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Betty Yndo

1929 - 2025

Betty Yndo obituary, 1929-2025, Alpine, TX

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1929

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2025

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Betty Yndo Obituary

Betty Ruth Gibson Gaddis Yndo, age 96, of Alpine Texas, passed peaceably, surrounded by family and friends, in Austin, Texas.
She is survived by seven children and stepchildren, eleven grandchildren, four great-grandchildren, and a million admirers.
She came from Stanton, TX, went to Baylor University, and at the State convention in Galveston became the first president of the newly formed Texas Nursing Students Association, only the fifth such program in the nation at that time. After graduation, she established the initial health programs for six rural schools in and around Martin County. She met her husband, Dr. Don Gaddis, while helping to provide aid when an awning in downtown Stanton collapsed during the viewing of a parade. This encounter led to a long marriage and a move to Fort Davis, Texas where they built the first hospital. Later establishing a medical clinic in Alpine Texas, she fell in love with the community, hiked every mountain she could get permission to (and probably a few others), and became very active in local affairs.
When Dr. Gaddis died, in her own words, she decided to "never retire, just to change hats about every 10 years".
Moving to Austin, she was instrumental in TAO Design, building highly unusual very sculptural free formed foam and concrete homes. A craftsman from Maine collaborated with her to self-build a collection of varied modern wood framed and insulated interpretations of Mongolian Yurts, nestled close under different trees in the woods west of Austin. Yurt City! It was a small family and friends Texas progressive redneck version commune of carpenters, plumbers, mechanics, and architects.
Her heart remained in West Texas. She moved back and started a construction company called Gaddis Builders Incorporated, building beautiful cedar houses in Alpine and various locations around Texas. She also rolled the dice and bought an old, abandoned, but good bones tire warehouse on the main street in the middle of Alpine Texas. Securing an SBA loan, she worked night and day for over a year to create a beautiful mall of curved plastered walls, arches, and tiled shops owned by, and for, Women La Placita. Unusual in Alpine at the time. She was proudest that the project helped three new local companies in plumbing, electrical, and construction continue to get off the ground. As the building has evolved, it is now the Sunshine House and provides a variety of vital community services to Seniors and to Alpine.
When interest rates made the construction industry unreliable in the early 80s, she decided to put on a different hat, move to Breckenridge Colorado, and learn to cross-country ski, just for the halibut. Great restaurants.
Then, she fell in love with, and married the dashing Lt. Col. Michael Yndo, USAF, moving to Texas's first Historical District, King William, in San Antonio. In between adventures and travelling together, and unable to sit still, she formed King William Realty, enjoying getting to know many of the unusual people and interesting houses there. Three years on the King William Historic District Board of Directors and three years as the critical money-making annual Home Tour Chairman. As she says, "I ride my bike nearly every day in the area where I work and get a slower bird's eye view and awareness of conditions and activities and do a lot of visiting along the way".
She could not ignore her love for Alpine though. For her, this took the form of promoting renovations and repairs along historic Murphy Street, Alpine's first downtown. There, she found a row of modest but romantic and architecturally significant buildings and encouraged the brave, creative people who have made them quite special. It is her favorite place in all of the world.
"I am not a mover or shaker, but a grassroots person I hope aware, receptive and doing my part for homes, neighborhoods and city".
A memorial celebration and dance will be coming at a time yet to be determined in Alpine. Details will be announced.
As per her long request, her tombstone shall read:
"Betty Ruth Gibson Gaddis Yndo, You can leave a message but I'm not here."

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Austin American-Statesman from Oct. 15 to Oct. 19, 2025.

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Jennifer Lockamy Sellers

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I met Aunt Betty when she married my Uncle Michael. I was in my twenties and immediately fell in love with my new Aunt. She was kind and so gracious. While I lived in Virginia and was unable to afford flying to San Antonio, Texas, she made a lasting impression. Later in life I visited San Antonio and reconnected with Aunt Betty. She quickly took on the role as matriarch of the family and took us under her wing. She made sure we connected with cousins and always made us feel loved and special. In her late 80s she amazed my husband and I with her savvy technology and use of her smart phone. Her fearless use of Uber and love of new things. She could swipe around that smart phone like a 20 year old. Her love of life and family was who she was. A truly beautiful and amazing woman. RIP to our Matriarch, no one can replace you.

Paul Gaddis

October 16, 2025

Please no flowers. Donations to the Sunshine House, Alpine Texas appreciated.

Cristina Noriega

October 16, 2025

Betty Gaddis Yndo--West Texas queen, cheerleader, entrepreneur-has left this earthly world. She had a spark that couldn´t be dimmed-sharp-witted, full of mischief, and utterly magnetic. I´m certain she´s flying high now, above her beloved West Texas skies, and that her spirit will live on forever.

I have never met anyone like her, and never will. Betty was truly one of a kind.

She´s also the reason Victor Noriega and I moved to Alpine. She sold us the iconic building at 5th and Murphy, which we brought back to life decades after Mr. Valadez passed away and his buildings passed to his daughter, Ofelia. Betty must have asked Ofelia a million times if she could buy Raspa/Mercado, Talgar´s, and the little white building. Her persistence paid off-Ofelia finally relented.

Betty had vision. She had personality. And she was always, always positive. Her life wasn´t easy, but she took everything in stride and always looked on the bright side.She was a SPITFIRE. She was the kind of woman who could charm a room, outwit a room, and rebuild the room if she had to.

Road trips with Betty were the BEST. Once she stopped driving we drove with her a few times from Alpine to SA and she used to point out water stock tanks that she and Pam used to skinny dip in. What a way to live! She also would announce "I'm taking a nap" and immediately fall asleep, only to be reborn alert as ever 10 minutes later. It's a skill she learned as a night nurse. What a cool lady she was.

I just re-read the last text she sent me a year ago. She was lamenting being in senior assisted living, and plotting her return to her beloved Alpine.

Pic of Cinco de Mayo on Murphy Street, with little Luzita.

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