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Delayne Ruth Thake

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Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road

Ballwin, Missouri

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Memorial Service

Dec. 14, 2025

2:00 p.m.

Meramec Bluffs

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Delayne Thake Obituary

Thake, Delayne Ruth (nee Buchholz)

Thake, Delayne Ruth (nee Buchholz), passed away Sunday, December 7, 2025. Beloved wife of the late Roger Frederick Thake; dearest mother of Bruce Thake, Tom (Shanthi) Thake, Debra (Andy) Bird and Susan (Don) Heep; dear grandmother of 11; great grandmother of 12; sister of Henry (the late Marion) Buchholz and the late Adele (Ken) Bluder and Ken (survived by Anita) Buccholz; sister-in-law of the late Art (June) Thake; our dear aunt, great-aunt, cousin and friend of many.

Services: Memorial service at Meramec Bluffs, 50 Meramec Bluffs Drive, Ballwin, Sunday, December 14, 2 p.m. Private interment at St. Paul's Lutheran Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to St. Paul's Lutheran Church or Lutheran Women's Missions League (LWML). As a service of the Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory, friends may sign the family's on-line guestbook at Schrader.com.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Dec. 10, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Delayne Thake

Dec

14

Memorial service

2:00 p.m.

Meramec Bluffs

50 Meramec Bluffs Drive, Ballwin, MO

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Schrader Funeral Home and Crematory - Ballwin

14960 Manchester Road, Ballwin, MO 63011

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Jane Durrell

Yesterday

Almost every day I thought about my friend Dee. I was her caregiver for a year when she still made her home in her cottage. Even after that, a few shifts spending time with her until she began residing at Meramec Bluffs. She was such a pleasure, and an inspiration to me.

Jan (Buchholz) Johnson

December 9, 2025

In my mind, Aunt Dee will always be linked with the split-level in Melrose Park and the good times our family had there. Sending prayers for the entire family's comfort knowing that she is forever home with her Lord and Savior!

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