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Ray Underhill Obituary
Raymond Lee Underhill, Jr., 45, of Wilmington, died Friday, August 1, 2008, at New Hanover Regional Medical Center.
Beloved husband of Kerry A. Underhill; survived by his son, Keaton Underhill; daughter, Olivia Ray Underhill, all of Wilmington; father, Raymond L. Underhill, Sr., and wife, Peggy; mother, Roberta Elrod; sister, Pamela Gilbert and husband, Mike, all of Nashville, TN; brother, Craig Underhill and wife, Glenna, of White House, TN; mother-in-law, Eleanor Rainford and husband, Peter Lamagna, of Bolivia, NC; father-in-law, Robert Rainford of Long Island, NY; three stepsisters, DeeAnna Tinal, Angela Minton and husband, Paul, and Shannon Eldridge and husband, John, all of Sumner County, TN; brother-in-law Robert Rainford; sisters-in-law, Karen Clemens, and Erin Hock and husband, Jim; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Ray was born October 18, 1962, in Nashville, TN. He relocated to San Diego in the mid 1980's to become a professional skateboarder. He married Kerry on September 5, 1992, and became a father when Keaton was born in 1995. They moved to Wilmington in 1998 and worked at Eastern Skateboard Supply. His daughter, Olivia, was born in 2000. He was a volunteer at Ogden Elementary School and was known as "The Muffin Man". He was known worldwide and loved by all, even those who never actually met him. He was a loving husband, father, son, brother, and friend.
The family will receive friends from 5pm to 8pm Monday, August 4, 2008, at Andrews Market Street Chapel.
A Mass of the Resurrection will be 10am Tuesday, August 5, 2008, at St. Mark Catholic Church with Rev. Msgr. Matthew Hendrick officiating. Interment will follow at Sea Lawn Memorial Park, Hampstead, NC.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in Ray's memory may be made to the Chordoma Foundation, PO Box 4562, Greensboro, NC 27404-4562.
Condolences may be sent to the family at www.andrewsmortuary.com
A Market Street Chapel Service
Online condolences at StarNewsOnline.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Ray Underhill
Lisa Tatum
August 10, 2008
Dear Kerry, Keaton and Olivia,
I've just returned from out of town to hear the very sad news. I am so
sorry. The girls and I were very glad
we were able to see all of you a couple of weeks ago. Ray was such a gentle man and wonderful father. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Lisa, Sarah and MaryAnne
Keri & Bobby Bartholomew
August 5, 2008
Kerry, Keaton, & Olivia,
Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Ray was a special person who always took time out to do something nice for the kids at Ogden- the "Muffin Man" will always be remembered and cherished. May God be with you all.
Cheryl Hendricks
August 4, 2008
Even though we met Ray only a few times, your family has been in our thoughts and prayers. We have kept abreast of how everyone has been doing through your friends. Please know that we are thinking of you during the trying time and know that at least now Ray is painfree. May God continue to watch over Olivia and Keaton as they put this in perspective. God Bless everyone in your family!
The Hendricks Family
Alison Linkner
August 4, 2008
We are so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Kent, Alison, Matt, and Marlie Linkner
Susan T
August 4, 2008
Kerri, Keaton, and Olivia,
So sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine your pain. God bless you all and know that he is in a better place not suffering anymore and he will always be there in spirit with you all and in you hearts.
Ellen Watts
August 4, 2008
Dear Underhill Family:
I wanted to extend my condolences to your family. I know that a great void will be left in each of your hearts. I pray that God will fill that void with your precious memories of Ray and that those memories will comfort you. I only met Ray & Kerry a couple of times at my nieces home, but have heard so many stories from Kendra and know how very special you all are to them. Please know that your family is now, and will remain in my prayers.
God Bless You All.
Kendra Stephensons Aunt
richard canizaro
August 4, 2008
My thoughts, prayers and sincerest condolences are with you all at this time. May God bless you and keep you.
"Mr. Richard"
ALLISON WIKLE
August 3, 2008
Please know that all of us at Harperprints loved Ray and thought of him as a brother. He was such a wonderful person, who loved his family and his GOD. ESS was a client of mine for 2 years. It was during this time that I got to know Ray and his love of life. He will truly be missed in all our hearts. I just wished I could have had a Starbuck's coffee with him one last time - He loved it so. All the Glory to God for his life. How rich we were to be part of it.
My prayers are with you during this time.
Allison Wikle
Jill Hastings (teacher, Noble Middle School)
August 3, 2008
Dear Underhill Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Ray has left a wonderful legacy in his children. Keaton's other teachers and I were in awe this year of your families' amazing attitude and ability to keep it all together despite the circumstances. Please know that my thoughts are prayers are with you all during this time.
Craig Snow
August 3, 2008
Keri, Olivia, and Keaton,
May you find strength in God, each other, your extended family, and all of your many friends during this most challenging time. Ray was a genuinely kind and caring person. Our prayers are with you.
Sincerely,
Craig, Diane and Benjamin Snow
Mary Wall
August 3, 2008
I had heard your husband's name mentioned on several occasions at St. Marks for prayers and my brother, Lenny and wife Kim have asked for prayers on your family's behalf through emails visits. Please know that although we have never met, I will be praying for you and your family during this difficult time.
Barbara Raynor
August 3, 2008
Kerry,Keaton and Olivia,
Words cannot express our sadness. You are the most special family we know. Your love and dedication to each other is so evident. Ray will be missed by everyones lives he has touched even those who did not know him. Our prayers go out to you and we are here for you always. There is another awesome angel in heaven now watching over us and smiling down on your family knowing what a wonderful job he did on this earth and will continue in heaven.
We love you The Raynor Family
Brian Sneed
August 3, 2008
From the days of our youth you have been a shining star. May God keep your family full of the spirit you gave us all. God Bless the Ray Underhill Family
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