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Brandon Styer Obituary
But also high on his list was the U.S. Army.
Styler, also known as B-Sty, enlisted before graduating last year from Conestoga Valley High School in Lancaster, Pa. Less than a year later he was in Iraq, then Afghanistan, where his job was to find and remove roadside bombs.
"He was not scared. He never talked negative about the experience. He loved it," said his sister, Tracy Bowling.
Styer, 19, died Oct. 15 in Kandahar province when his vehicle was struck by a roadside bomb. He was assigned to Fort Carson.
Styer knew his family and friends worried about him. Just before his deployment h e set up a Facebook page, "Brandon Styer is going to Iraq," for them to keep in touch with him. He said in an early post, "ill be home in 1 piece."
His survivors include his mother, Jill M. Myers, and father, Terry Styer.
Memories and Condolences
for Brandon Styer
Corey Fernandez
January 2, 2020
Thank you, Mr. Styer, for your service and your sacrifice for those of us you've never met. In my eyes, you are a hero who's bravery is surpassed by none. We know very little about true sacrifice and service of others, except that we know you were willing to demonstrate those values to preserve our freedom and comfort. My only regret is not being able to thank you personally. You forever have a fan in me. God bless your spirit and your family. THANK YOU.
David Doolin
April 18, 2015
PFC Styer,a great soldier.I was his Drill Sergeant and still remember this great soldiers.Hearing of this news is always rough on me.Our hero!Thanks for giving me the honor of being your drill!
Charlie Gili
August 17, 2013
Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Styer Family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to troops in Afghanistan this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Brandon M. Styer US Army Private 1st Class. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Tristin Mattis
October 20, 2011
Its been 2 years now, and its still so unreal to me. I pray everyday that I see your face again. I miss you more than words can say. Any little thing reminds me of you. You will forever have a special place in my heart.
Jeannie Webster
October 18, 2011
I will forever remember your beautiful smile and how much your Mother, Jill and your sister enjoyed your last visit home...2 years ago...everytime I see a serviceman, I think of YOU...you will never be forgotten and your memory and life lives on in the hearts of many!!
Jodi E ngle
October 17, 2011
gone 2 years and not forgotten. still can here your laugh. PFC BRANDON STYER OUR HEREO
Peggy Childers
October 15, 2011
To the family and friends of Pfc. Brandon Styer:
Please accept my remembrance of Brandon on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Debbie Miley
August 30, 2011
Terry and Diane,
I think of you often and want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. I pray that God provides you with His perfect peace and love.
Debbie Miley
Jeannie Webster
October 17, 2010
Sweet Brandon....You live ON in the hearts of all that loved YOU. You are everyone's HERO that knew you! RIP
Jill's friend forever.....Jeannie
Peggy Childers
October 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Pfc. Brandon Styer:
Remembering Brandon on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Tristin Mattis
October 11, 2010
Brandon, it's been nearly a year now and I still can't believe it. Not a day goes by that you don't cross my mind. I just wanted you to know that you'll always be in my heart, and I miss you so much. I thank God everyday that you came to see me at work that night. If you hadn't, I wouldn't have gotten the chance to see you one last time, or gotten one last hug. Your in my thoughts and my prayers. I love you.
Elizabeth Raab
May 7, 2010
Your legacy will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew you and shared in your struggle to protect our country and the ultimate sacrifice you gave so that we can be grateful for what we have. Your family, friends, loved ones and fellow soldiers will stay in my thoughts and prayers.
A Proud Military Mom.
OUR HERO
Terry Styer
April 1, 2010
Happy Birthday my Son... we all miss you dearly...Dad
Timothy Wimer
December 20, 2009
Brandon WOW what do i really say I miss you man.. I remember when i was in iraq and you messaged me on facebook and said you were coming to iraq and we both found out we were both gonna be on the same base.. oh how i wish i could go back man i really do.. its been over two months now and i always feel you around.. i think about you everyday. it hurts to think that i came home and you didnt.. i know that my familiy and friends and fiancee would not liike what im about to say but if i could i would deff take your spot.. you had so much to offer man and as i sit here choking up trying to write this i remember when u came home on leave in sept of this year and it was ur last day of leave you came to my homecoming party man. and you and i made a promise that no matter what you would be comin home.. i wont hold it against you brother. but i miss you so much. forever man sempre fedelis.. SPC WIMER
Don & Barb Henry
December 8, 2009
Terry our deepest condolences to you and your family you are in our thoughts and prayers
Peggy Childers
December 8, 2009
To the family of Pfc. Brandon Styer:
Brandon gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
November 27, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy to the Styer family and friends in the loss of Brandon. I did not have the honor or privilege of knowing Brandon, ( I lived in the Easton/Bangor PA area 52 years) but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Brandon you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"TO LIVE IN THE HEARTS
OF THOSE YOU LEAVE BEHIND
IS NEVER TO DIE"
Donna Gillette
November 26, 2009
On this day and with each day that we enjoy our freedom, I would like to give thanks and let you know that I do not take our troops for granted. May you experience God when you feel your loss.
November 20, 2009
Please accept our sincere sympathy for your loss. My husband and I are the parents of two U.S. Marines and appreciate the service of Mr. Tillman to his country. We also own a small photo engraving business where we print photo personalized dog tags. We would like to offer a free memorial dog tag to your family. Please e-mail us at [email protected] if you are interested. You can view our product online at www.image316.com. Please know that we are praying for you.
November 11, 2009
My sympathy to the Styer family & friends.
Thank you for your son's service.
May god bless.
Thinking of you always.
Love, The Hegeman's
Brad and Esther Deppen
November 9, 2009
Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. Please know that Brandon will be in our hearts on this Veterans Day. He is a man of Honor. Rest in peace Brandon.
JODI ENGLE
November 6, 2009
NOVEMBER 6, 2009
I WAS FORTUNATE TO HAVE KNOWN BRANDON THRU MY NEPHEW. THEY WERE BEST FRIENDS. OUR WHOLE FAMILY LOVED HIM AS ONE OF OUR OWN. ONCE HE FLASHED THAT SMILE OF HIS YOU FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM. HE WILL BE MISSED BUT AT THE SAME TIME WE KNOW HE LOVED WHAT HE DID. AND TOLD US OFTEN. WE LOVE YOU BRANDON BABY!!
November 5, 2009
I thank this soldier for his bravery and honor in fighting for our country and our freedom. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends. God bless and keep him. Only two defining forces have ever OFFERED to die for you, Jesus Christ and the American Soldier.
Stephanie Rafoss
November 1, 2009
Prayer for Peace
Lord, make me an instrument of your peace;
Where there is hatred, let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
And where there is sadness, joy.
O Divine Master,
Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
To be understood, as to understand;
To be loved, as to love;
For it is in giving that we receive,
It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,
And it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen
Shirley & Joseph Siravo
November 1, 2009
Our thoughts & prayers are with you, may God comfort you during this difficult time. We thank your loved one for his service & sacrifice to our country, he's our Heroe and we will never forget, God bless....
Terry Styer
October 30, 2009
To all who have written such fine tributes and such amazing support I wish to THANK YOU ALL !!! from the bottom of my heart. My Son was a very proud soldier,loved his country ,and loved his unit and family. My Soldier and Son we will never forget you and will forever love you... Pops
Terri Hooper
October 30, 2009
God Bless Brandon's family I only pray that is loss will always be remenbered in the hearts or every American, he paid the highest price for freedom. I only wonder how many more Brandon's will we have to loss from this war.
pam & mark lindsay
October 29, 2009
May we extend our deepest sympathies to family and friends of PFC. Brandon Styer. Thank you for your sacrifice. You will be in our thoughts and prayers
Pam Sherman
October 29, 2009
Jill, you & your family are in my thoughts & prayers daily. I keep a candle lit in Brandon's honor. Love you.
SHIRLEY DONEY
October 29, 2009
REST IN PEACE PFC. STYER, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU BRANDON
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
October 29, 2009
You gave your all, rest in peace.
October 28, 2009
The nation has lost a hero but most of all you lost a son my prayers are with you. May God wrap his arms around you with comfort Fran Marshall(mother-------------------SGT Bradley Marshall------------------KIA July 31 2007
Suzanne MacDaniel
October 26, 2009
I know there are no words to say at this time, except how sorry that I am. I truly feel your loss and pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. Brandon will never be forgotten.
For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed
But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.
For those missing in action;
for those who didn’t make it home.
I know you’re in God’s presence you are not alone.
For every neatly folded flag;
for every shattered family
I will do the only thing I know to dignify your memory.
I salute you, allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
my humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you .
A Proud Aunt
Suzanne MacDaniel
SGT. David M. Fisher
KIA 12/1/04 - Iraq
Bernie Norwood
October 25, 2009
We offer our heartfelt sympathy to the family and friends of Pfc. Styer and we honor his distinguished service to the cause of freedom and liberty. Sadly, America has lost one of its finest heroes, the U.S. has lost a friend and protector, and a family has lost an example of character and courage, which they will love and respect forever. Today, because of the sacrifice Pfc. Styer has made, the house of freedom is stronger, sturdier, and more secure.
To the family and friends, of Pfc. Styer, I would like you to know that a lot of people pray for you, and my hope is that their prayers will give you the strength necessary to carry on. Just as you were always with him when he was deployed overseas, know that he will always be with you wherever you may be. In the days to follow, may you be strengthened by the fact that Pfc. Styer was a man distinguished by exceptional courage and will always be admired for his brave deeds and noble qualities. You, your family and your sacrifice will never be forgotten.
Pfc. Styer the flag of the United States of America has your blood sewn into the fabric; it shall wave forever in your honor.
Freedom requires sacrifice the protected will never know.
Patriot Guard Riders of South Texas
Holly Johnson
October 25, 2009
Jill, my heartfelt sadness and condolances go out to you and your family. I was devastated to hear of your sons passing! I'm so sorry, there are no words here. I know you were so proud of him, as we all were, in serving his country. I'm here for you if you ever need me.
For the Commander, Carroll R. Michaud
October 24, 2009
The Final Salute
“Brothers in Arms”, Military men and women down through the centuries, have traditionally exchanged “Hand Salutes” as a sign of recognition and as a way to render courtesy and respect one to another.
This “Hand Salute” is the last that we shall render to our Brother-in-Arms PFC. Brandon Styer. To his family it symbolizes the love and respect that we have for Brandon. And to Brandon it is rendered as a symbol of honor and gratitude to thank him for the ultimate sacrifice he made for his country while opposing enemy forces in Afghanistan. No greater love is shown than a man lay down his life for another. Brandon, you are a brave American Warrior, a true Patriot and a national Hero. With your passing, our Country has lost a National Treasure. We bid you a sad farewell. You will be dearly missed from among our ranks. Be at ease. Rest in Peace.
On behalf of the 1,341 members of Lowe-McFarlane Post 14 of the American Legion in Shreveport, Louisiana, I extend our sympathies and our condolences to Brandon’s family and loved ones.
Dennis N. Engdahl, Commander, American Legion Post 14
5315 S. Lakeshore Drive, Shreveport, LA 71109
Anne Hohenwarter USMC Mom
October 24, 2009
Thank you, Mr. and Mrs. Styer, for raising a boy who became a man to defend a nation. My heart breaks for your loss. I pray that our merciful Lord will carry you through the difficult days and nights ahead, and give you the peace of certain knowledge that Brandon is now safely at Home, where his wait to be reunited with those he loves will surely be only a blink in the eye of eternity. God bless you and keep you.
Gary Crowe
October 23, 2009
God bless Brandon and his family.
Bill Kirk, Capt USAF (ret)
October 23, 2009
Jill, Terry, John and Dawn, my deepest sympathies are with you and your family. Brandon gave the ultimate sacrifice to his country and he will be forever in our hearts. He is a true hero.
Garnet Jenkins
October 23, 2009
Please know how Deeply Sorry I am, to learn of the loss of Pfc. Brandon Styer.
As a parent, who has lost a daughter suddenly and having lost a brother to war...
I am aware of the deep and devastating pain that you are experiencing.
The overwhelming heartache, that seems to surface through our shock, as the time passes.
In the days ahead, you will be going through unimaginable grief, please hang on to your Faith and know that you will get through this.
May the memories of your Brave Young Soldier, remain in your heart always and give you strength through the difficult days and may Brandon, Rest Safely now, in the Loving Care of God and know that he Will Never Be Forgotten.
I pray that the Peace of God will be with the Styer family.
I am the sister, of such a 19 year young Hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
I sincerely hope that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the days ahead, as this Grateful Country Mourns with you, for Someone Very Precious to you, Who Is A True American Hero to all of us.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Nina Rogers
October 23, 2009
May God bring comfort and peace to all Brandon's family members.
Patti/ ClassyNSassy
October 23, 2009
Jill And Family....I am so very sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies are with you at this time. I want to thank Brandon for giving so freely of himself so we here in our home land could feel safe. We will forever be grateful for yours and his sacrifice. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Carrie Young
October 23, 2009
My deepest sympathy, thoughts and prayers to Brandon's family. He served his country and he will be forever honored as making the greatest sacrafice. Thank you Brandon for standing up for my freedom! I stood today with a flag to welcome you home. It's wasn't much but it's the only way I knew to show how much I appeciate your service and what you gave this great country!
October 23, 2009
We don't know you or your son. We would like to extend our sympathy for the sacrifice of your son in the service and say "Thank You" for your sacrifice.
Barry and Bertie Johnston
Shippensburg, Pa.
Tina Marks-Schelling
October 23, 2009
Terry,
My heart is aching for you and your family.
Dane Jameson
October 23, 2009
Brandon gave his life for his country. There's no greater sacrifice. My prayers are with you & your family Jill.
Ken & Nancy Meier
October 22, 2009
There are no words that will help at a time like this, but please know that Brandon was the type of son, we all wish we could have. He was the nicest man and hero we have ever known. Till we meet again on the other side, rest now, you have earned it & our admiration for the patriot you are always in our hearts.
Dale Bechtel
October 22, 2009
Brandon is a true hero, and an example for all. RIP Brandon, and thank you for all you've done, and everything you've been.
Sandi Jones
October 22, 2009
My heart is with you Jill. Brandon is forever a Hero & shining star. I know was /are very proud of him.
I wish I could be with you.
Love You
Sandi Jones
October 22, 2009
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time, and that I am so blessed and honored that Brandon was protecting his country- forever being a hero in our hearts!
God Bless, and may he RIP with our father.
Love,
Terri
Krystle Kunzeler
October 22, 2009
I am so sorry for your family. May God Bless all of you. Thank you Brandon for responding to the call of duty and giving the ultimate sacrafice. You are a true hero who will never be forgotten. Your spirit and heroism will live on forever.It was a privelage getting the chance to meet you. Thank you
Melina Weimer
October 22, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve. I continue to hold you in my thoughts.
Brandon gave the ultimate sacrifice for his country. He truly is a Hero.
Teresa Shatzer
October 22, 2009
I didn't know your loved one but feel it neccessary to say my sympathies. And my thanks for your sons service to this country. He is a HERO.
Tammy McCann
October 22, 2009
My heart is broken for your family. May God give you all strength and comfort.
October 22, 2009
I do not know the family or Brandon, but my sympathy is with you. Please take comfort in knowing that he will forever be a hero.
God Bless,
Kim from Mercersburg PA
Rock & Sherry Speicher
October 22, 2009
We are so sorry about the loss of your family. We have been thinking about you ever since we've heard.
Rock & Sherry
Jeannie Wessler
October 22, 2009
To my precious friend, Jill, Alyssa, Scott and ALL of the family,
I want you to know that I have held you all in my heart and prayers since I heard about dear Brandon. I felt like I knew him through my friendship with Jill, his loving Mother, who adored him SO. I send my love and condolences to all of you and pray for your healing...what a HERO Brandon IS!! I will always keep him in my heart..God needed another Angel..a beautifully, handsome hero!
I will be here for you, Jill, whenever you need me.
Love and prayers always, my dear friend,
Jeannie
Jenny Hass
October 22, 2009
Please accept my deepest sympathies.
October 22, 2009
Dear Family and Friends of Brandon:
I am truly sorry for your loss. I never had the pleasure of meeting this young hero and patriot, but I cannot find words to express my gratitude for his service to all of us. Sincerely yours, Paul Leeper
George Hertzog
October 22, 2009
Please know that I share this sorrow with you. I loved Brandon as if he truely was my blood grandson. Like you Terry, I was so very proud of him. I feel that a part of me has died inside, and has gone to be with him. My love to your entire family.
October 22, 2009
God Bless the Family, I dont know the family but any soldier who fights for our country deserves a standing obation, Thank you Brandon for fighting for our country and god bless you. Your friends and family I know are sooo proud of you
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