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Mahar, John J. 'Jay' 62, died August 29, 2008. He was born in Syracuse, NY the son of Donald and Betty Mahar. Jay graduated from Stonehill College in Easton MA in 1968 with a BA in Economics. He recently retired from AT&T. He was predeceased by his beloved wife, Ellen McMahon Mahar in 1973. Surviving are two daughters, Colleen (Tim) Christopher of St. Louis, MO, Catherine (Bruce) Davenport of Glendale, MO, one son, John (Melinda) Mahar of S. Weymouth, MA. He was beloved grandfather 'Papa' to Cora and Elsie Mahar, Aidan, Caroline and Colin Christopher, and Ellen and Grace Davenport, and a dear brother to Brian Mahar of Tampa, FL. He is also survived by several sisters and brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews and cousins. Jay will be remembered for his love of family, friends and sports.Services: Services and burial will be held in Syracuse, NY. In lieu of flowers, please send contributions to the McMahon Ryan Child Advocacy Site, 509 W. Onondaga St., Syracuse, NY 13204. A Memorial Mass will be held at St. Peters Church in Kirkwood MO at a later date.
Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Sep. 5, 2008.

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Danielle Brunnnworth

September 15, 2008

Dear Colleen & Family,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are terribly sorry to hear about your great lose. Your Dad "is" an awesome man and will still be a part of your everyday lives. Stay strong and always pray.
Love, The Brunnworth Family

Kathy Renehan

September 8, 2008

I'm sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. We were classmates at MHR and attended Marriage Preparation classes together, as our partners were living out of town, we were the two singles. My prayers are with you and your families.

Christine White-Weidner

September 7, 2008

I was so sorry to read of Jay's passing. I was in high school with Jay and Ellen. He will be remembered by many whose lives he touched. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

Dean Given

September 7, 2008

Jay grew up two blocks away from me in Syracuse. He was the total package of a wonderful person from a wonderful family. To his family I send my prayers and thoughts...

Karen Calabrese

September 6, 2008

Colleen, Catherine and John,
I had the pleasure of babysitting you as infants and toddlers many years ago. Your father was such a wonderful person. Although I was a teenager at the time, I remember thinking what an awesome dad he was during such a difficult time in your lives. He washed bottles, changed diapers, kissed "boo-boo's" and was extremely thankful when I cleaned up the dishes and you were all sleeping when he came home. I never forgot him because of his kind, loving personality, and respect and appreciation for everyone in our neighborhood. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May it warm your hearts to know what a positive impact he made on this world, as well as the lives of others.

Paul & Leslie Roettger

September 5, 2008

You continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathies go out to you, Catherine & Colleen, and to your brother too. Safe travels.

Vicki Knickerbocker

September 5, 2008

I was so sorry to hear about Jay's passing. He was such a wonderful person and I was glad to know him all those years. When I last spoke with him around Easter this year, I didn't realize he was that ill. My sympathies are with all of you. I know that God's love will sustain you and that Jay is in His eternal care. Vicki Knickerbocker

Chris Mandy

September 5, 2008

John,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.

Brian and Erin Pettinato

September 5, 2008

You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Wishing you the best during this difficult time.

September 5, 2008

John and Family-

You have our thoughts and our sympathy during this sad time.

Hendricks Family

Dennis Kennedy

September 5, 2008

Jay was one of the best friends of my entire life. I'm certain that he was a wonderful father and grandfather. I am so sad to learn of his passing but I will always remember him with great fondness.

Scott Morrison

September 5, 2008

John,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you during this time.

Mary Zmuda

September 4, 2008

Colleen, Catherine, John and family,
Just wanted to let you know our hearts and prayers are with you! I truly believe Irish eyes are smiling as Jay is looking down at all of his kids, grandkids, and family together! He will always be with you!
Love, Mary and Ed

Vito Iudice

September 4, 2008

So Sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Jay, Joe Mulherin, who passed away last year, and I, had many fun and fond memories of our High School Years together. Jay was a kind, generous, and very loving man. He was also one heck of an athlete. My wife Jeanette, and I will have Jay and all his Family in our Prayers.

Lynn Colby

September 4, 2008

John and Family: We are so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. If you need anything please let us know. Your friends at CIGNA HealthCare.

Joe Walker

September 4, 2008

So very sorry to hear of Jay's passing. I remember Jay as being a very good person. My prayers are with his whole family

Bill, DeAnn & Anna DuBord

September 4, 2008

Cath & Coleen, We're thinking of you and so sorry that your dad has passed. I know he loved you and your families so much. Again, I'm so sorry, and if there's anything that you need, please don't hesitate to contact us.
Take care of each other.

joseph drexler

September 4, 2008

My deepest sympathies for the Mahar Family. Jay and I were best friends at MHR. I'll miss him.

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