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dad
June 3, 2012
Thinking of you and the tears and sadness for the loss we have experienced without you here in our lives hurts beyond description.. I love and miss you Bebe - may God have mercy on my soul and may I get to one day spend time with you again when my time on earth is through.
Dad
January 8, 2012
Hey sugar... miss you and love you... please send a healing spirit to your mom. The holidays (and everyday) were very hard without you and her Birthday I know is as well.. Mom and I miss and love you very much. Hope you like the new flowers on your grave.
Lauren Sanders
January 6, 2012
I miss you and I wish I could see you again. I pray for you and your parents. May God be with them. Rest In Piece Bethany.
Dad
December 26, 2011
I miss you not on special occasions but because you made every day of our lives special. This was the second Christmas without you, and it sure hurts not to see you interact with to laugh with and have in our lives physically. Love Dad.
Balloons, prayers and thoughts sent by loved ones - Glory be to God for their support and love and care.
Dad
October 24, 2011
Your 1st year "Angel Day" October 14, 2011
Dad
October 24, 2011
Blessings to Bethany's Family
Chrissy Whale
October 12, 2011
There are moments in life when you wish you could bring someone down from Heaven & spend the day with them just one more time, give them one more hug, kiss them goodbye or hear their voice again. One more chance to say I Love you.......
Hugs to Mary & John...
tabby gay
October 11, 2011
the only thing i can say is I MISS YOU bethany and I LOVED YOU VER MUCH
Viviana Vega
January 9, 2011
I thought about you the other day, Bethany. I went in to Michael's and at the cash register, I swear I saw you smiling at me. I wanted to go up to you and say hi but then I remembered where you are. I know we weren't close, but you were still there. My fondest memory of you is when we sat on the curb in front of my house and just talked about boys. You told me about how idiotic but great they are and I just laughed and reminded you that I could care less about boys (I was only 12 or 13!). That was the day I found someone that was gonna watch over me without having to, and you did. Not only that, but I'm pretty sure you were one of the few upperclassmen that was nice to us freshmen in choir! Haha, thanks for that. I miss you and The Big Man Upstairs probably thinks you're a hoot! Make him laugh, Beth. Making people laugh was something you did best. Oh, and watch out for the choir. We're pretty different knowing you aren't there to sing The Lord Bless You and Keep You when J Low calls up alumni. Love you and miss you.
Viviana
Sylvia Drastata
January 6, 2011
I'm a Mother Hen who loves dearly and truly my only child Elijah, your first cousin. You both have that loving personality and love for God that a lot of people don't and won't ever understand. We pray that you are sitting on our Fathers lap now, in his glorious light. We will see you one day, and you can show us around. You are beautiful...Aunt Sylvia
Chrissy Whale
October 29, 2010
God, Your word says, 'You are a very present help in times of trouble...' Bethany's Family & Friends need Your help right now, for this is a time of trouble for them. Please let Your Presence become very real to them. I ask that you would lift the heaviness of their hearts, and that You would bear their burden of sorrow and begin to exchange it for peace and hope. Father, shower them with unexpected tokens of Your love, so they would know how much You really do care. God, we do not understand suffering, but we are grateful that You have promised to be with us in the midst of it. Let Your words be a comfort to her parents John & Mary; her brother Shawn; and the rest of their family & friends in this time of tears. 'Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me.' In Jesus’ mighty name. Amen
John & Mary, thank you for contacting us... Greg & I lost our 18 year old son, 6 months ago & NO parent should ever have to experience their child’s death... I know your daughter is no longer physically here on Earth, but she will be in your hearts forever! I still cry everyday for my own son & I know a 79 year old Father who still cries everyday for his 18 year old son, who died 40 years ago... John & Mary, it's not gonna be easy! Losing a child never is... Keep thinking of Bethany & know that she is with the Lord & the rest of your family who has gone on before her... For us, to get through each day, we put up a ton of photos of our son, in his old bedroom; hung up a couple of his favorite shirts; Post Letters, Notes, & Photos on his Legacy page & FaceBook page; & well we just never stop thinking about him. However, you have to do what's best for YOU! We'll be praying for you & the rest of your family...
At our Youngest Son's Memorial Service, our Middle Son stood up & said: "... I came up with a good analogy on why my Mom called a thousand people that 1st day & why all of us here are gonna go home & tell someone else & why I'm standing here telling all of you... ---> My Brother, Greggy dying was like us, our family receiving a 50,000 Slice Pizza... It'll take a long time for us to eat that pizza, it's gonna give us a lot of heartburn, and a lot of stomach aches. But every time I talk about it, it's like giving you a slice. It doesn't mean that when we're done with that pizza it's gone, it just means that it'll be a lot easier to swallow. Right here, I'm giving away a lot of pizza. It doesn't make that 50,000 number any smaller, but it does in the long run... Every time I think about him, Every time I turn to my girlfriend & tell her that story that I just thought about, I'm giving her another piece, She's gonna have a little bit of Heart-burn in the process, but the point is, It's gonna go away..." - He shared with us a few memories, that was able to make us all laugh & then he said: - "... I'm glad I was able to give each one of you a piece of Pizza today... Thank You all for being here"
I hope that helps others to understand a little more of what your family is going through...
Although you can no longer see Bethany’s physical body on this Earth... I know that everything you know about her is there with you... You Think about her, Talk about her, & even have conversations "with her!" You can figure out most of her responses, simply because you knew her so well... You have also learned a LOT from her, even now while she's gone... Bethany is still in your hearts; in your Souls; & in your Brains! :-) You do what you do & think what you think, because of who you are... You are who you are, because of what you've been through in your lives, who you touched & who touched you... If you need to sleep with her shirt that has her scent on it, GO AHEAD! If you need to kiss those sweet cheeks in the pictures, it is just fine. We do what we need to do, in order to survive the agony. The grieving process makes us feel like we are on a roller coaster ride of emotions. This IS Normal.
? Bethany Alyssa Barnhart ? 4-1-1992 -- 10-13-2010 ?
We'll be Praying for you all...
If you ever wanna talk, contact me...
Aunt Melissa
October 26, 2010
You are the best niece any aunt could ever hope to have. We fought like sisters, but I also love you just as much as a sister. You always gave me the best gifts ever, because you put a lot of thought and care into everything you chose!
Life is sooo dull and boring without you. You were the only person who appreciated the Christmas crackers. And now, Simon is going to have to be your replacement when looking at neighborhood Christmas lights. As fun as he is, he's not you.
I love all the pictures you took, and the letters you wrote about family. But I especially appreciate and love your letter to God. On this earth, you had a better understanding of God and the Christian faith than 98 percent of those who are active in church today. You have always been close to God, and now you're with Him in Heaven. May our journey back to see you not be long.
Aly
October 24, 2010
I remember sitting next to Bethany in class one day and I was the new kid on the block, she was the first one to make me feel welcome to Georgetown. She was also very enthusiastic about her new youth group and church : Sonterra which so happened to be my old youth group I felt very happy to have met her and have had that connection with her. My heart and prayers go to her family and friends.
(I know this Bible verse is my favorite one ever and I hope it can help anyone in this time we are all going through )
Philipians 4:13
I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
Charlotte Goertz
October 23, 2010
I did not know your daughter but she is resting in peace next to mine at Our Lady of the Rosary. I was there this morning and saw all of her beautiful flowers. I water every Wednesday and Sunday so if you plant anything just know that I don't mind watering Bethany's "Garden" too. The loss of a child is something that no parent ever wants to experience but it gives me comfort to see Ashley has somebody next to her. I hope in your loss it gives you comfort too. My prayers are with you.
Charlotte
Micki Slyter
October 22, 2010
Bethany you were truly loved by many. I am going to miss you. I will always remember taking care of you when you were a precious little newborn. Wish we could go back to those days again. May you rest in peace my sweet niece. Go fly with the Angels. Meet me in heaven one day :-) Love you Bethany.
Cyndi
October 21, 2010
Bethany you were beautiful inside and out...now you have your Angel wings to prove it...you will be missed by everyone that loved you...now go spread your wings in Heaven!!!
You are a beautiful flower Bethany
Cyndi
October 21, 2010
Deborah Alcala
October 21, 2010
John and Mary, May God Bless You and Bethany. She will ALWAYS be in my prayers! Deborah
Adela Acevedo
October 20, 2010
May God have you in his Throne we will miss you Bethany , Mys deepest condolences go out to the Barnhart Family.
Brandon Coahran
October 19, 2010
I know she's in a better place and that her wings are ever so beautiful. My deepest condolences. You are in my prayers tonight, and always.
anonymous
October 18, 2010
She is now an angel watching us from above. God bless you and may her memories be your strength that carries you forward.
Monica
October 18, 2010
She is in a better place, and she is happy. God had called one of his angels to be in Heaven, as we the ones waiting our turn to join her in Heaven weep for her.
may God be with you always,
Her classmate,
Monica
October 17, 2010
John & Mary,
May God grant you comfort and peace during this trying time.
Vance & Sharon Henley
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