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Lawrence Abeln Obituary

Abeln, Lawrence D. resting in the arms of the Lord on Wednesday, July 27, 2016. Beloved husband of Marijane Abeln (nee Isaacs); loving father of Gina Konrad, Michele (Ray) G'Sell, Lawrence S. Abeln and James Abeln; dear grandpa of Heather (Myles), John, Molly (Colton), Sean, Chase and Ann; dearest great-grandpa of Charlotte; our dear brother, brotherin-law, uncle, great-uncle, cousin and friend. Services: A Memorial Mass will be held for Lawrence on Saturday, August 6, 2016 at 12 PM (Noon) at Holy Name of Jesus Catholic Church, 10235 Ashbrook Dr., St. Louis, 63137. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to St. Vincent de Paul, Holy Name of Jesus Conference or Birthright of Montgomery City, P.O. Box 83, Montgomery City, MO 63361 appreciated. Online condolences and guestbook can be found at www.stygar.com

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Jul. 31, 2016.

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July 21, 2025

You will be in my prayers.

Neil & Susan Smith

August 6, 2016

Our thoughts are with you and your family, Jane. Forty-nine years ago yesterday (8/5/67) you and Larry visited Rolla, and Larry was my best man. Prior to that Larry was my colleague at the Fed, roommate, and golf and beer drinking buddy. So glad we were able to catch up a bit this past year, and get out for lunch several times. Keep the Faith, 'ol Buddy.

Joan, Erick, & Austin Fusselman (Thomann)

August 2, 2016

Janey, We send Our Deepest Condolences to your entire family. As a wonderful, faith-filled partner to Larry, I know God will PROVIDE the strength You will need in days ahead. Because of Your Great Faith, God will be there to comfort You. I wasn't around Larry a lot, but he was always upbeat when we were. And I know he taught his family great faith in God, and to live your Life Always Giving to Others. He was very lucky to have You Janey, such a caring, positive wife. Remember all Your Times together, and Thank You for All You gave to all those around both of You. GOD KEEP YOU AND YOUR CHILDREN AND FAMILY IN HIS LOVING, COMFORTING ARMS.

Trini Pellegrino

August 2, 2016

I'm sorry to hear of your loss. Keeping you in my prayers.

August 2, 2016

As a classmate from Laboure High School, Larry was a good friend and provided many great memories. I'm saddened to hear of the passing of another classmate. Larry will always be remembered.
John & Joy Eritreo

August 2, 2016

Dear Janey, we are so sorry to hear about Larry. Our prayers go out to you and your family. God bless you all. Love, Mary Mincey(Riggio)

August 2, 2016

Please accept my sincere condolences. I know how difficult it is to lose a husband after so many years. My prayers are with you. Judy Ryan

Jerry Fagin

August 1, 2016

So sorry to hear of Larry's passing. I worked with Larry at the old "County" bank for years. He was a good friend and a great boss. RIP Larry.

Jo Ann Cwiklowski

August 1, 2016

Dear Jane and family, Larry was a classmate and friend. He was our leader at Laboure'High - Student Council President. Hold on to the memories of your beloved. Love and Prayers, JoAnn Cwiklowski

Rosalie Ingrim

August 1, 2016

Dear Janey: I am so sorry for your loss. I just know God is watching over you through this time of grief. Larry is home. Safe in the arms of a loving God. That is the joy of life. We are all on our way home...Enjoy the trip...Remembering how much God loves us and will help us on our journey. I will always love you Janey. Larry was blessed in life to have you for his wife.

August 1, 2016

Dear Jane, I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Judy Schuler

Pat konrad

August 1, 2016

So sorry for your loss. He is at peace with the Lord now. He watchs over all of you from Heaven.

Pat konrad

August 1, 2016

So sorry for your loss. He is at peace with the Lord now. He watchs over all of you from Heaven.

Pat konrad

August 1, 2016

So sorry for your loss. He is at peace with the Lord now. He watchs over all of you from Heaven.

July 31, 2016

Jane,
I am so sorry to hear about Larry. You are lucky to have had 50 years together . He will always be in your heart.
Fondly,
Nancy Spehr

July 31, 2016

Deepest condolences to the family at this very sad time. Psalms 116:15

C S

July 31, 2016

You have my sincere condolences for your loss. May God grant you comfort and peace as you cope with your loss.

JoAnn Anglim

July 31, 2016

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time. God Bless you Larry, rest in peace

David & Peggy Wilson

July 31, 2016

Jane; We are so sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathy to you and your entire family.

Nancy (Haroian) Tashjian

July 30, 2016

My deepest condolences to the entire Abeln/Isaacs family on this loss. I grew up on Marias Drive, and my father, Vahan Haroian, was a business associate of Mr. Isaacs, Jane's father. I used to babysit for Larry & Jane's children when they were little. It has been many, many years...but when I saw the sad news of Larry's passing on the Bellefontaine Neighbors Facebook page, I was truly taken aback. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all in this time of deep sorrow.

Mimi Goellner-Traube

July 29, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. May thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the Lord bring you peace and comfort at this time.

Mike Bowman

July 29, 2016

Larry was the Bellefontaine Neighbors Treasurer/Expert on the cities finances while I was a member of the Board of Alderman. He was always a gentleman, an asset to the city and a great person to be around. I had nothing but respect for him and his expertise on the city's finances. I'm sorry to hear he has passed. I'm sorry for your family's loss. I'm sure he leaves an emptiness in your heart not soon to be mended.

Karen Rose

July 29, 2016

Our deepest sympathy to Jane and her entire family. Bob and Karen Rose

JIMMY ABELN

July 29, 2016

Hi Dad
I am sitting on the beach in the back of the house that I wished you would of been able to see because I had some plans for You to visit..
You always gave me everything I wanted but the corvette for my 16th birthday...You taught me money don't grow on trees..You taught me values..You showed me how to give...You told me not to buy 2 homes at a time...You taught me to be a Catholic...You taught me to repect my mom...You taught me everything and I will lead as example to your wishes..I will take care of your wife...I will take care of your family...We will be in Florida together as soon as I retire...You will be with me everyday...You were the man that I wanted to be..You will be missed...
KEEP THE FAITH
LOVE YOUR SON
JIM

Rhonda V Jones

July 29, 2016

Jane, I am soo sorry for your loss and pray for you and your family to have peace beyond understanding... with deepest sympathy and Love,
Rhonda V. Jones, your forever real estate family

Lisa Thompson

July 28, 2016

Dear Jane, Gina, Larry and all the Abelns who mourn today, may your hearts be comforted as you pass through this sadness. I'm praying for you. Love and blessings, Lisa (Mallon) Thompson

Rita Anderson

July 28, 2016

I am a friend of Jim's. Always enjoy visiting with him at Lil' Rizzo's when he's in town. So sorry for your family's loss.

Gina

July 28, 2016

My Dad, my best friend, my mentor, my teacher, my rock will be greatly missed. His favorite saying was "KEEP THE FAITH" and lived his life putting others first.
Larry was the best father, grandfather, friend to many and husband of 50 years to my mom. My Dad's Faith in Jesus, his family, and his service to others were most important to him. I am fortunate to have spent every day during the last 3 years with him and his sense of humor continued to make us smile and laugh, even up to his final days here on this earth.
Although we mourn his passing from this life, we celebrate the life he lived here as he touched many.
He spent his final days exactly how he wanted, at home with family, with the Bible, and with the Cardinals game on the radio.
I am sure that he will be the life of the party with his family and friends in Heaven and they are celebrating his arrival.
Thank you to everyone for your support and prayers!

And as my Dad would say:
-KEEP THE FAITH!

Love you Dad! - Gina

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