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Nicholas Matsakis Obituary

Matsakis, Dr. Nicholas D. age 95, at rest December 9, 2009. Beloved husband of 64 years to Theodora Matsakis; loving father to Aphrodite Matsakis, Demetrios (Cindy) Matsakis and Elias (Joanne) Matsakis; adored grandfather of Theodora (Steve), Magdalena (Marc), Niko (Emily), Kalliroi, Nicholas (Terri), Christopher and Antigone; cherised great-grandfather to Sophia and Magdalena, Rosario, Peter and Alexander; loving son to his deceased parents Demetrios and Sophia Matsakis; beloved brother to his sisters-inlaw Sophia Gorman and Victoria Matsakis; his deceased siblings Constantine Matsakis and Kalliroi Livadiotis; loving unlce to their children. Born in Canonsburg, PA, the son of a coal miner, he spent his childhood on his ancestral island of Karpathos, Greece. After graduating from the seminary on Cyprus, he returned to the United States in 1932 during the heart of the depression. He graduated from Washington University School of Dentistry in 1940 and later enlisted into the US Army during WWII where he achieved the rank of Major. He enjoyed a successful dentistry practice well into his eighties. He was a pioneer of organic gardening. For more than 50 years, he served as the Chairman of the Justice for Cyprus Committee of Greater St. Louis. In 1969, he was appointed Honorary Consul for the Republic of Cyprus by President Nixon. He was a founding member of the Hellenic Spirit and a proud member Order of AHEPA, and received the AHEPA Medal of Freedom in 2005. In 2007, he received the Order of the Phoenix Medal; the highest civilian honor awarded by the government of Greece for his many humanitarian and community efforts. As a former Greek school teacher, he was especially pleased at being a founding donor and advocate for the creation of the endowed chair for Greek Studies at the University of Missouri at St. Louis. Services: Visitation will be from 4 to 8 p.m. on Sunday, December 13, 2009 at LUPTON CHAPEL, 7233 Delmar Blvd., University City, MO, 314-721-1870 (Trisagion Memorial Service will be at 4:30 p.m.) The Funeral will be held at St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, 4967 Forest Park Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63108 at 11 a.m. on Monday, December 14, 2009. In lieu of other expressions of sympathy, the family requests that donations be made to the Justice for Cyprus Committee of Greater St. Louis, c/o Michael Tsiaklides, 8420 Delmar Blvd., Suite 303 A, St. Louis, MO 63124 or to the Nicholas and Theodora Metsakis Hellenic Culture Center University of Missouri St. Louis Center for In ternational Studies, 366 Social Sciences Building, One University Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63121

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Dec. 11, 2009.

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Chrysanthe Preza

December 29, 2009

A dear friend that has touched our hearts and a true role model that has inspired us beyond words can describe. Dr. Matsakis will always be remembered with "Agape" and fond memories and will live in our hearts.
May he rest in peace. Our love to Theodora and her family.

Patricia Rudolph

December 28, 2009

Theodora, I am so sorry for your lose. I always looked forward to your family coming to the concerts. Please know that you are in my prayers.

Pat Rudolph,
Box Office Manager
St. Louis Philharmonic

Chrysoulla Christoforou

December 21, 2009

Aphrodite, your father sounds to have been a wonderful, worthy human being (axios). I don't know you or your family, but I read about your father's passing thru a mutual friend and read of his accomplishments in the obituary. I am from the island of Cyprus so his participation in wanting the good of the island touched me. May his memory be everlasting and one day we will all meet again.. o Theos makarison....

Dr. Kermit Westerfeld

December 19, 2009

Thanks for all the good times especially the trips to Greece, Cyprus and Australia. Dr.Kermit Kermit Westerfeld Class of 40

Dr. Aphrodite Matsakis, beloved daughter

Markos Mangarides

December 17, 2009

This is a tribute to Nicholas Matsakis in a slightly different manner: To speak of the proof of this good father as evidenced in his 3 children. Though unable to meet Nick (almost a few times, but alas, not to be), to know his daughter Aphrodite as one of my dearest of friends is to know him also in ways. Sufficient to say that the gentle kindness and Christ-like qualities of Aphrodite, as influenced by her earthly father, to be a kind and humble reflection of Jesus, this is in reality is one of the finest tributes one can say about this great man: In how his/their 3 children turned out so wonderfully. Aphrodite is not only my friend but my hero, she is a national treasure, and she writes powerfully about how to deal with certain of life's traumas, not an easy topic but very much needed. So in my honoring his daughter Aphrodite, I also honor the father who raised her. She is with a beautiful heart and soul, as I am sure Nicholas was and now is in his spiritual forever life with Jesus. We are saddened to know a few who don't get it, who forget to be kind. But all the more reason to appreciate those who do quietly go about living with honor, love, and truly are a reflection of Jesus. This is Aphrodite. I am honored and blessed in her friendship so fine to me. I am sorry I could not get to meet Nicholas, but as I say, to know his daughter and her fine happy spirit is to also know him in ways. Wiser than me taught this truism: One life, it will soon be passed. Only what's done for Christ shall last.

Byron Smyrniotis

December 13, 2009

Hands down, the best of the best.

George Glastris

December 11, 2009

Dr. Matsakis was a wonderful, gentle man and one of the earliest memories I have from outside my family. I still remember the small bucket of toys in the waiting room of his dental office and the photo of President Kennedy tacked up next to his instruments. He once told me he put it up the day the President died.

December 11, 2009

Dr. Nicholas Matsakis was a wonderful, generous man. Our family was fortunate to have known and been very close friends with him and his family. He will be greatly missed by everyone. He and my late husband Elias were like brothers. Nick has gone to be with the Lord.
My sympathy and condolences to his family. Jennie Vlanton

Jennie Vlanton

December 11, 2009

Dr. Nicholas Matsakis was a wonderful, generous man. Our family was fortunate to have known and been very close friends with him and his family. He will be greatly missed by everyone. He and my late husband Elias were like brothers. Nick has gone to be with the Lord.
My sympathy and condolences to his family. Jennie Vlanton

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