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Gary Parker Obituary

Parker, Gary R. Fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church on Saturday, February 8, 2014. Beloved husband of Karman Parker (nee Early) who he absolutely adored for 43 years. Dear son of Darlene Parker and the late Reid Parker. Dear father of Carolyn (Danny) Stevens, Amy (Brad) Haley, Laura (Christian) Sprich, Andrea (Tim) Puschaver, Adam Parker, and Craig (Shelley) Parker. Dear grandfather of Hannah, Parker, Connor, Eli, Zoe, Macy, Lily, Max, Emma, Gabby, Marla, Audrey, Charlie, Abi, Walker, and Hudson. Dear brother of Sharon Browning, Randy Parker, Deanna (Stephen) Saltouse, and the late Troy Parker. Dear uncle, cousin, and friend to many. Mr. Parker was the Founder and President of Center Oil Company. Services: Funeral Mass will be Thursday, February, 13, 10:00 a.m. at St. Clement of Rome Catholic Church, 1510 Bopp Rd, 63131. Interment private. Visitation will be Wednesday 2:00 - 8:00 p.m. at Bopp Chapel, 10610 Manchester Rd. in Kirkwood. In lieu of flowers memorial contributions may be made to Camp Rhythm, One Children's Place, St. Louis, Mo. 63110-1077. www.boppchapel.com

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Feb. 11, 2014.

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February 17, 2022

Thinking of you❤

ANDRES QUINTERO

March 5, 2015

GREAT MAN KEEP IN MY MEMORIES FOR EVER

Tony Durano

May 16, 2014

Dear Karman, Deanna, Stephen and Families,
Please accept our sympathies for your loss. I read about Gary's death today in the WSU Foundation newsletter. Since age 19, Troy Parker was a very good friend of mine until his passing and he would often speak of Gary and Karmen when we were "hanging out" in college or skiing at Copper Mtn. I know Gary will be missed by many people.

The Tony Durano Family

Diane Tussey

February 18, 2014

Mr. Parker, It was a honor to know you! You will be missed. I will never forget the memories of the game #6 World Series tickets you were so generous to give me. That was just the kind of gentleman you were. Sharing a gift, a laugh, or a smile. RIP

Tita Martinez

February 16, 2014

The opportunity he gave me was priceless, you taught me a lot and I will always be grateful

Andres Quintero

February 15, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

February 14, 2014

Karman, so many thoughts and prayers from New Mexico. Shell called me. I still have photos of you and Gary from all those years ago. Been thinking of you all morning. Take care. Love, Julie

Carlos Lira

February 14, 2014

My most deepest condelance Karman. I will have always great memories of Mr. Parker. It was always a joy to see him and been move from his amazing energy. He is on a special place in our heart.

Connie Finger

February 13, 2014

Karman,
There are no words of comfort at this time but, I want you to know that you and your children have been in my thoughts and prayers daily since hearing of Gary's passing.
I can't help but think of Gary with John F. on his right, Bob M. on his left and Corinne in the middle running the show. May God Bless you and your family during the difficult days ahead.

February 13, 2014

Our deepest sorrow and sympathy go out to the Parker family. Our hearts are full of grief for you all. Jodi would mention your family and spoke of the close family bond that was evident. Please know that our prayers and thoughts will continue to come your way.
God Bless, Pam & Jack Sims

Mark R.

February 13, 2014

My thoughts and prayers to the Parker Family.

Doug & Janie Hensler

February 13, 2014

Compassionate, passionate, generous, pristinely family loving, fit, intense, empathetic, deeply concerned for our nation, powerful mind. These are but a few descriptors of Gary Parker, a man's man. Oh, how Gary will be missed by all whose paths crossed with his, but none of those will miss him like his family. To the family we give you our most heartfelt sympathies and prayers.

Mike Gibbs

February 13, 2014

Karman,

You and your family are in our prayers today and in the days to come.

I enjoyed knowing Gary so much. He was an exceptional talent.

Marcia Baker

February 13, 2014

My deepest sympathy to the Parker Family! This must be a very difficult time for all of you. I am so sorry for your loss.

John Bagdasarian

February 12, 2014

I am saddened to hear of the passing of Mr Parker. I worked for Center Oil for one year but gained a tremendous amount of respect for him. He will be missed and a great loss to his family, Center Oil and St Louis.

Kathy Jackson

February 12, 2014

You are all in my thoughts and prayers as you transition through this unexpected season. Knowing Sharon and Darlene and their strength and love, I trust you will each press into the comfort of the Lord as well as the arms of your loving family and friends.

Cady Kearney

February 12, 2014

I am so terribly sorry for your loss. To his children....I lost my Dad 2-1/2 years ago....it is devastating. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Kieran Quigley

February 12, 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. My heart and thoughts are with your family.

February 12, 2014

May God bless you and your family at this most difficult time.
With Deepest Sympathies,
Jacquie and son Blaine leonard

Gary was a TITAN of the oil trading world.

Terry Doyle

February 12, 2014

I met Gary Parker via a phone call one Saturday morning 30 years ago when he and Ed Wahl called me about a ship we were loading was off spec on butane. Little did I know I was talking with the GREATEST refined products trader of our generation. RIP Gary . . . and give God a break when you trade with him!

Melissa Oprisko

February 12, 2014

My condolences to you, Karmen and your family. I am so glad I had the opportunity to know Gary(and work for him at Center Oil). He was a good man and will be remembered as such. Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

Katie Stoller

February 12, 2014

So much Love and Peace to you all during this difficult time. I have very fond memories of a beautiful wedding in Mexico celebrating life, love, and happiness with the entire Parker family. Strength to you all

February 12, 2014

Karman,
So sorry for your huge loss. Prayers to you and your beautiful family. You all are in our hearts

The Parks Family

Gene&Barb Poepsel

February 12, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Muriel René De Blois

February 12, 2014

We will pray for you Gary my friend,condoleance Karman and for all the family.

Lou, Pat and Nikki Saur

February 12, 2014

Karman, We have such wonderful memories of the time spent with you, Gary and the kids in the early days. Peace be with you and the family.

Bob & Judi Findsen

February 11, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in this time of great loss.Gary will be missed. Bob & Judi Findsen

Nancy Chaney

February 11, 2014

Thoughts and prayers to the Parker family & friends.

Eric Pelletier

February 11, 2014

Our sincere condolences, we keep good memories of when you came to Quebec city and when we went to St. Louis. We pray for you.

Eric Pelletier & Julie Belanger

Odette &Yvon Pelletier

February 11, 2014

We have lost a wonderful person and a true friend. We are thankful for all the times and wonderful memories we shared during the years. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. All your Québec friends send you their love and prayers.

Danny & Terri Belisle

February 11, 2014

Our deepest sympathies to the Parker family. May God comfort all of you through this difficult time.

chris blumeyer

February 11, 2014

Karman, Patti and I are so soory for your loss. Gary and I talked last Tues. for about 20 min and it was wonderful. About you the kids, grandkids etc. We had such fun. You and your family will be in our prayers. Love you, Chris and Patti

Chris Moyer

February 11, 2014

My thoughts go out to the entire Parker Family. Gary was a wonderful kind-hearted person. He was a true friend to me. I will miss him dearly

February 11, 2014

Karman, Our thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
John & Robin Porta

MARC PELLETIER

February 11, 2014

SINCÈRES CONDOLÉANCES À LA FAMILLE ET PROCHES. NOUS AVONS EU LA CHANCE DE PARTAGER UN REPAS AVEC VOUS ET CETTE SOIRÉE RESTE GRAVER DANS NOS MÉMOIRES.
MARIE-EVE & MARC PELLETIER

Cindy Hayden

February 11, 2014

Thoughts and prayers to the Parker family and friends

Susie Frisbie-Coleman

February 11, 2014

He was my mentor, my boss, my friend and at times, my second Father. Such a big part of my adulthood, I cannot imagine him not being a part of my life. I pray that Karman and the family will find peace and comfort knowing how special he truly was to so many people. Godspeed my friend

Amy Snyder (Lorts)

February 11, 2014

Thoughts and prayers to the family, friends and employees.

February 11, 2014

Karman,

My deepest sympathy for you and your family.
Bill Cady


Fill Not Your Heart With Sorrow

Fill not your hearts with pain and sorrow,
but remember me in every tomorrow.
Remember the joy, the laughter, the smiles,
I've only gone to rest a little while.
Although my leaving causes pain and grief,
my going has eased my hurt & given my relief.
So dry your eyes and remember me,
not as I am now, but as I used to be.
Because, I will remember you all,
and look on with a smile.
Understand, in your hearts,
I've only gone to rest a little while....

As long as I have the love of you,
I can live my life in your heart.

Amy Snyder (Lorts)

February 11, 2014

Thoughts and prayers to the Parker family, friends and employees.

Teresa Freeman

February 11, 2014

So sorry for your loss! May God comfort you all.

Daniels

February 11, 2014

Our deepest sympathies to the Parker family. As you remember Gary, may it always bring you comfort. And may the God of all comfort help you through this difficult time.

Paula Jost

February 11, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with Gary's family and friends at this difficult time. Our family was truly impacted by his kindness and generosity over the years. He was an amazing business man who loved his family deeply. I admired the way Gary lived life to the fullest and he will be greatly missed by all that knew and loved him.

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