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2021
Pamela van Ellinkhuizen Obituary
van Ellinkhuizen (Patrick), Pamela Gay
With great sadness, we announce the death of our mother, Pamela Gay van Ellinkhuizen, nee Patrick. Pam died unexpectedly at her home in Lommel, Belgium, on July 18, 2021. She was born on January 22, 1955, in St. Louis, Missouri, to Albert and Martha Patrick. She attended classes in the Parkway North school district.
She was predeceased by her husband, Richard van Ellinkhuizen.
She is survived by her children, Tiffany Durkan, nee Duggin, her husband Mark, Michael Duggin, Christopher Hall, his longtime partner Andrea Dunnavent, and Matthew Mertz. She also leaves behind two granddaughters, Nicole Duggin and Kaitlyn Roberts, nee Duggin, two great-grandchildren, and numerous siblings and in-laws.
Services: Please join us for a memorial service that will be held at St. Monica Catholic Church in Creve Coeur on Saturday, September 18th, 2021, at 10 am.
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Scott Canepa
September 17, 2021
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Dirk Hamblok
August 19, 2021
Condolences to the family
I didn't know her but I'm doing my best for the family to solve everything as best as possible in Belgium
Randy Payne
August 18, 2021
So sorry Tiffany. I did not know your Mom, but she was born the same year as me. That gives me pause. Love and live while we can.
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