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Stephanie Bessmer Obituary
Stephanie Bessmer, 48, of Belville, NC, beloved wife, mother, daughter, and sister, passed away on Monday September 9th, 2008.
Stephanie was born October 17th, 1959 in Chapel Hill, NC. She grew up in Chapel Hill and attended the Chapel Hill City Schools. She earned a business degree and spent many years in the insurance and banking industries. She was recently promoted to VP and Branch Manager of Southport Security Savings in Southport, NC.
Stephanie is survived by her husband, Bill; her two sons, Michael McDonald of Greensboro, and Matthew McDonald and his fiancée, Lauren Harris, of Raleigh; her parents, Ronnie and Kristi Mann; her brother, Ronnie Mann Jr., and his wife, Lauren, and their two children, Wade and Caroline, of Chapel Hill; and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.
Stephanie also leaves behind many friends and co-workers who will miss her tremendously.
A memorial service officiated by Harold Manning will be held at Oak Grove Presbyterian Church at 3736 Carolina Beach Road in Wilmington on Sunday, September 14th at 2pm. Friends and family will gather at the Bessmer residence immediately following the service.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the Communities in Schools program in Brunswick County, NC (www.cisnet.org).
Condolences may be made to the family at www.wilmingtonburialandcremation.com
Wilmington Burial and Cremation Service 1535 S. 41st Street Wilmington, NC 28403. 910.791.9099
Online condolences at StarNewsOnline.com
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Stephanie Bessmer
Kelly Ryan
September 21, 2008
Dear Lauren and Matt,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in my prayers.
Love,
Lauren Harris
September 19, 2008
Matt, Mike, and Bill,
I am so honored that I knew your Mom/wife. I loved her very much and in my eyes she was the perfect Mother-in-law. I will miss her very much, but I'll carry her in my heart always.
all my love, Lauren
Carolyn Harrer
September 18, 2008
Matt and Lauren,
Please know that you both are in our thoughts and prayers. We will always cherish our day on the beach with Stephanie. Thank You.
Love,
Don and Carolyn
Tom and Theresa Clearo
September 18, 2008
Bill, please know that we are here for you. We love you and will miss Stephanie so much.
Todd and Jodi Pascarella
September 18, 2008
Dearest Bill- We look back on many years. Years where perhaps we did not see you both each week or each month but there were some years where we rode Harley’s every weekend and had cook outs, pool parties, New Years Eves, weddings and laughed for hours. When we think of the Bessmer’s, we think man… you two always had so much fun together! Dancing, drinking, laughing, telling stories, inviting people over. We can’t say that about all couples we know. What a great testament to your love. A love that will ALWAYS be a part of you! Stephanie was a gift to you, her boys and all of her friends. God just needed her back home with him. You know she will be with you each step of the way making sure you are happy, dancing, laughing and enjoying life. We will take that gift with us as well.
Always in our hearts~ Todd, Jodi, Lucca, Jen and Justin Pascarella
Teresa Marie Vestal
September 18, 2008
Matt, Lauren, Mike & Bill ~
My heart really goes out for for you guys. Stephanie was such a beautiful and loving person. As soon as she left the garden shower I told Lauren how she was just amazing - and by the overwelming responses that people have expressed these past few weeks it proves that she was just that and more.
Words may only give little comfort but in times like these I try to keep in mind the book of Revelations: "Behold, the tabernacle of God, and He will dwell with you, and reign with you. And He will wipe the tears from their eyes, and there will be no more death, no more pain, no more tears, no more sorrow, no more violence. And behold, I heard Him say, "It is done. I am the Alpha and Omega, the Beginning and the End." And the faithful who are steadfast to the end, He shall reign as their God, and they shall be as His sons. "
The life you have without her is only temperary - she is watching down right now waiting for the day that we all join her in God's kingdom. We may not get to see her today, or tomorrow - but in the end we will all be with her for all eternity.
I love you guys - I'm keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Mike Fuller
September 18, 2008
Willie so sorry to hear the bad news. Hope all is well otherwise. See you when you get to the north again.
Our prays are with you.....
Holly & Jason Harris
September 17, 2008
Mike, Matt & Lauren,
We weren't very close to Stephanie but the few times we met her she welcomed us with open arms. Your friends and family were her friends and family. When we heard of this loss we were in shock.
Please let us know if there is anything at all you need from us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Renee Hartwell-Harris
September 16, 2008
Willy,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in our thoughts & prayers.
Love, Renee (Hartwell) Harris, Scott Rachel & Emily
Betsy and Anthony Deninno
September 16, 2008
Bill- Anthony & I were so saddened to hear about your loss. We enjoyed all the times we spent with you & Stephanie over the past couple of years. Please know you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless.
Andy, Debi, Eilish, Ainslee and Keelyn Bessmer
September 16, 2008
Willy,
Stephanie will always be in our hearts. We will always be here for you. We love you so very much.
Steve & Lori Shapiro
September 16, 2008
Bill:
Even though we haven't spoke in years, I always considered you a close friend. Brockport wouldn't have been the same without you. I am so sorry to hear about your loss and I just wanted you to know my thoughts and prayers are with you.
James and Melissa Upham
September 15, 2008
Bill:
Melissa and I were out of the country when we heard the very sad news. We have been praying for you and will do whatever we can to help you through this very difficult time.
Stephanie was so kind, warm hearted and genuine. She always made us feel welcomed and loved. It was a real priviledge to know her and she will be greatly missed.
We love you.
Jan and Michael Polikoff
September 15, 2008
Dear Bill. It's been a long time since Northbound, and a long time since we all hung out together, but not such a long time that we have forgotten our friends! Our love and sympathy go out to you and your family!
Lillie Williamson
September 15, 2008
Matthew and Michael,
May God comfort you in your time of need. I've known and loved your mom since before I could remember. She opened her heart to me and was there for me in so many ways while you lived next door to me in Northchase. Your mom always looked out for me, and while I was in kindergarten at Dorothy B. Johnson she would tell Matthew to look out for me as well. As I am only child, she would invite me next door to hang out with you guys, and although you were older you would willingly entertain and play with me, the little six year old from next door. You guys and your mom have always been in my heart, and I missed you greatly when you moved from beside us. Please know that your mom will be greatly missed.
Mine and my family's prayers are with you.
BJ Ellender
September 15, 2008
Bill, Mike, Matt and wife-to-be Lauren,
For as much as we can, we share your grief at the loss of your wife and mother. We shared that day on the beach with you just weeks ago and immediately felt connected; our lives were enriched that day. Obviously, Stephanie will be missed by many. May the love and comfort of God and friends carry you through the difficult days ahead. You are all in our thoughts and prayers,
BJ, James, and Jeremy
Marjorie Graham
September 15, 2008
Bill and Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. Stephanie was a wonderful person and will truly be missed. I will continue to pray for your strength.
Anya Davis
September 14, 2008
Remember she is in a wonderful place and taken care of very well. He will carry you through this.
Charlotte Zurcher
September 14, 2008
Bessmer,
Although I have only met Stephanie a couple of times, your love and respect for each other was undeniable. Hold onto the happy memories and know that she is still with you. Please know that you are loved and your lunch buddies miss you . Let me know if I can help you in anyway. May God bless you!
Rick and Kathleen Estano
September 13, 2008
Bill
Tony called to inform us what had happen. Kathleen and I send you our deepest sympothy. She was a beautiful person. May you find the strength to get through this trying and difficult time. Always remember, never forget. God Bless
David Sutton
September 13, 2008
Bill:
My prayers and deepest sympathy go out to you in this challenging moment. Stephanie is with God and a greater place than we can imagine. God will help you through this and comfort your soul. Keep your wonderful memories of her forever in your heart. Her spirit will remain with you. You have my love and my support.
Sue Collins
September 13, 2008
Bill, Michael and Matthew,
Rick and I are so sorry for the loss of a wonderful wife, mother and friend. Our meeting and knowing Stephanie is from the days when we all worked together at the middle school and from your lovely wedding. It was always a treat to bump into each other from time to time and catch up. Stephanie indeed was a beautiful person and I remember her as a strong advocate for the school and a loving parent. We grieve with you, her being gone seems unbelievable. Stephanie touched many hearts and we pray for the Lord to keep her in his care and that together watch over you and and your families and provide comfort for you at this time. Our sympathy goes out to you and the boys and all the family at this very sad time.
Much love from Sue and Rick Collins
Sharon and Clea Williamson
September 13, 2008
Matthew and Michael,
We are greatly saddened by your loss. May God bless and comfort you in your time of sorrow.
Your former neighbors,
Sharon and Clea Williamson
NorthChase
Brookes Musser
September 13, 2008
Mr. Bessmer,
I am so sorry for your loss. We are all keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers at Capt'n Bills.
Peg and Itch Fuller
September 13, 2008
Dear Willy,
No that our love is with you and our prayers are with you and your family.
Much love,
Aunt Peg and Uncle Itch
Candace Weaver
September 13, 2008
Bill,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. I know that there are no words that can be offered that will fill the void but please know that I will be praying for you. May the Lord bless and keep you as you walk forward in your life.
Mark Fuller
September 12, 2008
Willie,
My prayers and thoughts are with you. I know this is a hard loss to bare, but my sympathy are with you. We are all with you in this, you are not alone. You will always have us behind you. Your family love you very much.
Tom & Sue Fuller
September 12, 2008
Willie,
We are so very sorry to hear about Stephanie. Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We will keep you in our prayers. God only takes those who have finished there job here on earth. We love you.
rob & leila harris
September 12, 2008
The love and sympathy felt by new family and friends can be no less deep than old ones. It was a true honor and a blessing to have known her and we feel cheated in not having the opportunity to make more memories with her.
Anne Lineberry
September 12, 2008
Bill,
I remember thinking to myself at Scotty’s wedding just a few months ago what a nice looking couple you guys were. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Anne Lineberry
James Taylor
September 12, 2008
Bill,
You and all of Stephanie's family are in my thoughts. It was an honor to know Stephanie and be a coworker and friend with her.
James Taylor
Rebecca Higgins
September 12, 2008
Bill,
I am thinking of you at this most difficult time. You always smiled when you spoke of Stephanie. The love you both shared was so evident to all of us. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Rebecca
Michelle McCullough
September 12, 2008
I will miss Stephanie. And as I remember her, it is with a smile.
I will keep her family in my thoughts and prayers.
Michelle McCullough
Security Savings Bank-Smithville
Patricia Kessler
September 12, 2008
Bill,
So incredbley sorry to hear of you loss.You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Patty Kessler
Rene' Leister
September 12, 2008
I'm so glad I was able to get to know Stephanie. She was beautiful inside and out, and she truly loved her family. I will celebrate her life.
Katie Morton
September 12, 2008
Bill,
My thoughts & prayers are with you and Stephanie's family during this difficult time.
Lisa Huffman
September 12, 2008
Our heartfelt sympathy is with you and your family.
Security Savings Bank( Randleman )
Heather Ziady
September 12, 2008
Bill,
You are in my thoughts and prayers... Heather
Jeanette Dunn
September 12, 2008
Willie & Stephanie's family. I am so very sorry for your loss. We'll pray for comfort.
ERIC BESSMER
September 12, 2008
UNCLE WILLIE,
LURA AND I WERE VERY SADEND BY THIS NEWS AND OUR HEARTS GO OUT TO YOU AND THE BOYS,IF YOU NEED ANYTHING OR JUST WANT TO TALK ,JUST GIVE A CALL LOVE YOUR NEPHEW... ERIC
Amy Cabaniss
September 12, 2008
Bill, Sometimes it seems like bad things only happen to the best people. I'm so sorry for your loss. I really admired your relationship with Stephanie, and I want a relationship like that in my marriage. Stephanie and you do so much for other people. PLEASE if you need anything, truely, ANYTHING let us return all the favors you have done for us. Love you!
Vincent, Rachel, and Matthew Vaccaro
September 12, 2008
Bill,
I am having a hard time finding the right words to say about Stephanie. We think the world of her and even though we have not stay in contact that much in the last couple years you both were always on our minds. Some of the best times of our lives happened on Kingsworth Lane and you guys were always a part of them. She will be deeply missed by us and I am sure by everyone who knew her.
Don Oesterbo
September 12, 2008
Bill,
My deepest sympathy for your loss and stay strong.
Monica Ball
September 12, 2008
Met Stephanie for the 1st time at a graduation party. We had a great conversation, and she was so proud of her family. My deepest sympathy to her family.
September 12, 2008
My prayers are with you and the family that God may continue to comfort you and guide you thru this difficult time.
God will never leave you are forsake you.
Pauline Rouse (Security Savings Bank, Whiteville Branch)
Anita Blythe
September 12, 2008
To Stephanie's family -
I met her through RBC and cherished and looked forward so much to coming to Wilmington just so she and I could have lunch - she always made my day brighter with her smile and sense of humor. She will be greatly missed.
Tiese Roxbury
September 12, 2008
Mr. Bessmer,
This saddens me deeply. I know how much you were in love with Mrs. Bessmer. I have known you since Trask & all I can think of is your kindness & smile that would light up my day. Keep smiling that smile. May God bless you & your family. I love you tons!
Sincerely,
Amanda and Travis
September 12, 2008
Bill - Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. Stephanie was a great person and always brought a smile to someones face. You and her were a one of a kind couple! She will be deeply missed. Please let us know if we can do anything and dont hesitate to call at anytime. We love you and will be praying for you! May you find strength during this time
Misty Frans
September 12, 2008
I also worked with Stephanie at RBC Centura, and will always remember her warm caring spirit. She will be so missed by so many. Her family is in my thoughts & prayers.
Deb Wheeler
September 12, 2008
Willy, I'm sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
love your cousin,
Deborah Wheeler
Joan Payne
September 12, 2008
Bill I was so saddened to hear about Stephanie. As you know I just lost my wonderful husband Bill in April and I do know what you are going through. It helps to remember the wonderful times you have had together to get you past this point in your life. Bill and I spoke so many times about getting together after Bess and Mike's wedding with you two because you were such a wonderful couple and you two were such a joy to be with. I am always here if you need somone to talk with. You and your family are in my prayers daily.
Vivian Capps
September 12, 2008
I worked with Stephanie at the RBC Bank downtown Wilmington. I will always remember her with that Big Smile that she always had for everyone. This is such a loss and I pray for you and your family that God will help you through this very hard time.
Sharon Mowrer
September 12, 2008
My heart goes out to all of Stephanie's family. I have worked with her at RBC and always thought "what a great person" and what joy she brought to others!
Bess Kellerman
September 12, 2008
Bill, Michael & Matthew,
We are so very sorry. We are praying for you and that you may find comfort with your family and friends during this time.
Stephanie was like a mom to Mike and I and we grew to love her as our family over the past six years. She was an amazing woman and friend to us...her hugs and smile always welcoming and warm; her heart like no other. We will always be here for you.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths."
(Prov 3.5-6)
Maura Lorenz
September 12, 2008
Bill,
I have only words and my prayers to offer you at this time. You have been in my thoughts since I learned of your loss. You know how I admire you and remember all the times you have lifted my spirits...please know that type of friendship goes both ways. If there is anything I can do, know that I'm here for you.
Much love and prayers,
Maura
The Fig's...
September 12, 2008
Bill,
We are so sorry to hear of Stephanies passing, but know that she is now watching over all of us. God does things for reasons unknown to us, but we must trust that his plan has a purpose. Please know that we are here for you day and night and that we want you to call upon us when you feel the need. Love, The Fig's.....
Rosanna Fidalgo
September 11, 2008
Bill,
You and Stephanie's family are in my thought and prayers.
May your heart and your soul find God's peace and comfort.
Ruby Sutton
September 11, 2008
Bill,
I am so sorry about the lost of the love of your life. You and Stephanie were such a lovely couple. My prayers are with you, her sons, parents, brothers and sisters.
Ruby Sutton
Lou Santisi
September 11, 2008
Bill,
My deepest sympathies goes out to you and your family.
When God made Stephanie he broke the mold.She was an amazingly beautiful woman with a heart of gold and a smile that could always light up everyone and everywhere she went.
Stephanie will live in our hearts forever.
Colleen Meek
September 11, 2008
Bill....Chris and I were both so shocked to hear of your loss. I just cannot understand why things happen sometimes. It just makes no sense. Stephanie was such a great girl, always smiling and laughing. You guys always looked so happy. My heart goes out to you. I have been thinking about you and praying for you since I heard the news. I pray for you to find the strength you will need to get through this time. You have many friends that love you and will be there to help you.
Helen Lipka_Arnett
September 11, 2008
Bill,
Seeing you last week and talking with you about your 10th anniversary......it doesn't seem possible that something so tragic happened to 2 people that were so in love.
Words, for me, are few because whatever is said seems so contrite. Know that I love you and I am here for you at anytime or any place. May our Heavenly Father hold you and comfort you at this oh so sad time. I will always remember Stephanie's smile, her love for you and her boys, and the true devotion you both had for one another.
I am so sorry!
Love, Helen
Jim Kellerman
September 11, 2008
Bill, Our deepest sympathy goes out to you, the boys and all of Stephanie's family. We are very saddened by the loss of such a wonderful, kind and caring person. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jim and Shelby
Derrick Hershey
September 11, 2008
Bill,
Stephanie was a wonderful woman that was loved by many. We are so sorry for your loss. Please let us know if there's anything we can do for you.
Derrick and Adrienne
Bob and Kristen Harrell
September 11, 2008
I met Stephanie while I was working in the middle school her two children attended. Her outgoing personality and fun loving spirit always made work fun. She carried this over into her life as well. When Stephanie was around life always seemed better. Although her presence may be gone, her spirit will remain to be a part of every life she has touched.
Hers was a loss that was unexpected and too soon. We will keep Bill and her family in our thoughts and prayers.
Bill- We pray that you find peace in the memories of a life well lived. We will always remember her generous heart and spirit. Know that there are a lot of people who care about you and we will be here when you need someone to lean on.
Misty, Ronnie, Taylor & Makenzie The Gammon's
September 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. We are still in such shock. My heart aches for you. I don't know the right word's to say during a time like this, but I will say it has been a great joy being neighbors with the most amazing people. Stephanie was such a happy person all the time. It's never gonna feel the same around here. Makenzie and Taylor say they will miss there Mrs. Stephanie so much! We will never understand why bad thing's happen to such good people, but i honestly beleive she is looking down on you and your family with such a big smile. She was loved by so many. If you need us for anything at all we are just next door..please don't hesitate to ask. Stephanie will truly, truly be missed! We are praying for you and your family during this difficult time.
Libby Featherston
September 11, 2008
I, too was a co-worker with Stephanie at RBC Centura. Bill, we met at the CIS Gala. We were all standing ouside the tent, barefoot in the grass. It was a cool evening, and the only light to guide me to your table was the match you struck to light up a cigar, and that familiar glint of mischief in Stephanie's eyes. It is an image forever in my memory, and she is a person forever in my heart.
Wayne Evans
September 11, 2008
I've known Stephanie for a very long time. I met her so many years ago when she was PTA president at the middle school, where both her son's attended. I can honestly say that she was most definitely one of a kind. My heart is heavy with sadness for this loss of life. I will always remember her kindly and will always love her as true friend.
Bill- I am so sadden by your lost!
Beverly Poole-Griffin
September 11, 2008
Ronnie & Kristie & other family members, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Stephanie was absolutely one of the most beautiful people I ever met. Her smile lit up a room, and although it has been years since I've seen her, I've often thought of her. May God bless you and help you at this time. Please know you're in our thoughts & prayers.
Cheri Williams
September 11, 2008
Bill, your family at Williston is praying for you in this sad time. The love you and Stephanie shared was known by everyone who met you!
You are the heart of our school family and many wanted to have a relationship like the one you two have. I hope to see that smile on your face again. I hope that you find comfort in all the kind words expressed here. BIG HUG!
Denise Stegall
September 11, 2008
Once in a while someone comes along who fills a room with energy and life making those around her feel a little more alive to life.
Stephanie was one of those people and I feel extremely privileged to have known her, if but for a short while.
Bill and family, my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God give you strength to endure your loss.
Ann Suttles
September 11, 2008
Bill, my heart goes out to you. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Love ya.
Ian Quiring
September 11, 2008
michael and matthew your dad called us with your loss we are very sorry about your mother its been a long time but we remember how sweet she was
lots of love from the Quiring family
Steve, Donna,Taylor Ian and Lindsay
Tom Clearo
September 11, 2008
No words can express the sorrow Stephanie's loss has brought her family. Bill, I hope the memories of the time you spent together will carry you through this unbearable period.. I know the love you both shared was something special. You know Theresa, myself and the rest of your family is always here for you. We loved Stephanie so much. The times the four of us spent together will always bring a smile to my face. I'm sorry I can't find the right words to express the love we have for you and Stephanie. May God embrace her spirit with love!!
Jacob Marshall
September 11, 2008
My heart goes out to everybody hurt by this deep, deep loss. Especially to my cousins Matt and Mike. I love you guys so much.
Brittany Mathews
September 11, 2008
Bill, my heart goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. Stephanie was an amazing woman and friend, her love was felt by all. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Rita Tatum
September 11, 2008
I worked with Stephanie at RBC Centura. She was a great person with a wonderful heart. We used to talk alot about our babies (our yorkies). My heart goes out to her family. Just imagine how the angels rejoiced as she walked through heavens gates.
Andy and Karen Greene
September 11, 2008
Dear Bill,
You are in our thoughts and prayers. We will continue to pray for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Melodie Hummel
September 11, 2008
I worked with Stephanie at RBC Bank in Wilmington. We shared some great times in our branch. She will be missed greatly. My prayers are with her family.
Pat Long
September 11, 2008
Bill,
My thoughts and prayers are with you, I miss your smile.
Denise Smith
September 11, 2008
I worked with Stephanie for a while at Security Savings Bank here in Southport. She made the room light up when she entered. She was a very bright and loving woman. We will miss her here and my deepest sympathies go to the family. May God be with you all during this difficult time.
Beth Whittington
September 11, 2008
Bill,
I cannot tell you how sorry I am for your loss. I only met Stephanie a couple of times, but from those I could tell she was an amazing person. You are in my prayers.
Marian Stone Harrison
September 11, 2008
The loss of someone so close is difficult to bear. We share your grief.
Gisela Grochala
September 11, 2008
Bill, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please know that your "Williston family" is here for you.
TRINITA HAMPTON
September 11, 2008
Bill, I do not have the magical words to say in cautioning myself from increasing grief or bereavment. I can say that I have LOVE and a BIG WARM, FRIENDLY HUG when you need it. GOD Bless
Scott and Kenny Marshall and Family
September 11, 2008
Our love and prayers are with you Michael and Matthew, and all the family. We have special and loving memories of Stephanie. She added beauty, kindness, and gracious hospitality to our McDonald clan, of which we always remember with deep fondness.
Stefanie Milam
September 11, 2008
Bill, my thoughts are with you and your family....
Stefanie Milam
CLINT HARDY
September 11, 2008
Bill I just wanted to let you know how sorry Jamie and I are about the loss of your wife. Please feel free to call on me at any time for anything. We are ready for you to come back to work. Mike is tired of me hugging on him. Your friends!!!!!
ANDY CROOM
September 11, 2008
BILL,
LETTING YOU KNOW WE ARE THINKING ABOUT YOU. TANYA AND I ARE DEEPLY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. WHATEVER YOU NEED BROTHER....
WITH LOVE
ARTHUR L SANDERS
September 11, 2008
BILL,GOD HAS HIS ARMS AROUND YOU AND YOUR FAMILY NOW AND FOR EVER/A SPECIAL SONG HERE NOW MY GOSPEL/OF PRECIOUS MEMORIES,AND HOW THEY LINGER AND ALL ARE PRECIOUS,GOD WILL HEAL .ART/ OLIVIA SANDERS
Erinne Selim
September 11, 2008
Coach B-
It is hard to find the right words to express how sorry I am for all that you are dealing with right now. Your love for Stephanie was such a gift to both of you. Please know that you are cared about and supported during this difficult time. If you need anything, just let your "Williston family" know and we will be there. Take care of you. With huge hugs of support-
Gwen Wilson
September 11, 2008
Bill,
I am so sorry for you loss. I have been and will continue praying for you and your family during this very difficult time. Know that many people are praying for your comfort and strength. You now have your very own angel watching over you constantly. Blessings,
melanie mcdonald
September 11, 2008
I knew Stephanie a long time ago when she was my sister-in-law. She was a delight to be with, a great cook, smart, and very creative. I've missed being her friend since the divorce. Ironically, the day she died, I called to invite her to lunch to discuss Matt's wedding. Sadly, we'll never get to do this, but I do have a lot of great memories. My heart goes out to her children and her family.
Aisha Phillips
September 11, 2008
I believe that even though it is a tragedy this is Gods plan for Stephanie. She was and always will be an amazing woman who shared her life with wonderful people. I closed my eyes last night, and guess what I saw?I saw her big, bright smile shining down on us. I know you're here with us for now and forevermore,but still I ask myself what did He take her for? Im happy to know that she is in a better place now, and one day we will all be reunited with this amazing and beautiful woman. I will never forget her.
I love her and I miss her.
Aaron Harden
September 11, 2008
Mike and Matt,
I'm praying for you that God will help you and strengthen you as you grieve. Her love will always be with you.
Take Care
Tristan McCauley
September 11, 2008
I'm sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
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You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.
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Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples
These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.
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How Do I Write a Eulogy?
Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.
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