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James Merlo Obituary

Merlo, James "J.J."

Baptized into the hope of Christ's Resurrection, passed away on Tuesday, May 23, 2023 at the age of 84.

J.J. was the beloved husband of Janet (nee Berra) Merlo; devoted father of Debbie Merlo, Tim (Cara) Merlo, Bob Merlo, Maggie (Phil) Nikolai, and Shelly Merlo; cherished grandfather of Jack Nikolai, Anna Merlo, Mark Merlo, Sam Nikolai, and the late Joseph Merlo, John Merlo, and Matthew Nikolai; dear brother of Pat Merlo and Kay (John) Grein and brother-in-law of Norman (Toni) Berra and Jim (Mary) Berra; dear uncle, great-uncle, cousin, and a friend to all. He was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph "Timmie" and Ann (nee Ceriotti) Merlo.

J.J. was a lifelong resident of The Hill and devoted lifelong parishioner of Saint Ambrose Catholic Church on The Hill. He was a member of countless neighborhood organizations. He was a proud alumnus of St. Ambrose Grade School, Class of 1952. He graduated from CBC in 1956 and immediately began his 43 year long career at McDonnell-Douglas/Boeing. He retired in 2000 and since then enjoyed his retirement with Janet, his wife of 62 years.

J.J. loved fishing, hunting, woodworking, and sharing Hill history with anyone who asked. He was a lifelong friend to many and he will be missed by all who knew and loved him.

Services: Visitation will be Tuesday, May 30 from 4-8 p.m. at Hoffmeister Colonial Mortuary, 6464 Chippewa Street, St. Louis 63109. The recitation of the Rosary will commence on Wednesday, May 31 at 9:30 a.m. at Saint Ambrose Catholic Church, 5130 Wilson at Marconi, 63110 followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10am. Interment Resurrection Cemetery to follow.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in J.J.'s memory to Saint Ambrose Forever or the CBC Matthew Merlo Nikolai Memorial Scholarship Fund would be greatly appreciated by his family.



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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on May 28, 2023.

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Linda

May 26, 2025

Miss you, Jim. I'm sure your sister has turned heaven upside down.

Linda Hausman

May 22, 2024

RIP dear friend. Your wife, children and grandchildren are faithfully carrying your tradition of care. A job well done, sir.

Anthony Tumminello

June 3, 2023

Jim was a great guy; always helpful. I'm sorry that my classmate, Janet lost her partner. My last memory of Jim was of him helping ladies in wheelchairs leave the last St. Ambrose Alumni breakfast. Typical of him. Many people are poorer for his ascension away from us-for now.

Terry sexton

June 2, 2023

I´m a C B C ,56 GRADUATE WHO KNEW JIM IN PASSING AS I´M A NORTH ST LOUIS VS THE "HILL" neighborhood guy. My condolences to his family.I observe many similarities in our later lives and at 85 feel I´m becoming a member the LAST MAN´S CLUB of the 1952 grade school class leading to 1956 C B C. I´m sure he´s in heaven.

Rosemary

May 31, 2023

Jimmy was always active at church. And anything you ask of him he always agreed to do. I hope he has another life to continue with the things he enjoyed. Rosemary Sandhofer, Father Rico´s sister.

Suzie Anthony

May 30, 2023

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Linda Thumm

May 30, 2023

J.J. was a dear friend and coworker for over 30 yrs. He was loved and respected by all who knew him, a feat not many can accomplish. He did it by just being his charming and funny self, all while being a great coworker and leader. Remembering you fondly during this time and know that you are already connecting with your old friends in heaven. Here's one last pie, albeit virtual, in your face!

Linda Barni Hausman

May 29, 2023

Janet, Pat, Kay and family. I have no words of wisdom to share, only my love for all of you. Jim was the angel to many on earth; now he may enjoy eternal angelic presence. Our sorrow now feels like a tsunami hitting you. Know that you can withstand it by leaning with help from all around you.
Linda Barni Hausman

John Judy Lake

May 28, 2023

Great freind moms deli boy I will miss him very much just a great guy

Ken Richardson

May 28, 2023

So sorry. I have fond memories of working with Jim at MD, We would often talk soccer.

Jeanne Meyrose Ferner

May 28, 2023

So sorry to hear of Jim's passing - only wish there was some words or actions that I could do to help your pain, but my prayers are with you and your family.

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30

Visitation

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Hoffmeister Colonial Mortuary

6464 Chippewa Street, Saint Louis, MO 63109

May

31

Rosary

9:30 a.m.

Saint Ambrose Catholic Church

5130 Wilson at Marconi, MO

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31

Mass of Christian Burial

10:00 a.m.

Saint Ambrose Catholic Church

5130 Wilson at Marconi, MO

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