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Philomena Messina Obituary

Philomena M. Messina

Elmira - At the age of 92, blessed with an abundance of love, laughter, and close friendships, Philomena, on Christmas morning, was released from her bonds of suffering and received into God's glorious arms. It can be said, without pause, that the lives she touched,family, friends, beloved pets, and backyard creatures alike, were better off for it. Philomena was born in Elmira the daughter of Attilio and Nicholina (Cinelli) Berardi. She is predeceased by her husband Anthony F. Messina, and siblings, Nicholes Berardi, Frances Fragnito and Josephine Thompson. She is survived by her loving children, and their families, Frank A. and Terry Messina of Elmira, with whom she lived with; Gloria and Frank Romen of Elmira with Gloria's children, Christina (Carlos) Williams of Florida, Michael Jividen of Elmira, and Frank's son Joseph Romen; Marlena Henke of Horseheads with daughters, Katherine and Emily, and their father Francis Henke; great-grandchildren, Dellen, Trinity and Kacey Williams; siblings, Theresa D'Abbracci of Penn Yan and Joseph Berardi of Las Vegas NV; along with many nieces and nephews. In earlier years Philomena worked at the Elmira Knitting Mill, then became a stay at home mom, raising her three children. She loved animals, feeding the birds and squirrels in her backyard and there was always a dog in the house. Philomena was well known in her neighborhoold for her wonderful Christmas cookies and her neighbors looked forward to their annual plate of goodies. A wonderful and much loved wife, mom and grandmother, Philomena will be forever loved and missed. Family and friends are invited to McInerny Funeral Home, 502 W. Water Street, Elmira, on Friday, December 29, 2017 from 3:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. A prayer service will be held at the funeral home on Saturday, December 30, 2017, 9:15 a.m., follwed by a 10:00 a.m., Mass of Christian Burial at Ss. Peter and Paul Church, 161 High Street, Elmira. Interment, with committal prayers, will follow at St. Peter and Paul's Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, those wishing, may remember Philomena with a donation to a charity of their choice. The Messina family would like to extend a special thank you to Chris Odum, Corning Guthrie Hospital, and Robert Packer Hospital for the wonderful care given their mother.

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Published by Star-Gazette from Dec. 27 to Dec. 29, 2017.

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Mickey Zelko

December 21, 2020

Frank and Glo...Thinking of you guys at this very difficult time...

Joe and Irene Mucci

January 1, 2018

Dear Frank and Terry,
Please except our deepest sympathy . We are so sorry for your loss. We just found out about your Mom's passing.

L. W.

January 1, 2018

To the MessIna family my deepest sympathies for your loss. May the fond memories of your loved one bring comfort while you receive the strength to endure during this difficult time. Please take comfort in the promise of life without end soon to come.

Doc Colunio and Kathy Steele

December 29, 2017

Gloria and Frank Romen. We are so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother. We know how devoted you were to your mother. We hope wonderful memories will comfort you during this difficult time. She will always be in your hearts. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The DeMichele Family

December 28, 2017

Marlena and family, we are sorry to hear of the loss of your mom, nonna. She was a loving, optimistic and strong person. We loved chatting with her over the years. She will be missed but never forgotten at our home. Our prayers and thought are with you.

Bob & Debra Watts

December 28, 2017

Dear Frank and family, so very sorry for your loss. May God bless you and comfort you.

December 28, 2017

Gloria and Frank,
We are so very sorry to hear of the passing of your Mom, Mother in Law and best friend. We know how much she meant to you both just talking about her many times. Frank you took great pride being there for "Phil" so many times taking her to Doctor's appointments and getting her groceries just to name a few things. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to meet such a special person even though it was only a couple times. Again we are so very sorry for your loss.. Your friends, Mickey and Carol

Jim and Bonnie Davenport

December 28, 2017

Gloria and Frank Romen, so very sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. Such a beautiful person with the kindest heart to everyone. You both took such good care of her in so many ways and protected her safety, as a good son and daughter would. Indeed you two will miss her, but your hearts and her heart will never be separated. She is in the care of our Lord now, so you will worry no more. May God bless your mom and both of you. Our sincerest thoughts and prayers, are with you at such a sad time. Sincerely, Jim and Bonnie Davenport

Kris Manns

December 27, 2017

Gloria and Marlena and the entire family,

I am so sorry for the loss of your mom, grandmother, etc. May you all find comfort in the many wonderful memories you have. Warm thoughts and prayers for you all during these difficult days.

December 27, 2017

Frank and Family,

I am very sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. Although I never had the fortune to meet her Frank often spoke of her at Stage Door. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Liz

December 27, 2017

To the Messina family:
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. May the wonderful treasures fill your hearts with love and bring you peace. I hope the promise in Hosea 13:14 can bring much comfort. My deepest condolences to all.

Rita Brown

December 27, 2017

Dear Messina Family,
Our hearts are saddened by the news of the loss of your beautiful mother. She was a kind and wonderful lady and will never be forgotten in this neighborhood. With Sympathy,
Rita and Bob Brown and family

December 27, 2017

Marlena, So sorry for your loss. My thoughts prayers are with you and your girls. Cindy Singer

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lois and Charles Grund

December 27, 2017

Ann Lemark

December 27, 2017

Dear Frank and Terry-
With deepest sympathy on the loss of your beloved mother. Love and prayers.

Tina Cerio-Heinze

December 27, 2017

Gloria , your mom was beautiful just like you. So sorry for your loss honey.

Cindy Manwaring

December 27, 2017

So so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all

John Comereski Betsy Pesesky

December 27, 2017

Marlena, Frank, Fran, Katie, Emily and the entire Messina Family, we are very sorry to hear of your great loss. We are certain that you have fond memories that will hopefully help you get through these tough times. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Bill Collins

December 27, 2017

Frank & Terry:
Please accept my condolences at this time. Mom will be missed very much. My prayers and thoughts are with you all.

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Dec

29

Visitation

3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

McInerny Funeral Home

502 W. Water St., Elmira, NY 14901

Dec

30

Prayer Service

9:15 a.m.

McInerny Funeral Home

502 W. Water St., Elmira, NY 14901

Dec

30

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Ss. Peter and Paul Church

161 High Street, Elmira, NY

Dec

30

Interment

St. Peter and Paul's Cemetery

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