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David Lodes Obituary

Lodes, David Thomas

Lodes, David Thomas passed away into the loving arms of Jesus on Saturday, February 08, 2025, at the age of 80 surrounded by his family. Beloved partner of 15 years to Jean Tornetto. Father of Louie (Aileen) Lodes, the late Dana Gerhard, Brenna (Sean) Maserang, and William (Sarah) Lodes. Great uncle to Brian and Kaiti Lodes. Brother of the late John (Carol) Lodes, the late Tim (MaryAnn) Lodes, George (Pat) Lodes, the late Joan Carragher, the late Danny (Bobbi) Lodes, the late MaryAnne (Kelly) Stewart, Mark (Mary) Lodes, Peggy Lodes (Joanie), and Kevin (Anne) Lodes. Beloved grandfather, great grandfather, uncle, and cousin to many. Dave was preceeded in death by his loving parents, Art and Mary Lodes.

Dave was a fighter by nature and won the Golden Gloves in 1968. He served in the Army and boxed in Germany. Dave was a proud member of Local 3 Elevator Constructors. He loved golf and enjoyed his camaraderie with the Sunshine Boys. He was blessed to have friendships that spanned a lifetime from his years at St. Roch's. Dave adored his brotherhood with Group 22 and helped too many people to list on their journey to sobriety. His infectious laugh, quick wit and sense of humor allowed him to coin creative nicknames for those he met within minutes. He loved his family and friends fiercely which endeared him to us all.

In honor of Dave's Irish heritage that he loved so dearly, please feel free to wear green to his memorial service on February 22, 2025, at 10am at St. Roch's Church; 6052 Waterman Blvd., 63112. He was passionate about his work with Guns 'N Hoses (benefits BackStoppers) for over 30 years. In lieu of flowers, donations can be submitted online at stlgunsnhoses.com/donate or checks can be mailed to Guns 'N Hoses c/o Steve Holley; 9137 Darlene Drive St. Louis, Mo 63123.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Feb. 16, 2025.

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Pat Magee

May 25, 2025

Your energy, humor, and friendship will be missed.

Larry Carney

February 17, 2025

Condolences to the Lodes family. All of the Carney boys liked and were friends of all the Lodes boys.

All the guys from Mercy, CBC, U City, and the gang at the Shamrock loved Dave.
Rest in Peace.

John Livingston

February 17, 2025

Fond memories of Dave and all the family from St. Roch´s. He was a year behind me my brother Jims age and if memory serves me he was also a city cop when Jim and I were city cops in late 60s early 70s.

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