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Arnot, Dr. John P.

In loving memory of Dr. John P. Arnot. He passed away peacefully at the age of 90 on Wednesday, Dec. 7, 2022, in St. Louis, MO.

John was born in Clovis, NM, on Feb. 3, 1932. Son of the late Charles and Elizabeth (Powell) Arnot; beloved husband of the late Trudy Arnot for 61 years; beloved father of John (Holli), Jim (Barb), Paul (Sharon), and Bill; doting grandfather of Andrew (Taylor), Ian, Jane, and John; brother of Jean O'Neil of Las Cruses, NM and Jane McFarland of San Antonio, TX. John was a kind and thoughtful child of God and will be greatly missed.

He received his undergraduate degree from Rice University and earned his medical degree from Yale School of Medicine where Trudy and John met and married. After Medical School he joined the U.S. Army and then began his private practice in St. Louis where he practiced orthopedic surgery for more than 40 years.

John also enjoyed sailing, snow skiing, woodworking, and golf. He enjoyed the theatre, music, as well as St. Louis arts and sports.

Services: In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Alzheimer's Association or Bonhomme Presbyterian Church. A private burial for John will be held at Bellerive Gardens Cemetery, Creve Coeur, MO. A memorial service for both John and Trudy is planned for Monday, Jan. 9, 2023, at 10 a.m. with reception to follow at Bonhomme Presbyterian Church, Chesterfield, MO.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Dec. 11, 2022.

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Sandy White

January 23, 2023

John and Trudy were great friends to my parents, Bob and Betty White. They were both lovely people and so much fun! John was my orthopedic surgeon as a young adult and I babysat for the boys as a teenager. What a wonderful couple and made an outstanding legacy with their four boys. I am sorry for your loss.
Sandy White
Irving, Texas

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John and Marie Salter

December 18, 2022

Was so sorry of hearing that John had passed away have wonderful memories of time spend with both Trudy and John. Now we have 2 angels watching over us.

Gary Locke

December 13, 2022

What a life of dedicated service to his family, country, patients, church, friends, and community. Praying for peace and bright memories for the family.

Robert Driskill

December 12, 2022

Sorry for your loss. Had the fastest sailboat and couldn´t have been a nicer person.

Kathy Kohut

December 12, 2022

I remember Dr. Arnot from working at Deaconess Hospital. He was always so nice and friendly. He was part of a great group of orthopedic doctors. RIP Dr. Arnot. I´m

Adam Tenenbaum

December 11, 2022

I am sorry for your loss

Joseph Hardy

December 11, 2022

Sorry to hear about your loss. Many memories from Harbor Point. Rest in peace.

Stephen leonard

December 11, 2022

My thoughts and prayers.

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