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Myra Chaffee Obituary

CHAFFEE, Myra West
Of Van Etten, NY, went to be with the Lord on Saturday, November 24, 2007. She leaves behind her devoted companion and best friend, Philip T. Chaffee, her loving husband of 57 years. Born on June 21, 1928, she was the daughter of Guy West and Beatrice West Walker of Lockwood, NY. Myra was predeceased by her son, David, her "heavenly angel." She is survived by Steven (Michelle) Chaffee of Van Etten, NY, Carolyn Hodges, and Sue Chaffee of Spencer, NY; grandchildren, Christina (Lawrence) Pierce, David (Lindsey) Chaffee, Mike Chaffee, Lauren and Brian Hodges, and Philip Van De Voorde; and great-grandchildren, Lawrence, Mary, and Joseph Pierce. They will all miss their loving "Nana." She was very dear to all of them. In 1945, Myra graduated from Van Etten High School and began working at the Blue Swan as a "conveyor girl." She then attended flight attendant school and as a young woman moved to New York City to work for Pan American Airlines. She returned to the area and married Phil in 1950. Over the years, Myra was an active member in the Van Etten Methodist Church, the Van Etten Spencer VFW, and was a lifetime member of the Eastern Stars. She was also a member of Farm Bureau, Kitchen Conference, and was a 4-H Leader. A devoted wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, neighbor and good friend, Myra will be remembered for her love of singing, baking pies for her husband, chocolate chip cookies for her grandkids, taking morning walks, volunteering in the community, her positive attitude and unresounding faith. Funeral services will be held on Monday, November 26, 2007, beginning at 3:30 p.m. at the Van Etten Methodist Church. The family will receive friends at the church prior to the service beginning at 2:30 p.m. Interment will be in Swartwood Cemetery in Van Etten. In lieu of flowers, donations in Myra's memory may be made to the Van Etten Spencer VFW, the Van Etten Methodist Church, or a charity of choice.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Nov. 25 to Nov. 26, 2007.

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Dan Seewald

November 27, 2007

Dear Phil and Family,
I read with great sadness about Myra's passing. She made the best rhubarb pie in the state. I could always count on her for coffee and pie while I talked with Phil. I will always remember her smile, her sense of humor, and her love for her family.

Heidi and Furaha Shululu

November 27, 2007

When you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight. ~Kahlil Gibran

Sara "Sally Campbell" Taylor

November 26, 2007

My thoughts are with you all. I will always remember Myra's smile. But more than ever I will remember what a good friend she was to my Mother.

Carol Visscher

November 26, 2007

Steve and Michelle,
We've just now learned of the date and time of your Mom's service. I am so sorry we missed it. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you all day. The Lord only gives each of us one Mother and to lose her is a great loss. Our sincerest sympathy.
Howard and Carol Visscher

Tami Terwilliger

November 26, 2007

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Michael Korpi

November 26, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Dave & Bev Brown

November 26, 2007

We are sorry to hear of the passing of your Mother. We send our condolences.

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

Linda Louko

November 26, 2007

Phil, Steve, Carolyn, and Sue -
A friend from Spencer just contacted me about your mother's passing. I very sorry for your loss. I have so many fond memories of your mother when I was growing up in Van Etten. More than the good food, and fun, I remember her incredible sweetness. She was one of the nicest people I've ever known.

jim@ rusty evans

November 25, 2007

sorry we could not make it are depest sympithy be with you and sorry for your loss and she will alwas be remeber her

Michele Rosenbaum

November 25, 2007

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. May all of your fond memories help you get through your time of grief. Please let me know if there is anything at all that I can do for you.

Carol House (Fontana)

November 25, 2007

Dear Phil and Family,
I wish to extend my deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved wife, mother and nana.

It's been many years, but I still remember days spent in your kitchen doing projects for 4-H. Not only did she teach us how to cook and sew, she showed by example how to be a loving wife and mother.

May you all be comforted by the knowledge that she is in God's arms right now. Our prayers are with you.

Yours,

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