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Pamela Oliver Obituary

Oliver, Pamela A. (nee Maloney) entered into rest, Friday, January 10, 2014. Beloved wife of Arthur Oliver; dear mother of Artie, Danny and Tommy Oliver; dear daughter of Jacquelin and the late George Maloney; dear daughter-in-law of Arthur and Doris Oliver; dear sister of the late Michael (survived by Carm) Maloney; dear sister-in-law of Debbie (Fred) Koenen, Linda (Joe) Mastroianni and Vicki (Kevin) Conrad; our dear niece, aunt, great-aunt, cousin and friend to many. Services: Private services were held at KUTIS AFFTON CHAPEL. Donations to C.B.C. High School, appreciated.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Jan. 14, 2014.

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Janet Yonker

January 8, 2022

It has been eight years since we lost Pam and yet so often I still remember the fun times we had both in high school and even better those later in life. She was such a "doer" and I miss doing things with her and just being in her company. She gave all of us so many memories. Thanks for that gift.

Janet Yonker

January 9, 2020

I think of Pam so often and how fortunate we were to have her for the short time we did. She was a terrific wife, mother and friend. Gone but not forgotten.

Ady and Fred Kostecki

January 17, 2014

Art, you and your family are in our prayers.

January 17, 2014

Prayers to all of Pam's family. She was a lovely person and she spent her time well on this earth. Vickie(Reinke)Kram

Brian Walsh

January 17, 2014

Art so very sorry for your loss. We loved Pam and will miss her in so many ways. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. Brian & Connie

Janet and John Adkins

January 16, 2014

Pam was a lovely person taken to soon. Hold onto your memories as they are the legacy of love.

Cindy Lively

January 15, 2014

I knew Pam in high school and recently connected with her through Janet Yonker. My heart is breaking over this great loss of a beautiful and loving woman and friend. My deepest sympathies for her family, and may God give you peace and comfort.

January 15, 2014

Artie, I am sorry. Pam was so sweet, kind, and always had her beautiful smile.Its very sad to hear this. Thinking of all of your family. J. Slay

Susan (Gerber) Bower

January 15, 2014

Prayers to all of Pam's many friends and family. You will be missed. No one had a smile as beautiful as hers.
Susan (Gerber) Bower LHSS

Lori Goughenour

January 15, 2014

Dear Art & boys,
I am so sorry to hear of Pam's passing. I so enjoyed the times we had playing golf. Our thoughts are with you.
with love, Bob & Lori Goughenour

Kevin Feicht

January 14, 2014

Art,

You and I have not seen each other in a while, but i ran into Pam several times in the last few years. Always fun to talk to and share a story with. I remember the good times with you and Pam, Carm & Mike, Jackie & George - wow - what a group. Things turn our best for those who make the best of the way things turn out. I am thinking and praying for you and your boys.

January 14, 2014

Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
Mary Elizabeth Frye

Our deepest sympathy,
Molly Meyer and Erin Scaturro

Ann and Joe Vitale

January 14, 2014

Our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Pam. Prayers for your family in this time of sorrow.

The Koenen Family

January 14, 2014

Dear Oliver & Maloney Family:
We are so sorry to hear about Pam's passing. Our heart goes out to you all. She was such a nice lady. Our prayers are with you all as you endure this loss. Hang in there.
Love,
Joe, Debbie, Rachel, Sarah & Deja Koenen

January 14, 2014

I was saddened to learn of Pamela's passing. I'm sure she will be missed, and was comforted by the loving support of her family and friends. Please accept my deepest condolences.

My sympathies,

David Purcell

Janet Yonker

January 14, 2014

How fortunate and blessed are those of us who had the honor of knowing this wonderful woman. My heart goes out to you and your family and my God comfort you.

January 14, 2014

My heartfelt condolences to all of you for the loss of Pam. I so enjoyed her friendship and will miss her. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Bev W. ( Identity Salon ) and Diane Healey's friend.

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