5, 2014
Anita, DJ and the Phillips family, I am terribly sorry for your loss. I am keeping you all in my prayers at this difficult time.
Lolly Tufillaro
October 5, 2014
Anita and DJ my thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find God"s strength to see you through.
Tom Shull
October 5, 2014
To the Phillips' family,
I worked with David years ago at "The Hill". I'll remember him always as a kind man, with an infectious smile. As you mourn his loss, never forget your memories... Until you all meet again.
Pete Mastrantonio Sr.
October 5, 2014
To the Phillips Family,I had a lot of fun working with Dave at the "Hill" over the years.He always had a smile.You are all in my prayers,R.I.P. my friend.
October 5, 2014
Anita, cherish the memories. Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
Bonnie & Don Dalia
Paul Titus
October 5, 2014
Anita and Phillips family: David was one-of-a-kind, for sure. He will always be in my prayers...he's an eternal friend. His smile is etched in my memory...God Bless Dave and his family.
Don and Kay (Pesesky) Ellis
October 5, 2014
Anita, DJ....So sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Kathy Dunn
October 5, 2014
Fly Free and High Dave.... You are finally pain free and at peace. God watch over Anita and give her comfort... till you meet again.
Clare McCuen
October 5, 2014
May you rest in Peace David. Thank you for your service, and thank you for sharing your journey with us all. Peace
Jackie Andrade
October 5, 2014
Anita and DJ: God Bless You. Thanks for posting that cute devilish face. Thoughts are with you.
Walt "Brownie" & Brenda Brown
October 5, 2014
Anita, DJ & The Entire Phillips Family, May your hearts be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times that you all spent together. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dick Hewitt
October 5, 2014
Phillips Family, So sorry to hear of Daves passing. Worked with him many years and he was a great guy to know.
May God be with you all.
Nick Chalk
October 5, 2014
Anita, My condolences and prayers. Dave was truly a great person!
Sheryl Keller
October 5, 2014
Dear Lord, please comfort those in grief,
Love them, lift them, give relief
For loss they've suffered, sadness felt;
Make this sorrow slowly melt.
Lord, let happy memories ease,
Creating peace like a gentle breeze,
And as you help them make it through.
Draw them closer, Lord, to you.
Sincere condolences on your loss.Remembering a dear friend.Love Nevin and Sheryl.
October 5, 2014
Love and caring thoughts to you, Anita
October 5, 2014
Thank you Anita for sharing the journey, and letting get to know Dave better through your words of love....
judy johnstone
October 5, 2014
Anita cherish those wonderful memories of Dave. My prayers are with u and DJ I will miss Dave but no more suffering.RIP Dave
Tom Bennett
October 5, 2014
So very sorry to hear of David's passing! What a wonderful man, Father, Husband and friend!!! He will be missed by so many!
Maryann Tombasco
October 5, 2014
Anita, we will always remember Dave's sharp wit and that he always made us laugh and his generosity of spirit. I believe that as long as those memories you have bring a smile to your face, a chuckle to your heart and a tear to your eye, he will always be with you. God bless you and DJ as you both walk this road. Love, Maryann and Joe (Corning, NY)
John Comereski
October 5, 2014
Phillips Family, I am sorry to hear about David's passing. He was really a great guy and I was lucky to work with him at the Elmira Correctional Facility. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
October 5, 2014
Anita and Family...I am so sorry for your loss...Dave fought a very hard battle he gave it his all...and Anita you fought so hard right alongside of him...He is now at Peace and has no more pain....He and Molly will be together and one day you'll all be together...Thinking of you.....Jeannine
Joan Edwards
October 5, 2014
I'm so sorry for the loss of beloved Dave. My prayers are with Anita and the family. Enjoy your rest in Paradise.
October 5, 2014
I will always remember Dave's laugh and the twinkle in his eye. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will be with you in spirit on Tuesday and will raise a toast to celebrate Dave's life.
Maryann B
Floyd Bennett
October 5, 2014
Dave, you were a good man. Rest in peace!! To the Phillips family my prayers are with you.
Mary Ellen Ennis (Tyrrell)
October 5, 2014
So sorry for your loss. I still remember when you stayed with me in Rochester and he was sleep walking! Hold tight to the memories and each other!
David Berbary
October 5, 2014
Anita and entire Phillips family,
I'm saddened to learn about Daves passing.He was a good man and very good friend. He will surely be missed. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.
Mary Ellen Ennis (Tyrrell)
October 5, 2014
So sorry to hear of David's passing. I still remember when you came and stayed with me in Rochester and he was sleep walking! Great memories!! Hold tight to those!!
October 5, 2014
Anita & family,
I am deeply saddened to learn that a life-long friend has left us. Many memories of our years growing up together in the neighborhood will never be forgotten. God bless.
Robert M. Jones
AL HAGER
October 5, 2014
ANITA AND FAMILY I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.WORKED WTH DAVE ON THE HILL FOR SEVERAL YEARS.HE WAS A GREAT OFFICER.REST IN PEACE MY BROTHER REST IN PEACE.SEE YA ON THE OTHER SIDE BROTHER.
Terry Mclaughlin
October 5, 2014
To the Entire Phillips family:
Very sorry to hear of Davey's passing. Work with him for many years, and in such a demanding profession, we sure had a lot of fun. Such a good man.
Here's to you Davey, and those like you. God knows there's too damn few of them.
Say hello to Mantle for me.
Mena (Girardi) Raub
October 5, 2014
Anita, Eddie and families...you have my deepest sympathy on your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Remember all your good times and I hope the transition will be a little less painful.
Tom Notartomaso
October 5, 2014
To Anita and family:
So sorry to hear of your loss Anita; Dave fought a good fight and now he is going home. RIP Dave,,,, my prayers are with you and the family Anita .....
Deborah Field
October 5, 2014
Much love and prayers.
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