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Bethany Barnhart Obituary

Bethany Alyssa Barnhart Bethany Alyssa Barnhart, 18, of Georgetown, Texas, died in her home on Oct. 13, 2010. Bethany was born in Dallas, Texas, on April 1, 1992, to her parents, John and Mary Barnhart, and resided in Garland, Texas, before moving to Georgetown in 1997. A 2010 graduate of Georgetown High School, Bethany was in her first semester of college at the new Austin Community College campus in Round Rock, Texas, where she took psychology and math courses. Bethany's future career interests were varied and included: theology and nursing, as she enjoyed and excelled in her career at Pain Management Consultants in Austin, where she was a front desk associate, where she greeted patients, handled medical records conducted electronic filing, and scheduled appointments. Bethany committed her life to Jesus Christ three times by baptism at the following churches: Crown of Life Lutheran Church in Rowlett, Texas; in the San Gabriel River in San Gabriel Park by the late David Edwards of Main Street Baptist Church of Georgetown; and at Sonterra Fellowship's Youth Camp, by pastor Bill Gravell. She said it would have been her dream to have a church where everyone was welcome, regardless of race, background or sexual preference; because she knew that everyone needs God. Her interests included music, plays, movies, family TV, comedy and crime dramas. She also regularly donated her clothes to charity, volunteered her time at school to help mentor and work with physically challenged children; and she worked in the church nursery, and at one time had considered going into teaching. Bethany's first job was at Chick-fil-A, followed by Michael's. Bethany was preceded in death by her uncle, James Van Echaute of Morrilton, Ark; and great-grandmothers Helen Van Echaute of Morrilton, Ark., Irene Keeler of Hutchison, Kan., and Nellie Treuter of Houston, Texas; along with her dog, a beagle named Zoe Daisy. She is survived by her parents, John and Mary Barnhart of Georgetown, Texas; her brother, Shawn Barnhart, of Slidell, Texas; grandparents, Ken and Maria Treuter, of McKinney, Texas; and Barney and Mary Barnhart of Garland, Texas; her great-aunts, Estela Dennis of Plano, Texas; and Margaret Oliger, and great-aunt and uncle, Ann and John Little, all of Morrilton, Ark.; great aunt and uncle Mike and Marie Ferguson; aunts, Melissa Barnhart of Garland, Texas; Angela Knott-Fryer of Henley on Thames, England; and Cyndi Maouche and Michelle Slyter of McKinney, Texas; and Sylvia, Micah and Elijah Drastata of Little Elm, Texas; her uncle, Halim Maouche of Dallas, Texas; and her cousins, Amanda Treuter, Hannah Maouche, and James, Chelsy and Layla West and of Texas; Janet, Rob and Christa Wood of Tyler, Texas; Cheryl, Joe and Taylor Dube of Springfield, Ark.; Debbie and Rick Cook, of Morrilton, Ark.; Mike and Bobbye Little, of Morrilton, Ark.; Matt, Judi, Clayton and Cara Little of Clarksville, Ark.; Misty and Terry Simmons Jr. of Bentonville, Ark.; Tiffany, Joseph, Payton, Logan and Lilly Grant of Morrilton, Ark.; Michael Wayne, Hannah and Joseph Moore of Virginia Beach, Va.; Kelsey and Scott McNew of Atkins, Ark.; Cynde, Bob, Patrick, Melanie and Haley Murphy of Atkins, Ark.; David, Dana, Alex, Megan, Brandon, Jenna and Ryan Van Echaute of Wichita, Kan.; Robert, Chris, Nicholas and Alexis Van Echaute of Wichita, Kan.; Orville Barnhart of Kemp, Texas; Greg, Mandy, Jessie, Levi and Jaymi Barnhart of Denton, Texas; and Katie, Danny and Hayden Mixon of Dallas, Texas; and her uncle John, and Allison, Katherine, and Sarah Stewart, all of Rowlett; and Bethany's four favorite dogs: Chelsea Majors, Princess Lilly, Pebbles and Emma Lynn. Visitation will be open to the public from 6:00 to 8:00 p.m. on Monday, Oct. 18, 2010, at The Gabriels Funeral Chapel in Georgetown, Texas. The Rev. Bill Gravell will officiate the funeral service at 3:00 p.m. on Tuesday, Oct. 19, 2010, at The Gabriels; the graveside service will follow at Our Lady of the Rosary Cemetery. Words of comfort may be shared with the family online at www.gabrielsfuneral.com

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Oct. 17, 2010.

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dad

June 3, 2012

Thinking of you and the tears and sadness for the loss we have experienced without you here in our lives hurts beyond description.. I love and miss you Bebe - may God have mercy on my soul and may I get to one day spend time with you again when my time on earth is through.

Dad

January 8, 2012

Hey sugar... miss you and love you... please send a healing spirit to your mom. The holidays (and everyday) were very hard without you and her Birthday I know is as well.. Mom and I miss and love you very much. Hope you like the new flowers on your grave.

Lauren Sanders

January 6, 2012

I miss you and I wish I could see you again. I pray for you and your parents. May God be with them. Rest In Piece Bethany.

Dad

December 26, 2011

I miss you not on special occasions but because you made every day of our lives special. This was the second Christmas without you, and it sure hurts not to see you interact with to laugh with and have in our lives physically. Love Dad.

Balloons, prayers and thoughts sent by loved ones - Glory be to God for their support and love and care.

Dad

October 24, 2011

Your 1st year "Angel Day" October 14, 2011

Dad

October 24, 2011

Blessings to Bethany's Family

Chrissy Whale

October 12, 2011

There are moments in life when you wish you could bring someone down from Heaven & spend the day with them just one more time, give them one more hug, kiss them goodbye or hear their voice again. One more chance to say I Love you.......
Hugs to Mary & John...

tabby gay

October 11, 2011

the only thing i can say is I MISS YOU bethany and I LOVED YOU VER MUCH

Viviana Vega

January 9, 2011

I thought about you the other day, Bethany. I went in to Michael's and at the cash register, I swear I saw you smiling at me. I wanted to go up to you and say hi but then I remembered where you are. I know we weren't close, but you were still there. My fondest memory of you is when we sat on the curb in front of my house and just talked about boys. You told me about how idiotic but great they are and I just laughed and reminded you that I could care less about boys (I was only 12 or 13!). That was the day I found someone that was gonna watch over me without having to, and you did. Not only that, but I'm pretty sure you were one of the few upperclassmen that was nice to us freshmen in choir! Haha, thanks for that. I miss you and The Big Man Upstairs probably thinks you're a hoot! Make him laugh, Beth. Making people laugh was something you did best. Oh, and watch out for the choir. We're pretty different knowing you aren't there to sing The Lord Bless You and Keep You when J Low calls up alumni. Love you and miss you.
Viviana

Sylvia Drastata

January 6, 2011

I'm a Mother Hen who loves dearly and truly my only child Elijah, your first cousin. You both have that loving personality and love for God that a lot of people don't and won't ever understand. We pray that you are sitting on our Fathers lap now, in his glorious light. We will see you one day, and you can show us around. You are beautiful...Aunt Sylvia

Chrissy Whale

October 29, 2010

God, Your word says, 'You are a very present help in times of trouble...' Bethany's Family & Friends need Your help right now, for this is a time of trouble for them. Please let Your Presence become very real to them. I ask that you would lift the heaviness of their hearts, and that You would bear their burden of sorrow and begin to exchange it for peace and hope. Father, shower them with unexpected tokens of Your love, so they would know how much You really do care. God, we do not understand suffering, but we are grateful that You have promised to be with us in the midst of it. Let Your words be a comfort to her parents John & Mary; her brother Shawn; and the rest of their family & friends in this time of tears. 'Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me.' In Jesus’ mighty name. Amen

John & Mary, thank you for contacting us... Greg & I lost our 18 year old son, 6 months ago & NO parent should ever have to experience their child’s death... I know your daughter is no longer physically here on Earth, but she will be in your hearts forever! I still cry everyday for my own son & I know a 79 year old Father who still cries everyday for his 18 year old son, who died 40 years ago... John & Mary, it's not gonna be easy! Losing a child never is... Keep thinking of Bethany & know that she is with the Lord & the rest of your family who has gone on before her... For us, to get through each day, we put up a ton of photos of our son, in his old bedroom; hung up a couple of his favorite shirts; Post Letters, Notes, & Photos on his Legacy page & FaceBook page; & well we just never stop thinking about him. However, you have to do what's best for YOU! We'll be praying for you & the rest of your family...

At our Youngest Son's Memorial Service, our Middle Son stood up & said: "... I came up with a good analogy on why my Mom called a thousand people that 1st day & why all of us here are gonna go home & tell someone else & why I'm standing here telling all of you... ---> My Brother, Greggy dying was like us, our family receiving a 50,000 Slice Pizza... It'll take a long time for us to eat that pizza, it's gonna give us a lot of heartburn, and a lot of stomach aches. But every time I talk about it, it's like giving you a slice. It doesn't mean that when we're done with that pizza it's gone, it just means that it'll be a lot easier to swallow. Right here, I'm giving away a lot of pizza. It doesn't make that 50,000 number any smaller, but it does in the long run... Every time I think about him, Every time I turn to my girlfriend & tell her that story that I just thought about, I'm giving her another piece, She's gonna have a little bit of Heart-burn in the process, but the point is, It's gonna go away..." - He shared with us a few memories, that was able to make us all laugh & then he said: - "... I'm glad I was able to give each one of you a piece of Pizza today... Thank You all for being here"

I hope that helps others to understand a little more of what your family is going through...

Although you can no longer see Bethany’s physical body on this Earth... I know that everything you know about her is there with you... You Think about her, Talk about her, & even have conversations "with her!" You can figure out most of her responses, simply because you knew her so well... You have also learned a LOT from her, even now while she's gone... Bethany is still in your hearts; in your Souls; & in your Brains! :-) You do what you do & think what you think, because of who you are... You are who you are, because of what you've been through in your lives, who you touched & who touched you... If you need to sleep with her shirt that has her scent on it, GO AHEAD! If you need to kiss those sweet cheeks in the pictures, it is just fine. We do what we need to do, in order to survive the agony. The grieving process makes us feel like we are on a roller coaster ride of emotions. This IS Normal.

? Bethany Alyssa Barnhart ? 4-1-1992 -- 10-13-2010 ?

We'll be Praying for you all...
If you ever wanna talk, contact me...

Aunt Melissa

October 26, 2010

You are the best niece any aunt could ever hope to have. We fought like sisters, but I also love you just as much as a sister. You always gave me the best gifts ever, because you put a lot of thought and care into everything you chose!

Life is sooo dull and boring without you. You were the only person who appreciated the Christmas crackers. And now, Simon is going to have to be your replacement when looking at neighborhood Christmas lights. As fun as he is, he's not you.

I love all the pictures you took, and the letters you wrote about family. But I especially appreciate and love your letter to God. On this earth, you had a better understanding of God and the Christian faith than 98 percent of those who are active in church today. You have always been close to God, and now you're with Him in Heaven. May our journey back to see you not be long.

Aly

October 24, 2010

I remember sitting next to Bethany in class one day and I was the new kid on the block, she was the first one to make me feel welcome to Georgetown. She was also very enthusiastic about her new youth group and church : Sonterra which so happened to be my old youth group I felt very happy to have met her and have had that connection with her. My heart and prayers go to her family and friends.

(I know this Bible verse is my favorite one ever and I hope it can help anyone in this time we are all going through )

Philipians 4:13
I can do all things through him who strengthens me.

Charlotte Goertz

October 23, 2010

I did not know your daughter but she is resting in peace next to mine at Our Lady of the Rosary. I was there this morning and saw all of her beautiful flowers. I water every Wednesday and Sunday so if you plant anything just know that I don't mind watering Bethany's "Garden" too. The loss of a child is something that no parent ever wants to experience but it gives me comfort to see Ashley has somebody next to her. I hope in your loss it gives you comfort too. My prayers are with you.

Charlotte

Micki Slyter

October 22, 2010

Bethany you were truly loved by many. I am going to miss you. I will always remember taking care of you when you were a precious little newborn. Wish we could go back to those days again. May you rest in peace my sweet niece. Go fly with the Angels. Meet me in heaven one day :-) Love you Bethany.

Cyndi

October 21, 2010

Bethany you were beautiful inside and out...now you have your Angel wings to prove it...you will be missed by everyone that loved you...now go spread your wings in Heaven!!!

You are a beautiful flower Bethany

Cyndi

October 21, 2010

Deborah Alcala

October 21, 2010

John and Mary, May God Bless You and Bethany. She will ALWAYS be in my prayers! Deborah

Adela Acevedo

October 20, 2010

May God have you in his Throne we will miss you Bethany , Mys deepest condolences go out to the Barnhart Family.

Brandon Coahran

October 19, 2010

I know she's in a better place and that her wings are ever so beautiful. My deepest condolences. You are in my prayers tonight, and always.

anonymous

October 18, 2010

She is now an angel watching us from above. God bless you and may her memories be your strength that carries you forward.

Monica

October 18, 2010

She is in a better place, and she is happy. God had called one of his angels to be in Heaven, as we the ones waiting our turn to join her in Heaven weep for her.

may God be with you always,

Her classmate,

Monica

October 17, 2010

John & Mary,
May God grant you comfort and peace during this trying time.

Vance & Sharon Henley

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