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Hirbe, Patrick Richard 'Pat'
passed away Saturday morning September 12, 2020, at the age of 68. He is survived by his devoted spouse, Carla M. Re Hirbe, as well as his daughter and son-in-law, Angela (TJ Apicelli), and his three grandchildren, whom he loved dearly: Gabriel, Isabelle, and Charles Apicelli. He is also survived by his siblings, Marilyn, Susan, and Mike, his brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Pat loved Cardinals baseball and BBQ, hence his nickname, the Q-King. He will be missed by his family and friends.
Services: There will be a small graveside service at Resurrection Cemetery for the immediate family. At some point in the future, there will be a memorial service when it is safe for groups to gather. Kutis, Affton. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Siteman Cancer Center Patient Care Fund or St. Louis Children's Hospital NICU, two organizations near and dear to his daughter's heart.
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Melissa Shaw
September 14, 2023
When I think of Pat, of course, I just think of him always being there as a child. He was always around. As an adult my favorite memories were tailgating with him at the Rams games. I definitely remember his barbecue!
Cheryl Hirbe
October 15, 2020
My heart is very sad at the news of Patrick's passing. Sending my deepest sympathies to Carla & family during this very difficult time. I have many fond memories of Patrick at our family gatherings. He will be deeply missed. You are all loved and in my thoughts and prayers daily. May God give you comfort and strength for each new day.
Joe & Julia Woods
October 3, 2020
Carla,
We just learned of Patrick's death and we are so sorry for your loss. We are sending out sincerest sympathy to you and your Fami!y. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Carolyn Puricelli=Boyd
September 29, 2020
Dear Carla and Family. So sorry to learn of Patrick's death. My prayers and condolences are with you all. Thinking of you during this sad time.
Carolyn
Sheri Mattli
September 25, 2020
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Sending my deepest condolences, prayers and love to all of you.
Simone Taylor
September 22, 2020
My sincerest condolences to your family for the loss of your loved one, Please except my deepest sympathies.
Melissa Shaw
September 20, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear about Pat. He is in my oldest childhood memories. I loved tailgating with him at the Rams games. Pat feels like family to me. May he Rest In Peace!
Jennifer Wilson
September 20, 2020
Sending heartfelt condolences to the Hirbe Family. So sorry for your loss
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