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Judith Sanford Obituary
"Judy"
Age 62, of Elmira, died Wednesday, February 18, 2009 at Robert Packer Hospital. Judy was born November 25, 1946, a daughter of John Barnes and the late Mary-Ruth Edwards Barnes. In addition to her mother, she is predeceased by her husband, Riley T. Sanford. Judy is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Stephanie and Randy Myers of Randolph, NY, with their children, Alexandra and Austin; son, Carl Sanford of Elmira, with son, Xayn Kurta; siblings, Vivian Marsh of Montgomery, PA, with husband Herb, Michael Barnes of Neenah, WI, with wife, Dr. Ada Hall, Caroline Ostriche of Newville, PA, Margaret Barnes of Carmel, NY; along with several in-laws, nieces and nephews. Judy touched many lives over her 30 year career in education. She started as an elementary teacher and retired in 2007 as Principal at Cohen Middle School in Elmira Heights. Judy was a long time member of the Elmira Heights Rotary where she was the first female member, the first woman President and a recipient of the Paul Harris Award. She was also a member, and current secretary, of Delta Kappa Gamma, and a proud member of her granddaughter's Girl Scout Troop. Judy was enjoying her retirement, especially all the time she was able to spend with her grandchildren, and her dog, Rufus. Friends are invited to McInerny Funeral Home, corner of Water and Walnut Sts., on Saturday, February 21, 2009 from 2:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. A funeral service will be held there at 4:15 p.m. Private interment will be in Woodlawn Cemetery. Donations in Judy's memory may be directed to Susan G. Komen for the Cure, P O Box 1306, Elmira NY 14902.
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for Judith Sanford
christine (benson) smith
March 5, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of Judy;s passing. I have not seen Judy for many years. Judy and her family lived next door to us. We lived on Davis Street and they lived on W. Clinton on the corner. My mom and I spent many a day at the Barnes household and we carpooled to EFA with the Salmons.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of the Barnes and Sanford families.
Heidi Hrdlicka
March 4, 2009
Hey Carl and Stephanie,
I am deeply sorry for your loss. She was such a sweet person. I still can't believe she isn't going to be around. I always thought of you guys as a second family. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Heidi Hrdlicka
Dave & Jan Tanner
February 25, 2009
Dear family,
What a grand lady....she was a special friend to me. She was an encouragement for teaching and for life. We shared some funny stories and laughed and enjoyed. Our prayers and thoughts are with the whole family. May God continue to uplift you with HIS strength.
Christine Zaineddin
February 24, 2009
Stephanie, Carl, John and family,
My heart is filled with pain at your loss, but with joy for having known you MOM and Sister for so may years. I had a wonderful note from her after I visited you John when I was home to Elmira in December. You all (and especially my beloved Mary-Ruth and John) have been my extended family for over 30 years. May you feel comfort and
peace in knowing that you have been loved by Judy and by so many who loved her.
Hazel Shadduck
February 24, 2009
Alexandra, Austin and Xayn... Your grandma certainly loved teaching and loved her students as all of these wonderful tributes attest; however, nothing made her smile larger or her eyes brighter than the times she spoke about you and of the times spent with you. I was lucky enough to have known your grandma and know that she loved nothing more than the moments she spent with you.
February 24, 2009
I am so sorry for your lost. Judy Sanford touched the lives of many. She always had a warm, compassionate smile and kind words to say that were positive and uplifting. Judy was my elementary teacher and I never forgot her. Years later she was my sons principal whom he absolutely loved.
I will keep your family in my prayers. God Bless.
Janean Friebis
Kathy Sempler
February 24, 2009
My deepest Sympathy goes out to the Sanford Family ! Judy will be missed by everyone ,she was such a great person ,it was a great pleasure to have known her . So sorry for your loss.
Rick Churches
February 23, 2009
Judy was the principal when I became the first school resource officer in the school district. There are a select few people in life that have a genuine love for children and their well being. Judy was at the top of that list. I was away when I heard of her passing and saddened I could not be there to pay my respects. She was a top shelf person and without a doubt one of God's Angels.
Laurie and Scott Uhler
February 23, 2009
Carl
We are so sorry about your loss and know exactly what it is like to loose someone very close and dear to your heart your mother was a wonderful person and will be greatly missed she and your father are together now smiling down on you from the gates of heaven.
Chelsie Kobbe
February 22, 2009
When i went to cohen mrs standford helped me through alot, i was in the office everyday before school and i would talk to her about everything that was going on b/c she knew about it and would always ask how i was doing and how everything was going. she was the one who made me laugh the most and helped me keep my head up high to get through all the things i was going through. when i moved she always asked my granma how i was doing and how everything was going. i missed her, and never got to tell her good bye, she ment and means alot to me still even if she is gone, she will always have a special place in my heart
my hope and prayers for her family.
Love Chelsie.
February 22, 2009
Mrs.Sanford:(She was the most greatest person in the world. She had such a good and open heart.she helped me realize many things.She always had a smile on her face..and she never let any of her students down.! We will all miss her very much...rest in peace..
Sincerely Erica.
Esther Hetherton
February 22, 2009
I was saddened by the news of Judy's death. She was a great person and a wonderful teacher. I met Judy when she first started teaching in the Heights, and, we always remained good friends. She was one of a kind.
I remember one event in particular, when she came into the faculty room after school the Tuesday before Thanksgiving and asked everyone for a receipe for Home-made apple pie. Everyone had the easiest receipe, and they were all different. Judy started laughing and said she had the best recipe, but, she wasn't giving it out. It was called "the little doughboy". She touched the hearts of the teachers, students and all her friends. My special blessing was that I was "home" visiting when she had her retirement party, and surprised her. It was a very special day, and, I'll always remember her.
I'm sure she is having a special reunion in heaven with June Kane, Cathy Kawecki, Dee Batterson, Tom Kroouze, and all the other teachers who were waiting for her. Heaven will never be the same!
Ev Kaufman
February 22, 2009
I worked with Judy the last few years before I retired. She was a dedicated, caring person who made all our lives more pleasant. She definitely touched all those she worked with. She is a friend who will be greatly missed.
Mitch and Kate Mitchell
February 22, 2009
God must have a mision for Judy. Look-out Heaven! God Bless her and all the lives she has touched.
February 21, 2009
Mrs.Sanford what a wonderful women. I had Mrs.Sanford as a teacher when she started out in the Heights. When I first met her she told the class we can have fun and learn at the sametime and we did.It was the best year. Then years go by my daughter Kayla started 6th grade. I was so excited to see Mrs. Sanford as a principal my daughter just loved her as she touched her life as she touched mine many years ago. Mrs. Sanford you will be deeply missed.
Our deepest sympathy to her family
Russ,Diane,Kayla,Willie Rodgers
Brittany Benedict
February 21, 2009
MRS. sanford was a wonderful lady, she will be missed alot ! my prayers go out to the family, and god bless MRS. sanford !
love brittany benedict
Tracey Kelly
February 21, 2009
mrs. sanford was the most kind and caring person I had ever known. When things got tough for me and brian and patrick she was right there to lend a hand. No mater what the boys did in school she always saw the good side of them. We will all greatly miss you
God bless
Tracey, Brian and Patrick Kelly
Nancy Smith
February 21, 2009
I was shocked and saddened to learn of Judy's passing in the Star-Gazette. It is wonderful to read of the glowing tributes to Judy and her life's contributions to so many individuals.Although I have not had contact with Judy since our years at EFA, I have always kept her close in thought and hoped to meet up again with her one day. My thoughts and prayers go out to her friends and family. Nancy Smith, EFA 1964
Joy Keller
February 21, 2009
What can I say? First Riley, then you. Life is much too short for good people.
Donna Jankowski, Hoyles
February 21, 2009
Mrs Sanford, You will be missed by many . You have inspired my children in many ways . Justin, and Rachelle Hoyles . Rachelle talked about the (QUEEN) and talked highly of you . I'm glad you were there for my children couldn't ask for a better person may you rest in peace and GOD BLESS..
THE HOYLES FAMILY
Elizabeth Taylor / Lew
February 21, 2009
Judy Barnes Sanford, a name very well remembered, from the Class of 1964. I was fortunate to see her at our high school reunion.
Liz Taylor-Lew
Jessica Boatman
February 21, 2009
To Mrs. Sanford's family,
Mrs. Sanford was a great woman! All that knew her knew that. Every life she touched even just through meeting her once or if she only said "hi" to them and that is all they knew of her had the opportunity to know that she was a special and loving woman.
Mrs. Sanford made me feel special and important after an incident that I call The Bike Incident. I went to her when some students were harassing me on my bike one day after school. I had told her it was no big deal and that I don't want to get anyone in trouble. She told me that it WAS a big deal and I was NOT getting anyone in trouble that THEY got themselves into trouble by doing what they did. She told me I should not have had to deal with or go through that. She told me numerous times that it was a big deal and those students got themselves in trouble - it wasn't my fault, I shouldn't have had to go through that, and that I should be able to have my bike however I want and be how I want on my bike (like wearing my helmet even if I may look "dorky") and not have to worry about getting teased or picked on for it. I will never forget how she made me feel after that. After talking to her (and therefore officially reporting what happened), it made the next day at school easier. As I walked the halls that day people blamed me for those students getting the consequences they got and I just thought of what Mrs. Sanford had told me and then I confidently told them what she said - I said to them "nope I didn't do it they did it themselves.". To this day because of that incident and the support she gave me along with a lesson that she taught me still sticks with me and I think of it whenever someone says something about my bike or how I act on it.
I will never forget her! I loved her while she was alive and I always will.
Sincerely,
Boats
Jesse Padgett
February 21, 2009
When any one ever needed something and you knew about it you did everyting you could to help them. Thanks for all the help you gave me.
sandy toomey
February 21, 2009
Stephanie and Carl,
Please accept my deepest sympathy on your mother's passing. What a great loss for everyone. Judy was a wonderful friend, neighbor and lady. She was always there to help me, Melanie and Heidi when we were neighbors. She was so kind and giving to us. Judy loved and enjoyed her family so much. I will always treasure the memories with Judy and Riley, and your families. Much peace to you and your families.
Melissa Neufer
February 21, 2009
I will miss you so much Queen Sanford. I wrote you a poem and like my mom said, you will be missed by everyone, you were such a great influence on all of us.
Queen Sanford
When I was in need,
You gave my your deeds.
You gave me your loving hand.
When I felt sad
Thinking, I would never be glad
You always said, "Yes you can..."
When I would be picked on,
With no one to look upon
You were always right there beside me....
You said, "Just be yourself,
Ignore everyone else.
You should be who you want to be."
That was the lesson
You taught me the most
Your voice was always heard
I still hear it now
And I know how
Because of you, Queen Sanford...
Bud and Pat Kephart
February 21, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. We are blessed to have been friends and colleagues of Judy's. Her attitude brightened everyone who knew her.
Courtney Morgan
February 21, 2009
Mrs. Sanford, I thank you for lighting up my day each time I went to school. When you smiled, it made me smile and I thank you. I also thank you for the times when I was having trouble at home or with school work... you've been my friend and role model for years . =]
The Davis Family
February 21, 2009
Judy touched so many lifes and the guidance that she gave to her kids at home and at the school where she was 'Queen' will be felt for years in many lives. Thank you Judy and thank you to her family for lending her to us. She loved and was loved. -- The Davis Family -- Ron, Barb Jake and Ben
adrianne summers
February 21, 2009
i was very sad when i found out that mrs sanford passed away she was a good person in the rotary at cohen and edison...being the princeble at cohen!! i reember that last day of school in 6th grade mrssanford was retiren so i got my face painted and it said mrs sanford rocks. i have pictures of me and her that day and i really really liked mrssanford my thoguhts a prayyers are with your family im 14 in 9th grade at edison
JoAn Belsyck
February 21, 2009
Judy was a very special person who was an inspiration to all of those who worked with her. She was always caring of others and was a very cheerful lady. It is especially sad to lose her so early in her life.
Colleen Hughes
February 21, 2009
To Judys family:
What a loss! Your Mom and Grandma was a OUTSTANDING woman! My children and I will Never forget her. The lives that she touched are sooo numerous. She was one in a million, and we are so fortunate to have known her. She made such an impact on my kids lives! I thank god that our paths crossed!
Judy~Rest In Peace! We will NEVER forget you! We love you!
Colleen (lattimer) Hughes and children Josh, Dustin and Desiree Lattimer
BILL AND MARY COX AND ELBOW ROOM STAFF
February 21, 2009
OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY.
Amber Summers
February 20, 2009
hey i enjoyed having you as a middle school principal and i will miss you very much
Deannda Neufer
February 20, 2009
I just wanted to let you know that your mother was a fantastic woman who always encouraged my daughter Melissa when she was in school and her passing is a great loss to not only your family but to the entire Heights community. She was so respected and loved by so many.
Cynthia (Harvard) Tolo
February 20, 2009
Stephanie, Carl and Family,
I am deeply saddened to hear of your mothers' passing. Please find peace and comfort in knowing that she truly was an inspiration to me and a helpful and giving soul to all who knew and loved her.
Lauren Schweizer
February 20, 2009
I was shocked and saddened to read of Judy's death on today's online version of the Star-Gazette! What a loss! Judy was a terrific person, one whom I've admired and respected since our days as classmates @ Elmira Free Academy. She was a smart and beloved member of the Class of 1964.
Although our paths haven't crossed in recent years, I always hoped to reconnect with Judy after her retirement. Now I experience her passing as a sad loss, which I know that my husband, Paul, will share when he learns of it.
Our sincere condolences to Carl, Stephanie and the rest of Judy's family.
Lauren (Laurie Jo Whittier) Schweizer
Martha Jenkins
February 20, 2009
Mrs. Sanford,
You will be missed.
Me and my family will never forget you. You were the kind of person that no matter where you were, no matter what you were doing, you would stop and talk to us. I will never forget you, because you helped me get my first job, and you told me never to give up. Even when I started going to college, you told me not to give up on the tough subjects, just to hang in there, that I would make it through. You always believed in me and you kept faith when my family was going through some tough issues. Thanks, for everything you have done, and we will never forget you!
Love the Jenkins Family
Melanie Hrdlicka (Sandy Toomey's daughter)
February 20, 2009
Stephanie & Carl,
I am so sad to hear of your mother's passing. I have such great memories of growing up behind your house at 205 Walnut Street and spending time with your family. Our backyards were next to each other! Your mom was such a sweet and kind-hearted person and I know she will be missed by everyone!
Nancy Trafton
February 20, 2009
To Judy's family
My deepest sympathy for your great loss. Judy was a tremendous person and an inspiration to all. I knew Judy from the Elmira Heights Rotary where we other ladies delighted in her taking on the "old boys club". Cheers to you Judy for your wonderful life. My life was enriched by knowing you.
Dave and Diana Luellen
February 20, 2009
My husband and I both worked with Judy at Cohen. She was a great colleague and wonderful friend. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Our deepest sympathy to her family.
Tom Bennett
February 20, 2009
Carl, Stephanie and Family,
My sincere condolences on your Mother's passing. She was one great lady. I remember the days at Huck Finn when she or Riley would run to the concession stand to get Carl a hot dog and bring it to the dugout. I'll never forget those days. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Take good care.
Molly (Hewitt) Lee & Family
February 20, 2009
Stephanie and Carl,
I was very saddened to hear the news of your mother's passing. She was a great friend of my grandmother Elizabeth Cross, and was my childrens principal at Cohen Middle School. My children loved her and she was such a wonderful person.
Don and Joyce PIXLEY
February 20, 2009
We are shocked, so young. We know losing a child is so difficult ta accept.
Georgia Crissy
February 20, 2009
To: Stephanie Sanford
I remember your mother most fondly from our days at Edison, the local reading council and as parents in the community. I believe my daughter Meg Bottcher was a contemporary of yours.
Judy was always the person who gave selflessly to those she worked with, always ready to share her talents and wisdom.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Georgia Crissy
Carol Salmon-Gizzi
February 20, 2009
My condolences to the Barne's family. We grew up with Judy and family on W. Clinton St. She was best friends for many years with my sister, Janet. I am shocked and saddened to hear this news. My prayers are with all of you.
Amy Van Sickle
February 20, 2009
Carl,
Please accept my deepest sympathies on the loss of your Mother. In your sorrow may you find peace.
Jen Bryant
February 20, 2009
Carl, Steph and Family,
I was so sorry and sad when my dad called me to tell me about Judy. I just remember ALL the fun times we had at the house, sliding down the backstairs or playing hide and seek. She always let us take over without a complaint. Your mom was so special and such an important part of my childhood and adulthood. I will miss her immensely but I know she is now with your dad listening to him on the banjo and talking yankees. Love you guys!
Gina Kowulich Denomy
February 20, 2009
Carl, Stephanie and family,
I was deeply saddened by the passing of your mom. I worked with Judy at Cohen and she was a wonderful principal, friend and mentor. I have so many fun and fond memories of her. She will be greatly missed.
Curtis & Yvonne Kent
February 20, 2009
To All the Family:
Your Mom was one of the nicest persons we had ever meant. I'll never forget the 1st time I spoke with her, was her 1st time as principle at Cohen. She told me by the end of that school year she would know all her students by their first name-then we laughed-but I should have known because she did. She was and always will be a special person in our hearts
John M. Murphy II & Family
February 20, 2009
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Mike Bennett
February 20, 2009
As I began my teaching career, Judy was my principal. She taught me more in the 5 years as my pricncipal than I could ever learn about educating children in a lifetime. Thank you for your time, guidance, and most of all your friendship. She will forever be in thoughts of many Cohen Knight faculty, staff and graduates. GOD BLESS THE QUEEN!
Jill Vanderhoff-Smith
February 20, 2009
They say only the good die young. Indeed this time that is true. Mrs. Sandford touched each of my childrens lives in such a positive way, she was a truly gifted educator.
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