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Nicholas Wanko Obituary

Wanko, Nicholas Nick passed away peacefully at home Friday, May 10 at the age of 90. He was surrounded by the love of his life, Shirley, his wife of 70 years, the rest of his loving family, and caregivers, Mary, Alisha, and Angel. The family gives thanks to the wonderful care of Mercy Hospice, his granddaughter nurse, Renee and the blessings of Father Gary. Nick was born April 2, 1929. Son to the late Nick and Lena Wanko, son-in-law to the late Jim and Leona Mattingly. Dear father and father-in-law to Nick (Jeannie), Shelley (Ted), Jim (Judy), Denise (Rick), Tammy (Bob), Penny (Mark) and Kim (Mark). Loving grandpa to 23 grandchildren, 17 great-grandchildren and soon to be great-greatgranddaughter. Brother and brother-in-law to the late Joe and Pauline Wanko, Maxie, and Lloyd and Bernice Childers. Uncle, cousin and special friend to so many. Nick retired from Anheuser-Busch and was lucky to enjoy so many of his retirement years. He loved boating, fishing, wheeling and dealing with his friends at Southside Pawn, Friday night poker games, and his 49 trips to Las Vegas. He also really loved playing pool on a league, until 85 years old and even won first place in the Busch League Pool Tournament. But what he loved most of all was his beloved Shirley and his family. Services: Funeral at KUTIS AFFTON Chape1, 10151 Gravois Rd., Tuesday, May 14, 10 a.m. Interment St. Paul Churchyard. Visitation Monday, 4-8 p.m. Memorial contributions to Parkinson's Research www.michaeljfox.org.

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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on May 12, 2019.

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Denise Gartner

May 19, 2021

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May 19, 2021

Denise Gartner

May 19, 2021

Dad I miss you so so much everyday, as we all do. I remember all the fun times we had and that puts a big smile on my face... I know thats what you would want. I know you are watching over mom and us all always. Love always, Deedee... LOVE YOU MORE...

Patrick Bushart

May 14, 2019

To all of the Wanko Family - They broke the mold when they made your Dad, Grandpa & Great Grandpa. He was truly a one of a kind person and I'm envious of the truly remarkable friendship he and my Dad had for most of their lives! Friendships like Nick and Jack are rare these days.
I think back to our childhoods and all the wonderful times we all had when our families all got together! The fishing trips and BBQ's & fireworks and scary movies. The pigeon assassination! Ha! I hadn't thought of that in decades!! So many great memories, and mine are just a tiny fraction of the memories you all have of Nick! You are a lucky family!
I'm sure there are toasts being made all over the southside tonight, and at least one on the west coast! God Bless you all, God's Speed Nick.

Nathan & Darlene Billings

May 14, 2019

May the Gates of Heaven open up and welcome Nick with open arms. Free of the burdens of physical life Nick lives on with our Lord and Savior. Grieve not for him but rejoice in his passage and the beautiful memories of Nick's life. Sweet Jesus please lay your consoling hands on the Family during this time amen.

Al Kubernat

May 14, 2019

I remember Mr. Wanko when I was a kid playing little league ball with Jimmy. What a wonderful man, leader and coach. My thoughts are with the family.

Paul & Anna Barrale

May 13, 2019

Nick Wanko was always there when I was a child to put a bicycle chain back on, helped in many ways like that & the Wanko's are such a wonderful family & Nick will be dearly missed. Mr Wanko was a man's man in my eyes.

Mercelette Burke

May 13, 2019

Sending our love and prayers to the Wanko family. Nick was a truly good man and he will be missed dearly.
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Patrick Shocklee

May 13, 2019

What can you say about Nick other than he was a great man husband and father ! My heart goes out to Shirley and the whole family. My he rest in peace from Pat & Brenda Shocklee.

Kaylee Barnett

May 12, 2019

Love you grandpa I will miss you everyday

May 12, 2019

Dad, I hope you know how much I appreciate everything you taught me and everything you have always done for me and for our whole family. You gave us the most wonderful childhood and the most loving family . How did I get so lucky to have you and mom as my parents ? I miss you so much already. But you will be forever alive in my heart . Love , Tam

Cindy Ceballos

May 12, 2019

In memory of the Patriarch of a loving Wanko family.

I feel as if I've known you personally through the photos and stories shared by your family.

Love ,
Cindy, Gabe, Dan and John Ceballos

Denise Gartner

May 12, 2019

Dad, you were truly the best dad, grandpa, great grandpa and friend ever. My heart breaks knowing I wont hear another funny joke, or get another hug from you. But I have so many beautiful memories from childhood through adulthood that I will always hold for ever and ever. Your beautiful smile, adorable lagoon blue eyes, but most of all ,all our fun times hanging out together. As we ended every phone call I will end this too.. I love you.... I love you too.... I love you three and four....... I love you more. ..... (RIP Dad ,I love you and miss you so much , love Denny)

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13

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4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

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10151 Gravois Road, Saint Louis, MO 63123

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14

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10:00 a.m.

Kutis Funeral Home, Inc, Affton Chapel

10151 Gravois Road, Saint Louis, MO 63123

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