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Margaret Nell Cates Margaret Nell Cates died peacefully on April 12, 2012 at Methodist Charlton Hospital, at age 79, surrounded by her children. She was born in Shady Point, Oklahoma on February 25, 1933 to H.M. and Lula Janes. Mrs. Cates is a former resident of Dallas and Manchaca. Margaret married Durward Cates on October 17, 1952. Together they had six children. She had no college degree of her own, but took great pride in her children's degrees, and she was named an honorary alumnus of Baylor University. She worked as an IRS department manager for several years, but she was most proud of her calling and as wife and mother. Her favorite pastimes were her children, grandchildren, and two great granddaughters. Most importantly, she loved Jesus Christ and worshipped Him every day and in every aspect of her life. She is preceded in death by her husband, Durward. and daughter, Jetta Kay. She is survived by her brother Joe Janes, sons Durward, Jr. "Drifty" and wife Karen, Thomas Bradley and wife Linda, and Samuel Reid and wife Melissa, and her daughters, Bettejim and Jo Nell. She is also survived by seven grandchildren, and two great grandchildren: Angie Cates Boone, husband Cameron and their daughter Annabelle, Alaina Cates Torrey, husband Joshua and their daughter Kenzie, Allyson, Durward III, Eric, Lily, and Ella Reid. Visitation with the family will take place on Monday, April 16th from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Byrum Funeral Home in Lancaster. (www.byrumfuneralhome.com). The funeral service will be at 11:00 a.m., Tuesday, April 17, 2012 at Eastridge Baptist Church in Red Oak, followed by the burial at 3:30 p.m. in Oakwood Cemetery in Waco. Memorial contributions may be made to Buckner International.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman on Apr. 16, 2012.

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April 18, 2012

I am truly sadden by her death. She was a great manager and I will never forget her. She had a big heart! My thoughts are with her family.
Marie Mayfield (Round Rock, TX)

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April 17, 2012

Jo Nell, Bettejim & family - I am so saddened to hear of your mother's passing. Although I know she is rejoicing in heaven with Jesus, I know you're grieving and missing her here and now. Our prayers are with each of you during this difficult time.

Steven Soto

April 16, 2012

Margaret was a wonderful lady. She really inspired people and always offered a helping hand. I will never forget her thoughtfulness and kind heart.
My prayers and thoughts are with the family at this difficult time.

Maria Maldonado

April 16, 2012

I always thought of Margaret when I went to H.E.B. on Slaughter Lane in Austin, Tx. That's where she and I would run into each other since she retired from I.R.S. She was a very sweet lady and I really admired her. She will be missed but I'm happy that she is HOME with Our Lord and her husband. I offer my sympathy to the family, which I know she loves dearly, now you all have another Angel watching over you.

J L

April 16, 2012

My condolences. do not feel that you have to deal with this grief alone. the God of all comfort will help your family to endure.

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