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Richard Phenes Obituary
Was born December 31, 1948 in Corning, NY, the son of the late Carl "Reed" and Elizabeth (Horton) Phenes. He passed away very unexpectedly at the Arnot Ogden Medical Center on Saturday, August 22, 2009, and immediately saw the face of God. His stepfather, Ray VanDusen; and brother-in-law, Alan Hill predeceased him. He is survived by his loving wife and best friend, "Gracie"; daughters, Nori (Rick) Herrick of Albany, GA, Jennifer (Jarrod) Powers of Corning, NY; stepdaughters, Breanna McLaughlin and John Rogers of Rochester, NY, Paige McLaughlin of Abingdon, MD; grandchildren, Matthew Phenes, Ryan Sutton, Natalie and Sean Powers; brothers, Robert (Ginny) Phenes of Newark, NY, Gordon (Beverly) Phenes of New Bern, NC; sisters, Carol (Chris) Shroyer of Coopers Plains, NY, Marcia Hill of North Port, FL; along with sisters-in-law, brothers-in-law, his Pennsylvania Avenue United Methodist Church family, many close friends, co-workers and several nieces and nephews. "Eddie" was currently a dedicated 35 year employee with Dresser Rand in Painted Post, NY, where he was an accountant and most recently with the Human Resource department. He was the charter President of the Painted Post Lyons Club and was also a member of the National Guard. "Eddie" was very involved with the Pennsylvania Avenue United Methodist Church, was extremely active with the Food Cupboard Ministry, and was the church bus driver, wining the self-nominated Ralph Kramden Bus Driver Award. He enjoyed his life and lived it to the fullest! His family will greet relatives and friends on Wednesday, August 26, 2009, at the Pennsylvania Avenue United Methodist Church, Pine City, NY from 4:30 to 5:30 p.m. A memorial service honoring his life will follow at 5:30 p.m. His Pastors, Reverend Bill Vallet and Reverend Mark Erway will celebrate "Eddie's" services. The family will provide their own flowers. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be directed to the Pennsylvania Avenue United Methodist Church Food Cupboard, c/o Darlene Bockman, 1238 Pennsylvania Ave., Pine City, NY 14871. A "Candle of Remembrance" may be left for his family in obituaries at www.olthof.com. "Eddie's" favorite quote: "Love God! Love People! Serve the World!"
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Cathy Hendrickson
August 26, 2009
Cheri,
I was shocked to hear of Eddie's passing, I am sorry sorry. After the shock started to pass, I started thinking about the things I knew about Eddie... He was a loving and caring man, who was on Fire for the Lord and loved to serve . While I never got to know Eddie very closely, every conversation I had with him was a great one. He loved life and he lived by "Love God, Love People, Serve the world"!
While I know it is hard for us on earth to understand why our loved ones are taken away from us early, know that while on earth Eddie made a difference here in peoples lives and I am sure he is doing the same in heaven.
I will continue to pray that you find a peace that passes all understanding and find rest in the Lord.
Love your sister in Christ,
Josh Elias
August 25, 2009
Cheri (and family),
There are so many wonderful things that can be said about Eddie. From his big, bright smile to how he loved listening to music and dancing to how he was always kind and friendly to everyone, regardless of how well he knew them. I'm so glad that Darcey, the girls and I had the opportunity to know him and share so many fun times with him. I'll never forget our conversations about Bigfoot.
We will miss you, Eddie.
August 25, 2009
Cheri,
I understand.
We will talk soon.
Be strong !
Hugs...
Amy
August 25, 2009
Jen,Jarrod and family, We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. God will help you through this. If you need anything don't hesitate to call. Always, Karen and Larry Gorges
Wendi Walton
August 24, 2009
Cheri, Breanna, and Paige,
I am so sorry for the loss of this special man in your life. Everyone (especially Breanna) has said what a wonderful man, friend, step-father, husband, etc. he was to you and your family. He will be forever in your hearts.
with deepest sympathy,
Wendi Walton
Wheeler
August 24, 2009
Cheri and family,
We just wanted to send you a hug and to let you know how sorry we are to hear about Eddie. We first met Eddie at the Fall Fun Fest while he tended to the milk jug game. He kept chattering all day long no matter how hot and kept the kids coming over to play. He certainly was one of those people that once you meet him you never forget him. Quite a gift I'd say! We certainly feel blessed to have had the privledge to have known him and will look forward to the day we all get to reunite. We will be lifting you and your family up in prayer - may you feel God's hand wrapped around you and know He is holding you tight. May you find comfort in the knowledge that you know where he is and that he is sitting at our Papa's feet.
Love, Jeff, Lori Wheeler and family
Michelle Jenkins
August 24, 2009
Cheri, Breanna, Paige I m so sorry to hear about "Eddie" I know he was a very special man. I hope you keep all the good memories and that they can bring you peace and comfort.
Larry & Marjorie Rice
August 24, 2009
Well Eddie, You are going to be missed on the bus, and all your jokes. Tell your buddy Ralph that we thought you where a better bus driver then he was. We are going to miss you even though we only new you a short time. We will pray for your family.
Colleen McLaughlin
August 24, 2009
Cheri, Breanna, and Paige I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May your memories bring you comfort. God Bless You.
Darcey Elias
August 24, 2009
Sheri
Words can't express how sad I am for you and your whole family. Eddie touched so many lives. As I have told you before, Eddie was an inspiration for me. I remember standing in our kitchen with you on one of your many "candle visits" talking about him. He lived life to the fullest. He always had a smile on his face and when he asked how you were he always listened intently to what you said. He was such a genuine guy. He always had time- he always made time. He had such a caring heart and a kind spirit. He somehow brought out the best in me just by who he was and I would guess that he did that for many. And you know isn't that a big part of what life is really all about? Living your life in such a way that you bring out the best in those around you. That was "Eddie Stofferson" for me.
I could go on and on. I'm so sad that Eddie left us so suddenly and so soon. But I'm grateful that the two of you found your church family. I know Eddie is in Heaven right now looking down on all of us.
Just the same, I will miss my dancing partner.
Love to you always
Darcey
Bert Gage
August 24, 2009
Dick----You left us way too soon. I'll surely miss our early morning rides in the elevator at Dresser Rand.
I know you are in a better place, just wish we could have kept you in our lives a little bit longer. But all of us who were fortunate enough to have known you as a friend and co-worker are better people because you touched our lives. Rest easy, my friend.
Lisa Walters
August 24, 2009
Cheri,
I'm really sorry to hear of your loss and I'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. I, too, worked with Dick at DR but most of all knew him better through PAUMC! He was alway FUN to be around!!!
Nancy Hendrickson
August 24, 2009
Cheri,
I started getting to kow Eddie better at Leadership Summit. I enjoyed every moment with the 2 of you. I guess God needed a bus driver and you know everyone on that bus is smiling and happy, including Eddie. Cheri I am praying that "the peace of God which transends all understanding, will guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus" I am so sorry for your loss. I love you. Nancy Hendrickson
August 24, 2009
My childhood memories with Richard and his family are the best anyone could ever ask for. All of us "kids"around the dinner table with Aunt Betty and Uncle Reed, laughing just because...and the wonderful times at Waneta lake.
My deepest and loving thoughts are sent to ALL of you.
Linda Cummings
August 24, 2009
May the warm love of God's close embrace during this time of saddness comfort you all. We celebrate with you, Jen, in your father's life on Earth and now his eternal life in God's Kingdom. We love you all.
In Him,
Patrick, Becky and Erica Parks
Marilyn (Horton) Sheedy
August 24, 2009
Our love and prayers are with his family and friends, as "Cousin Dick" is with the Lord now. Sorry we will be unable to share the joys of his life and offer comfort in person.
Rev. & Mrs Patrick Sheedy
David Tokar
August 24, 2009
On behalf of the Tokar family
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Ann Darnall
August 24, 2009
Gracie
I met Dick in New York, working for Dresser-Rand for a week with Jordan, and he was the greatest guy. I'm so sorry you lost him so soon. He will be missed by all.
Best Regards, Ann Darnall, D-R Burlington Iowa
Bill & Sharon Marshall
August 24, 2009
Sherry, Sorry we can't be with you this week. You are in our prayers. May bless and comfort you.
August 23, 2009
CHER,PAIGE, BREANNA,
GIRLS IM SO SORRY. IM ALWAYS HERE IF YOU EVER NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO. I LOVE YOU ALL. I WILL KEEP YOU ALL IN MY PRAYERS. LOVE KELLI
August 23, 2009
Jen, We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers! Love, Rob, Shari, and Kids
Melinda & Joe Rhode
August 23, 2009
Sherry,
My deepest sorrow and thoughts are with you! May God carry you through this tough time, as we know where Eddie is watching over you! Much love
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