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Lieutenant General James Madison Lee

1926 - 2017

Lieutenant General James Madison Lee obituary, 1926-2017, Wilmington, NC

Lieutenant Lee Obituary

LIEUTENANT GENERAL JAMES MADISON LEE, U.S. ARMY (RETIRED) Lieutenant General James Madison Lee, U.S. Army (Retired), 90, of Scotts Hill, NC passed away peacefully on September 11, 2017 in Lower Cape Fear Hospice after a bout with a number of short-term medical complications. He is survived by his sons, William Fitzhugh Lee of Fayetteville, NC and Robert Ross Lee of Manassas, VA, his daughter, Jennifer Lee of Leland, NC, and four granddaughters: Elizabeth Hampton of Washington, DC; Rebecca Murdock of Virginia Beach, VA; Madison Lee of NC State University; and Suzanna Jeanne Lee of Centreville, VA. He is also survived by Rufus, his faithful canine companion of 15 years. He is preceded in death by Jeanne Purcell Lee, his loving wife of 48 years, and his son, James Madison Lee, III. General Lee was born on October 15, 1926 in Scotts Hill, NC to Fitzhugh and Eliza (Bessie) F. (Peace) Lee. He began his schooling at Topsail High school and continued his early education at Tileston School in Wilmington. He subsequently attended New Hanover High School, where he participated in Junior ROTC. Upon graduation from NHHS in the Class of 1944, James began his forty-one-year career of uniformed service - as an enlisted soldier, as a Cadet at West Point, and as a commissioned officer of Infantry in the U.S. Army. On February 13, 1954 he married Jeanne Purcell of Columbus, GA, who was the model army wife and mother until her death in 2002. Upon his retirement in 1985, General Lee and Jeanne returned home to Scotts Hill, where Jim enjoyed golf with his friends, and gardening at his home along Futch Creek. He also enjoyed memberships in a number of social organizations in the Wilmington area. In retirement, Jim Lee continued in service to others by devoting much time, talent and financial support to many service-oriented activities in the community. He was a Vestry member and led an usher team at St. James Parish in Wilmington - his life-long home church. He served on the board of directors of the Davis Community in Porter's Neck. He also served as an advisor and fund-raiser with the Salvation Army of the Carolinas. He was an active member of Civitan. Throughout his retired life, he also answered the call to participate in countless events and projects sponsored by the City of Wilmington, Camp LeJeune, and many others. His decades-long military career began when he enlisted in the U.S. Army Air Corps in 1944. After his initial training he was deployed to post-WWII Germany where he served in the Army of Occupation. Having received an appointment to the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, General Lee returned to the States in 1946, attended Preparatory School at Amherst College, and attended the Academy, graduating with the Class of 1950 with a Bachelor's Degree in Engineering. Throughout his career as an officer, General Lee served in many command and staff positions. His war-time service included: 18 months in the Korean War (1950-1952) as an Infantry Platoon Leader and Company Commander in the 5th Regimental Combat Team; one year as a Military Advisor to a South Vietnamese Infantry Battalion (1963-1964); and one year as the Commander of the 196th Light Infantry Brigade and Corps Operations Officer in Vietnam (1969-1970). Upon returning from his last tour in Vietnam, General Lee was chosen among a number of officers to attend flight school in Ft. Rucker, AL and Ft. Wolters, TX, where he earned his wings as a U.S. Army Aviator. As a General Officer (1972-1985), he served as the Deputy Chief of Legislative Liaison for the Department of the Army, as the Assistant Division Commander of the 1st Cavalry Division, as the Chief of Legislative Liaison, as the Chief of Staff of NATO's Allied Forces Southern Europe, and as the Director of the Army Staff in the Pentagon. He completed his distinguished career as the Commanding General of U.S. Army Western Command (now U.S. Army, Pacific), which commands all Army Forces throughout the Pacific Theater. Throughout his life, Jim Lee remained devoted to his country, his family, his church, his many friends and his community. He will be sorely missed by the countless people whose lives he touched. The family will receive friends on Friday, September 15 from 6:00 p.m. until 8 pm. at Andrews Mortuary, 1617 Market St., Wilmington, NC. A funeral service will be held on Saturday. September 16 at 11:00 a.m. at St James Parish, 25 S. 3rd St., Wilmington, NC, followed by a reception in Lee Hall. Interment will follow with a family gravesite service, with full military honors, at 2:00 p.m. at Scotts Hill Wesleyan Chapel, 10255 US Highway 17 North, Wilmington, NC (Scotts Hill). The family requests that any donations in his memory be made to the Salvation Army of Wilmington, NC, 223 S. 3rd St., Wilmington, NC. Funeral arrangements entrusted to Andrews Mortuary, 1617 Market St., Wilmington, NC 28401. Condolences may be made at www.andrewsmortuary.com

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Published by Wilmington Star-News on Sep. 13, 2017.

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Giel Boles

September 8, 2020

General Lee and his family are some of the fondest memories I have of living in Hawaii. Mrs. Lee would talk to me as if I were her son. General Lee, although quiet and focused was always so kind to me an my father who worked for him. I will always have a place in my heart for the Lee family and the joy they bestowed upon me in some of the most difficult years of my life. Very respectfully and with love, Giel

Giel Boles

November 13, 2017

My father worked under General Lee at Ft. Shafter Hawaii. I remember General Lee and his wife being so kind and considerate of me. Numerous times I would visit the Lee home and General Lee would be working into the night eating a sandwich and still in uniform. His daughter Jennifer and I were great friends who relied on each other, both being new to Hawaii. I miss the Lee family. My dad, Col. Boles always complimented General Lee and his superior leadership. If Jennifer would like to contact me, my email is [email protected]

September 20, 2017

Sorry for your loss may friends and family members prayers carry you through your grief. 1john 4:16 God is love

John & Caroline Powell

September 17, 2017

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Jim was a dear friend. I shared lunch with Jim every Thursday for years.

September 14, 2017

A great friend and leader! Jim just added his fourth star.
David J Pate
Wilmington, NC

September 13, 2017

I'm so sorry for your loss.

May the God of all comfort, bring comfort to the family during these difficult times.

(2 Corin.1:3,4)

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15

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Andrews Mortuary and Crematory - Market Street Chapel - Wilmington

1617 Market St., Wilmington, NC 28401

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16

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

St James Parish

25 S. 3rd St., Wilmington, NC

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16

Interment

2:00 p.m.

Scotts Hill Wesleyan Chapel

10255 US Highway 17 North, Wilmington, NC

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Andrews Mortuary and Crematory - Market Street Chapel - Wilmington

1617 Market St., Wilmington, NC 28401

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