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Charles W. Ingold

1958 - 2020

Charles Ingold Obituary

CHARLES (CHARLIE) W. INGOLD April 21, 1958- December 9, 2020 Charlie Ingold, of Wilmington, NC, died Wednesday, December 9, 2020 in Winston Salem, NC with his family by his side. Charlie was born in Wilmington to the late Martha Cooper and William F. Ingold. He graduated from New Hanover High School and in 1981 from University of North Carolina Wilmington with a degree in Recreation. While attending UNCW, he was goalie for the soccer team and ranked 2nd in all time saves and saves per game. He became a carpenter and worked for the movie studio in Wilmington from 1984 to 2014. He worked on numerous movies with his name in the credits on several. Six years ago, Charlie almost left us with acute aortic dissection. Thankfully, God chose to allow us to keep him, for which we have been so grateful. Charlie has lived his life to the max these last few years. With the loss of all but a little of his vision, he adapted with the help of his wife Kay, family, and his amazing friends. He continued with fishing, hunting, and attempts at golf. He loved his family, friends, good stories, jokes, laughter, and always sports -Go Heels- and the occasional cocktail! He is survived by Kay, his wife of 31 years, sons Jason and Joshua (Sarah), grandsons Andrew and Cameron (Nicki, their mom), brother Alan (Toni), sister Laura, and brother-in-law Bill (Carol). Charlie is also survived by his nieces, nephews, cousins, and those amazing friends. Outdoor Memorial Service, by the lake, Sunday December 20, 2020 2 PM, Port City Community Church, 250 Vision Drive, Wilmington, NC 28403 Please wear a mask and practice social distancing.

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Published by Wilmington Star-News on Dec. 15, 2020.

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Sharon Jacobs Murray

December 24, 2020

Charlie and I grew up together from elementary school to high school.
We lived near each other and have always been childhood friends.
He was one of the best people you could ever meet. He was a down to earth good guy. We loved Charlie then and we love Charlie now. We will miss being around him and cutting up. I loved seeing him on his hunting and fishing adventures with David Whitman who would share pictures with us on facebook. Charlie, we are sorry you left us so soon.
Kay we are sending prayers and our hugs to you.
Love,
Sharon Jacobs Murray
Swansboro, NC
& NHHS Class of 1976 Classmates
Wilmington, NC

Carl Mason

December 23, 2020

Charlie will be missed by many. I played soccer with Chuck in HS and continued our friendship thru Instagram and reunions. I looked forward to his fishing exploits since I’m 6 hours from coast and miss that. I pray for his family thru these times. We all loved Charlie. RIP Keeper!

Darlene Cook Spencer

December 20, 2020

Charlie was a great friend,
Wildcat, goalie, fisherman, and a great person! We will love you and miss you always. Darlene Spencer

Sheila Youngblood

December 20, 2020

Dear Kay and family.
I hate it that I missed the service today! I wanted to see you and the family and say my goodbyes to my dear friend, Charlie! I will never forget Charlie! What a gentleman, and someone that could make you smile by just being in the room! Our classmates have had some great times together at our class get togethers a few times a year, and made some wonderful memories! I am SO glad he was there in those memories and he will be there in spirit in the ones to come. Kay and family, again, my deepest condolences to you all, and you will remain in my thoughts and prayers for a long time to come.

Todd Lawson

December 18, 2020

Charlie was one of a kind. We worked many films together as well as many hunting and fishing trips. He made everyone feel as if they were his best friend and somehow found time to spend with all of us. We will all miss him forever. Rest in peace Charlie...

Bobby Ferguson

December 17, 2020

I met Charlie a long time ago but it seems like yesterday. He will be sorely missed. Long live your spirt Charlie!

Your Friend,
Bobby Ferguson
The Scotsman

James & Laurel Oñate

December 17, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Trena Killette

December 16, 2020

I worked with Kay for 20 years. I always looked forward to Mondays and hearing what Kay would have to say about what she and (Charlie) did over the past weekend and their many adventures. I never knew two people who enjoyed life and living as much as those two did together. Kay would tell the stories in such a way that would just make me laugh all day. Even though I only met (Charlie) a couple of times, I felt as though I knew him through Kay‘s eyes. After Charlie’s surgery six years ago, I grew to very much admire him and his zest for living. Instead of feeling sorry for himself, he continued to live his life to the very best of his ability. My condolences to Kay, and his family and friends. May God bless you all.

Trena Killette

Bruce Kirk

December 16, 2020

First met Charlie while woking with Kay at Chemserve.Was always happy with a smile on his face. Loved Kay more than anything else. Our prayers are with Kay and the family.
Bruce Kirk

PENNY THOMAS

December 15, 2020

SUCH A AWESOME PERSON TO KNOW !!!!
what a way to live his life out !
He never stopped doing what he loved !!!!!!
loved him ! JT & Penny

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Wendy Hendricks

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Erwin Mercado

December 15, 2020

I met Charlie my sophomore year at UNCW. We clicked right away at the soccer field and as friends. He was laid back as can be, a true southern boy, friendly and very funny. He was also one of the best goalies I had the pleasure to play with and share amazing times going to play other schools in NC, SC, FL and MD. We will always remember Charlie for his signing in the bus and southern ways. I was lucky to have known him, and also to have talked to him 5 days before his surgery. As usual, Charlie did not show much concern and sounded as he always did, laid back and calm. I will miss you my friend and will always treasure our wonderful time at UNCW and your friendship. God bless you. Chichi

susan thompson

December 15, 2020

No words can tell you how sorry we are about Charlie, I went to high school with him, and we have reconnected over the years with classmate get togethers. We did love us some Charlie and we will miss him so much. Our thoughts and prayers are with Kay and the Family. Susan Brock Thompson

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