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Gerald Carlson Obituary

Carlson, Col (Ret) Gerald J. Gerald J. Carlson completed his final mission and was victorious against cancer, passing to a better life on November 21, 2011. He was born in Ishpeming, Michigan on November 30, 1928 to William and Anna Carlson and raised in Marquette, Michigan. Upon graduation from high school, Jerry received an appointment to West Point, graduating in 1951. Following graduation and selection as an Infantry officer, Jerry subsequently served in combat in Korea and Vietnam, holding command at every level from Platoon through Brigade and receiving many decorations during his tours (3 Bronze Stars, 3 Silver Stars, 2 Purple Hearts, 2 Legions of Merit and many others). Upon completion of his tour in Vietnam, Jerry reported to the Office, Joint Chiefs of Staff where he served from 1971 to 1974 participating in the White House briefing team of Secretary of Defense Melvin Laird and Secretary of State Henry Kissinger and receiving a third Legion of Merit for his service with the Joint Chiefs of Staff. After completing a successful Brigade command, Jerry completed a distinguished 30 year military career at Fort Leavenworth, Kansas as a Colonel. Upon retirement, Jerry and his wife, Jeanne, started their civilian life and moved to the El Paso, Texas area where he accepted the job as the Executive Officer of the El Paso Apartment Association. Jerry served the Association for 28 years until his second retirement at the age of 80. He remained active in the local El Paso and Fort Bliss communities for many years. Jerry was an extraordinary man, soldier, hero, husband, father and friend to many. His wife of 38 years, Doris (Jeanne) Carlson, preceded him in death in 1993. His survivors include his brothers, Thomas Carlson (Barbara) and James Carlson (Patsy), and his 3 children, Anna Routledge (Neil), LTC (Ret) Susan Carlson (dear friend Melissa Miller) , and Gerald J Carlson, Jr (Anne), five grandchildren, Joe Williams (Andrea), Joseph Carlson, Katherine Carlson, Ellen Carlson and Mary Carlson, 2 great grandchildren, cousins Aileen Lundy and Beca Stamp (Al) and many devoted nieces and nephews. Jerry enjoyed many events, commitments and time with Patsy Zimmerman, his companion over the last 17 years. Celebration of his life was held Tuesday, November 29, 2011 with burial with full Color Guard and full Military Honors on November 30, 2011. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Hospice El Paso (1440 Miracle Way, El Paso, TX 799257102), the Military Order of the Purple Heart - Lone Star Chapter 393 (P.O. Box 640751, El Paso, TX 79904), or the EPAA Gerald Carlson Scholarship Fund (5730 E. Paisano, El Paso, TX 79925).
Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Dec. 4, 2011.

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Grace Crusoe

November 21, 2020

Jerry was one of the first people I met when I moved to El Paso 30 years ago at the EPAA. Throughout my career he’s was my “turn to” guy whenever I had questions about the lease or military. I will always remember his kindness and being a mentor to me. Rest peacefully Mr C. You are still loves my many and misses every day.

December 1, 2011

Jerry,
It was an honor to serve under your leadership in Vietnam.
I remember calling you in 2001 and you told me about the 31st Infantry association. It was in Pittsburgh in 2002 that we first got together after 32 years. Today there are several hundred men reunited because of our visit. You were a great man!

SSG Dean Hess
3-69 to 3-70 Vietnam

Jose Fragoso

December 1, 2011

Carson Family,
What a lucky man I am for having known Col. Carlson! I met him at St Michael's Church. We shared a bond that transcended age differences. I sincerely miss our talks after church and the quiet professional bearing he brought to the reactivation ceremonies for 4th Battalion, 17 Infantry. It is a great honor to know him, an even greater honor to listen to his experiences. I can still see the glow in his eyes when he talked of his family! I know that he has joined others who went before him. See you on the objective, Sir! very respectfully, SGM Jose Luis Fragoso

Joseph Herber USA [ret]

December 1, 2011

My condolences to the family,God be with you in this trying time . May we hope that he is a much better place and in the peace he deserves .

Grace Crusoe

November 30, 2011

Jerry, I know you are running things for them in Heaven now. You will always have a special place in my heart. You are truly an amazing man. Much love and peace to you Mr. C~

Jim Adams

November 30, 2011

Jerry:

My condolences on the death of your father.

31st inf reunion 06

November 30, 2011

3st inf reunion 06

November 30, 2011

Patrick McDonnell

November 29, 2011

Like many other El Pasoans, I knew Jerry Carlson as the leader of the El Paso Apartment Association. He was not just an exceptional administrator, he was an exceptionally good man. I knew he had served proudly in the military, but I had no idea how accomplished he had been in that previous career. He never bragged about it. He darn sure could have bragged about it though. Wow. I was honored to have known him.

Ken Steed

November 29, 2011

Col. Carlson was the perfect example of what all leaders should be. He was a man of integrity and he passionately cared for the men who he commanded. It was an honor and privelege to serve under him.

November 29, 2011

Jerry was a great, great guy. We always enjoyed visiting with him when he was up in the Chicago area to see my Mom for visits or events. It's an honor to be able to call him family.

Jim Lundy (Jr.) and Family

November 29, 2011

"Well done sir !"

J. David Quisenberry

November 29, 2011

Thank you sir for your support and guidance over the years. You have servered as a role model for me and my family and I will never forget what you have done for me during my Army career.
Sir I would follow you anywhere.
God Bless you and your fine family
James David Quisenberry
Major Infantry
6th 31st Infantry

Tarlan Lopez

November 29, 2011

It was an honor and a priviledge to know Jerry, and work with him through the El Paso Apartment Association. Jerry was a great teacher, as well as a man of honor and integrity. Jerry had a heart of gold and I can say with all sincerity, that my life was made richer for knowing him. My condolences to all his family and friends, May the Lord give you peace as you go through the days ahead. God Bless you

Jaime Morales

November 29, 2011

It was an honor to know Jerry and a priviledge to call him my friend. His leadership qualities always shined in the 20 years that I knew him. My condolences go out to the Carlson family. I know that he now has what we all seak in life, Peace.

Donna Walker

November 28, 2011

Carlson Family,

It was an honor to have the privilege of knowing and corresponding with Jerry during his tenor-ship with EPAA. Our condolences are with your family as they find peace and comfort knowing what a great man he was.

God Bless!

Samuel Martin

November 28, 2011

Col. Carlson: I think of you often and I was fortunate to serve under you in D, 3rd 6/31st.69-70.

LINDA WARBURTON

November 28, 2011

"Our condolences and may your family find peace as well as comfort. We have missed you the last several years not being with the Apartment Association.... when my mangers had a question or issue I would tell them call Jerry he knows everything. You were not only a great man, but also a man of knowledge you will be greatly missed

Rebecca Downey

November 28, 2011

Jerry, you brought the sun to a cloudy day. You inspired many to do great things, following your lead. Your service to our country and your positive outlook are to be emulated by us all. And to Pat, my dear friend, we all grieve with you on Jerry's loss.

Jerry White

November 28, 2011

Colonel Carlson was a great soldier and an even greater man. I will never forget him helping me thru the most terrible day of my life in July of 1969 when I had lost two men KIA and one badly wounded. Colonel Carlson placed his men above all else, and we knew that we were more than just cannon fodder to him...we were real people. We would have followed him into the depths of hell.

Jerry White/3rd platoon/Delta Company/6-31st/9th Infantry Division/Viet Nam/1969

James Devine

November 27, 2011

It was Taps time, Sir, and again you dutifully answered the call. Our numbers again have dwindled by one, but what a leader you were. I would have been proud to have served with you but our wars were at different places. It was a pleasure knowing you. May we meet again.

James C. Devine,
Maj. (Ret) USAF
MOPH Lone Star Chapter 383
El Paso, Tx

Infusion Nurses Texas Oncology Gateway

November 27, 2011

Our condolences and may your family find peace as well as comfort. Your father/friend was such a kind man and a true warrior. His attitude and positivity was a pleasure to be around. May all the wonderful memories help you during this time.

November 27, 2011

May the God of Tender mercies provide consolation during this time. First Corinthians 1:3

Mike Casey

November 27, 2011

Col. Carlson,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your years of dedicated service and sacrifice for our Country when you served with the U.S. Army-especially in Korea, Lebanon and Vietnam. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

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