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Knobbe, Helen Marie

Helen Marie (nee Robert), 91, passed away peacefully on August 30, 2020 at St. Mary's Hospital, which is where she gave life to her eight children and completed her nursing training and clinicals. She was born in St. Louis to the late Harry and Emma (Spitznagel) Robert. She attended St. Pius V Grade School, graduated from Loretta Academy in 1947 and St. Louis University School of Nursing in 1952. She married Leonard (Len) Knobbe in 1952 at St. Pius V Catholic Church. All of her children attended Our Lady of Sorrows Grade School, where they had continuous enrollment spanning 28 years. Thereafter, she and Len became long-term parishioners at Seven Holy Founders.

Helen loved to travel, and with Len, visited Asia, Europe, Central and South America, the Middle East and the Holy Land. A highlight from her travels was meeting Mother Teresa at a conference in Guatemala. In 1960, she co-founded a La Leche League chapter in St. Louis, advocating for mothers and breastfeeding. She volunteered at Birthright Counseling for 25 years, and was a speaker for PFLAG.

She is survived by Len, her loving husband of 67 years; beloved children Ann Knobbe (Cary Bolling), Patrice (Bob) Walsh, Kathy (Andy) Connor, Alice (Bill) Lampe, Paula (late Scott) Erbs, Robert (Georgia), Daniel, and Matthew; 22 grandchildren and 13 great-grandchildren in 10 states; sisters Louise Ann (late Frank) Ammatelli and Joan Robert. She was preceded in death by her dearest Aunt Louise Spitznagel, sister Dorothy (late Al) Ruck, brothers William (late Shirley) Robert, and Donald (late Marilynn) Robert; and grandson Donovan Walsh, who passed away on the same day as Helen. She was a mentor to many nieces and nephews.

Helen loved butterflies and often compared them to her children, as they proverbially spread their wings to go to live in other beautiful places. She enjoyed Muny season tickets for 30 years, and had an affinity for puzzles, completing one on the day she passed, as if to say, "My work here is done." Above all, Helen cherished her husband, children and all her family, and looked forward to the KFRs, the Knobbe family reunions, every other summer.

Services: Helen's online celebration of life and Mass will be held Saturday, November 28, 2020 at 10:30 a.m. at Seven Holy Founders. Please visit www.foundersaffton.org/ Donations may be made to Birthright Counseling https://birthrightstl.org/donate/ or St. Vincent de Paul Society https://svdpstlouis.org/donate.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Sep. 13, 2020.

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Cassandra Clubb

November 21, 2020

Please know we are thinking of your family during this difficult time. We have so much honor, respect, and love for the work Helen did in our community. Many, many mothers are indebted to her, and her LLL legacy continues on!

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Kathy Patrylo

November 16, 2020

Len, you and your family are in my prayers. Helen was a beautiful person and will continue to live in the many lives she touched. I will be streaming Helen's mass and wish that I could be there in person. I am sure Bob and Ruth Daley were there to welcome Helen home. Please contact me.

Stephanie Dill - Ferguson

September 28, 2020

I was saddened to hear of the loss of you mom, Helen, and I realize you have lost a blessing from God. I pray that God will continue to bless you, strengthen you, and remind you daily of her.
“What we have once enjoyed, we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us.” – Helen Keller

Kathleen Vernell

September 14, 2020

Helen is a woman that is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside. Can't yet bring myself to say "was". I hold Helen, Len, Children, Grand Children, especially Donovan in my heart and prayers. I'm so blessed to have known her and her family.

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Mary Anne Powell

September 14, 2020

Paula, what a beautiful legacy! So very sorry to all the family. I remember Mrs. Knobbe from years ago! My prayers are with all of you, esp with the added loss of Donovan!
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Shirley Steinkamp

September 13, 2020

HELEN WAS A TERRIFIC PERSON. ALWAYS CARED FOR OTHERS AND WANTED TO KNOW WHAT SHE COULD DO. i MET HER AT THE CORNERSTONE BIBLE STUDY OF WHICH HER HUSBAND LEN PARTICIPATED. SHE WAS A BEAUTIFUL LADY. I SHALL ALWAYS REMEMBER HER. LEN PLEASE ACCEPT MY SINCERE SYMPATHY.

Mike & MARY Ann George

September 13, 2020

Dear Len, Ann, Pat and family,

Please accept my deepest condolences for your great loss. We loved Helen and missed being your neighbor. I often thought about you and prayed that all was well. Your family will be in our prayers for God’s comfort and peace, love and strength, during this difficult time. Know that Helen is basking in the presence of the Almighty now and enjoying her crown of life, Reunited with her loved ones that have gone before her. I know this will bring you much joy and comfort. What an amazing woman and family Helen and the Knobbe family is. Thank you for your friendship. Our family is here in any way that we may be called upon. Please honor us in any need we can assist with.

Alice Lampe

September 13, 2020

Mom was a beautiful woman, inside and out. She was a wonderful, loving mother and will be missed by all who loved her. We were so fortunate to have her with us for 91 years. I love you Mom. I'll never see a butterfly and not think and remember you. Some day we will all be united again. God bless.

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