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2019

Claiborne Handleman Obituary

Handleman, Claiborne P. Elizabeth Betsy Claiborne Philips Handleman died peacefully, surrounded by her loving family on February 27, 2019.She was born on September 10, 1933 to Clayton Philips, Jr. and Virginia Sutherland Faust Philips in Baltimore Maryland. Growing up in Washington, DC, she attended The Maret School. Graduating from Smith College class of 1954, magna cum laude, she graduated from St. Louis University Law School in 1974, cum laude. She enjoyed practicing law in the Law Department of Ameren Corp. until her retirement in 1998. Claiborne was married in 1954 to Avrom Ringel Handleman. Moving to St, Louis in 1957, they settled in Webster Groves. Claiborne was active in the League of Women Voters, The Jefferson and Gravois Township Democratic Clubs and The Ethical Society of St Louis, as well as being involved in Webster Groves town and school politics. Notably, she was instrumental in expediting compliance with the Civil Rights act of 1964 in the Webster schools. A talented artist, she pursued developing her passion for painting and art at St. Louis Community Colleges and had exhibitions at The St. Louis Artists Guild, All Souls Unitarian Church in Indianapolis, The Ethical Society and numerous others. Her appreciation and love of nature showed in her beautiful landscapes depicting scenes from home, her beloved Piseco, NY, as well as world travel. She is survived by daughter, Edna Maude Handleman Gray (David Johnson), son, Clayton Philips Kling Handleman (Elizabeth), grandsons Spencer Gray (Alexandra), Dustin Gray, Aaron Handleman, Nathaniel Handleman, Jonah Handleman and great-granddaughters, Isla and Rooney Gray. Services: A Memorial Service followed by Celebration of Life reception will be held on May 18, 2019 at 3:00 p.m. at the Ethical Society of St. Louis, 9001 Clayton Rd. St. Louis, MO. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to Smith College, Doctors Without Borders or Compassion & Choices in her honor.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Mar. 29 to Mar. 31, 2019.

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Claire McMurray

May 4, 2021

Claiborne was my 2nd cousin, or something like that. When our lives intersected occasionally she always spoke of her children.I'm so sorry to discover her loss; and to send my sympathy so late. She and her husband Avrom were both delightful and hospitable people. Since our families are connected, You may want to know the rest of this. When my dad (John Bernard Faust) was recalled to Washington in 1950, housing was extremely scarce. Mom and I and my older brothers Owen and Lucien spent the summer on the Phillips farm, a formative experience for me. Come September, the older kids went back to college; Mom and I stayed with Cousin Virginia, I went next door to Maret school for 6th grade and slept in Claiborne's room. That was the year dad broke his leg. By the following summer we were able to rent a house Then dad retired and we moved to Florida, so I didn't see Claiborne for years. Once her husband Avrom found found himself in in Oklahoma Cify on businerss; ; we had lunch and I was fascinated by his ideas for keeping industrial dust contained. My second husband and I drove through St. Louis occasionally on our way east, and greatly enjoyed stopping by to visit for a day or two. The picture is me in 2014

April 2, 2019

Claiborne, we will miss you! A mentor to me as a young lawyer at then Union Electric and a lifelong friend! She would listen tirelessly as Av would patiently try to make into the kind of gardener he once was...it never happened.
Your watercolor paintings of James and Madeline, our twins, at age 3 still hold a place of honor in our dining room. They leave for college this fall.
Rest well Claiborne...we love you.

The Sullivans
Madeline, James, Mary Ellen & Steve

March 31, 2019

I knew Claiborne from doing work for the legal department at UE. She was a fine woman, and became a friend. RIP. Richard D. Schreiber

March 30, 2019

To the family, I'm so sorry for the loss of your love one, may the loving support of your family, friends and prayers sustain you through this very difficult time. Isaiah 57:15

david lander

March 30, 2019

Claiborne was a wonderful person and a great lawyer for Ameren or UE as it was then known. My sympathy on your loss.
david lander

Peg Parker

March 30, 2019

I probably met Claiborne when I was a teenager - about 50 years ago. She was strong, sweet & creative. Love her

Jane Gray

March 29, 2019

So sorry to hear about the passing of your Mother.
She was a lovely woman who loved her family very much and I know you will miss her dearly.
Deepest sympathy and prayers for your family.
Jane & Rod Gray

March 29, 2019

So sorry for the family's loss. In the days ahead, may you find comfort in the God of loyal love and in the promise found at 2 Thessalonians 2:16,17

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Ethical Society of St. Louis

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