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Marvin Grantham Obituary

Grantham, Marvin E. "Marty"

age 84, on Wednesday, August 21, 2024. He is predeceased by his parents Marvin and Eula (nee: White) Grantham, sister Marjorie McBride and brother Gary Grantham. Survived by his sister Donna Leonard.

Marty graduated with a BA (Painting) from Washington University and served in the U.S. Coast Guard. He was an accomplished beautician, real estate agent and insurance adjuster. Marty lived in many different place in his younger years and had interesting stories about those times. He enjoyed many talents and interest: lifelong dog lover, excellent cook, artist and two-time antique auto owner. He had a unique sense of humor that only those who knew him well could appreciate.

He was an uncle, cousin and friend to many.

He is survived by Ron Raffel, his husband and partner of 52 years. Also by his four-legged best friend and constant companion, Ginger. His memory will remain in their hearts forever. Ron and Ginger miss Marty so very much and will cherish all the good and many memories.

A special thank you to Mickey Opitz, Don White, Carolyn and Jim Bruno, Sue Revelle, along with Gayle Lewin for their help and dedicated support. Thanks also to Dr. Peter Westman.

Services: A memorial visitation for Marvin will be held Wednesday, September 4, 2024, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at Hoffmeister South County Chapel, 1515 Lemay Ferry Road, St. Louis, MO 63125. A memorial service Thursday, September 5, 2024, from 10:00 a.m. A committal service will follow at Mount Hope Cemetery.

Contributions in memory of Marty may be made to Needy Paws Rescue or to the animal rescue of your choice.

Condolences may be offered at

www.hoffmeistersouthcounty.com



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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Sep. 1, 2024.

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Robert Johnston

September 14, 2024

Did not hear about Marty's passing until a month afterwards but would like to say that he was an exceptionally intelligent person with a very witty personality and he could get a laugh out of the hardest stone face. Lost contact with him and Ron some years back but they were a perfect match.
One of my favorite memories was canoeing with them on the Current River. We had such wonderful times.

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