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Sterling Wilson Obituary

Sterling Howard Wilson Sterling Howard Wilson, 51, of Austin, Texas passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loving family, after a fierce four-year-long battle with cancer on Tuesday, May 17, 2011. Sterling was born in Temple, Texas, on January 2, 1960, at Scott and White Hospital, to Sam and Sonia Wolf Wilson. He was baptized at St. John's Episcopal Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma. The family moved to Austin in 1963, when he was three years old, to start Wilson Oxygen and Supply Co. Sterling was a 1978 graduate of LC Anderson High School, in Austin, Texas. He was the quarterback and captain of the Trojan football team and also played baseball for Anderson. Sterling was Mr. AHS, the "Homecoming King", and a member of Who's Who. Sterling and his brother were acolytes for six years at Saint Matthew's Episcopal Church. Following high school, Sterling attended Southern Methodist University in Dallas, Texas. He was a three-year letterman on the SMU Mustang football team and played from September 1978 to January 1, 1983. During his junior year, SMU played in the Holiday Bowl, finished with a 10-1 season and he earned his first Southwest Conference Championship ring. He received his second Southwest Conference Championship ring his senior year. That year the SMU Mustangs were again Southwest Conference Champions, had an undefeated season and won the Cotton Bowl. He loved playing football at SMU, meeting so many lifelong friends, and being part of such a wonderful and talented team. Sterling graduated from SMU in 1983, with a Bachelor of Science degree in psychology. After college, Sterling married the love of his life, Lauren Enz Wilson, on July 28, 1984 at the First Presbyterian Church of Lake Forest in Lake Forest, Illinois. The two moved to Austin and Sterling joined the family business, Wilson Oxygen and Supply Company, which he helped grow from the smallest of its type in Austin to the largest independent industrial specialty gas distributorship in the United States. He worked as Vice President of Sales until the business was sold in 1995. The next five years, he worked for Praxair traveling all over the United States and Canada critiquing distributorships. He began working at Precision Oxygen in 1999 until his death. In March of 1990, Lauren and Sterling became the proud parents of twins, Trent McBee Wilson and Grant Kimbell Wilson. Throughout their childhood, Sterling shared his love of the outdoors with them as they went hunting, SCUBA diving, golfing, snow skiing and traveling. Sterling grew up hunting with his dad and brother and passed this tradition on to his twins. He went SCUBA diving all over the world, but especially enjoyed cage diving with great white sharks. As a family, they traveled to numerous countries on six of the world's seven continents. Sterling was an active member of the SMU Letterman's Association, a long time member of the Austin Country Club and The Admirals Club. He was a graduate of the Owner/President Management Program at Harvard Business School in Boston and served on the Saint Andrew's Episcopal School Board of Trustees for three years. He was honored by the Austin Tennis Academy as their 2010 recipient of the Star Award and was one of the founders of Austin Tennis Academy. Sterling and Lauren were honored this April, by the National Dating Abuse Helpline, receiving the first Life Style Award. St. Andrew's Episcopal School recently honored Sterling by dedicating the beautiful stained glass Chancel Window in his name. Sterling was a member of Westlake Hills Presbyterian Church. Sterling loved all sports, especially those that his twin sons played - tennis, golf, football, basketball and lacrosse while they attended St. Andrew's Episcopal School. One could always see Sterling in the bleachers at any game, cheering on the Crusaders. He soon became a Crimson Tide fan after his sons enrolled at the University of Alabama. Sterling is survived by his loving wife of 26 years, Lauren Enz Wilson; twin sons, Grant Kimbell and Trent McBee Wilson; and parents, Sam and Sonia Wilson all of Austin, Texas. Also surviving him are parents-in-law, Lee and Marilyn Enz of Aspen, Colorado and Lake Forest, Illinois; brother, Steve Wilson and Nancy Wilson and their twins, Brooke and Lydia Wilson; sister, Sharon Wilson and her children Catherine, Caroline, and Claire Wilson Chlebowski, all of Austin, Texas; brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Ed and Carolyn Kyritz and their children, Kendall, Courtney and Tommy Kyritz of Darien, Connecticut. Sterling bravely fought his cancer without losing hope. His battle is one that will always inspire us. His "Challenges" through Facebook made us look inside ourselves and ask if we were doing all that is necessary to be a better person. He taught us that the most important thing in life is to have strong connections with other people. He embodied his teachings through his zest for life and his strong love of family and friends. Sterling touched the lives of many and he will be missed throughout the Austin community. The family wants to extend a special thank you to the staff at M.D. Anderson Cancer Center; Dr. Peter Pisters, Adria Kowis, RN, Dr. Shreyaskumar Patel, Josey Jose, RN and Don Vold. The family is grateful for the exceptional care given by Dr. Richard Helmer, Laura Wendlandt, RN and Robin Pritchett at Texas Oncology. A service of gratitude for Sterling's life will be held on Saturday, May 21, 2011 at 11:30 a.m. at Westlake Hills Presbyterian Church in Austin, Texas. Should you wish to make a memorial contribution, gifts may be made in Sterling's name to St. Andrews's Episcopal School, 1112 West 31st Street, Austin, Texas 78705 or the Sterling Wilson Leadership Scholarship at the Austin Tennis Academy, made via AASF, 3801 N. Cap of Texas Hwy, E240-161, Austin, TX 78746. A private family burial will be held at Austin Memorial Park. Obituary and memorial guestbook available online at www.wcfish.com

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Published by Austin American-Statesman from May 19 to May 20, 2011.

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Debbi Davies

June 15, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of Sterling's passing. My prayers are with his family and friends.

Julie Moore

May 30, 2011

I remember Sterling as a teenager, the wind to his back and the ball in his hand. Popular and known by all at Anderson High School. It's hard to believe he's gone, along with a handful of other Andersonites. When we were all young and exhuberent, who knew what was to befall each of us...
Julie (Long) Moore

Mike Isaacks

May 21, 2011

I met Sterling 20 years ago when I went to work for Wilson Oxygen. Can't say that I have ever might a nicer person in my life. He fought a hard battle with a smile on his face each time I saw him. He will be missed more than words can say. My heart and prayers go out to all of his family. Mike Isaacks

May 21, 2011

Our sympathy and prayers to the family of Sterling.

Billy and Marilyn Berry

Julie Smith

May 20, 2011

I went to school with Sterling and we were voted "most athletic" together and I remember thinking to myself, woah I am receiving this with Sterling Wilson, such an amazing guy and person and I think I was more honored about that than the award. Sterling and I ran in different groups, but I always admired him and looked up to him. He was such an incredibly nice guy and an amazing athlete! People not only wanted to be around him, they wanted to be like him. He was such a role model to all the different groups at school. His smile was contagious and if he looked your way, it would literally make your day because he was always so happy. He really seemed to genuinely care about everyone! Sterling will be greatly missed by all his friends from school and I know that I will always treasure our most athletic photo. The impact that Sterling made on the lives of others will live on in our hearts forever.
I wish I could be there tomorrow, but I will have his entire family in all of my thoughts and prayers.
with loving sympathy,
Julie Bostick Smith and family

Lorie New

May 20, 2011

I knew Sterling for about 30 years while married to Jamie New. Sterling was so kind and had a beautiful smile and laughter. My prayers go out to his family and friends in their time of sorrow.

Ace andCasey osborne

May 20, 2011

Sterling was always a very good friend to me from the time at Sams .The Wilsons always took care of me and my little welding business and bless Sterling he took right over from Sam.A great friend.Our prayers are with the Wisons and friends our heart goes out to you..Ace and Casey Osborne

May 20, 2011

Dear Sam & Sonia,
I was so sad to hear about Sterling. I can't begin to imagine what you all are going through. I remember him as such a great guy. It just doesn't seem possible.
Lisa Parcher

Ace Osborne

May 20, 2011

Sterling was a great guy always treated me well and was a very good friend.The Wilsons have always been good to me and my welding business. I have lost a good and true friend my prayers are with his family and all of his true friends ..Thank you

Lisa Beach

May 20, 2011

Lauren, Sonia & Sam -
What an amazing legacy Sterling leaves behind! Always remember He has not taken him from you; He has place him in His heart, that he may be closer to yours. God's blessings and peace to all of you.

May 19, 2011

Wow! Love to the entire Wilson family! We were blessed to have had Sterling. I have a ton of memories as young men in the welding business. I know Dad met him at the gates of heaven with a big hug.

Randy Squibb

May 19, 2011

Sam & Sonia,
Your son lived a blessed life. We know you have boatloads of wonderful memories. May GOD give you peace and comfort as you remember his life. You and your extended family are in our prayers.
Sylvia & Randy Couch

May 19, 2011

Sam and Sonia, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Pam Tucker

May 19, 2011

Dear Sonia and Sam:
I was saddened to learn of Sterling's passing. Having recently lost my wife, Shirley, from an eight-plus year battle with Alzheimer's, I can empathize with the grief and travail you must be experiencing. You can be comforted by your many pleasant memories and by knowing he is in a better place freed from the pain and suffering that he went through. You have my deep condolences and best wishes for peace and contentment.

Sincere best regards, Dick O'Shields

Bob and Jan Ellzey

May 19, 2011

Dear Sonia and Sam,
Jan and I feel your sadness. We only met Sterling once at Sam's birthday party. We are thinking of you and your family!
Love,
Bob and Jan Ellzey

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