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Benjamin Rustemeyer Obituary

Rustemeyer, Benjamin John Ben passed away at home on Tuesday, July 18, 2017, with his beloved wife Amber and their family dog, Wicket, by his side. Ben was born on February 19, 1978, to his proud parents John E. Rustemeyer (Georgean) and Carol B. Rustemeyer. He is survived by them, along with a brother Nathan (Thaise), two nephews Matteus and Lucas, and his grandmother, Dorothy Apol. Besides his wife, other survivors include members of the Apol and Christy families, along with numerous friends and neighbors. A graduate of UMR with a Master's degree in Engineering, Ben was employed by Boeing. He was an avid ultra-runner, a lover of books, and a big fan of Elvis. He loved the St. Louis Cardinals, Star Wars movies, and all things retro. He was an Eagle Scout. Unfortunately, Ben lost the biggest race of his life when he succumbed to cancer, but only after a valiant fight. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to GoFundMe.com/bensfightagainstcancer or the charity of one's choice. Services: The family will receive friends at THE LUPTON CHAPEL, 7233 Delmar Boulevard, University City, on Sunday, July 23, 2017, from 3 p.m. to 5 p.m. for a Celebration of his life. Condolences may be extended online at www.LuptonChapel.com A SERVICE OF THE LUPTON CHAPEL

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Jul. 21, 2017.

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George Yaffe

July 15, 2025

I remember Ben fondly from my days helping lead Boy Scouts Troop 493, where Ben earned his Eagle (and I hope had a lot of fun). May he rest in peace, and may all his loved ones be comforted.

Jon Yaffe

July 22, 2017

I'm so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. I remember Ben well from his Scouting days, where I was one of adult leaders at Troop 493. He was a great kid then, and I'm sure he was an outstanding person in his adulthood. His too-early passing is a great loss to us all.

Lara Sodon

July 21, 2017

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. I have so many fond memories of Ben. Babysitting the boys are some of my best memories - sliding down the bannister, saving the world, and fresh baked snacks.

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