Polson, Benjamin James
33, Born July 18, 1988, lost January 13, 2022, while serving as a St. Louis City Firefighter. Beloved son of James Polson (Michelle) and Susan Polson; best friend and brother to Rebecca Slay and brother-in-law, Kevin Slay; loving grandson to Patricia Polson. He was a treasured nephew, step-brother, and true friend to a great many.
Ben attended Vianney, was a Missouri State alumni, graduated with an MBA from Drury and earned a Law Degree from UMKC.
Ben was a hockey player, philosopher, poet, dancer, and fisherman. He loved life. He spent 3 years in Vail, CO as a ski instructor and outdoor enthusiast. In 2019 he returned to his home town becoming a St. Louis City Firefighter.
In lieu of flowers, please donate to Backstoppers.
Services: Visitation at KUTIS AFFTON Chapel, 10151 Gravois, Wednesday, January 19, 4-8 p.m. Funeral Mass will be celebrated at the Cathedral Basilica of St. Louis, 4431 Lindell Blvd. 63108, Thursday, January 20, 10:00 a.m., departing
thereafter for Resurrection Cemetery.


Patty Zeman
January 20, 2022
I can't put down any words that could help you Susan and your family, just know I am praying for you all. My deepest sympathy go out to you all.
Myriam,
January 20, 2022
The Heavens rejoice welcoming their beautiful servant, his earned reward came too soon for those who were blessed with his presence.
We may not see you Ben, however you will be nearer than ever as your spirit will never perish.
we know and believe, that as you desired when you were with us in this life time, You will reach far more people with your grace and protection. Amen
Stacy Cox
January 19, 2022
My thoughts and prayers are with Ben´s family. I didn´t know Ben as an adult but when he was younger he was/is good friends with my son Kyle Cox. My heart goes out to each and everyone of you.
Mary Kienzle
January 19, 2022
Sue, I worked with you at Holy Innocents. So sorry to hear about Ben. You and your family are in my prayers.
Mark Perou
January 18, 2022
My deepest condolences and may God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Me and mine are thinking about you and yours Jim.
Mike Donovan
January 17, 2022
Jim, my very deepest condolences to you & your entire family as you navigate your way through this unimaginable grief.
B
January 17, 2022
As an Aunt of three firefighters, words cannot express the sadness I feel for the family. My deepest sympathy...
Laura Davidson& Mike Tino
January 16, 2022
Sending our deepest condolences to all family and friends of Ben. Our love goes out to you all during this difficult time
Nancy Doerhoff
January 16, 2022
Sincere condolences to the family and friends of Benjamin Polson. Such a loss for all who loved and knew him and to those like me who only learned of him due to this trajedy this side of heaven. He is heaven's gain for sure. May all be comforted by Faith, each other, and precious memories.
ELSIE MILLA
January 16, 2022
SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR GRANDSON PAT, HE WAS QUITE A WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN. MANY BLESSINGS, ELSIE
Karen Godinez
January 16, 2022
Susan, no words for this horrible news. Please know that I'm thinking of you and your family and praying that God will help you get through this impossible time. Sending you a big hug and wishing I could be there for Ben's service on Thursday. I know it will be so moving. I hope it will give you some comfort to know how many people admired and loved him. So much love, Karen.
Carl Wingbermuehle
January 16, 2022
My deepest and most profound condolences. My prayers, love and shared grief go out to all the Polson family and their friends.
Colleen Vierling
January 16, 2022
Thank you for your service, brave young man.
Nancy Schuh
January 16, 2022
Sue and Jim,
I was so saddened to hear about Ben. Mary´s daughter Claire said Ben was one of the nicest guys she ever met. Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
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