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Joseph John Calabucci

1924 - 2016

Joseph John Calabucci obituary, 1924-2016, Elmira, NY

BORN

1924

DIED

2016

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McInerny Funeral Home

502 W. Water St.

Elmira, New York

Joseph Calabucci Obituary

Calabucci, Joseph John

Age 92, died on Friday, December 2, 2016, surrounded by his family, at his home on Keuka Lake, Penn Yan, NY, of complications related to various health issues. Joseph was born in Sayre, PA on July 13, 1924, the son of the late John and Maria (Fagiolo) Calabucci. In addition to his parents, Joseph was also predeceased by his siblings Quedo Calabucci; Secondo Calabucci; Angeline Calabucci; Lucy (Calabucci) Green; and Dominick Calabucci.

Joseph graduated from Sayre High School and upon graduation at 17 years old he enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps, where after basic training at Parris Island, SC, he served in the South West Pacific Theatre during World War II, 2nd Marine Division, 5th Amphibious Combat Unit. It was during the war that Joseph became a devout Catholic and made a commitment to never miss Sunday Mass, which he honored his entire life. After his honorable discharge from the Marines, Joseph enrolled at Rochester Institute of Technology where he studied printing using the G.I. Bill to assist in paying his tuition. After graduating from RIT in 1950, Joseph commenced a career that lasted 33 years at the Elmira Correctional Facility, where he was the Vocational Education Supervisor for the last 25 years of his employment. Joseph and Mary were very fortunate to spend many wonderful years in retirement at their summer home on Keuka Lake and at their winter home in Ponce Inlet, FL. Joseph will forever be recalled in stories told by his family and friends about his incredible sense of humor and mastery at playing practical jokes on people. The "Old Bull" will also be fondly remembered by all, especially his grandchildren, for his enduring love and devotion to his family throughout his life.

Joseph is survived by his loving wife of 65 years, Mary Virginia (Murphy) Calabucci of Penn Yan, NY, and their children Tina (Jeffrey) Bradshaw, Hobe Sound, FL; Michael (Florence) Calabucci, Loudonville, NY; Susan (Daniel) Flynn, Bradford, NY; and Dr. Karen (Barry) Fingar, Rochester, NY. Joseph is also survived by his grandchildren Dr. Matthew (Adrianna) Harris; Brian Harris; Andrew Bradshaw; Kyle Bradshaw; Laura Calabucci; Joseph Calabucci; Jennifer Flynn, Esq.; Sean (Jamie) Flynn; Kathryn Flynn; Timothy (Savannah) Flynn; Ryan Flynn; Meghan Flynn; Aaron Fingar; and Adam Fingar. In addition, Joseph's great-grandchildren Bryce Flynn; Liam Flynn and Greyson Harris survive him.

It was Joseph's wish for no calling hours, but there will be a Mass of Christian Burial held at St. Charles Borromeo Church, 130 Oakwood Avenue, Elmira Heights, NY 14903, at 10:30 a.m. on Tuesday, December 6, 2016. Interment, with military honors, will follow at St. Peter & Paul's Cemetery, 623 Franklin Street, Elmira, NY 14904. The funeral arrangements are being handled by McInerny Funeral Home, 502 Water Street, Elmira, NY 14905. The family requests that donations be made to St. Jude's Research Hospital, 262 Danny Thomas Place, Memphis, TN 38105, or Notre Dame High School, 1400 Maple Avenue, Elmira, NY 14904.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Dec. 4 to Dec. 6, 2016.

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December 9, 2016

Dear Mary, We are so sorry to hear the news re. Joe. Our sincerest sympathy to you and your family, We have recalled the wonderful times we had in Sea gull Landing. We always enjoyed talking to Joe--quite a guy. Take care and you were a wonderful wife to him. Love, Elaine&Dick

Beth Chambers

December 9, 2016

Mary, So sorry to hear of Joes passing. He made SeaGull Landing a better place! Thinking of you.

Mary Claire (Sozanski) Evans

December 6, 2016

Dear Calabucci family , I was saddened to read of your Dad's passing. I have very fond memories of the visits to the lake house and their Elmira home as a child.My parents enjoyed the times they spent with your family. Your dad was a very sweet, kind, positive, loving man and a wonderful father. Even as a child (playing with Suzie at the lake), he was always kind to me. And we weren't always that well behaved as i remember. The church service today was very beautiful. A great remembrance for a great guy.

Dan Reagan

December 6, 2016

sorry for your loss, Mike.

Paul Titus

December 6, 2016

I'll forever hold Mr. Calabucci in my prayers...have some fond memories. God Bless him and his family.

December 5, 2016

Mrs. Calabucci, all the kids, and family.

Know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Many happy memories of a truly great, kind, caring, and funny man who made a positive impression on those who met him. It is those memories that will keep him close to all. May Joe rest in Eternal Peace with our Lord.

Jayne and Mike D'Aloisio

Joseph Murphy

December 4, 2016

My dear sister and the whole Calabucci family, Joe has always been more than a brother-in-law to me, he was a brother, a friend, a mentor and a father figure. He would always help and let me help him with our places at Keuka Lake, especially when he rescued my boat when it sank. after the third time he said no more. Joe was a prince of a man. I will miss him and I thank God he was in my life.

Buono Riposa
Love, Joe

December 4, 2016

We feel very grateful to have had the opportunity to have Joe in our lives. Joe was a wonderful man with a genuine kindness that will be greatly missed. With deepest sympathy & love, Paul & Barbara Broggi

JoAnn Serdinow

December 4, 2016

The Marks family from the Heights have fond memories of Joe and your family many years ago. God bless.

Donna, John & Patrick Donahue

December 4, 2016

Mary and family,

Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers as you gather to pay tribute to one of the best men we ever had the privilege to know and call friend. We know Joe was as Italian as you can get but we think he won't mind the following Irish prayer:

May the road rise up to meet you,
may the wind be always at your back,
may the sun shine warm upon your face,
the rains fall soft upon your fields and
until we meet again may God hold you in the
palm of His hand.

Fair winds and following seas.

Rest in peace, Marine.

December 4, 2016

To All of the Calabucci Family ~
We have fond memories of Mr. Calabucci and remember him as a warm, fun-loving dad! We are so sorry for your loss, as it is a big one that must leave a hole in your hearts. He will be missed by many! May God send you his peace...
With our deepest sympathy and love,
Priscilla & Fran Pirozzolo

Dutch

December 4, 2016

THE OLD BREED...

Few earn the title "United States Marine".
Once earned they are a "Marine Forever"...
When they die, their Honor Clean, they appear before Heavens Gates, and see two signs, Eternal Peace and Marines...
The Marine follows a path to a Quonset Hut, knocks three times and enters...
Inside are two Marines, Colonel Lewis B. Puller and Sergeant Major Dan Daly...
The SgtMaj., hands the Marine a quill pen and bottle of red black ink, with which he signs his name to the duty roster...
After signing the Marines Heavenly Robes fade, replaced by standard Marine Corps issue...
The Marine smiles and does a right face out the hatch to the Yellow Footprints to muster as The USMC Old Glory Division...

The Marines purpose is clear, to fight the forces of evil for all eternity under the command of the Ultimate Commander-In-Chief, GOD ALMIGHTY...

"By The Grace Of God,
And A Few Marines,
It's Good To be Home"...


Semper Fi. Joe...
"The Old Breed"...
(E. Sledge)


Dutch......

Rich Cerio

December 4, 2016

To the Calabucci Family:
What a wonderful man. My deepest sympathies.

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Tom Brady

December 4, 2016

Joe was quite a guy. I remember a conversation we had many years ago about WWII. He kind of nonchalantly said, "Ya know, D-Day was a one-time thing (referring to the war in the European Theater). I can't tell you how many beachheads we invaded day after day" referring to the time he served with the Marines in the Pacific Theater during the same war. He wasn't bragging though. He was just sharing some thoughts.
I'll always remember him and Mary postponing their yearly trip back to Florida after Thanksgiving 2003 so they could attend my wedding. Good times. RIP Joe!

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Mark Kroczynski

December 3, 2016

Mike and family, my deepest sympathy to you all on the passing of your dad.

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