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ALEXANDRA HARTNER Obituary
Alex started competing in English Eventing (dressage, cross country, and stadium jumping) when she was ten. She trained under Olympic instructor Adrian Ford and won countless ribbons and trophies. One of her latest accomplishments was winning the Champion Ribbon at the Grande Prix in Littleton, Florida.
Her incredible character will never be forgotten. Hers was a free spirit that was both intense and exciting and her presence illuminated every room she entered. She made an everlasting impression on everyone she met, and had an enthusiasm for every new challenge. Simply put, Alex was poetry in motion.
Our beautiful Alex is survived by her parents, Jane Cockrell and George Hartner; brother, Zeke; grandmother, Vera Cockrell; four aunts, three uncles and fourteen cousins.
A viewing will take place on Thursday, January 17th from 6-8:00 p.m. at Andrews Mortuary in Hampstead, NC. The service to celebrate her life will take place on Friday, January 18th, at 11:00 a.m. at Andrews Mortuary.
Two scholarships have been established in honor of Alex, so that her spirit in life may continue on forever. In lieu of flowers please send donations to one or both of the following:
Alex Hartner Memorial Fund, P.O. Box 428, Hampstead, NC 28443, checks to be made out to "Topsail High School" care of "Alex Hartner memorial."
St. Andrews Presbyterian College Equestrian Memorial Fund for Alex Hartner, 1700 Dogwood Mile, Laurinburg, NC 28352, checks to be made out to "St. Andrews Presbyterian College" care of "Alex Hartner memorial."
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Memories and Condolences
for ALEXANDRA HARTNER
Sponsored by LOVE.
Bonnie Bingham
December 10, 2013
For Alexandra Precious Angel
Oh precious child spread your wings,
Rise up to where the angels sing.
Within many hearts you'll always be,
As God gave us a memory,
Your spirit lives on as you are free
to shine your light eternally.
To those of us you've never met
Your picture's one we'll not forget
For it shines so bright just like the sun.
Forever beautiful....forever young....
Embraced by Jesus'loving arms
Ride on sweet angel no fear of harm
What a priviledge to read your legacy,
A star that shines eternally.
Thank you for sharing your daughters life it has touched our family so very deeply.
John 16:22 -"You have sorrow now, but I will see you again; then you will rejoice, and no one can rob you of that joy."
Dear George, Jane and Zeke,
These are only words but I pray they can bring some comfort. I am so very sorry for your loss, we did not know until recently.
As a pediatric nurse I witness loss every day,words of comfort never seem enough. Although its been many years since you've been on Long Island you still have many families who will always love and cherish the Hartner family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
In God's Love,
Bonnie, David II, Craig Bingham and Family
Sabrina Hall
February 10, 2010
Alex was such a beatiful girl inside and out. I met her in high school and she made my senior year that much brighter. I am absolutely sure that anyone she ever met had her in their memory from that moment on...she made that much of an impression. It saddens my heart so deeply that words cant even be articulated to serve Alex justice. She was so incredibly sweet and happy, with all the people out there who are mean or spiteful she was the exact opposite. She never cared what someone looked like or who their friends were she would treat everone with the same kindness. She was a light in this world where there is so much melancholy, it seemed like nothing could ever bring her down...she had a childlike happiness and spirit. I just wanted to take the time and say a few words in the name of someone who is better than this place. May she rest in peace and everyone who knew her or even met her will never, ever forget her.
November 13, 2009
Dear George:I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter.My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Bruce Messite(your Cortland buddy)
November 10, 2009
George,
I never met your daughter, but if she were anything like her Dad, she must have been a great one.
Your old housemate
Terry Angell
Gabrielle Cottone
June 26, 2009
I was reading through the Equiery a few months back and I saw an add for a memorial show, the name was familiar and right away I looked into it online and when I saw that birght smiling face I instantly remembered who it was. I met Alex at the Butler school several years ago. Then we crossed paths again at a few shows in 2007. I remember a girl who was fearless, charazmatic, and full of life. She was everything I strive to be. I am deeply saddened to know she is no longer around but I know that she has touched so many lives in a positive way. Sometimes life is unfair and it takes the people who dont deserve to be taken. Alex is always in my thoughts and in my mind she is never gone, you just have to know where to look and listen to find her. So to Alex, guide all those who love and miss you and continue to be the keeper of the stars, cause I dont think god could fing a better angel to do it!!
Amanda Eury
January 11, 2009
It is hard to belive that it has almost been a year. Alex was the sweetest girl I ever met. She treated everyone as a friend. Never judging anyone. We would laugh and get in trouble in English class. She was just a easy person to talk to and always listened. I am glad I got to know her in the short time I did. She would light up the room everytime she walked in and kept the laughter going. I am glad to have went to school and graduated with her. She truely is being miss and not a day goes by that I don't think about her. I can't even cry because all I can think about is the fun times in English and I start to laugh, and think she doesn't want us to cry but laugh and remember the fun times she had with her friends and family. Remember the good times with her and just laugh. I love and miss you truley Alex
Kallan Ludder
January 2, 2009
George, Jane, and Zeke,
Alex. It's hard to think it's been almost a year. I miss her so much. You all raised a beautiful, loving, fun filled girl that has touched lives. I know she absolutely touched mine. Lately i have been living like i know she would have wanted... laughing a lot, singing, dancing, riding ALL the time. I just wish there was something more i could do. Please let me know if there is something i can do to help you all out. I miss you guys and I miss Alex too. Please keep in touch
Bill Bennett
November 26, 2008
Dear George and Jane,
I was trying to figure out how to get in touch when I came across this breathtakingly sad news about your beautiful daughter, Alex.
My sincerest condolences and sympathies.
My prayers are with you both as well as with Zeke.
With deep sympathy and affection,
Bill and Ruth Bennett
Darien Henderson
June 24, 2008
I am speachless! I am not sure what a person can say for a loss of a child. May God wrap is mighty arms around her and give her and you the comfort you so despirtly need. I have 3 children and I can only hope that they have roll models like Alex to model there life after. God Bless you and I will pray for your family.
Lynda Rutherford
June 24, 2008
I had signed Alex's guest book in January, but wanted to share with you that your daughter was and still is an inspiration to so many. My son, Zack, is with us for the summer from UNC-Pembroke and each day her name is mentioned in our conversations. He has shared so many wonderful memories about her, which he will always cherish. She is greatly missed!
Maria Thompson
June 23, 2008
This morning, Leah, my daughter was so excited to go to her 1st day of horse camp because she was finally going to see Alex and Ace. She has been talking about Alex since last summer at Shingleton Farms Horse Camp. We have had the picture of Alex and Ace and the other campers in a frame beside Leah's bed ever since then, and we think of her almost daily. Leah always wants to know if I can call Alex to babysit, but I always tell her that she is away at college, and we will see her at horse camp this summer. We really took a special liking to Alex and were really so excited to see her this summer. It was more than a shock to us when we found out this morning the tragic news of the loss of this beautiful soul. We are deeply saddened and our thoughts are with you and your family as we know that this loss is still so fresh. God Bless you.
Sincerely,
The Thompson Family
Jerry Chappel
June 12, 2008
Dear George and Jane,
I am so sorry to hear about your tragic loss.
Mike O'Brien
May 14, 2008
Dear Mama, George, and Zeke
I dont know what to write. There's something in everyday that reminds me of alex and all of you. Weather i'm working long nights at the fire house or just walking through the halls of school i think of you all. When it comes to shows Alex was the only one allowed to beat me, one time i remember i told her that her only job was to beat the girl who had a faster time than me, she got lucky, and there she went full speed and won the class. Then there was Florida. Thats one week of my life i'll never forget. Everynight we'd sit by the pool and talk about whatever came in to our minds even laughing at the drunks walking in after a long night of drinking. Fact is i would do anything to see and talk to her again. However now I only have one picture of any friend on my walls and thats Alex's. I felt i owed her one.
Love,
Michael O'Brien
Mary Lynn Parsloe
May 3, 2008
Dear Janey and George,
How I happened upon this I don't know. Just a random search as I wait up for my own girls to get safely home tonight.
I am devastated by this news of your beautiful daughter Alex. My stomach is in a knot - I can't imagine how these past months have been for you. I look forward to hearing from you every Christmas. Always looking for the photo of Alex and Zeke. How can this have happened? I had hoped to see you all again someday. I have read many entries about Alex, so I feel as if I know her through this outpouring or love. It is evident that she made a real impact on everyone she met.
I love you Janie and my heart is broken too.
Please be in touch when you are able.
Bridget Garagusi
March 11, 2008
Dear Alex,
You were an amazing person! I was terrified when we got the phone call that you were in a car crash. I will never forget the fun times we had together. You were so nice. I cant remember a time where I wasn't smiling when I was around you. I was so sad when you and your family moved to North Carolina. But I knew we would visit. You were so much fun and not to mention you were beautiful too! I love You and I think of You everyday. Your spirit will live with me forever!!!!
Love,
Bridget Garagusi
A JERNIGAN
March 9, 2008
DEAR HARTNER FAMILY, MY HEART GOES OUT TO YOU IN THE GREAT LOSS OF YOUR PRECIOUS DAUGHTER. I ONLY SAW HER ONE TIME IT WAS AT A HORSE SHOW AND I WAS SO IMPRESSED WITH HOW SHE HANDLED HERSELF AND HER HORSE IT LEFT A IMPRESSION ON ME, THEN I HEARD OF HER PASSING . AND I THOUGHT HOW UNFAIR FOR A LIFE TO BE CUT SHORT. BUT, I AM REMINDED WE ARE CARE GIVERS FOR GOD HIMSELF AND FROM WHAT IVE SEEN AND HEARD YOU ALL DID ONE GREAT JOB I BELIEVE THAT GOD IS WELL PLEASED.
carissa coleman
February 20, 2008
alex was such an amazing person and i will never ever forget her! my deepest condolences go out to her family. I kno a spirit as amazing as her will be missed greatly i look so forward to seeing her beautiful face in heaven. I love you alex may you rest in peace <3
Molly Basten
February 9, 2008
Alex was one of the most amazing people I've met in my life. Like everyone has said before I've changed for the better in knowing her the time that i did. Zeke, George, and Jane, you are the most amazing family that I've met,you showed me the true meaning of strength. I will never forget Alex and hope to stay close to you all.
Selena Patterson
February 8, 2008
Alex was my boo boo bear. She was an amazing person who touched the lives of everyone in our suite and changed them for the better. I walk into the suite sometimes and it hits me all over again that Alex won't be running down the hall to jump onto me or to have a chocolate cupcake fight with. I miss her very very much. George (aka Papa Bear), Jane and Zeke, you all are amazing. You have all become family to us in the suite and to Erin, Dezi and Asia. I love you all so much and I hope to see you guys again soon.
Alex, I love you Boo Boo Bear. Always.
Dani Buchanan
February 8, 2008
Alex was an amazing girl in every way imaginable. she was beautiful both inside and out. she was the foundation of our suite here at SAPC. she always made us laugh. she had a gift of being able to make people feel better no matter what. she did this for me that sunday. she danced and sang to me in my room. she was the greatest person i have ever met. she will never be forgotten. she will live on forever in my heart and in all the many memories we made in the short time we had togeather.
George, Jane and Zeke..you are the most amazing family in the world. you guys were so supportive of us when you all came down here to SAPC for our memorial service for Alex. you gave me the strength to be able to speak that night. i will always be thankful to you guys.
Donna(me) and Alex.. Roomies for ever
February 8, 2008
Donna Fowble
February 7, 2008
There will never be anyone to replace Alex. I love her soo much. Im going to miss that girl everyday. I also love you guys, Jane, George, and Zeke. You are like a new family to I just wish we could have met a whole lot sooner. I love you guys! Thanks for being here for me and alot of other people.
Karen McCarrick
February 5, 2008
Our family has been so blessed to have been touched by Alex!
We treasure every moment we spend in Maine. Now, sadly, we have been forced to acknowledge that some moments are a little bit more special than others, and that moments in time are finite. As we reflect upon our ‘Maine Days’ we will fondly remember “Alex” moments…
…a curious blonde toddler following her grandpa out to the dock…
…the fearless waterskiing child whipping around Wavus cove, giggling…
…beautiful sunsets with kids begging for a ‘haunted’ boat ride…
…endless games of mafia and country music stumpers with Wynonna playing in the backround…
…squeezing together on crowded blankets to watch amazing fireworks…
…each growing older…changing…different, yet the same… rekindling friendships…
…Alex transformed every summer…more polite, smarter, funnier (and yes, more beautiful!)…
Thank you, Hartner family, for allowing us to witness and share the love you gave to Alex and will continue to give to one another! How fortunate each of us has been to have the anchor of Maine in our life; knowing that we can always find the ever-present, all-inclusive, never-ending love of family …
May that love sustain each of you in the coming days.
You are in our thoughts and in our prayers, now and always.
The McCarrick Family
Karen, Skip, Rick and Craig
The Parkers
February 5, 2008
Alex made a lasting impression on my daughter at both the horse camps and just from hanging around her at the barn. I never saw her without a smile. She was a wonderful and talented young lady. She babysat for my children before she left for college and they all adorned her instantly. Tess (my 2 year old) thought she hung the moon! She will be sadly missed. Alex and her family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Claudia Siervo
February 4, 2008
Jane, George, and Zeke,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Alex's tragic accident. She was a beautiful person, inside and out. My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I hope that each passing day brings you a measure of comfort and peace.
Love,
Jennifer Isenberg
February 4, 2008
To Jane, George, and Zeke - My deepest and heartfelt sympathy to your family. There are no words to express how sorry I am that you have to endure this senseless tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and know that you will carry Alex's positive outlook on life with you as you move forward.
With love,
Mary Buchanan
February 4, 2008
My heart is heavy at the news of Alex's death.My daughter is Dani who was in the same suite as Alex.I had the pleasure of meeting Alex once and knew that she was such a sweet spirit and a very special young lady.I can't say I know how you feel but please know that my thoughts and prayers are with your family as you deal with your loss.I know that the girls at school are hurting and I know that they will never forget Alex. She is truly one of God's Angels.If there is anything I can do for your family...please let me know. God Bless You.
Adrian Ford
February 4, 2008
Alex, I well miss you,we had so much fun.thank you the best student of a life time.
Theresa Tobin
February 4, 2008
hi
im theresa tobin i knew Alex as a beautiful and vibrant human being and for her to be gone is a huge shock to me! icouldnt believe it thats crazy i only saw her back in June. How is she gone????
Diane Hooker
February 2, 2008
When I think about the gifts that God gave Alex I, of course, immediately think of her energy, her courage and her compassion. Alex took these gifts and used them generously. She didn't keep them to herself, but used them to encourage and inspire others.
I also think of other very precious gifts Alex was given for her short time down here on Earth--it seems to me that God chose to give her a Mom and a Dad who would not only shower her with love, but also nurture and steer her beautiful free-spirit in amazing ways, and provide her with countless adventurous and meaningful experiences. And then on top of that He gave her the gift of the best brother any sister could ever ask for!
Even though I try to understand why this had to happen, I know with my finite mind I never will. But I know who has you, Alex, and that you are safe, and all the joy you brought everyone down here is returning to you a millionfold up in Heaven.
Your family will miss you, but I know you are cheering them on.
May God's loving arms surround you Janey, George and Zeke.
With lots and lots of love, Diane
Christine
February 2, 2008
Alex,
I love you so so so so much! I will never forget all the time we spent together, especially all of the special time in Maine. You are such an amazing person. I will miss you so much.
I love you,
Christine
mike hooker
February 2, 2008
Dear George, Jane, and Zeke,
i dont know what to say except that it feels like a piece of the world is gone. Alex gave a lot of happiness to so many people in the time we had her, and i am grateful for that. she will always be with us in our hearts and minds.
hook
Lucy D'Emilio
February 1, 2008
Jane, My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family at this most difficult time. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
“Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow,
may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow."
Marla and Bill Bornstein
January 30, 2008
We will always be grateful for the fun and laughter Alex brought to our Jersey Shore vacation every year. She is an inspiration to us all to live life to the fullest, to have the guts to fly the Sky Coaster on the Boardwalk, and to jump into the pool with both feet and make the biggest splash. That was Alex in a nutshell - brave, free, fun, and memorable. She has left her mark on our world. Jane, George, and Zeke, we will always remember her, you are in thoughts and prayers. Love, Marla and Bill
Sarah Bornstein
January 30, 2008
Alex, I am still in shock that you are gone and that I will never be able to see you again. I can't even think of the words to describe how much you meant to me. You were like another sister to me, you always knew what to say to make me laugh when I felt sad. But most of all I will miss your fun-loving spirit. In Wildwood it will not be the same without you. We will always miss you! Rest in peace. Love, Sarah
Erika Bornstein
January 30, 2008
Dear Jane, George and Zeke, I can not describe how heartbroken I was when I found out Alex had passed away. Even though she is not with us today the memories and her spirit are still with us. I will still remember the things we did together and all the things we talked about. She will still be with us as long as we live. But whenever I think of her, I can just look up in the sky and know she is up there watching over us. Love, Erika
Courtney Megna
January 29, 2008
Alex, I do not even know what to write. I am honestly still in shock that you are gone and I am never going to be able to see you again. You were always like another sister to me, and you always knew how to make me laugh. You had such a kind heart and were such a fun person. I will miss taking walks on the beach and meeting hot lifeguards, I will miss those late nights on the beach and on the board walk, and being the only two smart ones that didnt walk home in the rain. I will also miss making those funny bobble head videos. But most importantly I will miss you and all our fun times. You taught me so much, and I truly feel I am a better person for having known you. I will always love and miss you so much. Love, Courtney
Ben Herring
January 29, 2008
Janie
I was saddened to hear of the loss of your daughter. When I saw the write up in the paper, I did not put it together until someone from Wilson asked me if I knew as they read it in the Wilson paper. I was unaware you lived in Hampstead. Everything I heard or read about Alex referenced her as beautiful inside/out & a joy to be around. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Ben/Cinnamin Herring
Megan Combs
January 28, 2008
Alex,
I'm sitting here trying to come up with words to explain how I feel about never getting to see you again but honestly words can't explain what you have meant to me. You were practically like another sister to me. I mean we knew each other ever since we were born. We have made so many good memories together in Wildwood that will never be forgotten. I'm glad that we made last year's Wildwood trip an unforgettable one. I will miss someone to ride down those ramps with that 5 person bike, someone to walk down the beach with and pick up lifeguards, someone to take midnight swims with in the ocean, someone to ride the roller coasters with, someone to spend a day with at the water park, someone to buy ponchos on the boardwalk and walk home in a thunderstorm in, someone to almost pressure me to get my nose pierced, someone to do a bobble head with, and someone to just spend an awesome week with. You had such a good look on life and you have inspired me in so many ways. You always knew how to make me laugh and i will miss that. You were such a great person Alex and you are someone you has left a mark in my heart and will never be forgotten. You were one of a kind and I'm so grateful for you to have had such a huge impact in my life. I will always love you Alex Hartner.
Kelly Combs
January 27, 2008
Alex~ So I'm sitting here looking at this picture of you trying grasp the fact that I'm never going to be graced with your presence again. Never going to create amazing dribble castles (even small villages) with you, never going to trace our names in the sand with our toes and see who can make theirs the biggest, never going to ride The Nor eastern countless numbers of times because it’s the greatest ride on the boardwalk, never going to walk on the beach at night smashing jelly fish in the sand to watch them light up green, never going to make hilarious bobbing heads music videos with you, never going to pick up lifeguards with you on the beach, never going to bury each other in the sand, never going to take that 6 person bike down the narrow, wooden pathways that lead to the beach while screaming and digging the bell with people giving us dirty looks from every direction. I am never going to forget all of those fun things we do when we spend a week at the beach in that little home away from home we call, “The Dirty Shore.”
I love you Alex, and I’m going to miss you so much. Wildwood just won’t be the same without you. You’ll always be in my thoughts.
Love, Kelly
Kim Hock
January 27, 2008
George, Jane and Zeke:
Words cannot describe the shock and disbelief when we heard the news that Alex had passed away. It seems just like yesterday when you all were still living in Maryland. I know that no matter what anyone says, losing a child is the hardest thing a parent can experience; however, knowing that Alex is living now with God and will always be young and beautiful in our eyes and watching down on you all as your own personal guardian angel will bring you some comfort in the long days ahead. If there is anything we can do for you, you know how to contact us. Our door will always be open for you.
Kim, Ed and Eric Hock
John Stacy and DJ Baker
January 27, 2008
Dear Jane, George and Zeke,
Your family changed our lives forever. The years you lived in Maryland remain some of our fondest memories. When we go to the Diner after a game we talk about you guys. When we hike in the woods or just drive by the old house we are reminded of how special you all are and how lucky we are to have known your family.
Alex was a shining example of your love for people and your enjoyment of life. She could make anyone smile, even when they didn't want to. She was a really good person and such a neat kid. The kind of person people like to be around. The world needs more people like that. She left too soon for many of us, most angels do.
We are so sorry for your loss.
Let us know if there is anything we can do.
We are thinking of you all.
All our love...John Stacy and DJ
Diane Cohen
January 27, 2008
I only met Alex once, and still remember the glow that she emanated and the brightness that surrounded her and know that she was an angel among us. My heartfelt condolences to the family and I will keep you in my prayers.
Sandy & Mike Combs
January 26, 2008
Dear Jane, George & Zeke: I've been trying to write my thoughts about Alex, but the words are very hard to express. We will miss her wonderful smile and cheerful personality. She was so much like you, Jane and George. She took the best of both of you. We will miss her so much at the shore, but we know she will be with us every year. So lets keep up the tradition for her spirit. We send our love and support to you. Keep in touch, we love you. Love Sandy, Mike, Kelly and Megan
Max Middleton
January 26, 2008
"Don't be dismayed at good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends." I'm going to miss you Ayax, but I feel blessed to have known for as long as I have. So long 'til next time we meet...
Lova ya
Wylene and Bob McDonald
January 26, 2008
George and Jane,
Our deepest and heartfelt condolences for the loss of your beautiful daughter. There are no words to express our sympathy but we pray God will comfort you in this time of sorrow.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Nichole Keefe Elliott
January 26, 2008
Jane, George (Uncle Cool)and Zeke,
I cannot imagine the pain you must feel losing your sweet beautiful girl. My thoughts, love, and prayers are with you as you meet each coming day. Take comfort knowing that Alex is watching over you. With every warm ray of sunshine, rustle of leaves, and gentle wind her arms embrace you.
I will always remember beach weekends with Quinn, Spencer, Caitlin and Alex romping through the sand and waves. Alex obviously touched all that she met not only with her astounding beauty, but also with her amazing personality.
All Our Love,
Nichole Keefe Elliott and family
Brandon Prysock
January 25, 2008
Sweet Alex, There really are no words to describe you, this happening, or this feeling we all now carry every day. How we took the better of our feelings for granted. It took you less than a year to touch my heart. Your one of those friends I have to consider family. For the record you are not a were or a was. You are a now and every day present. Obviously GOD felt he needed his precious angel more than we did here. This only shows how special you are. If I could ask you only one last favor, would be for you to spread your wings, shine your light and guide us with your ever glowing ora of love and kindness. Don't worry, I'll return the favor by watching over your Scuzz! You are forever loved and will be eternally rememebered. RIP Alex Hartner. We love you.
- George, Jane, and Zeke.... you are in my every thought and prayer and my heart goes to you and your strength. May love keep you strong and your smiles be guided by the memories.
With Love,
Michael Hamman
January 25, 2008
I will miss you Alex. I wish I could have been in the states for you. I'm sure the ceremony was wonderfull and I know you will be watching over those you love.
Juliana Lane
January 25, 2008
Dear Jane, George and Zeke,
Alex will always be in my heart, and also everyone who knew her. Every time I saw Alex, she brightened my day. Even if I was in a bad mood. I miss her so dearly, I can't even imagine how you feel about losing her. The spot Alex created in everyone's life, will always be empty from now on. It is going to be extremely hard for me, to continue riding horses. Because Alex taught me almost EVERYTING I needed to know about riding. But yet, we had so much more to come. When we rode, we would talk about how we would do so much together, in the future. But one day, if I actually accomplish as many things as Alex did, I will look up to heaven, and ask her if she is proud of me. I know she will be because, that's Alex. She always had the biggest, brightest smile. And it was NEVER fake. She gave everyone a happy feeling. And I will never forget that. And one day, when I see her, I will thank her for everything.
Kimberly Bullard
January 25, 2008
I thank God I had the opportunity to show with Alex during a local show in 2006. She is an inspiration to me, I've never known a person so young to have this much of an impact on the people around her. Just meeting her changed all our lives forever. May God provide comfort and peace to her entire family during this most difficult time, What a tremendous loss for all of us and Heaven now glows brighter. I hope we all grow to be more like her.
In His loving grip,
Brandon Prysock
January 24, 2008
Sweet Alex, There really are no words to describe you, this happening, or this feeling we all now carry every day. How we took the better of our feelings for granted. It took you less than a year to touch my heart. Your one of those friends I have to consider family. For the record you are not a were or a was. You are a now and every day present. Obviously GOD needed his precious angel more than we did here. This only shows how special you are. If I could ask you only one last favor, would be for you to spread your wings, shine your light and guide us with your ever glowing ora of love and kindness. Don't worry, I'll return the favor by watching over your Scuzz! You are forever loved and will be eternally rememebered. RIP Alex Hartner. We love you.
As for you George, Jane, and Zeke.... you are in my every thought and prayer and my heart goes to you and your strength. May love keep you strong and your smiles be guided by the memories.
With Love,
The Branton's
January 24, 2008
Dear George, Jane and Zeke,
Words cannot begin to describe our sorrow when we heard about Alex. If you ever need anything, PLEASE, call us.
Louis, Lisa and Jake
Brandon Hall
January 24, 2008
Alex, what other can you say but different but amazing. When alex walked into a room she would light the room with a brilliant light... When I first met Alex, before Caitlin got a cance to introduce us she walked right up and said hi before anyone else could... Alex has left a crater in this world that no one else can fill, with her vibrant and colorful personality no one can compare. My condolences to go out to the family and friends, who all have been touched by this very special person... Alex you will be missed...
-Brandon
Lisa Swanberg
January 24, 2008
Dear Jane, George & Zeke, An incomprehensible tragedy. A senseless loss to a wonderful, loving family. For someone so lovely, young and vibrant as Alex with such potential to leave our midst so soon is truly among the saddest of days. My deepest and heartfelt sympathy.
Gladys and Jim Middleton
January 24, 2008
Dear Alex-
It only takes a moment
To close your eyes and see
That Alex was an Angel
Whose life was meant to be
Her friendliness and beauty
enlightened everybody's way;
We hope her place in Heaven
Will be shared with us one day!
Lovingly,
(Grandma)Gladys and(Grandpa) Jim
Terry Guarino
January 23, 2008
Dear Jane, George and Zeke.
The Staff at Cables Plus is so deeply saddened over the loss of your precious beautiful daughter. At this time please know that we are thinking of you each and every day, and will always continue to hold you in our hearts. If there is anything at all we can do for you, please let us know,
Sending our love and compassion to you and your family, James O'Neill, Ray Shindle, Brian Young, and Terry Guarino
Caroline Chambliss
January 23, 2008
What a spectacular life you lived. Your spirit, your energy, your fearlessness were an inspiration to all.
Theresa Knoerl
January 23, 2008
Alex,
i cannot describe how much i will miss you. You were the happiest person i have ever met and everyone loved you for it. Every time you would walk into the barn it would light up and you would entertain anyone that needed a smile on their face.You wil be in my prayers and i will never forget you! i know all the people you ahve touched will never forget your smile and your personality!
Jordan Barnes
January 23, 2008
To Jane, George, and Zeke:
Alex will always be in me and my familys heart and dreams forever. She was always so loving and happy. I will always cherish all of the good memories that i had with Alex. Me and my family will keep you in our prayers and we all love you. I will see you one day Alex.
Roger, Connie and Brittany Hall
January 23, 2008
We only knew Alex from brief meetings at some area horse shows where our Daughter was showing. Alex made a striking impression on our Daughter as well as us. It was easy to tell she was special. Completely by accident, I ran across the link below today and immediately thought of how appropriately it depicted Alex's short but brilliant flame. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Hartner family and abundance of friends.
http://www.dashpoemmovie.com/
Leah Cox
January 23, 2008
alex,
you meant so much to so many people....especially to your scuzz! you will be missed greatly...i know though that you've still been here with us...ur presence has been seen for sure at our house...haunting your scuzz and scarin swiss and i!
George, Janey, and Zeke...
Stay strong...alex will be with you forever...I would like to share with you one of the most inspirational quotes that I personally live by...
"Fear is usless, only believe"
Luke 3:50
With love,
Leah
Lindsey Jacks
January 23, 2008
Alex,
You were wild, crazy & always lived in the moment, that is what I loved and admired most about you! You were so talented without ever having to try, that is what I was most jealous of you! Everything you did was “perfect” & “fabulous”. You were always the easiest and accepting person to be reprimand at the farm ;-). You will always be loved and missed here. Camp will never be the same without you! I promise to do my best for Ace & your Mom. We will ride for you and with you for the rest of our lives! Luv u girl!!
Susie Carlisle
January 22, 2008
Dear George, Jane & Zeke,
"Look to the heavens above and adore Him, for your daughter rides His horses among the stars"
Love,
Spencer Andrus
January 22, 2008
I wish I was half the person you were, you were filled with more life than anybody, more forgiving and accepting than I have been on my best days. Why you should be taken from all the people that love you so much is still so unbelievable, it must be a nightmare. I just want to drift my eyes away and believe everything will be alright and will get better, but you stained so many memories your impossible to forget. I love you and will never forget you or Barney (I made sure you had him in your final rest)
Love Spencer
Ian Edrich
January 22, 2008
From one crazy cousin to another: I love you and admire you more than you could understand. We hit it off from the beginning and I am so grateful for the countless memories I will treasure forever - that does not include the one when you received a planetoid-sized bump on your already abstractly-shaped head after falling off a brick wall outside of a house where I had just set off a screeching, relentless alarm which advertized to the surrounding public what a moron I am while I was babysitting you. I know you love that story, so the humiliation is certainly worth it. My sadness is selfish as you are in the presence of the LORD who so perfectly made you. I promise you that our wonderful family will become even closer than we already are as a result of your life. If Heaven has cheesy pop music, get a playlist ready and start practicing for a big drive around the clouds singing at the top of our voices. I LOVE YOU!!!
Agnes & Patrick Murphy
January 22, 2008
Dear Janey & George,
Our deepest sympathy to you and your son. You will be in our prayers.
Rhiannon Appelgrijn
January 22, 2008
I have had the privilege of knowing Alex since she was born, and she has always been an inspiration to me. Even though I am her older cousin by 10 years, I look up to her! She was always learning to do everything faster and better than I could because she wasn't afraid. I have always admired her so much for her incredible bravery. She has helped me see that life is to be passionately lived and loved; it is not to be feared. Thinking of all she accomplished in her brief 18 years will continuously motivate me to do more and be more. I love her and miss her more than words can say, and life will never be the same without her. I am comforted in knowing that I will see her beautiful face again in Heaven someday.
Uncle George, Janey, and Zeke- I love you so much! You are in my constant thoughts and prayers. Coenraad and James love you too!
Love,
Rhae Rhae
Dan Metzger
January 21, 2008
Alex is and will be dearly missed. I will miss her bright smile and captivating personality and have always admired her bravery. It is impossible for anyone who knew Alex to forget her. I know she will live on in my heart until I see her again.
Tracey Metzger
January 21, 2008
Alex,
I will always treasure the memory of our joy ride in my "Barbie Bug"...top down, music blasting, waving our hands in the air, singing at the top of our lungs. You always made me feel young!! I couldn't bear this if I didn't know exactly where you are. I will see you in heaven buddy! I love you more than words can say.
Love, Tracey xxx
John & Sue Coffey
January 21, 2008
Dear Jane, George, and Zeke,
Alex was an incredible presence in the lives of those around her...she knew how to live life and made the most of everyday, she shared her spirit with those around her and we feel priviledged to have known her, even if for such a short time...you have an amazing family and are an outstanding example of strength and love...and easy on the eyes too!!! we love you...our thoughts and prayers are with you each day...
Sharon Lyons
January 21, 2008
Dear Janie, I have only met you and Alex once, when we had a birthday celebration for Kelly C. It was so easy to see her enthusiasm for life, her beauty (both inside and out) and the comfortable and loving relationship that you and she shared. I felt like a better person when I walked away from her. Now I understand why... My heart goes out to you and your husband George and the rest of your family and friends. Kindness comes from so many places, lean on your friends and let them help. Sincerely, Sharon
David Cockrell
January 21, 2008
Rarely am I at a loss for words, but I cannot describe your unlimited energy and incredibly positive spirit with any words. I love you and always will, because your spirit will be with me and all who knew you forever. Aches now has a new meaning, but I know you want me to live life just as you did - with true enthusiasm and a cheerful approach to everything and everybody I come in contact with.
Shelly, Bill, Jake and Erik Roman/Shilling
January 21, 2008
Dear Jane, George and Zeke --
We are so sorry about Alex. We are thinking about you and keeping you in our thoughts. We love you all so much.
Remember to just let it go . . .
Helen Kerner
January 21, 2008
Dearest Alex,
Your blazing personality and individual charm were clear from the day you were born! That you have passed so quickly through this life is hard to fathom --- you will be sorely missed. A light in the eyes of your parents and a free spirit who's passions, especially for the equine world, inspired those around you, your spirit will not fade, nor leave us. The hole that your passing has made is filling with love and support from so many for your beautiful brother, Zeke, and your parents, Jane and George. May you, too, Alex, feel the warmth in a new world of eternal joy.
Helen & David
Kelly Chambliss
January 21, 2008
Alex,
Extraordinary is the only word to describe how you captured each day. It was purely a gift that God gave me the opportunity to know you. You were a woman who saw life as it should be seen. Thank you for teaching and reminding so many of us how life should be lived…..
Until we meet again….
Love,
Kelly
Quinn Andrus
January 20, 2008
I can t belive your gone. There was so much I would like to tell you. You were my cousin but I thought of you as my little sister. You were a shinning star that burnned brighter than the sun. Forever Yong, Forever Beautiful, Forever Loved, Forever Missed. I love you Alex and you will never be forgot.
Love
Quinn
Courtney Bickers
January 20, 2008
Alex, you were an amazing individual with an out of this world personality. You could have fun doing nothing. You were shopping buddy in Maine, and it will never be the same without you there. You are in a better place and I know I will see you again one day. You will be missed but not forgotten. You have taught us all to live life like theres no tomorrow and have no regrets. Rest in pease baby girl.
January 20, 2008
Alex,
I cannot begin to say all I would have said if I knew it would be my last talk with you, because that would take a lifetime: a lifetime I thought you would be sharing with us. How I wish I had just gone to Maine this year, or that we could have seen you for Thanksgiving and Easter. I have been guilty and believing I can to the things I want to do tomorrow, something you would never allow. Your presence was such a gift. I wish I could express to my friends how you could just grab attention or make everyone laugh. I will think of you everytime I go waterskiing, at the top of every mountain I climb, everyday I go to the beach rather than stay home, and with every bad pop song I must hear, knowing that you would probably love it. Beatles aside, of course. Wow, I'm gonna miss you. You know I could never forget you.
I'll see you around.
Caitlin Andrus
January 20, 2008
Alex (my Scuz), there really are no words to describe what has happened! You are the greatest person.. so full of life and energy! You are now forever young and beautiful! I will always love you Alex!! And you will always be my scuzz!!
Kylie Loube
January 20, 2008
Hey baby girl!!
It's almost been a week since the crash.. I still can't understand how/why this all happened... I miss you so much!! I continue to pull out pictures from ninth and tenth grade where you are dancing and acting like a superstar... just being the Alex we alllll know =) One day I hope to look back at all our memories of our sleeeepovers and going in your hottub, and making our SG shirts and be able to smile instead of break down... i love you so much Alex and I wish I could just understnad how and why this all happened.. but I just cant yet.. :( I love you so much!!! I don't care how far away you are I will still continiue to talk to you everday.. I know you can hear me =) I miss you baby!!
Dylan Chase
January 20, 2008
Never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever forget this amazing girl! from being stranded at hagman's to be awful singing around the campfire, Alex brought laughs to anyone and everyone. We will never forget you!!!
Rebecca Chase
January 20, 2008
Alex was, is, and will always be amazing. She lives on inside of us, and she certainly wouldn't let anyone forget her. Though I am sad, and I still do not know quite when I'll stop crying about this, there is absolutely nothing "sad" about who Alex is. She was and is the most fun and entertaining person in the universe, not to mention completely nuts (Alex, the undeniably talented tribal dances on our island in Maine were definitely your idea - I don't blame you). She has inspired me to be more strong and fearless than I can be in every way imaginable. Alex, I know exactly where you are, and I know that we will be reunited again on an even better island - a paradise. What an extraordinary legacy for you to leave. Forever young, you went out with a bang. I love you!!
-Your "Becca-Chase"
Zac Metzger
January 19, 2008
We'll always miss Alex, but she'll be with us where ever we go. I know she'll be up in heaven watching us in Maine, wanting to be the one to throw me off the tube. But she'll have to wait 'til I get up there for that. One of the only things that could make me look forward to death is getting to hang with Alex again.
Love Ya
Nancy Becker
January 19, 2008
Alex,
I miss you terribly and will always remember your fun loving nature, free spirit, and fearlessness. You could ride any horse and ski any mountain and make it look easy. Most of all, you inspired old ladies like me to be more daring. Your beauty will emanate forever. And, your spirit will live on with all of us -- including animals -- who were so fortunate to have been touched by you in this life. Love forever -- Nancy
matt garagusi
January 19, 2008
Alex
The Garagusi family has missed you the minute you moved south from Darnestown.
I remember your voracious appetite for life and it was truely infectious.I always enjoyed coming over to your house and being around such an "upbeat" beautiful girl
You have made a huge impression on our lives and especially our Bridget. For every ride she will have a piece of you in her heart
Our baby Charlotte will know you through our connection, because legends never die, memories live forever and you will continue to touch the lives of others because your spirit lives.
we love you alex and miss you dearly
The Garagusi family
Samantha Metzger
January 19, 2008
Dear Alex,
Even though we didn't know each other for very long, the time we spent together was a time I will never forget. You brought everything to life and made me happy when I was sad. You are my inspiration to live every moment to its fullest and to live with a free spirit. I wish we could have ridden together. I love you and I miss you so much. I can't wait till I see you again in heaven. I love you ! You will always have a special place in my heart!
Bridget Greaney
January 19, 2008
Alex, I will love you forever and the memories I have of you will never disappear. You were amazing and such a genuine person. You touched the lives of so many people and Iam so thankful I was one of them. You kept things exciting and I can not remember one moment with you that was not fun. The vacations we took with our families were unforgetable especialy the horseback one. I will always remember you as a free spirit and will love you forever.
Love, Bridget Greaney
John Legg
January 19, 2008
Dear Alex,
As the new kid in the family, I wish I could have spent more time with you and get to know your better. But in the the few years that I have know you, I fell in love with your spirit. I know that I will see you again. Just so you know, Suzanne and I named our Baby after you! His name is Jack Alexander. I hope he shares your courage, beauty, and love of life. Until we met again.
John Legg
Shannon Metzger
January 19, 2008
Dear Alex,
i know i may have only got to hang out with you for a week, but when we did it was a blast aspecially staying up all night playing poker and card games! even though i wish we could have done it again, eventually we will and for now i will always remember you and your amazing personality! <3
love you! forever
Carl Middleton
January 19, 2008
Sweet Alex! Sweet Alex! The quicksilver music of your heartstrings will play for us forever! Uncle Carl
Colleen Hooker
January 19, 2008
Dear Alex,
I will always remember and admire your fearless spirit and beautiful outlook on life. You were a light in every room and a joy to everyone around you. The memories we shared will be with me always. May God take care of you and be entertained by your lovely sense of humor. I love you!
Robin Middleton
January 19, 2008
You've touched so many lives with wonder and joy.Thank you for sharing your love across the universe. Until we meet again, dear niece, Auntie R.
Dawn Taylor
January 19, 2008
I didn't know Alex, but I've come to North Carolina because my cousin Janie lost her daughter. I have a daughter of my own and to even think about losing her makes me unable to breathe. I am so sorry for Janie and George. Being around all these people who knew Alex, I can only conclude that she was a most extraordinary girl. You will be in my thoughts.
Suzanne Legg
January 19, 2008
Alex Hartner is and always has been an inspiration to every person she meets. She has experienced and enjoyed more life in her 18 years than many experience in a lifetime. There is no-one like Alex. She was a joy to be with, listen to and learn from. We will miss her terribly but she will daily inspire us to take chances, live life to the fullest, reach out to others and be all that we can be. We love you, Alex!
Kris Keller
January 19, 2008
Our 8-year-old daughter, Caitlyn, rides at Shingleton Farm. She always said Alex was her favorite counselor. It seems she was a true asset to the farm and I know she will be missed by all who knew her. I only wish that we could have known her longer but how lucky we are that we did get to meet her if only for a short time.
Jeanne Kremnitzer
January 19, 2008
Dear George & Family,
I send my warmest heartfelt condolences to you and your family. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling at this time. I do pray that God, Family & Friends are with you to comfort you at this time and always. Love, Jeanne Kremnitzer (classmate of George back in Wantagh High)
Kallan Ludder
January 19, 2008
Dear George and Jane-
Alex. What an amazing girl. I still remember all the times from the Butler Camps and just riding with this girl. It was actaully just 4 days before we heard the news that my sister and myself were talking about Alex. I would LOVE to tell you all the memories i have of Alex, but i think it may take a really long time considering that there are so many. I have to say, its weird for me to see what a gorgeous girl Alex has become, since the last time that I saw here was when i was about 9 or 10. She was amazing, and fearless. Her happyness spilled over on everyone, and I would just like to tell you one thing; God puts everyone on the earth for a reason. I think Alex's purpose was to make people laugh and smile. She was always doing things to make people have a smile on their face. I think she was taken out of this world because she couldnt possibly make any more people smile, and it was to bring attention to the fact of what an amazing girl she was. I think God was sending us a message to be more like her, so smile. She would want you to smile, not be said, for being happy was what she did best. Smile, and remember the life she lived, let her love and happyness shine through you.
I'm praying for you.
Mary Miller-Jordan
January 18, 2008
Alex has blessed our southeastern NC horse community here for a relatively short while, however I have meet very few individuals that have left the impact that she has.
Alex was known for her sparkle and shine. Her charisma, heart and spirit. Her talents....with horses and with people.......She was the type of person that made you feel like your best friend within the
first 10 minutes of meeting her, or maybe 5.
If there were only a way
In which she could sprinkle
Just a little bit of herself
Into every one of us
The world would most certainly be
A better place....
On second thought......
Maybe she has......................
mmj
Hope Parker
January 18, 2008
Alex,
You were such a beautiful person, inside and out. I cant believe so sudden your gone...I will miss you..i love you
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