GERALD BLAKE ARTHUR Gerald Blake Arthur, 85 of Wilmington, NC died peacefully at Lower Cape Fear LifeCare Center on Tuesday, December 29, 2020. Gerald was born in Maysville, NC on August 21, 1935 to the late Rodney Whitfield Arthur and the late Annabelle Reese Arthur Long. Also remembered are his wife Annie Lee Frederick Arthur and his two sisters, Lavoy Picone and Mary Helen George who preceded him in death. He is survived by his only son Gerald (Jerry) Blake Arthur II and wife Wendy of Wilmington; granddaughter, Katelyn Lee Arthur of Raleigh, NC; brothers Rodney ("Bubba") Whitfield Arthur, Jr. of Lebanon, TN, Virgil Koonce Arthur of Wilmington, William ("Billy") Eugene Arthur of Wilmington and numerous nieces and nephews. Gerald attended New Hanover High School and served in the US Air Force for six years. He held various job but is best known for being the owner of Arthur's Tire & Auto Service for over 35 years. He was also a member of the Masonic Lodge and the Wilmington Shrine Club. The love of Gerald's life was his wife Annie Lee. He adored her and she was his guiding light. Life for Gerald was never quite the same without her. We are rejoicing knowing they are united in heaven. Gerald's greatest joy in life was his precious only son, Jerry. His love and adoration for him was clear to all who knew him. His face would light up any time Jerry was near. Gerald was so proud of him. This joy was only rivaled by the other love of his life his granddaughter, Katie. He thought that she hung the moon and the stars. He bragged about her to anyone who would listen. Gerald loved his family. Nothing made him happier than being with them. He especially enjoyed going to Jerry's softball games and cheering for his team. These games were the highlight of his week. Gerald will be remembered for his loving devotion to his family. A private memorial will be held due to COVID restrictions. The family would like to extend thanks to Dr. Sepich and staff, Dr. Hobart and Missy, LPN and Lower Cape Fear LifeCare - especially Olga, RN, Chanique, CNA and Gillian, CSW. In lieu of flowers and in memory of Gerald, the family requests memorial donations to Lower Cape Fear LifeCare or a charity of one's choice. Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.andrewsmortuary.com

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Published by Wilmington Star-News on Jan. 1, 2021.

Memories and Condolences
for Gerald Arthur

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35 Entries

Houston and Jennifer Hunt

January 5, 2021

We are saddened to hear of Uncle Gerald's passing. We will be praying for peace during this very difficult time. Much love to the family.

Rodney and Maxine Arthur

January 4, 2021

We will miss you.

Chanique Walker

January 4, 2021

It was a pleasure to take care of Mr. Arthur in his final days. He was a great man and will be missed much.

Victoria West

January 4, 2021

It was a pleasure getting to know you, Jerry and Wendy. On a daily basis they were your world and the love amongst you all couldn’t have been more evident. We had some very good conversations and you always smiled when we were watching Andy Griffith. Goodbye my friend.

AMY SMITH

January 4, 2021

Remembering Gerald as a kind, respectful, caring man. Billy, may your heart soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Daniel Arthur

January 3, 2021

Wish I could have spent more time with you uncle. You'll be missed.

Rodney and Bitsy Arthur III

January 3, 2021

You were always so kind and loving. I remember the time we were in Wilmington and all eight of us Arthur men went out for breakfast. I wish we would have had a picture taken that day. I will miss our phone calls and I will miss you. Rest In Peace Uncle Gerald. Love you always Rodney and Bitsy.

Larry and Debbie Durham

January 2, 2021

Jerry, Wendi, Katie,Larry and I express our deepest sympathy. Uncle Gearld will truly be missed. My fondest memories of Uncle Gearld is when Grandma and I went shopping downtown and I always wanted to stop and see Uncle Gearld and get a big hug. That is when he worked for an insurance company. He always called me “Sugar” . Saying special prayers for for the family.

Rodney Arthur IV

January 2, 2021

I know we never spent a lot of time together, but it was always great to see you when we came to visit. When I was a kid, I always bragged that there was a tire shop with the family name it in Wilmington to people back here in Tennessee. Love you uncle Gerald. You will be missed.

Don Eason

January 1, 2021

Man I don’t know what to say or where to begin. This family has been my family. Mr and Mrs Arthur treated me like a second son. I am so grateful to them opening up their home to me and making feel like family. It is with deep sadness that we say goodbye to Mr Arthur. I can hardly bring myself to call him Gerald.

If ever a man loved a son it was Gerald Arthur who loved Jerry Boy. Their home was so peaceful and I loved spending so much time there. I would watch Mr Arthur be affectionate with Jerry as teenager and as a grown man. Hugging and kissing him and I would say to myself when I have a daughter or son I don’t care how old they get I will do just the same with them. So Mr Arthur here’s to you. Thank you Sir for showing me how to love a son. You have forever marked my life and modeled how a father should treat a child. I love you Mr Arthur. You will forever hold a special place in my heart.

John & Shaney Fersinger

January 1, 2021

Jerry, Wendy and Kate, Our deepest sympathy to you all. We will continue to keep you in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. It was always such a pleasure to talk to Mr Arthur during his visits to the neighborhood.

Pamela Mathis

January 1, 2021

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Jerry, Wendy, and Kate, during this difficult time. Mr. Arthur without a doubt loved his family so much. You all took such great care of him in his time of need. May God surround you with His peace and love as you celebrate the life of Mr. Arthur. We Love you all, Pam, Ray, McKenzie, Madison, CJ and Avery.

Donna Hickman

January 1, 2021

Jerry, Wendy, and Katie. Eric and I are so sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers and hugs are with you. You will always have those precious memories of him and all of your wonderful stories you have shared about him.

Anna Rose

January 1, 2021

Jerry, Wendy, and Katie I am so sorry. May all of you be surrounded with love, peace, and strength now and in the days ahead. Keep those wonderful memories of joyful times together close in your hearts. Uncle Gerald loved and cherished his family so very much and now he rests in peace with Aunt Annie. Please reach out to me if I can help in any way. Much love always, Anna.

Janice Wilson-Eason

December 31, 2020

Jerry and Wendy, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father/father in law. May God give you peace today and the days ahead! Much Love to you and your family. Your Classmate, Janice Wilson-Eason

Glenn Allen

December 31, 2020

Jerry and Wendy, I am so sorry about the Passing of MR. Arthur. My Prayers are with you both. I remember so well the talks with MR, Arthur at the Post 10 Base Ball Games. He was always so proud of Jerry. He would share his great love of the game.

Hayley Stafford

December 31, 2020

I'm so sorry for your loss. Despite how difficult this time has been, the way you cared for Pa is really the only thing I can think of that measures up to the way he loved Uncle Jerry. I certainly will never forget your patience and selflessness, and I'm sure he and Annie won't either. My heart and prayers go out to you all. I love you, and just know that I'm here for you whenever you need to feel your feelings.

Tina and Bob Croy

December 31, 2020

Dear Jerry, Wendy, Katy and Family, So sorry to hear of the passing of Uncle Gerald. Both your parents were so very kind to me and Gina and Rodney, always. He had such an infections smile and laugh. I so enjoyed the video, and smiled all the way through . He loved all of you so, and never missed an opportunity to talk about how proud he was of you. He will always be with you in your heart. Much love.

Gina Ferrell

December 31, 2020

So sorry to hear about Uncle Gerald. May he Rest In Peace with his loving wife, Aunt Anna Lee. May the Lord be with you guys as you go through this time of loss and healing. With loving thoughts and prayers, I will be praying for you guys. Love you all very much! Gina

Michael Clark

December 31, 2020

Sorry for your loss Arthur Family....I had the pleasure of meeting Mr. Arthur a handful of times one of my fondest memories was him letting us use the El Camino to take on our duck hunting adventures. He was definitely a class act and will be truly missed.

Steve and Maria Vineis

December 31, 2020

My deepest sympathies to Jerry, Wendy, Katie, Uncle Bubba & Aunt Mack, Uncle Billy, and Uncle Virgil. We have so many grand memories together, the ones that stick out the most were our summers at my Papa and Grandma’s house on Wood Duck Circle. You could find us in the pool or on the beautiful deck surrounded by all the flowers. Uncle Gerald is now reunited with his bride, Aunt Annie. I know he missed her very much. As well as my Papa and Grandma, Aunt Helen, and Grannie. You all will be in our thoughts, he will surely be missed.

Michelle Rose

December 31, 2020

You are so loved and so missed. Love you so much Uncle “Gerl”. I didn’t know your name was Gerald for the longest time because of the way Grandma said it. Miss you all so very much. I am not good at goodbyes so, until next time Xoxo
My thoughts are with Jerry, Wendy and Kate. Love you guys.

Chuck & Emily Mabry

December 31, 2020

Our sincere thoughts & heartfelt prayers go out to all the family especially in the coming days. The steadfast devotion, kindness & genuine love shown for Mr Arthur by Jerry, Wendy and Kate were undoubtedly a source of great comfort for him over the last months.....a tribute to the sweet heritage he leaves behind.

Betty Jo and Charles Matthews

December 30, 2020

My heart and prayers go out to Jerry, Wendy and Kate in their loss of father, father-in-law, and “Pa.”. I remember Gerald at Kate’s soccer games, at her birthday gatherings, and any time I was at one of Jerry’s games. He loved his son. He was always ready to help with my girls cars when needing repair. He and Annie Lee were an amazing couple. Jerry and Wendy will have no regrets regarding the care they have so willingly given Gerald for more than two years. He couldn’t have been in better hands. He will surely be missed.

Vincent Harris

December 30, 2020

Deepest sympathies and prayers for your family in this time of mourning.

Erin Smith

December 30, 2020

I so enjoyed talking to Mr Arthur at the ballfield. He will be missed by many. My deepest sympathy.

Thomas Newton

December 30, 2020

Jerry, you were blessed to have such wonderful parents. They were always kind to me and that's a memory I'll carry with me forever. If your Dad was like mine, he will still be teaching you how to live and will be a part of every decision you make. He raised you well and I was blessed to have you as a dear friend growing up, you are like a brother to me and if you need me I am here for you and Wendy. Sending prayers and love for your peace and comfort!

Peter Gilardo

December 30, 2020

loved seeing him out at softball games cheering everyone on! Win or lose he always had some funny words of wisdom. Definitely funnier when we lost! Lol.. sending many prayers to you all

Ann Macrae

December 30, 2020

Thinking of you and Wendy

Al Haraldson

December 30, 2020

Enjoyed seeing him at the ballpark and just talking to him. Mr Arthur will surely be missed

Bryan Todd

December 30, 2020

Mr. Arthur was the best assistant softball coach I ever had. It always frustrated him when players would not use 2 hands when catching a fly ball. I had some awesome times with him in the dugout during games. He always kept me laughing but he was very serious with his observations. I miss him and those times we shared together.

Cathy Leonard

December 30, 2020

Jerry and Wendy I’m so sorry for your loss.

Scott Sandlin

December 30, 2020

Sending you my deepest sympathy and prayers during this time. Many fond memories of Mr. Arthur and our times together. Always looked forward to seeing him at our Legion games...then and now. Such a great man who will be missed. So sorry for your loss. There is indeed a great reunion taking place up above.

Larry Wright

December 30, 2020

Jerry and Wendy, deepest sympathies for the loss of your beloved Dad. On behalf of the entire “Katy’s” family , we offer you our thoughts and prayers, and support during this difficult time. We are here for you.

Judy Tucker

December 29, 2020

Our family extends our deepest sympathy to Jerry, Wendy & Katelyn. You all have been in our prayers for a while . Knowing you took the best of care for your father is the greatest attribute a son & family can give to their parents. Know that we look forward to seeing you when this COVID passes.

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