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Richard Witte "Rickey" Alexander

1952 - 2023

Richard Witte "Rickey" Alexander obituary, 1952-2023, Austin, TX

BORN

1952

DIED

2023

Richard Alexander Obituary

Richard ("Rickey") Witte Alexander, passed away on November 26, 2023 at the age of 70. He is survived by his wife of 49 years Judy, his four children, Meghan (wife Amanda Slaten), Lauren (wife Christie Ciotola), Taylor (husband Leif Raley), and Carson (wife Erin Frisbie), and four grandchildren, Jack and Theodor Raley (Taylor) and Lincoln and Ripley Alexander (Meghan). He is preceded in death by his parents and brother Ronnie.

Rickey, son of Theodor and Beatrice Alexander, was born in Lubbock, Texas on December 23, 1952. Ted and Bea were both professors at Texas Tech University. Ted, an immigrant from Vienna, taught Rickey to express gratitude for his opportunities by living a life of service, committed to equity, justice, and grace.

Rickey attended Lubbock High School and developed an early passion for civic engagement. While still a teen himself, Rickey organized a campaign to safeguard youth offenders through the establishment of the first juvenile detention center in Lubbock County. Rickey also later served on the White House Council on Youth and as a determined advocate for the United Cerebral Palsy Association.

Rickey's passion for advocacy led him to earn a bachelor's degree in Political Science from Texas Tech University. "The man with a plan," according to campaign posters, Rickey was elected Student Body President. While serving on a leadership retreat planning committee, he met Judy. Rickey finished college in three years, after which he and Judy moved to Austin together. Rickey would go on to earn a law degree from the University of Texas School of Law, where he served as an editor for the Texas Law Review.

An accomplished Board Certified trial lawyer, Rickey practiced law for nearly forty years, specializing in civil litigation and representing a wide range of clients from large corporations to cattle ranchers. While there is no doubting his brilliant legal mind, work ethic, and attention to detail, one of his lasting legacies was his willingness to hire and mentor young female attorneys in a male dominated profession. Young attorneys knew they could call Rickey for advice at any time and he would drop everything to help them. He mentored many brilliant attorneys helping them cut their teeth as litigators. Generous with his time, Rickey never passed up an opportunity to discuss an idea or strategy. He was overjoyed to share his love and admiration of the law with his daughter Meghan as partners at the Alexander Law Firm.

Later in life, Rickey found a new passion - grandchildren. He doted on his four grandchildren, Jack, Lincoln, Theodor, and Ripley, and he loved spending time with them entertaining their hearts' desires.

Rickey was kind, humble, and relentlessly optimistic. He was a tender and supportive husband and father, encouraging Judy and his four children to work hard and pursue their passions. Rickey lived his life in service to others. He helped many people and ended most conversations asking how he could support you.

Rickey's life reminds us to follow in the steps of John Wesley, founder of the Methodist Church: "Do all the good you can, By all the means you can, In all the ways you can, In all the places you can, At all the times you can, To all the people you can, As long as ever you can."

A memorial service will be held on January 6, 2024 at 3pm at University United Methodist Church, 2409 Guadalupe, Austin, TX 78705. Reception following the service.

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Published by Austin American-Statesman from Nov. 29 to Dec. 31, 2023.

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Barbara Wilcox

January 7, 2024

Judy and kiddos, words cannot express how I feel and the depth of this loss. Rickey is the best lawyer I have had the pleasure of working with. Rickey gave me my first job in civil litigation 43 years ago, which set me up for an amazing career. And what an amazing litigator he was! The proverbial wolf in sheep's clothing. Always kind, always considerate. His legacy will live on in his children and grandchildren. You all have been in my thoughts and prayers.

Barbara Wilcox

January 7, 2024

Judy and kiddos, words cannot express how I feel and the depth of this loss. Rickey is the best lawyer I have had the pleasure of working with. Rickey gave me my first job in civil litigation 43 years ago, which set me up for an amazing career. And what an amazing litigator he was! The proverbial wolf in sheep's clothing. Always kind, always considerate. His legacy will live on in his children and grandchildren. You all have been in my thoughts and prayers.

Leslie Clark

January 7, 2024

Hi Judy, I am sorry to hear of Rickey's passing. I remember him with much respect and gratitude for the ways he gave and helped others. I think of you over the years and send my heartfelt sympathy to you and the children. Leslie Clark

Jeannie PHILQUIST

January 5, 2024

I have been participating in meetings with Rickey for several years; and I have come to love him dearly as the kind, humble, relentlessly optimistic, tender and supportive person as he is described. I knew little of his accomplishments in life, but am not a bit surprised to learn of them, and of his efforts to improve things for others. I feel such a hole in my heart, and offer my deepest condolences to all who were closer to him, and knew him better ?

Linda Stanley

December 21, 2023

To Rickey's family:
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Rickey was a great guy to learn from and work and laugh with. We worked hard with Connie, Barbara and others, but had a lot of good times-- like preparing for trial at 3 am. Rickey was always there right with us. I think of you all often as I pass by your old house on Westover. I hope you find comfort in your dreams and memories of Rickey.

Missy Moscoe

December 3, 2023

Judy - ND and I are so sorry to hear about the loss of Rickey. What a wonderful man, and a wonderful life the two of you had. Cherish the memories. Thinking of you all.

Becky Baker

December 3, 2023

Dear Judy, I am so sorry to hear of Rickey's death. I know it has been a long journey for you and your whole family. As you begin to find a way forward without Ricky, I hope you know how much you are loved by so many people; even those that haven't seen you for a long time. Take good care my friend.
Love,
Becky

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