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Alicia Withers Obituary

Withers, Alicia Polk died peacefully at home at the age of 91 on April 25th, 2011. Beloved daughter of the late Sarah Chambers Polk and William Julius Polk; dearest mother of Anne Dollimore, Sarah Hollo (Bill), Eleanor Withers (Ralph Kalish) and the late Ernest Lee Withers, III; loving grandmother of Charlie Judy (Lori), Alicia Siddiqui (Shariq), Molly Wynn Owen (Gareth), George Judy (Lucy), Elizabeth Judd (Rob), Anne Easthope (David), Manning Kalish, Powell Kalish, Graham Kalish and the late Rebecca Hollo; great grandmother of eight; aunt to Sarah Fehlig (Ed), Jennie Quick (Richard), Calvin Gatch (Barbara), Lemoine Skinner (Kathy), Sarah Dunn (Bob), Cynthia Cromie (Bill), Katherine Law (Hugh), Bill Skinner (Karen); sister of the late William Julius Polk, Jr, Delphine Polk Gatch and Grizelda Polk Skinner; cherished great aunt, cousin and friend to many. International Red Cross volunteer in Italy during WWII, where she staged musical comedies to entertain officers flying bombing raids over Germany; manager of the Service Bureau, Inc shop for over 20 years; remembered most for her courage, kindness and spirit of fun; enjoyed water color painting, swimming and gardening; devoted to her lifelong friends. Body donated to St. Louis University Hospital. Services: Memorial Mass, Saturday, May 28th 10:00 at St. Joseph Catholic Church 106 N. Meramec Ave, St. Louis, MO. Memorial contributions may be made to National Multiple Sclerosis Society, P.O. Box 4594, New York, NY 10163-4594, www.joinMS.org; to Stray Rescue of St. Louis, 2320 Pine St. St. Louis, MO 63103-2219, www.strayrescue.org/donate.html or to Disabled Americans Veterans Memorial Program, P.O. Box 14301, Cincinnati, OH 45250-0301, www.dav.org/donate/ MemorialHonoraryGifts.aspx

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from May 2 to May 26, 2011.

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May 26, 2011

Dearest Eleanor,

It has been many decades since last we met, but I have very fond memories of you at Villa. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Losing one's Mumy is like losing your right arm as Jane Boldt stated so many decades ago sitting in her kitchen on Litzsinger. I felt those words reverberate when I lost my Mumy 9 years ago. Our Mothers are irreplaceable. God Speed, Darling as you go thru this passage and know that God and your Mumy are watching over you, and will carry you thru this passage, and be with you forever. I feel my Mumy everyday. You will feel your Mother with you as well. Prayers, Hugs, and Blesings as you go thru this passage in life. Someone told me - Think back to when you were little, think back when your Mother's charm and laughter and joy wrapped you in her arms, and then stop the film, and hold that in the palm of your hand, your heart, and soul. Comfort yourself in your memories and always hold the best to keep yourself going as your Mother would want you to enjoy love, joy and friendship in this life.

God Bless,
Christine Dolan

Nancy Williams

May 26, 2011

Dear Anne, Sarah and Eleanor, I was so sorry to hear that your mom died- We worked together at the Service Bureau for about 3 years back in the 60's and my mother(Barbara Burkham) preceded me at the Bureau. I was so very fond of your mom. Wonderful sense of humor and fun to work with. My sympathy to you all thru this difficult time. Nancy Burkham Williams

Ann Switzer

May 17, 2011

Dear Sarah, my thoughts are with you and your whole family. It seems that time just goes by so fast and we wonder where it all went. But we do have our memories and that will never change:) I know it's hard to lose your mother.

Love,

Ann

Delphine Fehlig Sha

May 12, 2011

Dear Aunt Anne, Aunt Sarah, Aunt Eleanor and Withers' family,

My family and I are so sorry about the death of Aunt Alicia. We will cherish our memories of her and miss her very much. I was so fortunate to have Aunt Alicia as my great aunt. She was such a beautiful, elegant woman who was an inspiration and example to me and everyone who knew her. You're in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time of loss.

With love and sympathy,

Sarah Harvey McMillan

May 9, 2011

Dear Eleanor and Sarah and all the Withers' family,

My heart goes out to all of you...your mother must have had such a full life with lots of love surrounding her. Losing a parent is so hard but I will says a prayer for all of you.

Nancy Guhman

May 4, 2011

Eleanor, I was very sorry to hear of your mother's death. Please accept my deepest sympathy as having lost a dad 12 years ago, I know the pain of losing a close family member. My thoughts and prayers are with you and just know that in time, the memories you had with her will give you joy and erase the pain you now feel. Take care.

Nancy Guhman

May 3, 2011

Anne, please accept my sincere condolence on the death of your mother. Saying goodbye to our mothers is difficult although we know necessary. Peace to all your family.
Pat Fitzgerald

Tom Schlafly

May 2, 2011

Mrs. Withers was a dear family friend long before I was born, both to my mother and her sisters and on my father's side, especially to my Aunt Eleanor Schlafly. We have shared meals both in St. Louis and in Europe; and many happy occasions and smiles for a half-century. I hope that her family can take comfort in knowing that she enriched the lives of many of us across several generations.

Marie Q. Flanigan

May 2, 2011

Dear Sarah, and all Mrs. Withers' family,
My heart and my thoughts are with you. What an inspiration she has been to me over the years. Please find comfort in the words and the Resurrection of Our Lord. May your happiest memories of her be the clearest, most enduring now and in the future.
With prayers and love,

May 2, 2011

Dear Eleanor and family,
Andy and I are so sorry to hear that your mother passed away. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Susie and Andy Corley

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