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Kevin Messmer Obituary

Messmer, Kevin M. of St. Louis, fortified with the Sacraments of Holy Mother Church, on Mon., 10/21/13. Loving husband of Judithe Messmer (nee Fernandez); loving father of Mark Messmer; loving son of Leo and the late Patricia Messmer; dearest brother of Chris (Mike) Wikoff and Tricia (Brian) Bowman. Our dear brother-in-law, nephew, uncle, great-uncle, cousin and friend to many. Services: Funeral from KUTIS SOUTH COUNTY CHAPEL, 5255 Lemay Ferry Rd., on Fri., 10/25, 9:30am for 10am Mass at Queen of All Saints Catholic Church. Interment Resurrection Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, masses preferred, Queen of All Saints School or a charity of your choice. Visitation Thurs., 4-8pm.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Oct. 23, 2013.

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October 27, 2013

I am soooo sory for your loss! Knew Leo many years ago and remember Kevin. Please pass on this message and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

Annie Baeres Banks

October 25, 2013

Oh Judy, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you and your family.

S Ludlow

October 23, 2013

Mark, I am sorry to hear about the passing of your father. I know it has been years since you last saw me but I still remember your parents from my years at Queen.
I will keep you in my prayers in the days, weeks, and months to come.
Take care,
Mrs. Ludlow

Denise Helm

October 23, 2013

Judy and Mark, I am so sorry for your loss. May you take comfort in your wonderful memories and life you shared.

Terry Metzler

October 23, 2013

Judy and Mark, I am so sorry for the sudden loss of Kevin. My heart goes out to you and your family. You are all in my prayers.

Ken and Becky Fernandez

October 23, 2013

Judy and Mark, so sorry to hear the passing of Kevin. Our sincere thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.

Jim and Lorretta Fernandez

October 23, 2013

Our sincere condolences to you, Judy and Mark. We are so sorry to have lost Kevin. Heaven accepts another angel but for us, it is way too soon. Love to you both.

Sheri & Jeff Petruso - cousins

October 23, 2013

Judy & Mark - we were both shocked and saddened to hear of Kevin's passing - nothing but prayers of support and big hugs to let you know you don't have to walk this alone. God Bless.

Mr and Mrs. and Caroline Knese

October 23, 2013

Mrs. Messmer and Mark, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you find strength and peace in your memories of your husband and father.

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