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James and Connor Hamilton Obituary
& Connor Brendan
James Patrick Hamilton, Ph.D., (43) and Connor Brendan Hamilton (10) of Horseheads passed away together July 2, 2016 as a result of a Jet Ski accident in Ocean City, NJ. Jim was born in Coatesville, PA, March 17, 1973 to Jack and Ellen Hamilton, and Connor was born in Lone Tree, CO, June 14, 2006 to Jim and Holly Hamilton. Surviving are Jim's wife and Connor's mother, Holly (Anderson) Hamilton; daughter and sister, Cassie; Jim's parents and Connor's grandparents, Jack and Ellen Hamilton; Jim's brother, John (Jenn) Hamilton; Holly's mother and Connor's grandmother, Gloria Anderson; Holly's sister, Cindy (George) Henry; and a host of extended family members and friends. Jim received both his undergraduate and Ph.D. at Penn State University. He was employed at Corning Inc. as a Development Associate. Connor was a student at Gardner Road in Horseheads. As fathers and sons do, they enjoyed Cub Scouts, soccer, lacrosse, and trumpet together. Family and friends are invited to call at the Barber Funeral Home, 413 S. Main St., Horseheads on Friday July 8, 2016 from 4-7:00 pm. Family and friends are further invited to call at the First United Methodist Church, 1034 W. Broad St., Horseheads on Saturday, July 9, 2016 from 11-12:00 noon where their service will be celebrated together at 12:00 noon. Burial service will follow in Maple Grove Cemetery in Horseheads. Those wishing to do so may remember Jim and Connor with memorial donations to the Boy Scouts of America, Five Rivers Council, 244 W. Water St, Elmira, NY 14901. Condolences and remembrances at www.barberfuneralhome.com
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Memories and Condolences
for James and Connor Hamilton
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Carolyn Schwenk
July 10, 2016
Holly and Cassie. We have never met but our paths were meant to cross on that tragic day. I was there with my family and out hearts broke for you all. I believe God has his reasons for sending Jimmy and Connor into my life briefly and my prayers will always be with you and them. My deepest, heartfelt condolences.
Cathy Smarkusky
July 10, 2016
Holly and Cassie, Our family's thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time. Love, Cathy, Eric, Gavin and Megan Smarkusky
Lauri Mitchell
July 9, 2016
My dearest Holly and Cassie, we have never met but my thoughts and prayers are with you for this tragic loss of Husband, Father, Son and Brother!! May God heal your grieving hearts
Lynn and Bob Drafall
July 9, 2016
Dearest Holly, please know that Bob and I are holding you close in our hearts, both now and in the days ahead.
Joanne Rutkowski
July 9, 2016
Holly, I cannot begin to express how sorry I am for your tragic and devastating loss. I remember you, Conner, and Cassie in my Music Play classes when you were back in State College. My heart goes out to you; you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love and hugs to you - Joanne Rutkowski
Melissa (Wallner) Flail
July 8, 2016
Holly, I am so heartbroken for you and Cassie. I can't imagine your grief. You are in my thoughts, prayers, and tears. I hope and pray for you to find strength and comfort amidst this awful tragedy. Jim was such a wonderful and joyful person. Knowing you both as individuals and then seeing your beautiful family, I am so glad you found each other and so sorry your time was cut short.
"Set me as a seal upon your heart...for love is strong as death."
JP and Pilar Libert
July 8, 2016
Dear John and Jenn,
Pilar and I send you our most heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy. You, Holly and Cassie, and your family, are in our thoughts and our prayers. Much love to you all.
Judy Mather
July 8, 2016
Prayers & hugs to all.
Judy Mather (Gianna Ferarro's grandmother)
Corrine O"Neill
July 8, 2016
Ellen, Jack and Family,
My sincere condolences for the tragic accident that took the lives of your Son and Grandson. I will pray for you all.
Caroline Taylor
July 8, 2016
Jim and Connor are in our prayers....Holly and Cassie, you are in our prayers. So sorry for your tragic loss. Words can't describe the sympathy I feel.....
July 7, 2016
To Mrs. Holly Hamilton and family. My name is Officer Daniel Bryan from the Somers Point Police Department. Myself along with Officers Heiler, Scoli, Miller , Haskins and Mabkhouti were on scene that tragic day. No words I can say will ease your pain during this very difficult time. I wanted you to know that we are thinking of you and are sending our heartfelt condolences to you and your family. God Bless you and your family. Sincerely, Officer D. Bryan.
Patty McPherson
July 7, 2016
The Girl Scout community is mourning the loss of a scout member. Rest in peace.
patty McPherson
July 7, 2016
So sorry. Your in our prayers. Troop 40026/41305
Elmer Robinson
July 7, 2016
So very sorry to see this has happened. My prayers for the family and friends and co-workers.
Tara Braun Walitynski
July 7, 2016
Dear Holly and Cassie, I am so sorry for your loss. You both are in my thoughts and prayers!
Wilma Dubil
July 7, 2016
Dear Ellen Jack & family
Just keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers.
Sherrie Pizzo
July 7, 2016
Sincere condolences from a former jet ski enthusiast. My prayers go out to the family and friends.
July 7, 2016
Holly and Cassie,
I am so sorry about Connor and Jim. My tears and prayers join with yours.. Brad Smith
June Orsillo
July 6, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of this tragic accident. I pray for this family. I am originally from Elmira and was devastated when reading from family and friends on FB of this news. I cannot express my deepest condolences.
Sean Lehmann
July 6, 2016
To the Hamilton family,
I am very sorry for your tragic loss. I pray that you may find Peace, and be comforted by God's Love and Mercy during this difficult time.
Sandy Brenen
July 6, 2016
Holly and Cassie, I am so sorry for your tragic loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers!
Heather Clayton
July 6, 2016
Sending love and hugs from one Gardner Road Family to another. Our hearts and prayers are with you.
The Clayton Family
Will Sr, Heather, Benji and Alice
Patti Sotero
July 6, 2016
On behalf of Patti and John Sotero, we want to extend our heart filled sympathy for your incredible loss. We pray for His loving arms to be wrapped around you and your daughter.
Samantha
July 6, 2016
Connor was one of the funniest and most entertaining, lively and loving kids I'd known and had the pleasure to babysit. Jim was such a kind soul, and Connor took after him in that way. Prayers and condolences coming your way. They will both live on through the hearts they've touched.
Melissa Kelley
July 6, 2016
Holly & Cassie we are so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our deepest condolences. No words can describe what you are going through but know that you are surrounded by love from your family and friends in your time of need.
Love, The Kelley Family
The Moreira family
July 6, 2016
Dear Holly and Cassie, there are no words to express our sadness for your loss. Sending thoughts and prayers your way, for God's comfort and peace in your hearts. We love you!
Eisenhauer
July 6, 2016
Holly and Cassie we are so very sorry for your loss, no words can describe how sorry we are.
You are in our prayers.
Donna Weber
July 6, 2016
We are a fellow scouting family deeply saddened by your sudden loss. Please know we are keeping you in our daily thoughts and prayers as you go through this very difficult time. Our scouting community holds you close to our hearts. If you find that you need help with anything please reach out to us. We are here for you ♥
With deep sorrow in our hearts,
The Weber Family
Horseheads Boy Scout Troop 84
July 6, 2016
Holly and Cassie,
We are all so heartbroken over this and want you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Connor was such a great friend to Brandon and his presence and laughter will surely be missed in our home and lives! Jim was such a wonderful role model for the boys and he will be missed as well.
With love,
The Dildine's
Shawna France
July 6, 2016
Holly,
There are no words that can be uttered to express our sadness. We are praying for your strength, sending our sincerest and deepest thoughts, love and hugs to you and Cassie.
Shawna France
July 6, 2016
No words can be uttered that can express the shock and sorrow- to Holly and Cassie- we are praying for your strength and sending our love. The France family
Hayden Family
July 6, 2016
Holly & Cassie, There are no words.......my heart aches for your both. Our deepest condolences to you and the entire family! May God give you strength and comfort to deal with this very tragic loss!
Katie and Emma Berkovich
July 6, 2016
Holly and Cassie,
We are so sad to hear about the loss of Jim and Connor and are keeping your family in our thoughts and prayers. Please accept our condolences.
Cassie Wright
July 6, 2016
Holly, Cassie, and Family,
My deepest condolences go out to all of you. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
July 6, 2016
Holly and Cassie,
You are in our thoughts. We worked with Jim and admired his insight and intelligence. He will be sorely missed.
Condolences,
Kelly Hughes and Sara Sick
Paddock Family
July 6, 2016
Holly & Cassie, we are so sorry. Our family is praying for you and your family's loss. If there is anything we can do, please let us know.
Stacey Huftalen
July 6, 2016
Holly,
So very sorry for this terrible loss. I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.
Lapierre Family
July 6, 2016
Holly and Cassie, we are so deeply sorry for your loss. Hope God gives you strength and peace to weather this storm.
Melanie Rahr
July 6, 2016
Holly and Cassie I am so sorry. We are thinking of you. If there is anything we can do please let us know.
Melanie Rahr
Cassie I am sorry about your dad and brother. I am here for you.
Tommy Rahr
Richard Braun
July 6, 2016
Our love and prayers are with all of you.
July 6, 2016
You do not know me, but I grew up in Horseheads, and happened upon James' and Connor's obituary today, as I was reading the hometown paper. I just want your family to know how very saddened I was to see this today. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to your entire family.
gail sutherland
July 5, 2016
Jim was my grandsons cub scout leader and Connor was in his den. Jim was wonderful with all the boys . always concerned about Kaedyn(my grandson).please accept our deepest sympathy.
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