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Mary Elizabeth Griff Wheeler

Mary Wheeler Obituary

WHEELER, Mary
Elizabeth Griff
Beloved Mother, Grandmother and Great Grandmother

Age 84, of Elmira, NY entered into eternal rest on Saturday, October 4, 2008, peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family. She was born on December 8, 1923, the daughter of the late George and Marian (Arnold) Griff. Mary married the love of her life, Roger N. Wheeler on July 17, 1942; they spent more than 46 years of love and life together, until Roger's passing on February 9, 1989. Mary was a kind and gentle person who would help anyone in need. If you were feeling down Mary would always try to raise your spirits. She worked for many years at Oppenheim's Grocery and Convenient Food Mart; for the last nineteen years Mary has volunteered her time at St. Joseph's Hospital Gift Shop. She was a communicant of St. Mary's Church and a member of their Alter and Rosary Society of for many years. She is survived by her loving children and their spouses, William (Rebecca) Wheeler, of Elmira, NY, Thomas (Carla) Wheeler of Arvada, CO, Kathy (Jim) Dennison and Roxanne (Mike) Sullivan of Elmira, NY. Grandchildren, Christina Wheeler of Horseheads, NY, Kevin (Diana) Wheeler of Wasilla, AK, Tom (Kerri) Wheeler of Arvada, CO, Aaron (Veronica) Wheeler of Lewisville, CO Jamie (Shannon) Dennison of State College, PA, Joe (Amy) Dennison of Harrisburg, PA, Jenna (Andrew) Campbell of NYC, Kyle (Britney) Sullivan, Megan (Joe Thomas) Sullivan, and Taryn Sullivan all of Elmira, NY, Erin (Tom) McElligott of Boston, MA, and Kelly (Jeff Cook) Sullivan of Elmira, NY. Great-grandchildren, Gabriel and Seamus Wheeler of Alaska, Kyle, Dylan, Aspen and Solan Wheeler of Colorado, Willow and Ava (due December 2008) Dennison of State College, PA, Abby and Rhyan Dennison of Harrisburg, PA, Aiden and Breckin Sullivan of Elmira, NY, Tommy and Sophia McElligott of Boston, MA Kelly (Jeff Cook) Sullivan of Elmira, NY. Sisters-in-law, Lois Griff and Beverly (Arland) Phillips; brothers in-law, Petey Wheeler and Rexford (Jane) Wheeler; along with several nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents and spouse, Mary was predeceased by brothers and sisters, Joe (Mary), John (Mildred) and George Griff, Margaret (Leo) Luke, Gertrude (Al) Honan, June Wheeler; nephews, Norm Phillips, Bob Biewin, and Adam Roy. Family and friends are invited to call at Olthof Funeral Home, Inc., 1050 Pennsylvania Avenue, Elmira/Southport, NY on Tuesday, October 7, 2008, from 2:00 to 4:00 and 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. with words of tribute being offered by Rev. Douglas Hodge, Tuesday evening at 8:00 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Wednesday at 10:00 a.m. in St. Mary's Church, Franklin St., Elmira, NY. Father Richard Farrell Celebrant. Immediately after the Mass, Mary will be laid to rest next to her beloved husband, Roger in Woodlawn National Cemetery, Elmira. Those wishing may make memorials to Southern Tier Hospice and Palliative Care, 11751 E. Corning Road, Corning, NY 14830 in Mary's name. A "Candle of Remembrance" may be left for the family in Obituaries at www.olthof.com

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Published by Star-Gazette from Oct. 5 to Oct. 6, 2008.

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Nancy Shuart

October 10, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of Mary's passing - we are out of town and did not know. Mary is truely one of the nicest women we have ever know! Our thoughts and prayers are with you all!
Nancy (Oppenheim) and Gary Shuart

Pat Plaisted

October 7, 2008

What a kind wonderful lady, she always had a smile and "hello" everytime I saw her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family at this time of loss.

Sherry Snegosky

October 7, 2008

Kathy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole family. Your mom was such a sweetheart. I wish I could be there for you. Sherry Snegosky, Wake Forest, NC

Donald & Rena White and Family

October 7, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Cheryl (Berry) Scaffe

October 6, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Lisa O'Brien

October 6, 2008

Dear All -
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your Mother/Grandmother was a wonderful women and I have many fond memories of her. May you find comfort in being together as you celebrate her life. You are all in my prayers.....

Dawn Thomas

October 6, 2008

Dear Wheeler family,
I am so sorry to hear about Mary's passing. She was a dear sweet, sweet lady who would in deed help anyone. She enjoyed life to its fullest. I will always remember her for the happy times we shared while she worked in dad's store. May the strength of God help you through these difficult times. Dawn (Oppenheim) Thomas

Karl Lewis

October 6, 2008

I wish to extend my condolences to your family, I did not know Mary, but as I was reading the obituary, I noticed that Megan Sullivan was listed, and I believe I knew her once.
May God be with you and and your family.

Steve Rohde

October 6, 2008

To the Wheeler Family.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Please accept my condolences.

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